MasterJayJay:
If you die in that marriage, I won't waste my RIP.


Nonsense and babablu.

Same here.

baralatie:

Cant you see that she has been threatened/cajoled/coerced to drop the case

Shut up! More forces and people also carjoled, threatened, and coerced the small boy that convincted your all-powerful senator in the UK. The boy stood his ground.

Now compare the small boy's determination with a woman in her 40's.

Shey y'all want to copy Western culture. Kwantinu.

Fiscus105:



The way you guys reasoning atimes, maybe cos, age, inexperience, level of education, family upbringing, selfishiness, wickedness or foolishness.

Out of nonsense you wrote above, your brain not even wise enough to think, she might shield sword, maybe becos of her children

Yet, you people would say, naija girls dont normally have something to contribute when discusing certain issues.

I think person who has nothing to contribute stil better that someone, who is talking off ponit oooo.

Sheath the sword not shield sword

Oponu

Davidic1999:
Power of a mighty gbola

That gbola will malfunction if he does not provide necessity for the home

This Jarus' controversy has made me realize how Nigerians are ignorant the way their country works: especially for those who wanted/believed anything to come out of this case.

It shows people that are out of touch with reality.

Little wonder we keep making bad decisions with regards to our leaders.

My guiding motto: see things for how it is rather than how you want it to be.

malali:
Cc:
American Embassy visa office.
UK High Commission.
Canadian Embassy.

To do what please?

dawnomike:
This family has a serious problem....

it's not everything you see on social media you believe sir. The family is indeed a very loving one . One worthy of being referenced in your prayers. Just that as they say never give devil a chance. Jahrus is a very loving husband and his wife is loved by all that knows her cos she's accommodating and equally loving. I will never wish for such a good union to be dissolved ever. Anyways I know it's forever they signed and that's what it'd going to be.

The fear of divorce from the husband dey disturb woman. Husband and wife matter, count me out!

Raalsalghul:
This Jarus' controversy has made me realize how Nigerians are ignorant the way their country works: especially for those who wanted/believed anything to come out of this case.

It shows people that are out of touch with reality.

My guiding motto: see things for how it is rather than how you want it to be.

Exactly. A lot are just out to chase clout and not interested in the truth or rather the ideal situation. I will never support domestic violence but the way this played out showed it's definitely not in the nature of both parties. I'm just glad it is resolved now. May God continue to bless their home and the homes of all responsible couples .

Of course! I knew she would beg for him and refuse to press charges . After all, the abuser is the father of her children and the husband she was fighting to keep in the first place plus the community of inlaws and religion won't have it

Anyways, the important thing is DV is now being taken seriously by the state and Jarus will always be remembered for his contributions

I greet with you great man

tunjijones:


It doesn't have anything to do with gbola. It's more of financial independence. If the wife was financially independent, she go leave the man.

Na why I dey laf all this feminists in Nigeria trying to form equal with men, comparing themselves to their counterparts in Europe and America. The women in those countries are financially independent, they mostly make those money on their own, they can survive comfortably without the men.

The day Nigerian woman start making their own money and not depend on men for things then we can discuss equality. Do you believe that some ladies still believe that "it's the responsibility of a man you are dating to take care of you financially". I met a lady some weeks back and she confirmed to me that it's only the first phone that she used that was bought with her money, other phones she used have been bought by men. She was even boasting that she can never use her own money to buy phone. And this one will have the mind to be shouting gender equality.

dawnomike:
This family has a serious problem....

She’s a wise woman, she can go ahead and divorce him and quietly but not to throw the father of her kids inside prison and turn the father of her kids to ex convict

pocohantas:

I don't appreciate my mentions being spammed on falsehood. You will soon get what you are looking for.

Are you threatening me for saying the truth?
You must really be pained, lol. 😁

zebszebs:


Trust the local Jarus to go marry his set when he was still struggling.

Now he wants to marry a 21 year old , educated woman who he feels befits his status.

Stupid people

MR Simpson, get a life. it's none of your damn business if he decides to add another wife.

TheSuperX:
Are you threatening me for saying the truth?
You must really be pained, lol. 😁

Please post just one evidence of your truth. No deflections as usual. And stop abusing this pained word. I'll be waiting.

Omoawoke:


She’s a wise woman, she can go ahead and divorce him and quietly but not to throw the father of her kids inside prison and turn the father of her kids to ex convict

She can't divorce him because she 100% rely on his money, if she divorce him today, she will go back to square one.

pocohantas:


Please post just one evidence of your truth. No deflections as usual. And stop abusing this pained word. I'll be waiting.

Brb.

TheSuperX:
Brb.

Waiting...

DeeScan:


Hehehe .. I bet they ass they won't ...

Proserp.ina too ..


That case was dead on arrival .. DSVA just wan use the disguise like say Dem dey work ..

I remember my words on this matter.

".... I really don't care. If they want to allow a 22 year old faargin ruin what they have built for 14 years I don't care..."

You see unlike you I don't play judge and jury no matters I'm not directly involved in. My argument with Gerard was on the basis that he shouldn't expect a woman to accept a second wife like it's nothing because religion permits it. It's a big deal and she has the right to hurt and react. And when he argued that nothing will happen, I referenced him on the thread where something happened yesterday and it could have been worse if the wife hadn't withdrawn / denied any form of domestic violence.

When I asked if you were Gerrad59 yesterday, anyone who is new to Nl will assume I'm being unnecessarily petty and archaic as this is a forum any anybody can quote anybody. But here's what I tried to guide against "misconstruction" . You jumped on a conversation from another thread, made your warped opinion and now label as one who wants someone's marriage to end. I am baffled by your height of foolishness.

I don't believe in divorce, I don't believe in do or die marriage either. I believe in making sensible and logical decision when faced with issues. I really don't care who or what others do. Huh!

She begged for him and the case was withdrawn.. I expected this . Religion, Kids , Inlaws and society will frustrate her if she does otherwise.

At least as long as they stay in Lagos, she's free of physical assault. She will be alright.

One Nairaland bingo promoting a fellow Nairaland bingo. Mscheew.

Davidic1999:
Power of a mighty gbola

he has done the needful lol

malali:
Cc:
American Embassy visa office.
UK High Commission.
Canadian Embassy.

For wetin, abeg?

Proserpina:
I remember my words on this matter.

".... I really don't care. If they want to allow a 22 year old faargin ruin what they have built for 14 years I don't care..."

You see unlike you I don't play judge and jury no matters I'm not directly involved in. My argument with Gerard was on the basis that he shouldn't expect a woman to accept a second wife like it's nothing because religion permits it. It's a big deal and she has the right to hurt and react. And when he argued that nothing will happen, I referenced him on the thread where something happened yesterday and it could have been worse if the wife hadn't withdrawn / denied any form of domestic violence.

When I asked if you were Gerrad59 yesterday, anyone who is new to Nl will assume I'm being unnecessarily petty and archaic as this is a forum any anybody can quote anybody. But here's what I tried to guide against "misconstruction" . You jumped on a conversation from another thread, made your warped opinion and now label as one who wants someone's marriage to end. I am baffled by your height of foolishness.

I don't believe in divorce, I don't believe in do or die marriage either. I believe in making sensible and logical decision when faced with issues. I really don't care who or what others do. Huh!

da fuq!!!






Am I suppose to READ this

Gboom:

That gbola will malfunction if he does not provide necessity for the home

what necessity...

If the gbola receivers doesn't do what it needs for the gbola to function .. Another gbola receiver would...

That's the outcome when you sue someone on behalf of their spouse, instead of the spouse filing the lawsuit themselves.
The person who created a thread for questions and answers concerning this matter will likely be disappointed in her.

Confused couple