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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by freecocoa(f): 8:06pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
brownie10:I'm still trying to digest your story but I need to know. Do you know your husband to be promiscuous? What's your relationship with him like? |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
mutiply: Thank you and God bless.... |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by jashar(f): 8:10pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Hmmm Eleyi gidi gan ooo. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
doxiler: Thank you!! But I cant pretend for six months!! Ive never been one to hide my true feelings! I havent told a soul apart from this nairaland. How do I tell? Who do I tell? Is this a good palatable story to hear!! I am even still struggling to believe what my eyes saw!! How can I tell ooo! 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: I honestly do not know him to be promiscuous! Yes, he's not perfect.. Yes he has his faults. But promiscuity is one fault I did not find in him. I guess I just wasnt smart enough. I should have known. In fact, it was one thing I should have questioned. I should have dug deep. Carried out my investigation on this particular incidence. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: My relationship with him was very OK up till today. We pray together most times. He is caring. He opens doors sometimes, he pulls out chairs sometimes. He sometimes even cooks when Im at work for us, because though he is better paid, he has wayyyy more time than i do. Just last evening, he came to pick me after work and we went for a date. Even now, he has gone out to get some things for the house. He was on my neck that we should go together but I just asked him to go ahead while I cook. He could sense something was amiss as he turned and asked me if something was wrong just after he stepped out of the door. He wears his wedding band proudly. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by troy20(m): 8:28pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
brownie10:you are making alot of situation out of this.give yourself a break.all these emotions.he is this perfect yet a few past experiences before he wedded you is amounting to all this? I think he deserves better. 8 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
focus7: I can hear his car outside. Ill be bacl please |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
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you pretty....I promise not to cheat on you love |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by angieberry(f): 8:37pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Hian![quote author=blublahd post=34973349][/quote] |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by bellong: 8:37pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
When you should confront your demon, you are here crying foul. I don't know what you want from people, to cry with you? 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
angieberry: |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by bellong: 8:43pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
angieberry: 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by cutiesoglam(f): 8:49pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Madam, so sorry. Try n do things dt will make u hapi.. Pls don't b sad. Welcome to the Nigerian marriage where most women take bullshit in their matrimonial n look good forming illusions of perfect marriage outside.... My dear, so pple v seen worse. Now is d Tym u want v to define wat u want. U either stay and get used to it and continue praying for him to change or rise above by moving out and start ur life again... Try n remove ur mind from it, na temptation. u talk him abt it. N he might change since u said he loves u n all... Forgive him.. Marriage entails continuous forgiveness.. 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
brownie10:Confront him since you have the evidence with you. .. Keeping it in your heart will kill you slowly. . All d best... 2 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by angieberry(f): 8:51pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
So you agree the speaker is foolish?[quote author=bellong post=34973555][/quote] |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Babe, can I suggest that you confront him? By confrontation, I dont mean 'shouting down the house', destroying electronics and so...... i mean mature confrontation. Come to think of it, for the videos to be in d recycle bin, it means he meant to do away with them..... Pls, take the advice from @focus7 and up your sex life. You are now married, discuss sex with your husband. let him tell you what you are doing right or not. Pls remain calm. God is with you.... I see you counting 70years in this marriage. Cheers. 10 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by freecocoa(f): 8:55pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
brownie10:Don't beat yourself up, you couldn't have known if he wasn't so good at hiding it. I'd like to believe it's his first time but a first timer won't video the act, unless someone videoed it and sent the clip to him. Just try put yourself together, don't make decisions when angry, take a few days to clear your head but don't pretend everything is okay, if he asks, tell him you are not ready to talk about what it is yet, don't sleep with him, you also need to get yourself checked for STIs. It's not your fault. Meanwhile how long did you date for? 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
A porn star husband? Op,I sincerely pray not to be you.Take heart. . 4 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by doxiler(m): 8:59pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by doxiler(m): 9:00pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
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Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
"What God has join together let no man put assunder",that is his past and believe me he realy love and respect you so much according to what i read.Patiently confront him,he will explain and also apologise please kindly accept the appology and forgive him forever and clear our mind out of it.Just like someone posted i see you counting 80 in this married,enjoy your marriage while it last,happy married life. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by SAMBARRY: 9:09pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
coogar:sounds like some of these telemundos I've watched like passions, gardener's daughter, secret of the sand Maria de los Angeles etc all this nl fiction writers sef don't they know the way to wale adenugas office in Oshodi to drop their scripts for the next super story edition 1 Like |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
cutiesoglam:continuous forgiveness until you get HIV/AIDS and die 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by freecocoa(f): 9:16pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
brownie10:Sounds like a good man, I just wish this was not him pretending, I don't want to just give up on him by concluding that he is not what he potrayed himself to be because of this, people can slip but this doesn't look like a slip. Just try and calm yourself. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by SAMBARRY: 9:22pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Why are you folks taking this tale serious. It's make belief. It only happened in her imagination it looks too fake |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by dnacrystal: 9:23pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
He did this shit after your introduction so confront him |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
Another script...sigh. |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by freecocoa(f): 9:25pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
SAMBARRY:Small time you two will turn this thread into a battle field, you too like coogar but won't admit it. 6 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by uboma(m): 9:32pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
alberto2k: Keep quiet man if you have nothing reasonable to say. Why appologize to the op and later spoil it by alluding all men are polygamous in nature? There are still a few good men out there but i guess you fall in the category of such polygamous men. 8 Likes |
Re: My God! My God!! Who Have I Married?? by edwife(f): 9:33pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: I am not alone after all. 3 Likes |
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