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| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by otokx(m): 7:53am On Mar 14, 2015 |
adorable29: Well said |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Whobedatte(m): 7:53am On Mar 14, 2015 |
EggovinMma:don't you think that "philosophy" of yours in having umpteenth dates with other guys even in a relationship may have an after effect &boomerang? You think any guy who discovers that would even take you serious? Well, it's your opinion&i respect that. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Solozzo(m): 7:54am On Mar 14, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Some single women who are used to this kind of lifestyle become unfaithful wives with eventual divorce. Hope you don't become one of these. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by mployer(m): 7:59am On Mar 14, 2015 |
ElFenomeno1: People keep getting selfish and karma keep preying on them. Bro, 11 years out of woman's life is not the same with 11 years out of a man's life. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by geosegun(m): 7:59am On Mar 14, 2015 |
If it is not Juju at work, from the other lady (since the guy is made, she may go diabolical), then the lady may have cheated on him (sugar daddy things) while he was not made then. Some once said, if there is an unexpected behavior from a man, and a woman is involved do not rush into a conclusion to blame the man. Consider all the matter carefully.............................. Just my opinion |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 7:59am On Mar 14, 2015 |
jmoore: so, why shld it take him 11years to know she wasnt the right person for him. Please, leave him now b4 he disfigures ur emotions! 1 Like
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| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Omooba77: 8:01am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Too bad,some people dont need to be cursed,the curse is an attachement already.If you are not going to marry her, tell her politely,even if she weep,she will get over.If the lady concern is here,brace up,God will give you better husband,always remember Proverb 23:5,wealth is like a bird.Dont think of revenge,let God be the judge. 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by vastolord4(m): 8:05am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Ipledge:yekpa!!!  |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Emilyp(f): 8:05am On Mar 14, 2015 |
He knew he wasn't going to marry her all along,he was still holding on to the relationship simply because he had no means of survival as at then,"11 years" is not one year ,a man does not need a decade to know his wife,my anger here is that he should have told the lady that he won't marry her not leading along for so many years. 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by geosegun(m): 8:06am On Mar 14, 2015 |
scribespad: If it is not Juju at work, from the other lady (since the guy is made, she may go diabolical), then the lady may have cheated on him (sugar daddy things) while he was not made then. Someone once said, if there is an unexpected behavior from a man, and a woman is involved do not rush into a conclusion to blame the man. Consider all the matter carefully.............................. Just my opinion 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by jerrymej(m): 8:07am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Wao! It's quit sad. Well God knows best why it happens so! It has been set right from day one of their friendship. But I just wonder what it means to be in a relationship for good solid '11yrs' and yet couldn't figure the kind of person you engaged with! now that it's time for her to reap her labour of all this whole years courtship and it all turn to a waste of time, energy, strength, money and all that. It's quit pathetic, really felt heartbroke for her though, but God knows best. Just that she has to take on with life. No matter what the disappointment may be, God is the best master planner. Her joy 'll locate her. She shouldn't even lay causes on him, may be it would have been a more said news than this if she get's married to the man. So as such she has to accept the fact that God knows best, and that it has been certain right from day one that they are not meant to be as one flesh. It's a lesson not only to her, but to everyone who is engaged to any relationship, to avoid dating without purpose. I prefer Headache that heart break! (I don't know for you). 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by tesorunke(m): 8:09am On Mar 14, 2015 |
D fact is if dis was done by a girl,d sameee ladies commentin wil sharrap.bt if deyy re hurt,dey start making noise lik danfo horn. #smh# |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by cacali(f): 8:11am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Cutehector:And it took him 11 years to realise she is a bad cook or isn't good in bed? Haba!!! Well we haven't heard the guy's story so one can't conclude. Even though it's not fair and can be heartbreaking. I would advise they breakup now than endure a marriage of management, pity or hatred. Marriage is hard enough sef for couples in love with each other, not to talk of when one partner feels he or she is forced into it. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by badesco(m): 8:14am On Mar 14, 2015 |
The guy would surely have good reasons, it is possible the lady in question may have done something terrible to the guy in the past . All the same, the timing is wrong. 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Haywhymido(m): 8:23am On Mar 14, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:i knw sey dog wey get mad dog disease don bite u. How does what u wrote relate with d topic. Ode oshi |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by mrkings84(m): 8:23am On Mar 14, 2015 |
buygala:u bloody bloke! didn't know u still have something upstairs, thought they got evaporated with the smokes of ur weeds. score u 91%. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by stan241(m): 8:24am On Mar 14, 2015 |
*whew* I don read tire......ok first off that guy is very mean haba why wait till 24hrs before your wedding before parting ways with your girl of 11yrs that's just plain wickedness and he did it intentionally.......secondly as has been said better a broken relationship than a failed marriage...now whether she chooses to accept it or not there were signs but thing is most ladies in long term relationships tend to relax when the relationship goes past the 2nd year they start exhibiting stupid characters believing that marriage is a sure thing cus of how long they have been dating and then to the ladies screaming never date a poor bloke MEN who are made don't marry parasites they use you for satisfaction and in MOST cases go back even 10yrs to that lady who was there for him when things were hard and also when you say don't put your eggs in one basket you come off sounding like a "SLUT" cus the belief is that you are opening your legs too for all these "OPTIONS" of yours.....the two parties involved are to blame but the guy was very mean with the way he broke things off with her....Lastly since this story is from a blogger there is a 99.9 percent chance that its just fiction |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by kandiikane(m): 8:29am On Mar 14, 2015 |
leezbebe: Don't get me wrong, I am not saying some men aren't that wicked to actually try their best to hide their deceit but there is no way signs of such deceit won't show. You can only hide your dislike/displeasure for someone for so long. See humans in general, we have an innate sense of telling when someone is not into us or when there is a problem so why is it different in a relationship? Is it because we are liked initially and then disliked so we fail to tell the difference? No! Many women have their heads in the clouds in relationships, they fail to see the reality of what could happen or what could be happening and instead turn a blind eye. They fail to be calculative, they fail to see that anything could happen and they fail to acknowledge the signs, this is why you always hear the phrase, "I cannot believe he did this to me. " or people saying "he just woke up one day and decided he didn't want anymore." No, a man won't just wake up from bed one day and decide to go get married on a trip to naija. He could still act like he loves the woman but it's a gradual process that leads up to that day and there will be telltale signs of such deceit unless of course she turns a blind eye. Don't be naive my dear, if a man doesn't love you anymore you would know, just that you did find it hard to believe he doesn't. We rather believe what he says than listen to the feeling deep down. The hints are always there, it is up to you to decide whether to actually see them as they are or continue pretending that they aren't a cause for concern. 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 8:29am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Solozzo: I wont become of them.Man no dey shack me.  |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by Nobody: 8:32am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Whobedatte: But of he is taking me serious, after a yr, what has he done about going home to see my parents? HE IS JUST WASTING MY TIME! To me after one ur now, and no move, then he is looking for fault s.And my brain isn't wired to take that bullshiite. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by farem: 8:34am On Mar 14, 2015 |
[color=#006600][/color] jmoore: What really is the difference between 'relationship' and 'marriage'? It -the broken relationship- is better ONLY IF what makes marriage has been avoided. This generation where the so-called relationship are nothing different marriage-(maybe without children-since alot of 'protection/avoidance' must have been applied AND a few foetal murders done as a result of constant, unbridled and shameless fornication) |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by TopHand: 8:34am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Nobody shud curse this man, he too will definately feel the pain of betrayal but that will be the remitt of the All Mighty Creator and not in the hands of any persons curses. This is the reason why marriage has been proscribe for any man and woman who find attraction to each other, it is better to marry and divorce if it does not work out than to co-habit together for donkey years, about ten years ago a sister of mine used to date a gentleman, he was ok, but after two years together I pressurized her either marriage or she breaks it off they parted ways, presently this sister of mine is happily married with two children. One thing women should understand it does not matter how beautiful you are a man will always instinctively choose to ride on comfortably without making a committment becos he is already deriving the benefits of the emontional support from you provided in a marraige, any woman who loves herself should not be blinded by irrelevant excuses regarding commitment, if you can live together when he is poor then definately you should be able to live together when he becomes rich dont give any man the best years of your body and mind as charity. If you love a man, marry him regardless if he is rich or poor Give a man maximum one and a half years to make his mind if he refuses to see reason walk out that door, why pay somebody to exploit you when there are others who can exploit you for free 3 Likes |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by justfree1(m): 8:37am On Mar 14, 2015 |
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| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by 49cents(m): 8:38am On Mar 14, 2015 |
buygala: Good points raised here and thereare areas you didn't consider 1. For the guy to break up a day before his wedding to another woman shows that he was cheating with his new ady and this is not the same as "walking away" that is a betrayal of trust....if he found the relationship meaningless afterwards he would have just ended it all The guy is a spineless idiot and he will definitely reap the rewards of his actions that is for sure!!!! On a general note I advise young people don't date when you are not ready for marraige; for practical reasons just keep a ring of friends of the opposite sex around as friends and when you are ready go for one of them.....stop the "one and only" thingy except when you both are ready to go all the way 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by mamaziko: 8:42am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Meeeennnnn!!! They are mean,and dat guy is a coward n he will never find peace,love n happiness in dat marriage. Since he knew he wasn't gonna marry d girl he should atleast surmon d courage to tell her b4 now n not after 11yrs he just left without any reason. God n d Devil will join hands and punish him. But we girls should wisen up(i wonder how many abortions she must have done) 2 Likes |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by kukuruku156(f): 8:46am On Mar 14, 2015 |
mamaziko: Very, very on point.while I agree that the girl was a mumu, the guy's action too is totally reprehensible. 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by QATOFIN: 8:47am On Mar 14, 2015 |
one thing is sure there is always three side to a story his view, her view and the truth, therefore its important to hear from all parties involve before making any judgement however, where i blame the guy is that anything that would have made you dump her that day should have been discovered long ago, why did he allow it to get to 11yrs before taking action? why, my broda why? you have a sister what if she i s treated his way hw will you feel? |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by 49cents(m): 8:48am On Mar 14, 2015 |
farem: Vety keen observation People date for the thrill of it; for the adventure of it How many ever asked a girl out because they have the feeling it may lead to marraige? The reverse is the case; those who live in denial would rather say "let's date and see where it leads" Dating used to be non-sexual even we there was an attraction A man or woman who is not ready for marraige or who doesn't see marriage potential in the other should not even date and even when dating must be non-sexual. Sex by order should be the last thing to know about the other person...that for me is the Golden rule....... 1 Like |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by alexlee50: 8:51am On Mar 14, 2015 |
buygala:Did u read the post well? That is how some people wind up dead for nothing. Did u read she was supporting him when he had nothing? Did u read she shared all she had with him including herself? If the guy knows he would not marry her, why accept her gifts and money? Why not stop at a certain stage? But he waited till the eve of his wedding.most probably he bleeped her till that day.why doesn't he discuss with her and look for a proper conpensation for her? In any case there is no amount of compensation good enough for the wasted years, effort, sacrifice she made in building the relationship with him.when u hear he winds up dead, please tell his family members to advice the rest of the males in the family never to accept gifts ftom women they don't want to have a future with. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by gbenga007(m): 8:52am On Mar 14, 2015 |
Phlakes: Is there any semblance? Like seriously I'm afraid too--for you. No pun intended. |
| Re: Man Breaks Up With Girlfriend Of 11 Years 24 Hours To His Wedding To Another by leezbebe(f): 8:58am On Mar 14, 2015 |
kandiikane:hmmmmmm, ur right though.. |
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