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Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by maxiuc(m): 7:33am |
BlindAngel:I Am planing to Marry a Catholic and she gave me a wish that I should come wed her in her church and that wedding is like a good-bye to her Catholic foundation as she has joined a new family, oga so far you came to her church and Marry her she has no business with her former church again |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Mavor: 7:35am |
BlindAngel:Go and do DNA test. Stop allowing another man, whether he is a pastor or the president to run the affairs of your own home. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by drnoel: 7:35am |
Sonnobax15: It's the man that allows that rubbish. There is no reason for a woman to give more respect to her pastor than her husband |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Augustine2244(m): 7:36am |
BlindAngel:That's exactly what you should do, brother.Stamp your foot down firmly as the head of the house and never shift ground. Give her the options of disocciate from the church and pastor and going back to her father's house. There are a lot of good and submissive women out there who can replace her in your life. Don't give in to her manipulation anymore,or she would continue taking you for a ride. Most important, conduct a DNA TEST on the child to ensure that you are not raising a product of the pastor's semen. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Germi9: 7:36am |
A pastor have no right or whatsoever to name or dedicate your children. These are men that have lots of iniquities in their hands. Your both parents if they are still alive are the bonafide people to pray and unleash blessings on your children. Leave pastors alone!! |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Exceed15: 7:37am |
Listen to me bro. It's not about the CS . My wife had 2 different CS too. It's about her "will" taking stand. She's been brainwashed by her pastor.Stand your ground else you loose your authority on more subsequent matters at home. Good luck. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Exceed15: 7:42am |
BlindAngel: It's not too late to deliver yourself from her grip over you. If she continues frustrating you in that marriage file for divorce. Trust me her brain resets quick. After all she begged you into it. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by proff010: 7:43am |
Dont ever allow this to happen. You must name your child. Haaaaà What sort of nonsense is this, she is manipulating you. You better stand your ground now, if it amount to scattering everything now is good than crying later BlindAngel: |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Malawian(m): 7:45am |
Do DNA Test o. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by The1960writer: 7:49am |
And the best thing is to come to this platform and seek the opinions of strangers, especially some very immature lunatics in here who derive joy in ruining the lives of others through making unguarded, foolish comments? I want to believe this post is a hoax, perhaps to drive traffic. If indeed it is real, you're setting your young marriage up for doom like one of the nairalanders here who posted about his marriage from the start till it crashed because he took the advice of some faceless numbskulls. Welcome to fatherhood. Having children in marriage is a big deal, and understanding, communication and healthy compromise is needed. Couples tend to have issues especially after having the first child, sometimes there may be 'power struggles'. Why not consider using your house premises or somewhere neutral and invite both pastors? Or you could just let it go, it won't reduce your worth. How come you're even using your extended family's pastor? Don't you have a church you and your wife both attend? All these issues wouldn't have been a problem if you both walked in agreement from the start. It seems to me your marriage was built on the foundation of contention. You and wife disagreeing about court wedding and your mother-in-law deciding not to show up at your church wedding? Brother, it doesn't look good to me. Whether you choose to go for only traditional wedding, you both should have discussed it from the beginning. This is why it is important to prioritize understanding your partner and agreeing about important issues before marriage. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by sweetkev(m): 7:50am |
BlindAngel:If you allow her pastor to name the baby, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Your family, especially your parents will see you as a simp and a fool for allowing that in the first place but they wouldn't say anything in order to keep your marriage. This was the same thing that happened to me. You better revert and stood your ground. You are a man, so don't let her use CS and crying to decieve you . I pray this your marriage last self. Six months after the naming, let her know she must attend your church but if she insisted, serve her a divorce paper. She will have two options, either a divorce or attend your church. Believe me, if she accepts to attend your church, she will respect you as a man in the long run. WOMEN HATE WEAK MEN deep within their mind but they won't tell you. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by proff010: 7:53am |
You better be man right now, I wish I can see you face to face you will see what I will do to your face like, are you a mumu or what. I will slap sense to your brain. Haaaaà I don't even know what to say self BlindAngel: |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by aalangel(f): 7:55am |
joseph1832: Don't "put mouth" in husband and wife matter. They'll use you and settle. Some of these stories are not even true. People are just cruising here. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by shilz(f): 7:57am |
Stand your ground and be a man, this isn’t an issue you should be stressing over.when it’s time for naming get your family pastor to do it,start setting boundaries to regain your respect now before it’s too late.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by BabaHenry(m): 8:15am |
BlindAngel: Mr Man What the fvck did I just read now ? |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by joseph1832(m): 8:20am |
aalangel:whether the story is true or not, we follow the narrative and judge, when they make their "husband and wife" matter (that is suppose to be private) public. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by maduxs: 8:22am |
Stop her from going to that church. Be a man |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Tommydare(m): 8:26am |
This is why it is important to attend the same church. And maybe something is fishy with your wife cos I don't understand why someone will make such a fuss because of some pastor. And that crying and talking about her cs and shit is just to manipulate you to gree for her. Abi wetin concern cs with na my pastor go name my child. Sometimes, you must not look uche face. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by afribabe: 8:29am |
BABANGBALI:oh! I see.. okay |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by afribabe: 8:32am |
aalangel:very possible. Someone that was boasting of sleeping with 42 abi 44 prostitutes and looking for penile enlargement stuff because he wants to shift womb to get to oesophagus |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by worldclass68(m): 8:53am |
BlindAngel: And u went ahead to marry from such family? Abeg this story nah made up story....not real! Cuz if nah real story o.....from what u re typing so far, you re the DUMBEST man ever..... |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by faithfull18(f): 8:57am |
Be careful of bad advice, this issue isn't a big deal. Both of you are suppose to be attending the same Church to begin with. And there's nothing wrong with her retaining her maiden name, what were you guys talking about during courtship Or you just got her pregnant Changing maiden name in Nigeria is stressful and not everybody is ready to go through it. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by jaszplus12(m): 9:05am |
BlindAngel:This is why I never trust tears from women, it's 99% manipulation and 1% water! My advice, allow her pastor to do whatever but sit her down after and lay down some rules and be careful to not sound angry. Reason is women harbor your words and actions and give it back when you're eventually helpless either by age or economy! The longest marriages are by those where the man chooses to be the "fool" in the marriage. But the man has an advantage that I won't mention here.... only the experienced will know.... |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Blacksavage: 9:06am |
Alaye do DAN ooj |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by D4gmail1: 9:06am |
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Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:14am |
If you make the mistake of taking advise from some badly raised guy$ here, be ready because your marriage will scatter. I feel for the new born baby. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by IamHonourable1: 9:15am |
BlindAngel: You don't seem to be a man but a simp.Keep dancing to the tunes of a woman, only time would tell the end. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by stainzvill(m): 9:24am |
Who is the man of the house again? |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by nathpope(m): 9:26am |
She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming. Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready. [/quote] It is obvious your wife has known your mumu button to be her cry.. She will keep crying till you do what is not your will to do.. She knows you will just fume and grunt but nothing will come out of it than you do her will on whatever matter you guys are arguing about. Be wise mr man.. Stop being a blindangel.. |
Re: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by dannex4adx(m): 9:26am |
BlindAngel: Your are a weak and a finished man. Your wife is more wiser than you, that's why she manipulate you because you still have a primitive brain. She uses her nonsense tears to manipulate you just like witchcraft. I don't want to waste my advice because you will not follow it. Your wife is in control of your life. There is danger ahead for a man that allows his wife to be controlling/manipulate him. |
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