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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by bmd1010: 11:26pm On Nov 12, 2022
Like its office breakfast grin

Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by geezynoni: 11:28pm On Nov 12, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.
Sorry about that... Better days ahead��
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by FuckDModz: 11:29pm On Nov 12, 2022
grin

I read the message and hoped the next one will make sense.

If you no give me job, it's your loss.

Me sef done reject PEOPLE after interviewing them.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by MrTuns: 11:33pm On Nov 12, 2022
I applied for sterling graduate trainee program. I got through 5 stages. At the final interview with the head of HR they told us this was just a routine chat, and we were 99% in. After the interview, they never called me back. After about 2 months, they sent a rejection mail. It was the most painful experience I've had with job rejection because it was a dream job for me and I invested a lot of time, energy and other resources to get to that final stage. I've recovered from the shock, but I was depressed for weeks!

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by YahooG(m): 11:33pm On Nov 12, 2022
I have been there,pray and hope and also trust in God and his goodness,believe,a work will come, mind you when you get the job,upgrade yourself with the salary,learn,driving,coding,tracking,Barbing,and upgrade your confidence and your English,learn more languages,only those who got visions,can understand this advise,Adios!

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by jorne: 11:34pm On Nov 12, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?

Firstly, how's your CV looking like?
Secondly, what are your skill sets and experience? Are your skills well aligned to the position you're applying for?

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Nov 12, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?

Sorry for your depression. Please do the things that you enjoy and reflect on the positive things in life. If you can raise 5k, I'll send you 15k for your business.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Nobody: 11:53pm On Nov 12, 2022
I love the way we look out for each other in this forum.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by kroger: 11:55pm On Nov 12, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?

Send me a DM.. No need to get depressed I will assist you with #20,000k.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by kroger: 11:58pm On Nov 12, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.

Send me a DM... Not easy at all but you have to keep pushing until you achieve.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by doctore212(m): 11:59pm On Nov 12, 2022
Anytime I get rejected for a job. Na olosho house wey me dey enter. No time at all

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Streetmovement(m): 12:00am On Nov 13, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Nothin' to cope with cuz white collar job is not my calling, I do business and work on getting paid using my talent

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by BigIyanga: 12:19am On Nov 13, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?
Try improving on the skills that made u lose those opportunities .
A potential applicant with BSc lost a job to an SSCE holder because she didnt have MS Office experience. She finished uni 6 yrs ago without computer skills .. how in 2022??

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by drealcivilceno(m): 12:31am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.

When they give you some hurdle shit, you better run coz they will just train you straight, when you apply!

If they need your help, they will cut through the bullshit.

Please any one that do not keep to time, give them an hour tops, then LEAVE!

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by abobote: 12:37am On Nov 13, 2022
Every rejection is very painful, whether job or relationship
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by 99thEnemy(m): 12:39am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.


Hardluck . sad



I couldn't help but laugh at this point..

"I kept singing not to break down on the road"
cheesy
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Sweetmaama(m): 12:49am On Nov 13, 2022
Life is really hard. Right now i'm awake looking at my 2 kids and wife. We were able to eat the only meal by begging. Lord have mercy, i know i'm not lazy. It just that my salary is very poor. By Monday they will be sent back home due to unpaid fees. I don't want to give up but i'm depressed. I have prayed but no response, i'm even doubting God right now. Even if i'm a sinner, should my children go hungry? I'm owing debt here and there, can't walk freely.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Yankee101: 12:50am On Nov 13, 2022
Job loss is more traumatic than not being hired

You'll overcome. It's just a phase

Try improving your sellable skills

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by InvertedHammer: 12:51am On Nov 13, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?
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Any reputable person here to verify this guy's stories?

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by toprealman: 12:57am On Nov 13, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?
Failure is a major component of success. Don't limit your option to just one business.
Try new things. Let money making motivate, forget everything else you've been taught.
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by AlwaysPositive: 1:04am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.

You need to pick your Bible and read

Jeremiah 29:11
2 Corinthians 4:18
Romans 12:12
Romans 15:4
Psalm 147:11

You have a bright future, that job was never meant for you. Something bigger is coming, rejoice and be prepared for it.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by DaddyGngeess(m): 1:12am On Nov 13, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?




Which state are you?
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Pickmycall: 1:14am On Nov 13, 2022
baba4thegehs:
Learn a skill bro
capital
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by WowSweetGuy(m): 1:16am On Nov 13, 2022
Our government chopping our future. Election time is out now and they have brought out 1% of their stolen cash to cajole around.

E never start until we get it right.

Everyone needs money to survive and be happy

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Pickmycall: 1:42am On Nov 13, 2022
After i got sacked,i applied for 20percent of my pension to learn how to drive for 2 weeks in a driving school.I applied for driving jobs in hotels,pure water factories,private schools,etc.They need someone with 3years experience.No be say i no drive the cars wey them give me to test o.No be practice go make person perfect?Na so my drivers licence take expired twice.I no see work because of rejection.Na rejection for employment dey make some people engage in bad things.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Cutehector(m): 1:51am On Nov 13, 2022
MrTuns:
I applied for sterling graduate trainee program. I got through 5 stages. At the final interview with the head of HR they told us this was just a routine chat, and we were 99% in. After the interview, they never called me back. After about 2 months, they sent a rejection mail. It was the most painful experience I've had with job rejection because it was a dream job for me and I invested a lot of time, energy and other resources to get to that final stage. I've recovered from the shock, but I was depressed for weeks!
sorry brother. I feel your pain
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Cutehector(m): 1:52am On Nov 13, 2022
grin
doctore212:
Anytime I get rejected for a job. Na olosho house wey me dey enter. No time at all
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by ednut1(m): 2:04am On Nov 13, 2022
keep applying
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Desusi: 2:09am On Nov 13, 2022
Be careful of people who are promising to help you so that they will not carry more to your wahala.As a woman, there are lots of legitimate Jobs and work you can do.From your previous thread, you mentioned you're a school certificate holder.You need skill acquisition, learn trade eg soap making, cream or hair dressing, computer etc.Here in Lagos,most local governments are training people less than 2k for six months. You can also do Petty trading eg selling of sobo,kunnu,or pure water,or work in biscuits company etc. You can also be selling Fry potatoes with stew near to your house at a popular spot. With 5k,you're good to go. As regards to skill acquisition you can check my e- mail address, l will help.Good luck. Finally, pls don't kill yourself o, becos millions are suffering same.Be God goodness.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by jimcaddy(m): 2:14am On Nov 13, 2022
Believe me when I say that there is no terrible feeling that to be rejected so many times for jobs that you are even qualified and have experience for. It's so painful. But what can you do? Keep trying hard. I'm also in this same shoes. It has not been easy trying to survive. It's only because of home training that has not made me to throw caution to the wind and do illegit stuff for money. It's so tough without a means of income, especially for a man.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Probz(m): 2:16am On Nov 13, 2022
Ericejeg:
Try look for any small firm and render free service to upgrade yourself.

That sounds good in theory but considering the state of the economy, maybe not. People need to eat and at least be semi-comfortable on weekends.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Nobody: 2:28am On Nov 13, 2022
Doubting God is a choice. But know that hard times will pass and if you have no faith, it means when you have resources, you won't remember God.
Every person who succeeded did so after hard time. If they have believe God was fake, they would have failed
Sweetmaama:
Life is really hard. Right now i'm awake looking at my 2 kids and wife. We were able to eat the only meal by begging. Lord have mercy, i know i'm not lazy. It just that my salary is very poor. By Monday they will be sent back home due to unpaid fees. I don't want to give up but i'm depressed. I have prayed but no response, i'm even doubting God right now. Even if i'm a sinner, should my children go hungry? I'm owing debt here and there, can't walk freely.

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