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Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by nathpope(m): 9:28am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: It is obvious your wife has known your mumu button to be her cry.. She will keep crying till you do what is not your will to do.. She knows you will just fume and grunt but nothing will come out of it than you do her will on whatever matter you guys are arguing about. Be wise mr man.. Stop being a blindangel 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by nwirinedu(m): 9:45am On Jul 19 |
Please allow the real father of the child to do the naming ceremony, or didnt you get her drift? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by ghettochild(m): 9:46am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:u mumu small o. so she used tears to make u marry her...and now the same tears to allow her pastor to name the child... are u the man in the marriage or not?. if u ain't. let her have her way but if u are the man, whatever u say stands... Be the Man 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by folks4luv(f): 9:50am On Jul 19 |
Your wife seems to be manipulative and stubborn, you may need to address this after the ceremony, let her know you are not happy with her. But there is always a problem with you. Twice you mentioned what your family wanted. Your family want their pastor to officiate naming ceremony, your family made you guys do thanksgiving in their own church. Feels like you didn't care much about these things till your family members step in. You need to be careful, don't allow your family member live their lives through you. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Unclesamo(m): 9:53am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: You have to be the Man. fight this nonsense manipulation. you started wrongly, but it's not too late... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Hadassah4chi(f): 9:59am On Jul 19 |
Uncle beat her to her game. Let the two pastors be on ground that day. On the day of the naming, before the program starts call the two pastors aside appreciate them for coming, introduce them to each other and inform them of the arrangement you want. Let her pastor give the sermon and assign your own pastor to do the naming rite. Shikena. Of course your wife should not be there when discussing with them. [sub][/sub] 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by chiefkpokp(m): 10:08am On Jul 19 |
Foodqueen: Young lady why are you insulting me, I only ask you questions. Haaa |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by kheny12(m): 10:27am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:what do you mean by you are not sexually attracted to her. Wasn't she your wife. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by BABANGBALI: 10:44am On Jul 19 |
Leemzyy:please stop confusing me |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by CuteNbad(m): 10:51am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:OMO. not taking your surname shows she clearly does not regard you. it's sad. i know you love her that is why you have allowed all of this to happen but believe me it is time to end all this bullshit you have been taking in the name of i love my wife or i want peace to reign. Baba she has to earn your trust. you need to do that DNA asap make your case no be like others that has unknowingly raise another man"s children. Them no dey telli person. the decision is yours. either you find out now or later. later might be too late. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Akerewe(m): 10:52am On Jul 19 |
Hadassah4chi: I think this is one of the best advice for you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by eaglez(m): 10:56am On Jul 19 |
Bro, you have married her, she no longer belong to that church or has anything like my pastor, she is now a member of your church, for the sake of peace let her have her way this time but place stand your grounds else this woman go show you shege banza....... Say no to teary manipulations BlindAngel: |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by dongalaxy(m): 11:01am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel: It's a family issue so I don't think I should meddle into it but for the fact you shared here means our input if needful. I have read and i understood your plight but pls, don't let peoples take in this issue ruin your family, work on how to make your home a happy home and care less about those frivolities you are bringing up . It's not greener anywhere sir , allow her heal , let her pastor name the child |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by CuteNbad(m): 11:06am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:OMO, una two no come this earth together. if she is not the wife you want. the wife of your dreams. baba divorce her asap. las las you go just dey pay child support and na wetin you fit afford you go payas a responsible man. do you know the joy of waking up every morning to see that you married the woman you so desired. and who gives you peace. Baba you only live life once. make your decisions to always be WHAT YOU WANT nobody follow you come, none will follow you go. USE YOUR HEAD. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Calenikan(m): 11:33am On Jul 19 |
No matter the level of love I have for you. I can't marry someone who is not ready to go to my church |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by OmoNla99: 11:34am On Jul 19 |
We were at this stage sometimes ago. Trust me it didn’t end well. BlindAngel: |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by kinharold(m): 11:58am On Jul 19 |
BlindAngel:My brother, your problem in this marriage is much more than officiating the Child Naming. From what you said , you have a very big and endemic problem. How can you be married and your wife is still attending a different church, what did you discuss during courtship (before marriage)? How come for about a year of your marriage, you have not met the Pastor of your wife, and he is the one coming to officially name your child. You did your thanksgiving at your parents church, what happened to your own church, that is actually where your problem started. It is obvious you have other critical things you didnt discuss and settle before now, and with the way she is manipulating you with her tears and emotional blackmail, you will need critical wisdom and emotional maturity to go about it. After the naming and her CS healing, call her to sit and start afresh discussing and settling critical family/marriage issues, such the church, dealing with families/in-laws etc. Be calm but assertive, make her know that it is in the best interest of the marriage and family. The earlier the better. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by latiephwald(m): 12:17pm On Jul 19 |
faithfull18: I have been searching to see comments from (F) gender which I know fully well it's gonna be the other way round. My dear sister, this is M matter and we need to GUIDE the camrade before his matter would be like that of MOH. Cuz you guys can be very dangerous and manipulative. Cases of BASTARDS don too much for una generation. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by zumbigbo(m): 12:49pm On Jul 19 |
Do not use that Pastor - he go insult you tire - based on her whisperings to him. Heaven knows the kind of names they go hijack you with during the service. They will name your boy....Messi Higuain Adeleke despite you having another list of preferred names. My guy.... when she cries again (this is emotional acting by the way, some Nigerian women are advanced at this shit) - ask her to collect tears to feed your plantain suckers in the garden. No chills! Las, las, everything go settle or her papa house she go see |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by makizee(m): 1:03pm On Jul 19 |
The problem I see with your situation is that you have not been able to establish who is in charge in your marriage, when a woman becomes a wife, she has to submit herself to the authority of her husband, so says all the holy books. your wife obviously hasn't done that. She would attend your church and submit whatever worship you do. You make this clear for her and I assure you, heaven will not fall. Stop it while you can before it becomes an even bigger issue. Note, The Pastor she wants to use sef suppose ask her if you are ok with it but all these Una pastors, na scammer them being. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by nikki26(f): 1:04pm On Jul 19 |
[quote author=BlindAngel post=131021173] That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names. Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday. I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful? She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming. Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready. [/quote Do I have to remind you tone the man? She's very manipulative. Stand your ground. |
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