And here comes another one with insults... 🤣🤣🤣

Go deeper papaaa!!!🤣🤣🤣

tochez24:



You're a big FOOL.... so because I'm dating a girl, she then becomes my responsibility lol. What a clown!!!!

Then save yourself the stress by staying away from them.

Even in our African cultures, a man is expected to be the provider.

dontrulee:


Call me irresponsible if you like but I'll never put myself at a disadvantage. Even if I have the means to fund a girls lifestyle, I wouldn't.
To hell with gold diggers.

Meaning?

Dshocker:


Na so una dey do for South Africa?

Well, I'm not in the mood to be arguing about that... So I'll say you're entitled to your own opinion.

SyrusdeHansome:


It's frm my device. I've been trying to say that ur comment has made me to knw u've been lying abt Nigerian guys in ur country.

Samantha124:
Meaning?

Meaning; Is that how you guys behave in South Africa?

Samantha124:
Then save yourself the stress by staying away from them.

Even in our African cultures, a man is expected to be the provider.

At least you said a man and not a boyfriend.
A boyfriend is not a man and he's not responsible for your responsibility except of course he's a simp and has more than enough to spare. Eshe

Can you just for a moment forget my nationality and have a decent interesting discussion?

I mean we're all Africans after all... So why are you trying to put up a barrier by bringing in my nationality in this discussion when it has nothing to do with it

Dshocker:


Meaning; Is that how you guys behave in South Africa?

Okay, good for you.

SyrusdeHansome:


It's frm my device. I've been trying to say that ur comment has made me to knw u've been lying abt Nigerian guys in ur country. U've constantly maintained here that ur girls only love Nigerian guys because of the monetary gain they get frm them but frm ur comment i've been able to deduce two important points.

Lol... Your excuse is lame.

Every male over the age of 18 is a man... But if you insist that he's not a man, then he should stay away from the opposite sex until he's a man.

dontrulee:


At least you said a man and not a boyfriend.
A boyfriend is not a man and he's not responsible for your responsibility except of course he's a simp and has more than enough to spare. Eshe

Samantha124:
Lol... Your excuse is lame.

Every male over the age of 18 is a man... But if you insist that he's not a man, then he should stay away from the opposite sex until he's a man.

Call my excuse lame if you like, that's your opinion. And if your opinion is beneficial to you, I respect your opinion just like my opinion is such that would never put me in a disadvantage.

Okay.. But boys have no business being with the opposite sex because they still have to men up first.

dontrulee:


Call my excuse lame if you like, that's your opinion. And if your opinion is beneficial to you, I respect your opinion just like my opinion is such that would never put me in a disadvantage.

Samantha124:
Okay.. But boys have no business being with the opposite sex because they still have to men up first.

And your own definition of man up is for your so called boys to be responsible for the bills of the girls they are dating right??

So intelligent of you, clap for yourself dear.

And African man is viewed as a provider, am I lying

dontrulee:


And your own definition of man up is for your so called boys to be responsible for the bills of the girls they are dating right??

So intelligent of you, clap for yourself dear.

Samantha124:
And African man is viewed as a provider, am I lying

And an African women is viewed as a receiver and a collector Abi?

A man should be a provider but only in the context of marriage.

You haven't answered my question.

At bolded, you're right... Which is why you shouldn't be sleeping with any women until marriage... If you don't want to be a responsible boyfriend, then abstain until marriage, SIMPLE!!!

You can't be claiming someone's daughter as your woman, yet expect her father to look after her.

dontrulee:


And an African women is viewed as a receiver and a collector Abi?

A man should be a provider but only in the context of marriage.

Samantha124:
Can you just for a moment forget my nationality and have a decent interesting discussion?

I mean we're all Africans after all... So why are you trying to put up a barrier by bringing in my nationality in this discussion when it has nothing to do with it

😂😂😂...

Because you are stressing me mentally, you need to learn pidgin english, or better still, find a Nigerian lover.

Samantha124:
You haven't answered my question.

At bolded, you're right... Which is why you shouldn't be sleeping with any women until marriage... If you don't want to be a responsible boyfriend, then abstain until marriage, SIMPLE!!!

You can't be claiming someone's daughter as your woman, yet expect her father to look after her.

Like I said, that's your own opinion.
I can choose to sleep with and have sex with whoever I want without being a provider so far it's consensual. Not being a provider to the girl I'm dating in a relationship doesn't make me irresponsible in as much I've not married her, she's not earned such privilege yet.

And you don't expect a full grown man to keep himself till marriage and get married to a lady that didn't keep herself till marriage except such man is a foolish simp.

I hope you understand now

But you're the one who went looking for the stress by quoting me..😂😂😂

Why should I learn pidgin when I'm not a Nigerian or based in Nigeria?

Dshocker:


😂😂😂...

Because you are stressing me mentally, you need to learn pidgin english, or better still, find a Nigerian lover.

Samantha124:
You haven't answered my question.

At bolded, you're right... Which is why you shouldn't be sleeping with any women until marriage... If you don't want to be a responsible boyfriend, then abstain until marriage, SIMPLE!!!

You can't be claiming someone's daughter as your woman, yet expect her father to look after her.

Na women suppose dey follow your advice and not men.
Nothing concern men with abstaining till marriage. We chop and move.
Ladies close your legs

Samantha124:
But you're the one who went looking for the stress by quoting me..😂😂😂

Why should I learn pidgin when I'm not a Nigerian or based in Nigeria?

You have to learn it, because you are using Nairaland.

Why you no dey ear word?

Say whatever you like.. But as long as you're an African man, it's your responsibility.

If you can't man up, then you'll spend the rest of your life singing women are wicked.

And as long as you give that woman money after sleeping with her, you are the provider because you're the one losing the money at end of the day... It's your birthright, so deal with it...

dontrulee:


Like I said, that's your own opinion.
I can choose to sleep with and have sex with whoever I want without being a provider so far it's consensual. Not being a provider to the girl I'm dating in a relationship doesn't make me irresponsible in as much I've not married her, she's not earned such privilege yet.

And you don't expect a full grown man to keep himself till marriage and get married to a lady that didn't keep herself till marriage except such man is a foolish simp.

I hope you understand now

No, I don't want to.

Even your people here in SA don't bother learning our languages.

Dshocker:


You have to learn it, because you are using Nairaland.

Why you no dey ear word?

Samantha124:
Say whatever you like.. But as long as you're an African man, it's your responsibility.

If you can't man up, then you'll spend the rest of your life singing women are wicked.

And as long as you give that woman money after sleeping with her, you are the provider because you're the one losing the money at end of the day... It's your birthright, so deal with it...

Maybe other guys Sha but not me.
I don't give women money even after sleeping with them. Infact, it's women that give me money.

Ladies like to manipulate men just like you twisting things for your own benefit and I like you for that.

For me, the Mr. Nice guy part of me died many years ago and I beat ladies in their own game.

Samantha124:
No, I don't want to.

Even your people here in SA don't bother learning our languages.

Which language is that?
Xhosa?
South Africa babes are nice Sha. One was even teaching me the language sometimes ago but I don forget. Lol

Like I said, deal with it.

Already I know your type...🤣🤣🤣

dontrulee:


Maybe other guys Sha but not me.
I don't give women money even after sleeping with them. Infact, it's women that give me money.

Ladies like to manipulate men just like you twisting things for your own benefit and I like you for that.

For me, the Mr. Nice guy part of me died many years ago and I beat ladies in their own game.

Samantha124:
Like I said, deal with it.

Already I know your type...🤣🤣🤣

And I know your type too.

We have eleven official languages.

dontrulee:


Which language is that?
Xhosa?
South Africa babes are nice Sha. One was even teaching me the language sometimes ago but I don forget. Lol

Samantha124:
Well, I didn't understand a thing from those adages... You had me completely in the dark..😂😂😂

But it's as clear as crystal...self explanatory stuffs..

BTW, u need to get close with the elders

Okay.

dontrulee:


And I know your type too.

Samantha124:
We have eleven official languages.

Cool.
Give me a list if you don't mind. Thank you

Samantha124:
No, I don't want to.

Even your people here in SA don't bother learning our languages.

I am not talking of native language.

Just like queen's english, pidgin english is also a general spoken language in Nigeria.

You have to learn pidgin, by hook, or by crook 🤝

I don't even know my tribal adages.

I used to cram them back in high school and forget them afterwards...

tonicyril:


But it's as clear as crystal...self explanatory stuffs..

BTW, u need to get close with the elders