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Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please / Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) / He Is Almost 40 And She Is Above 34 But They Still Want Abortion (2) (3) (4)

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:57pm On Oct 28, 2015
Duru009:
Its just a pity..........

I wont advise u to bring a child into this world dat will end up sufferin......

............. Go n buy "postinor 2" from any good reliable pharmancy around. It will clear everythin.

Thanks a lot, will give feed back after I get I'm glad you understand I don't want ma child to suffer
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by timunstopable: 11:57pm On Oct 28, 2015
U cant use 300naira condom

Now u want us 2 advise

When d tin dey sweet u

U no know say there is consequence for Évery action

Abeg shift


Why did this make front page sef

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by tellwisdom: 11:58pm On Oct 28, 2015
My fear No be even the belle....na whether the Op never carry disease undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Donnar: 11:58pm On Oct 28, 2015
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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 11:58pm On Oct 28, 2015
Wait till you are married and if you can't get a proper sex educationundecided

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by bxcode(m): 11:59pm On Oct 28, 2015
chimchim1:

Swt hrt, I don't want to even imagine it again again. I was enjoying it cos I was sure of her status. I work in a clinic and so run her test regularly. Anyway, I've stopped all the nonsense for now.
For now? That means you are on tomporary break.
What happened to being faithful to your wife sir, actions may break up your home if you go back to it. Stop the nonsense both now and forever and have your peace man.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Michellla(f): 11:59pm On Oct 28, 2015
Demigods:



Bitcchhh don't come running your mouth, I'm no longer a teen ok? Graduating next year. So if you don't have anything useful to say. Stfu!!!
you are no longer a teen yet you're so unbelievably retaarded.
i'd comment whatever the hell i want.lets see what your stupiid ass self would do about it.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by sats: 12:00am On Oct 29, 2015
you don fork finish, belle don come, ur eye don clear
my advice
accept your responsiblity
marry her and raise d child
dont tell me
your ass is broke
if it was, u would have a used condom

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Euceey(m): 12:00am On Oct 29, 2015
Bro listen I feel ur pain: now a D&C is different from flushing which is beta....meet a doc or contact me,I prescribe flushing
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by kinibigdeal(m): 12:01am On Oct 29, 2015
You seriously need to be jailed if you attempt suicide....must you have Pre-marital sex? Because you've been receiving #50 from your parent pulse, you now felt you are a big boy. When your joystick was troubling you, why didn't you warn it that you aren't ready. Boy, leave with it. If you attempt suicide, we will track you. Lemme greet you in anticipation, daddy favour!!! Congratulation. Kindly invites NL for Naming.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:02am On Oct 29, 2015
Michellla:

you are no longer a teen yet you're so unbelievably retaarded.
i'd comment whatever the hell i want.lets see what your stupiid ass self would do about it.

Ugly stupid fuvcktard why so pained? Get your ugly asshole pussy face outta here before ma gf scolds me for talking to a ugly pained hoe, grease ball bastardd.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by chimchim1(m): 12:03am On Oct 29, 2015
bxcode:

For now? That means you are on tomporary break.
What happened to being faithful to your wife sir, actions may break up your home if you go back to it. Stop the nonsense both now and forever and have your peace man.
thanks man. It's not as easy as you are saying it bro. I wish I can end it forever.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:04am On Oct 29, 2015
ipledge10:
hmmm...Nobody is peefect

So mature, it was just a mistake! Nobody expected it, can you imagine over a year of doing it without condom she never got pregnant she thought she was not fertile she even said no need using condoms! So can't blame I just have to help her out of this, I can't abadon her, help if you know any other way to abort please.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Michellla(f): 12:06am On Oct 29, 2015
ipledge10:
lol u are really funny...iPhone ke
grin was an attempt at humour

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by sleemoon(m): 12:06am On Oct 29, 2015
Lifebender:
Zuka Zukatada!!!

[b]Sku Skiku[b]
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:06am On Oct 29, 2015
chimchim1:
I've been there before. See a Doctor. Delay is dangerous. I escaped it two months ago. Mine was bad cos I am married and it happened with my side chick. She took several drugs (tabs) and injections. But finally took her to a clinic where I begged for d&c.

Please how much did you use to do the d&c?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Sanchase: 12:06am On Oct 29, 2015
Its better to have the baby, even if you are not ready yet to keep it you have family that may assist you. Its a complicated situation and don't make it worse by seeking abortive measures. Unprotected sex is sweet but always ensure you use contraception, the best effective contraception is the oral pill administered orally by the girl. If she escape from this pregnancy, ensure you buy contraceptive pills next time and administer it to her yourself just like father gives a child Vitamin C lol but if the pregnancy is in, its in just leave it in there and start making plans to become a father with your family. Its not a big deal but it will affect your plans, it can also open doors for new opportunities for you !!
Best of luck wink
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by babasanti: 12:06am On Oct 29, 2015
gamaliel121:
do an ultrasound scan..
If she's still pregnant, then start the abortion process again..

To be sincere, abortion is not good..buh since u started u have to end..
Cos incomplete abortion has serious complications...
She may get hurt for life..
So do a simple scan, to see if her womb is clear..if she's still preggo, run d abortion again..but if the baby is dead buh still has part in the womb..u gat to clear it out cos of infections..that part can only be done by a doctor..
Goodluck...Bleep with a condom next time...noooo. Don't Bleep atall..till ur married...
Its better...and don't say you trust ur babe..she may be fuccking another cooccck....use a fuccking condom mate...halaaaaaa

@op listen to every advice this guy gives to you. Shun all others here. Trust me , I know what am saying
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by raayah(f): 12:07am On Oct 29, 2015
Michellla:

you are no longer a teen yet you're so unbelievably retaarded.
i'd comment whatever the hell i want.lets see what your stupiid ass self would do about it.

yes tell him! He's unbelievably rude.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by danfidel01(m): 12:07am On Oct 29, 2015
I might sound sarcastic!!! but I think dat Child is a special child.. U tried a way of taking the child's life but he (the child) survived it....
Haven't U stopped to think it cant be a coincidence.... Dat child might be a destiny child.!!!!!
DON'T DESTROY A FUTURE!!!!!
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by oluwanoni: 12:07am On Oct 29, 2015
I dislike stories that touch...when some people dey look for pregnancy, assuming u know how that feels, The deed as been done, the first thing is to do a proper medical check, find out if she's still pregnant or not, if she not and the stomach needs clearing,; do just that!

If she still expecting, I would advice seek the advice of a non biased person, I pray u decide to keep it, I know school is important to both of you.

If you're in a public school, she can take a year off, then get back to school, it might be difficult but its best you involve your parents.

The most painful part of all these is you guys might not end up together, because if you marry, it would be out of convenience.

No be una go be the first such would happen to..Just Google stories similar to yours, yould learn a thing or too.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by danfidel01(m): 12:08am On Oct 29, 2015
I might sound sarcastic!!!
but I think dat Child is a special child..
U tried a way of taking the child's life but he (the child) survived it....

Haven't U stopped to think it cant be a coincidence....
Dat child might be a destiny child.!!!!!

DON'T DESTROY A FUTURE!!!!!
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by rill: 12:08am On Oct 29, 2015
U thought she was not fertile
Brb

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by chimchim1(m): 12:09am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:


Please how much did you use to do the d&c?
I spent about 15k to 20k in phc
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:09am On Oct 29, 2015
vale20:
What ur work,can u keep d pregnancy ?

I can't, still schooling in uni
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Drfinn: 12:09am On Oct 29, 2015
OP, obviously the misoprostol your gf took didn't lead to termination of pregnancy. Probably wrong dosage. Did you consult a doctor before she took the drug?

Abortion is illegal in Nigeria. However, it can be undertaken in certain circumstances for the good of the Mother. This is what you should do.

Get an ultrasound scan. If your in Port harcourt pm me. If your in some other state kindly see a doctor. And please stop dat crap dat there are no professionals to do a good job without complications.

NB: if the scan shows a healthy fetus, I strongly advice you and your gf keep it. If however, it indicates an incomplete abortion or whatever, see a gynecologist/GP.

PLEASE PLAY SAFE NEXT TIME!! BETTER STILL, ABSTINENCE IS GOLDEN.

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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:11am On Oct 29, 2015
chimchim1:
I spent about 15k to 20k in phc

Thanks alot sir, I will take her to hospital for ultrasound scan then if it is still positive then will go for d&c
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Frederick07: 12:12am On Oct 29, 2015
ipledge10(f):
hmmm...Nobody is peefect

Bros na woman you be now...and you forget to change your sign
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:13am On Oct 29, 2015
Euceey:
Bro listen I feel ur pain: now a D&C is different from flushing which is beta....meet a doc or contact me,I prescribe flushing

Please how do you do the flushing, drop your contact let me add you on WhatsApp
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by greggng: 12:13am On Oct 29, 2015
Hehehe God don catch both of u. You want abort the next oni of ife? Such child no dey die easily . Better leave the pikin alone before she dies commitment abortion
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by BiggerBangs: 12:13am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.

handled....

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