mbaise1000:

Read the story again.
What you are saying was when the man was staying in Lagos. I still insist that if the man is ready to be a husband now and accept his mistakes, the woman should forgive and accept her husband back, this is better than every other option available to her

No!!! You don't abscond from your duties and responsibilities as a husband to your wife and a father to your children for over 20 years and then demand forgiveness or to be involved in their lives in any way. That is not how life works.

Forget about love. Marriage is about duties and obligations.

I knew this will happen eventually.

The void in her life that makes her seek and do silly things for attention can only be filled by the love of God.

I'm so happy for her.

ATEAMS:
Maybe it's true that people get bored of you when you show them too much love

Gravel and Diamonds are both stones...it is the scarcity of diamond that makes it way more expensive.

One you can pick on the surface, one you have to dig really deep and in specific locations.

Salewa97:
Harris did well with her speech.

The combination of Harris and Walz is a good one.

Trump should be careful with his utterances, his bad mouthing could backfire on him.

The Republicans are divided, the Democrats are united, the independents are leaning towards the Democrats.

Trump is not a saint, but the Republicans would rather have the Democrats in power than Harris

Trump is not a saint, but the Republicans would rather have the Democrats in power than Harris

Something is not right with these statement.


Republicans will rather have a Trump in power than Harris or Republicans will rather have another Democrat in power than Harris ?

wealthyprince:


She go laugh tire. you tell her before the day or you take her unaware? Because some of them may feel shy and some say na embarrassment.

Me aef no plan am before. But it was the most memorable part of the whole ceremonies for me though.

Na so I do my madame that day.

May you find your way back to a future that is more beautiful .

You are eating from a cup dump.

Good role model

ArmadaHQ001:
If you're thinking about getting a new car, you might want to think twice about the color you pick, as it can tell a lot about your personality. While black is said to represent power and control, take a look at the list below to see which color best suits your personality.

Black:

This is one ultimate power that spells power, class, and elegance in one, and people who choose this as a color for their car are usually this way in almost everything else they choose. Aside from its stereotypical affiliation with evil, especially for Naija here, and a few other negativities, stepping out of a black car will not only elevate your style, but there's a certain level of confidence and poise that it provokes within you.

White:

White car owners are often affiliated with purity, and in a way, are seen as people who are hard to please. On the other hand, pulling up in a white Mercedes to pick up a potential love interest for a date might make your babe begin to see you as husband material, 350 yards. Also, as much as there's plenty of stress in maintaining a white-colored car, it goes a long way to show a person's way of life generally.

Yellow:

Expect the owner of a yellow car to be young at heart, bright, and full of joy. This color particularly implies a sunny personality, reflecting someone who enjoys adventure and trying new things. Oftentimes, people with yellow cars tend to expel plenty of positivity and enjoy the smallest of things, making them approachable and friendly.

Blue – Calm:

Own a blue car, and you are typically seen as a calm, collected, and level-headed person. There's this serenity that comes with the color blue that makes people tend to be more reliable in their decision-making. And yes, blue oftentimes spells intelligence and thoughtfulness too. Do you love the color of the sky? Then you'd definitely love a blue-colored car.

Silver/Gray:

According to research, if your car choice is gray or silver, then you're a reliable person who conforms to societal rules. These people like to be received as fun, but not like extroverts though. They just like to enjoy that elegant and sleek look without having to draw attention to themselves.

Green – Well-Balanced, Trustworthy, and Traditional:

Given our country's flag color, if you pull up in a green car, you're perceived as a patriotic citizen. Lol. But generally, someone seated in a green ride most times leads a well-balanced life, is more trustworthy, and also pretty traditional. They have a way of doing things in an unconventional way but still yield the best results.

Gold – Intelligent and Glamorous:

Gold is considered the most precious and expensive of all materials. I mean, how do you drive a gold-plated car and not be considered an elite? No way. Don't even get me started on the kind of intelligence attached to people of this sort. Also, you'll find that those who fancy gold-colored cars tend to love comfort and will not mind paying a fortune for it. It's one hell of an attention-getter, but in a pretty glamorous way.

There you have it. While the connection between car color and personality is of the essence, we might need to keep in mind that personal preferences vary widely and one’s choice in car color may not always reflect their true personality. While it is undeniably true that the color of your car can greatly impact your mood, physiological associations with colors can also be virtually influenced and subjective too.

You no put my favorite. "Burgundy" all my SUV' have been this colour.


Hard to describe to someone who does not k ow the name of the colour.

Before they figure it out...I don drive pass.

Two relatively decent men...compared to the unscrupulous devourers currently at the helm of affairs.

This makes more sense now.

Namaster:
Society has DAMAGED a lot of men.

When men get married, society FORCES them to make their wives the Alpha and Omega of their lives. They CAJOLE men to make their wives the CENTRE OF GRAVITY in their lives.

Men put their wives FIRST. Think of their wives FIRST. And make endless SACRIFICES to make them happy.

On the other hand, wives ALSO put themselves first. Think of THEMSELVES first. And DEMAND endless sacrifices from their husbands to make them happy.

Men need to understand:

Your life is like a BUILDING.

A woman, even your wife, must NEVER be the pillar of your life. Otherwise, get ready for the inevitable COLLAPSE.

Instead, a woman should be like a lightbulb. Makes the building nice and bright BUT if it goes out or gets spoilt or explodes, you just go out and REPLACE it.

Chikena.

I like your analogy. And let her know early that she is not irreplaceable. You do not need to tell her, but show her in your actions.

As a man, never stop growing. Be gentle to your wife in public but be naughty with her in the house.

Women love naughty stuff.

mbaise1000:


That is the way you see it, but the man is back to his house, now for whatever he is thinking, are you telling the woman to leave his house for him or that the man should not come back to his roots as he wishes according to the woman or are you saying that the woman should continue to be in this unhappiness since there is a possibility that she can find happiness again with her husband?
BTW I never said I am in support of the way the man treated his family in the first place.
What advice will you give the woman? Remember I am not the one needing the advice here

The house rent is being paid by the woman. The man refused to pay rent saying he can't be paying for rent in lagos and paying another rent for his family back home

It was expected

Na this kain bill dey pass quickly.


If na bill to alleviate the suffering of the people dey claim to represent now, they will give you a thousand reasons why it is not feasible.

mbaise1000:
What exactly dies the poster want us to tell her? To congratulate her and insult her husband? She will be happy to hear people that are certainly going to insult her husband in this thread, she can now enjoy, you have being able to carry on for all of 25 years and your children are adults now and the burden is less and it's now that you want us to advice or encourage you to leave your husband? People like me will not do that, we can only tell you y9u are still alife and a living dog is better than a dead lion, we will tell you that it's never too late to be happy with your husband, as a matter of fact, if you can overcome your self pity and accept that all THINGS work out together for good to them that love God, that are created according to the will of God, or do you think that God makes mistakes? If God had wanted, he shouldn't have allowed you to marry him in the first place.
We advice you to cleanse your mind start enjoying your marriage, and don't allow the devil to tell you what to do, if you continue in the way you are thinking now, you will never be happy in your life, if you leave Him, now for you know the type you are going to run to? He is your Cross and you have carried it successfuly, relax and enjoy your life. This is the advice if a Christian and 9nly a Christian will take a Christian advice

Thr man is a bad man. No one want to live with a bad person. He was not involved in their lives for 24 years financially, emotionally physically and any other other ally

He rejected his family and should stay away for good.

If you be famous person and you no stand well welll...na only God fit help you.

Too many evil eyes, hearts and hands.

HellVictorinho8:


Was i making excuses 4 anybody


Both d african and white leaders are fvcked


Partners in shit

Okay. Just stop saying thieves are stealing because they want to recover what was stolen from their forefathers.

That's a lie and is actually a psychological bandage to heal the wound their conscience has opened in their hearts.

It's just like another one used to justify destroying other people in the quest for power or wealth. " if one person does not go down, another person can not rise up"

It's wicked people who reason and talk Luke that

HellVictorinho8:


If we are gunna bcom strong as countries

Then u also av 2 condem d whites 4 doing shit with politicians from here

Ok

And dont tell me we all av same view of politics or how it should be

Thatz 2 dumb

Cuz u aint in my head ok


U aint in my head so u dont know what i think politically.


Hm

The same format that was used centuries ago to cart away able bodied men and women and resources from Africa to develop Europe and the Americas is still in play.

The leaders sell their people and resources to foreigners.

I do not like the victim.mentality. I will rather focus on what I can control. Egypt held other people's as slaves for centuries so Africa is not innocent either.

A thief is a thief and should not make excuses for his stealing.

He promised to slow down the economy and reducing purchasing power while widening the tax bracket.


Sit down and reflect on what this means and you will know that you guys are in for very rough times ahead.

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/EyRZP8LWJd2uXbac/?mibextid=D5vuiz

Alphamentips:


You're just being biased with your judgement.

So your judgement starts from our reaction to their action against us?

Okay so let me get this right...

..when the oppressors k1ls, destroys and run over our lands for years it's called 'life' and we're supposed to take it with good fate but when I retaliate in the littlest way possible I'm the one being unreasonable and insensitive??

What is the goal of the military.

1. Protect lifes and properties.
2. To acquire, conquer & expand the nation's treasury and landmass.


If you as a black people are too mentally and physically lazy to take the w@r abroad to your oppressors then you have to deal with the results of having the fight brought to your doorstep.

You snooze you loose!

To think you wanna sweep something as vital & monumental as centuries of constant military stampede against black African nations under the rug or try to downplay it's role in the current rate of cybercrimes today speaks loads of how sound your judgement is.


A scammer has a direct effect on a family or a small set of people but neo-colonialism affects multiple millions or even billions of black life in its resulting ripple effects.

You don't cherry pick what evil to call out and give a blind eye to another because it goes against your 'morals' ..

All of you are sick in the head. Did I mention that i am cool with or dismissing the evil.rhat colonizers did? Absolutely not.

It would have made sense to be "Robin hoods"...stealing from them and using it to elevate your people around you.

What do Game Boys do? They lavish money on expensive drinks and prostitutes.

Have you ever seen them giving to the less privileged.

Recently they have started scamming Nigerians in diaspora...is that part of the faore fathers heritage that they are trying to claim back.

Or the local scams that the perpetrate on struggling Nigerians is still part of their father's heritage.

The so called Avenging army that spends its loots in hotels and prostitutes and drinks is not one to be taking seriously...they do not build schools, they do not uplift the society they live in.

The fact remains that if some sets of crazy Caucasians decide to invade Africa today and start taking slaves all over again...we are like sitting ducks and extremely powerless.

We have not learned our lessons in any way and African men and deserve no respect from any race.

All they care about is alcohol, sex and fight for who has the biggest toys.both their leaders and followers are the same.

No strategic planning or actions to become strong as countries or races.

Make una go siddon somewhere.

Nazgul:
If Biden had remained in the race, Trump would have had a landslide victory. But with Kamala, Trump has a very steep mountain to climb cos the who is who in American politics dislike him due to his antiwar stand.

They want the war between Ukraine and Russia to continue.

For me the only reason why I don't want Trump to win is because of his strong stance on immigrants. He's literally planning to shut the doors on them. This is a nightmare for those of us who are planning to Japan to the US.

Trump is a crook. An unrepentant one at that.

4 years of Biden, i did not need to follow Anerican politics that much. Under Trump, it was one drama after the other...trying to destroy centuries old institutions

I have one vote this November and it's for Harris and Tom...nobody is perfect but they are not as mean,sleazy and despicable as Drumpf.

HellVictorinho8:



Freedom what?


Wetin concesn me


How much yahoo boy dash me


Nobodys copying shit


We just survive anyhow we can


Nobody has monopoly of madness


Theres nothing special abt ur hardwork


At the end


U abuse ur fellow hardworker naija guy cuz he dam poor no raba


Mtchw

Hope everything is okay. You sound really tired.

The Human soul is born a noble one. It yearns for nobler pursuits...until it is influenced by what it sees in the physical plane.

The soul it has a decision to make....

1. to blend in like the others and start doing things that betrays its noble nature until it eventually becomes a shell of itself with regret thugging silently but loudly at its core.

2. Stand out and aspire for lofty adventures. Falling on the way but getting up and becoming stronger and happier and at peace with itself.

I made my decision way long ago to only take what I have earned by providing value to a person or organisation and not by stealing from by hook or crook from anyone.

The peace that I have is exactly what I hoped for amd even though I lost friends that I enjoyed their company...I do not envy their lifestyle.

Alphamentips:


Yes. But you also gotta admit the whites are bigger thieves in the long scheme of things.

If you choose not to take an offensive position when the opportunity presents itself then you're missing out on good bounty to be marooned because if the tables were turned they (whites) wouldn't think twice about filling it up.

An online scammer may steal from a few people but the daily oil drain from Nigeria and the effects of colonialism affected and still affects over 200 million Nigerians. So do the maths.

There are some of us who prefer money we earned and worked for and not the one stolen from anybody wether black or white.

A thief is a thief. Saying the other person is also a thief does not remove the fact that a thief is a thief.

Embrace your nature with full chest and stop trying to console your self.

Fraudsters prided themselves as freedom.fighters to dull their guilty consciences until they started stealing from Nigerians both at home and in the diaspora.

HellVictorinho8:
itz a fallacy that whites gave or
give you phone,data,books,
names,clothes,etc



Whites gave or give
you nothing!


So you owe them nothing!


Rather

If u can scam them,
then go ahead.


Good riddance!


Nigerian politicians and their 1999 constitution seem 2 be a business deal btw them and sum white bastards


B4 you condemn me or add 2 my burdens, remember that i will never die trying 2 be nicer to you than youve been 2 me


Go ahead and accuse me of everything!


nonsenses and rubbishes






whether i make it or not






fvck what av seen!



u keep asking me 2 find a solution 2 my setbacks as if i was ever waiting 4 you 2 solve everything 4 me

spits



fvck mark zuckerberg!

at least
ok

This is what thieves say to ease their guilty conscience...as if these thieves don't steal from fellow Nigerians.

Originalsly:


I believe you quote me by mistake. This response is not to the question I asked.

Okay. No wahala

Originalsly:


If your neighbour has taken over your land ... will you throw rocks or whatever at him to get him out? If he warns you not to do so ... buy you continue to .... does he have the right of self defense? ... to wipe you and your family off the land?

Show me how Jerusalem belongs to the Palestines...who are nothing bout a mix of Arabs and other entities who came to those parts because of the rule of the Ottoman empire.

I will be waiting.....till thy kingdom come.

Originalsly:
Hmmm .... so Israel can attack any country and it is ok .... no cries about violation of International laws... no mention of terrorist state. It's a pity that too many of us cannot see the hypocrisy.

When the countries around you are daily threatening to wipe your people from the surface of the earth and are actually cooperating daily to accomplish that threat, buy carrying out suicide bombs, firing all sorts of missiles and drones and actually entering your land to gun down and kill your citizens en masses, then you cannot blame Israel for its actions.

Israel is not interested in taking over Jordan, Lebanon, Syria, nor Iran but all these countries want to take over Jerusalem from the jews and have made it clear they will not stop until they achieve their objective.

MossadAgent:


No sane society will tolerate his kind in public.

The fact that we have them coming out of the woodworks like cockroaches is a sign of great degeneracy setting in .

Every civilization collapse is always coincident with open faggotry.

Open display of Homosexuality is not a sign
of a tolerant society but a sign of societal decay.

I get your point clearly. Na dem dey find trouble. Homosexuality has been with humanity from the beginning...flaunting a deviant behaviour in a society that does not openly tolerate such is very very foolish.

Doesn't deserve to be killed though.

Nevertheless, when you know the kind of society that you live in, you don't go flaunting your deviant lifestyle in peoples faces.

There will be a ready army of people to permanently silence you.

Hope you find peace with your maker.

EreluRoz:
Tell me about the prophecy if you don't mind

Would have preferred to narrate the whole thing but we live in very sensitive times.

I REIGN

DevilsEqual:

On that Reno thread, u were telling us what God loves and what he doesnt

Now u are here, U can read how a random Chigozie is writing lies from whatever hallucination he is just waking up from but u had to deflect to something else

What is your point? Get to it.

It's clearly written in the book of proverbs that God hates a man who stirs dissension among brothers.

Protesters are locating the houses, secretariat and business of corrupt politicians and looting ag with them.

Both are statements of fact...so what is your issue.