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Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by TempUser: 12:59am On Jul 19 |
![]() NOBODY TRIES THAT SHIT WITH ME. NOT EVEN GIRLFRIEND, LET ALONE WIFE! Non ducor, duco! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:59am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:you are very immature. It's clear that you were not ready for marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by DrFunmisticGlow: 1:01am On Jul 19 |
acevic:but it isn't his decision. He is allowing his family toss him Ugandan, why can't the wife do the same? |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by DUNDEEmoderatos: 1:03am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:If you are not careful your wife will end up controlling you. I see you as a man that falls for cheap emotional blackmail. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by DrFunmisticGlow: 1:06am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:I don't think this lady respects you. At all. You might have to buckle up |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by DrFunmisticGlow: 1:09am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:This is immaturity. Strangers online do not need to know your wife's family issues. You are not trustworthy at all. I don't think your marriage will survive if both of you don't change. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by superCleanworks(m): 1:09am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:You have started what you can't finish. keep your anger in your pocket since you can't put your foot down. Be ready to have a house of secrets because marriage is for a very long time and she has a different crowd & leader who she revers and confides in, that means there are many things you that you would have no idea about while her pastor already knows the full detail from inception. Cheers. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by superCleanworks(m): 1:15am On Jul 19 |
DrFunmisticGlow:He has already set a precedent that should not have existed and she has quickly started to plant her garden on it. At this point, destroying that garden because he wants to CHANGE DIRECTION would award him all the blame and backlash. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by OCHKESTINE(m): 1:20am On Jul 19 |
Your first mistake was allowing her continue attending her church after marriage. Once women know you are weak with authority, they will dare you on many aspects. At the initial stage of my marriage,I deliberately insisted on things my way not because it's the best, but with time she understood it will always be my call and hers to suggest. Years after, she has learned to run things by me and wait for my consent. If you like continue dey simp, she will do worse 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by 43Ronin: 1:21am On Jul 19 |
You better do a DNA to be sure it's not her pastors baby. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by superCleanworks(m): 1:21am On Jul 19 |
Coldspice: That guy has no idea. He is on a sea without a compass and the waves are just directing his movement for him. Robinson Crusoe must be laughing at him right now. I feel sad for him tho, making all these mistakes in the foundation of the marriage is going to come with a heavy bill later. The bill MUST come. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by samuelson06(m): 1:26am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: I blame you 100%. You started on a wrong foot. You should've ironed out the church issue before getting married to her. It's very wrong for a husband and wife to attend separate churches. Be very careful and pray hard. The marriage may just be heading for a fall without even taking off. Women loves switching to do something willingly and as a man, you should be smart to walk away if their choices doesn't favor you and you don't coerce them in any way into accepting your choice. Above all, a heart decision is what keeps a relationship going without problems. I sense that you did so much to have your wife accept you and that your effort is beggining to fight you now. You should've allowed the young woman to make her choices willingly, and not telling her they won't be problems about where she choose to worship. For what's happening now, she'll always want to have her way when it comes to church issues. I'll suggest to you to begin worshipping in her church too to keep the marriage. That way you'll be able to carefully monitor things closely. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by BarrElChapo(m): 1:34am On Jul 19 |
Nna mehn, no just marry woman wey pass you cos wtf 😬 |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by samuelson06(m): 1:35am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: Don't break your marriage. You've invested so much in it already. Dialogue with her and if possible, attend a marriage counseling with her so someone else can also talk sense into her. Using force won't yield the result you want. Most of the issues you are facing now ought to have been resolved during courtship. Now that you guys are married, you must learn to swallow a lot, while continuing to engage her in dialogue as husband and wife. Above all, pray for your family and everything will be fine. You ain't going through what you can't bear. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Nemesis08(m): 1:37am On Jul 19 |
You are a true son of your father. I wish I could just buy you a bottle of cold beer vanvickie: |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Nemesis08(m): 1:37am On Jul 19 |
Real talk from a real man Namaster: |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Bimmiie(f): 1:40am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: Omo, I’m not married at the moment but with what you said here ehnn you are to blame. Since you married out of pity, you’ll definitely face the consequences. I don’t believe in pressure this or that cos you are grown and know your wrong from right. Therefore, you’re responsible for every decision you make. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by ihavesense: 1:41am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:Chai!!! You are a weak man oo |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by tsnoop(m): 1:42am On Jul 19 |
Stand ur grounds and inform her family about her decision.. Well check our profile for super clean cars and original electronics |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by hilaryCU(m): 2:01am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:This lady is manipulating you too much. You better put your foot down. Let her cry her eyes out, you are leaving too much room for her already. As for her pastor doing the naming ceremony, allow it this time but don't let it repeat it again. Also, if she is those that worship her pastor, try to curtail the level of influence he might have over her as regards your marriage. They equally have challenges in theirs and every marriage has it's peculiar problems. Not all advice from them are viable. Stop, letting her manipulate you or it won't stop. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by specialbobby(m): 2:03am On Jul 19 |
Guy wetin dey worry you people way don get martial experience pass you dey give you OT you still dey mumu? Just tell her you have changed your mind that you won't be able to do the naming ceremony again that you will just buy cabin biscuit and your dad will come with his pastor with few family members to do low-key naming for the boy then if she refused sent her back to her father's house her mum is the main problem of all this you are facing and if she refused to obey you know that the baby belong to the pastor. Your wife get her mum blood one day you go catch her with another man or people will tell you for area man up and reason go front Set CCTV camera in your house that works 24/7 get inverter if there no stable electricity never allow her to off it set in a place that once anyone set foot in your house you can see the person even if you are in UK warned her that anyday she stepped out of the house without your permission then she shouldn't come back to your house accept to be a wicked husband let her call you all names she like ode ni won like (na mumu they dey like) no gree and lastly tell her if you ever see the so call pastor number on her phone that day marriage don end simple 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by specialbobby(m): 2:27am On Jul 19 |
I am a Muslim when I get married to my wife I got a job for her and Alfa tell her not to do the job that she should be coming to asalatu and night vigil the worse one nah make she come him house for 3days prayer she no go go out Lol me way no well before ![]() ![]() to choose one and she add Yoruba name of her choice and me I put my own egun name too then I buy coasta buiscuit we shop and move on no time if I don get money I go kill sunah ram for him. #ireooo #mahu na kpon mi No be say money no dey for the Sunnah oo I dey try avoid too much talk 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by ceejay80s(m): 2:34am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:Oga be a man and stop whining, U decide the church ur wife goes not her, Or she should go and marry the church Let me be honest with u, that pastor have slept with ur wife, believe it or not |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by ceejay80s(m): 2:36am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:U be mumu Ur first child? Or ur pastors child? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by enemachris(m): 2:43am On Jul 19 |
This OP is a weak man and the wife knows that hence she's using emotional blackmail on him. Continue paying attention to her crocodile tears, I hope she doesn't take you to your early grave. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by kumbhuru: 2:59am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:You are in deep shit. You aren't sexually attracted to her but impregnated her. Smh |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by blahc007: 3:13am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: This your madam de use tears hol you for work o. Na real blackmail be this.....bro you are in trouble like this. Small argument she go cry, people go think say u no de do your work well as a father....nawa. May the Lord send you emotional help and support to handle this kind of woman...it won't be easy o 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Slurity(m): 3:20am On Jul 19 |
BELIEVE ME, IF YOU AGREE WITH HER. YOU ARE A FOOL |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by blahc007: 3:23am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: Since your parents in-laws are alive, organize a private meeting with both of them...table the matter on ground. Her father should be sensible enough to understand your pains and they should talk to there daughter.....if not for anything, for her health sake....cos all this cry cry and nagging go de affect her mental health. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Collins4u1(m): 3:24am On Jul 19 |
You've already lost by agreeing. Next is DNA |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by obaidan: 3:29am On Jul 19 |
Sapasenator: then next, she will insist the husband watch while the pastor fvcks her 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by obaidan: 3:34am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:ODE she dey bully u for house, she dey manipulate u, u come online come dey form rage. u wrote plenty things up there and all i kept seeing was, my family wants us to do it this way, my wife wants us to do it this way, i pity that boy u are about to raise....anyways that is if your wife does not donate the child to her pastor(who may as well be the real father of the child) |
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