FuckTheMod:

Don't confess and let the guilt kill you and send you to hell.

I don't understand... How will the guilt kill someone ?

jibrilELsudan:
YOU ARE VERY STUPID

CONFESS ONTOP SEY WETIN

lol.. so u sef dey say make I no confess

Opportuneke:



I understand but we still have people with integrity.

Very sure of that.

the integrity those people have seems boring

TheZeezle:
Sorry, u are still new on this earth! She'll use it against u even if you stopped cheating.

Why women be like this ? Even me self when be man, I no Dey follow my girl argue. Anything when she talk na yes ma.. still she go dey talk and talk.. why

jojothaiv:

As for the gender, you have your answer in your comment already.

Baba, na OT wey I don learn tay tay, if banny catch you say you dey cheat, deny am with your full chest, try create doubt in her heart say you no fii browse another punna outside.

Well, banny later leave as she say I wan pluck another fruit from the same compound wey she dey, she for free me if na away match but I wan I dey coordinate home games under her nose, na him she free the nigga.

Bitter lessons, but man don change now.

Man… u talk like a real OG… thumbs up for u man… me and my babe done settle sha… she called me this evening and everything goes well… the truth is definitely going to stay with me and me alone for ever

Opportuneke:
Please do and face the consequences.
I love people with integrity.

I appreciate honesty because it’s very scare commodity, it can’t be found everywhere.

It’s a rare gem �

Integrity in this our society…lol… it’s long gone… o ti Lor

jojothaiv:
Cheating is not something to be proud of.

It cost me my relationship but I didn't admit to doing it, I know if I had done that back then, the shege for be times two.

Hahahaha… you’re serious … so why did she leave if u didn’t admit to the truth??…. By the way.. are you a guy or a babe

maberry:
Don't do it, especially if you are a woman
Go and sin no more

I’m a guy… but what is your reason for advising that I keep it a secret

Fasindo:



Fear woman


Incase if you are still looking for who to cheat on him with, I'm available.

When you wanted to cheat on him did you seek for our advise.
Now your mind is telling you that the innocent man might find out and you are seeking for our advise. Just pray the innocent man doesn't find out

By the way why are all girls in the forum advising her to lock up. Girls eh!!!

Fear woman!

Na man I be oooo… I’m not female… is my profile showing that I’m female

Romanoff:


God wey say "love your neighborhood as yourself" know wetin e mean.

And na as God take talk na so I wish OP.

The side chick nkor… no be love your Neighbour as you love yourself love I show her ??

Hendrixky:
Hahaha...
There are some things you die with

Just keep it a secret if you know you won't repeat it again

Yeah… I don’t really want to say the truth but I’m a bit ignorant to the consequences of saying the truth and keeping it a secret… can you enlighten me on that

Sheistoopretty:
Watch how these Br*ke, J*bless, Frustr*ted, Miser*ble, Wretch*d, Stvpid, Fo.olish, S*nseless, Never-do-well Redpillers Association of Nairaland will come here to tell us that it is a man's right to cheat, that men are polygamous in nature



This is one of Dem if it was the other way round, u would have been here telling us how all women are this/that

I pity my fellow genders who take u poor mis*rable good-for-nothing Redpillers serious

Wahala… I no understand… what happened to redpillers and why should they not be taken serious ??

Romanoff:
I pray your partner cheats and doesn't tell you too.

God no go answer ur prayer

JoyousFurnitire:
Go and sin no more but remember life will catch up on ya

How … what do u mean life will catch up with me ??

Medianna:
Don't confuse us please.
Is it admit or confess.
You know the two means different things yea!

What is your reason why you said I should not confess ??

TheZeezle:
Nope! Don't do it but you have to becareful next time.

Thanks for this advise… do u have any reason why you said I should not do it ??

abobote:
Are you a man or woman?
If you are a man its normal, if you are a woman, you don't deserve any man as husband

I’m a man

MessiahOfAfrica:


You have confessed openly already.

This is Already Transparency.


So,


Your Sins are Forgiven.



Go And Sin No More.


#OpenConfessions
#Transparencies.

Thank you reverend father!!!!

AreaFada2:

If you have a cheating wife, your life is at risk sef.

No be lie.

Isabi4lov:
Ok, there's no need of beating around the bush since you were caught, ask for her forgiveness and if she listens to you fine and if not life goes on , I'm very sure if you were the one that caught her cheating on you , you would have ended the relationship since .

Do you really love this girlfriend?

Yes I love her very much… she didn’t really catch me in the act, she saw a chat … and the chat was not containing sexual context

Fr33born:
The issue here isn't even about whether it is right to confess or not, but the fact that you are not done cheating. You are still going to cheat again and again. Don't know how many times but e sure me die

Lmao…. This cracked my ribs aswear.

cliqtips:
Lol....
You go still do more...

Lol… I tire

MissTemi1:
If it will make u feel better, den confess. I don’t know what ppl gain from cheating Will u like it if it was done to u? Have conscience o

I’m considering how she’ll feel if I tell her the truth.

Isabi4lov:
Better don't do it since you were not caught red handed especially as a woman, your husband or boyfriend will use it against you someday , confess to God .

I’m a man oooo… my gf caught me

iHart:
You have admitted but confused as to confess

I have not admitted ooooo.. I told her a lie and I am holding into my lie

BigYash:
Amen .. And I pray the partners dumps op for a faithful partner..

It was a mistake that will never repeat itself.

She is really hurt and I’m wondering if it’s ideal to tell her the truth. I actually feel telling her the truth will only make matters worse

Wow!!!! My post makes front page… this means so much to me.

Dear Nairalanders is it advisable to confess the truth to your partner if you cheated ??

Please I need your opinions

Lonestar124:
Buy iPhone or New car just anything you know that is expensive to her, while you ask for her forgiveness....

iPhone kor!! iPhone ni!!!

Vinnie2000:


Go to her Door and Sing R Kelly, BOYS II MEN and Craig Davids songs for her.
She will forgive you!

I will appreciate if someone can give me any sweet words that I can use to talk to her. Abeg

Buhari4sale:



My advise for you is that if you keep begging...

She’s really really mad at me.
She has blocked me on all social media and even blocked my number… I called one of her friend to talk to her but I dunno she is still not giving any response of forgiving me.

I don’t know when it happened but I guess it’s this week. My gf secretly picked up my phone and saw my chat with my side chick… the chat wasn’t so romantic it was just a normal chat but u all know how you call ur partner pet names and all that.

Now she’s mad at me and wants to quit the relationship.

I dunno what to do… I’ve talked to her and apologize several times but she is still mad at me.

She has moved all her things out of my hse.

Please what’s your advise people.