danidee10:
The signs are clear she no want may u straff am na or try to touch her...she's not comfortable around u yet don't tell her cuz u can't force the feeling....if it's continues 3 more times....move on cuz no matter how fine she is....girls dey wey fine pass am.....simple

Or u be capital letter MAGA MUGU. MONI SPENDER

You are ryt baba. The girl no want make the guy straff am

amtaken:
Whenever she brings her friends, be overly friendly with them (but not flirty) and pay them more attention than you do to her.


After that, always ask her not to forget to come with her friends, especially the prettiest (mention her name to her).




Ask her to ask her friends the kind of body lotion they use so that she too can use it to polish her own skin.



Invite them all out and act like the prettiest among them is your partner






After all these, if she really loves and values you she will never let you meet her friends again, she will never bring them to your house again but don't devour her when she visits you alone, mbok!

Know the kind of girl u do this to o. Cos someone like me u won't see my brake lights again after that rubbish

I believe deeeep inside of u, u know what to do. Go beyond emotional cloud. listen to ur heart. do what it says and u will find succour for urself.

Op toast one of her friends nah.prolly one of her friends don dey eye u in secret.

Op toast one of her friends nah.prolly one of her friends don dey eye u in secret.

Diamonddris:
My name is Diamond, and I just had a new girl friend after breaking up with a very loving girl(my X.).




But the problem I have with this my new girl is that every time she comes visiting,she comes with two to three of her friends and this is so annoying.

Minus spending a lot of money to entertain the four of them,I dnt get any intimacy with my girl because of the presence of her friends..although the girl is very pretty..

When I asked her why she brings her friends to my house in all her visits, she told me that she wants them to see how handsome I am..when I told her that her reasons are ridiculous, she grew angry, and I love this girl...and she is not picking my calls for two days now.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do?

Am I in love? Or has STUPIDITY taken over ME?

All these hilarious threads self. answer urslf biko

brunofarad:
Bros
What do u want us to tell u now ?

She definitely does not want u to .... U know na

But be smart.
Next time she comes with 3 of her friends make sure u are very sweet and friendly to her friends, then make sure u get their numbers even if u won't call them.









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Next time she will not allow those girls to near your house


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guy u correct die........if na me eh I no go vex o....next time she visits, she will meet a friend of hers in my house already waiting

Gals dat do dis kind of things are either immatured or small girls.

stupidity:
Yes, I have taken over you.
I now own you.

Hahahhahahahahha, the things I see on nairaland. My lord...

@op where your house dey? Make me and my guys come complete the number.

Oliviaarims:


I don't know what sort of advice u looking for o. This is a very simple issue. Be stern with her! Tell her u don't want her friends coming along with her, coz u've got no business with them. What does she hope to achieve with that, anyway? If she insists on still bringing them all the time, then I advise u break up with her. She doesn't love u enough and doesn't care about spending quality time with u alone.

If she's a new gf, as u say, then she should be very much concerned about building the relationship and getting to know each other better on some deep levels. Except she's simply not interested in u or a relationship with u.





I'm simply wondering what sort of friends follow a girl to her bf's house every time. They must be very silly!

or young just like the OP

amtaken:
No.

If they are both disciplined they can still have a pure relationship.

@amtaken, I'm glad peeps with ur thought pattern still exist. There's hope for part of the future then.

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Nice 1

brunofarad:
Bros
What do u want us to tell u now ?

She definitely does not want u to .... U know na

But be smart.
Next time she comes with 3 of her friends make sure u are very sweet and friendly to her friends, then make sure u get their numbers even if u won't call them.









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Shout out to those who never believed in us

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BROS
Next time she will not allow those girls to near your house


Come back and give us ur testimony

Nigga you nailed it!!!!!!!

INVITE HER OVER AGAIN N IF SHE COME ALONG WTH 2 FRIENDS U CALL 2 OF UR PALS OVER. THEN SHARE D GIRLS AMONG UR FRIENDS BY DEN EVERYONE WILL BE BUSY

Diamonddris:
My name is Diamond, and I just had a new girl friend after breaking up with a very loving girl(my X.).




But the problem I have with this my new girl is that every time she comes visiting,she comes with two to three of her friends and this is so annoying.

Minus spending a lot of money to entertain the four of them,I dnt get any intimacy with my girl because of the presence of her friends..although the girl is very pretty..

When I asked her why she brings her friends to my house in all her visits, she told me that she wants them to see how handsome I am..when I told her that her reasons are ridiculous, she grew angry, and I love this girl...and she is not picking my calls for two days now.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do?

Am I in love? Or has STUPIDITY taken over ME?

How old is she and how old are you? She seems like a girl still in High School, because even if her reason(s) for coming along with her friends is to prevent you from getting intimate with her, there are more mature ways of going about it.

And also on your part, hope you don't make her feel like you just want to get under her pant? Coz I can relate with that feeling and it's sometimes irritating, especially when it's a new relationship.

My advice to you is if you duo are able to settle your differences, I'd suggest you call her on phone since she wont come alone to your place and convince her that if she's worried you'd try to get intimate with her, that you promise you won't and please keep to your word when she finally comes over, there's time for everything! I believe a time to get intimate will come when you duo now know and understand yourselves better.
And if that doesn't work out, please move on, she wants to take you for a ride.

#my 2 cent

Diamonddris:
My name is Diamond, and I just had a new girl friend after breaking up with a very loving girl(my X.).




But the problem I have with this my new girl is that every time she comes visiting,she comes with two to three of her friends and this is so annoying.

Minus spending a lot of money to entertain the four of them,I dnt get any intimacy with my girl because of the presence of her friends..although the girl is very pretty..

When I asked her why she brings her friends to my house in all her visits, she told me that she wants them to see how handsome I am..when I told her that her reasons are ridiculous, she grew angry, and I love this girl...and she is not picking my calls for two days now.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do?

Am I in love? Or has STUPIDITY taken over ME?

next time they're coming follow arrange three of ya niggas keep too. Very simple

brunofarad:
Bros
What do u want us to tell u now ?

She definitely does not want u to .... U know na

But be smart.
Next time she comes with 3 of her friends make sure u are very sweet and friendly to her friends, then make sure u get their numbers even if u won't call them.









In other news

Shout out to those who never believed in us

LOOK WHERE WE ARE

2016 sighted

MORE BLESSINGS

BROS
Next time she will not allow those girls to near your house


Come back and give us ur testimony

Sharp guy

Opiosko:
U try but u need to wisen up small. Those girls will see these acts for what it is, an attempt to make them jealous. Op should just pretend he does not know what's going on, collects all their contacts and starts seeing em one by one secretly. I bet u he will be screwing at least 2 of those bitches in 3 weeks time. Those hoes ain't loyal even to themselves.

You know, the op wants the babe alone, and not the friends. If he wanted to screw any of the friends, he should den go secretly.
The friends that are silly enough to have time to follow her to such a place would not be smart enough all of a sudden to turn down some calculated diverted attentions.

HeavenlyBang:



Don't tell her to stop bringing her friends, she'll only get defensive. Let her bring her friends. When they come, ignore her and focus on one of the friends. Girls are naturally jealous, it's pretty easy to get your girlfriend's friend to like you (assuming you're not a fvck up negra and she hasn't been casting you to them). Anyway, don't be sexual in your advances towards her friend, just make her laugh and stuff like that, give her your full attention.
I promise you Bae won't talk to you for like three days. Ignore her. After a while, start calling her and stuff. Act as if you didn't know you did anything o. Just be normal. After everything blows over (5-6 days after the visit), tell bae to come over, she'll probably come alone this time.

When she comes over, it's your choice on whether to not be chill with her or not. You can either choose to not be sexual with her to get her more comfortable with being with you alone, or if you're confident in your knacking skills, jam am anyhow. She'll be coming alone from then on.

Diamonddris, this is the best advice for you here

Start flirting with one of her friends, don't go all the way though; just to let her know the danger of having her friends come too close

Oliviaarims:


I don't know what sort of advice u looking for o. This is a very simple issue. Be stern with her! Tell her u don't want her friends coming along with her, coz u've got no business with them. What does she hope to achieve with that, anyway? If she insists on still bringing them all the time, then I advise u break up with her. She doesn't love u enough and doesn't care about spending quality time with u alone.

If she's a new gf, as u say, then she should be very much concerned about building the relationship and getting to know each other better on some deep levels. Except she's simply not interested in u or a relationship with u.





I'm simply wondering what sort of friends follow a girl to her bf's house every time. They must be very silly!

she is afraid of fulfulling the deal she has signed....lol.
'Umutakiri-hood' dey wori dem

oya see opportunity...u need to dey poki all of dem

HeavenlyBang:



Don't tell her to stop bringing her friends, she'll only get defensive. Let her bring her friends. When they come, ignore her and focus on one of the friends. Girls are naturally jealous, it's pretty easy to get your girlfriend's friend to like you (assuming you're not a fvck up negra and she hasn't been casting you to them). Anyway, don't be sexual in your advances towards her friend, just make her laugh and stuff like that, give her your full attention.
I promise you Bae won't talk to you for like three days. Ignore her. After a while, start calling her and stuff. Act as if you didn't know you did anything o. Just be normal. After everything blows over (5-6 days after the visit), tell bae to come over, she'll probably come alone this time.

When she comes over, it's your choice on whether to not be chill with her or not. You can either choose to not be sexual with her to get her more comfortable with being with you alone, or if you're confident in your knacking skills, jam am anyhow. She'll be coming alone from then on.


Edit: My first time on a Nairaland front page. Mama, do you see me now? Your son has finally made it. All your prayers in my life are bearing fruit. Mama, God go bless you.

Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaadddddddddddddddddddddooooooooooooooo!!!!
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choi!!!

no wonder your name is heavenlybang

stupidity:
Yes, I have taken over you. I now own you.

Lol... crazy people everywhere

QueenValerie:
You want the results of your advice -she'll break up with him.Op tell her you want to spend time alone with her.And if this poster I'm quoiting is right make her feel comfortable when you do get her alone,don't make her feel like your gonna maul her.You might run her away.Be patient with her,love is patient. [ That's likely not the case she probably doesn't want to spend time alone with him because she thinks he might try to sex her and she's not comfortable with that idea yet
And she likely wants to do all of this.But doesn't want to be alone so there's no pressure for sex.The relationship is new,it's still young/early yet.

maybe she is not old enough 2 be in a relationship and maybe u are very young too,i mean maybe u guys are teens!if so infact she should even come wit her parent oo cos d rate wey dos teens dey get belle nw na wahala

Diamonddris:
My name is Diamond, and I just had a new girl friend after breaking up with a very loving girl(my X.).




But the problem I have with this my new girl is that every time she comes visiting,she comes with two to three of her friends and this is so annoying.

Minus spending a lot of money to entertain the four of them,I dnt get any intimacy with my girl because of the presence of her friends..although the girl is very pretty..

When I asked her why she brings her friends to my house in all her visits, she told me that she wants them to see how handsome I am..when I told her that her reasons are ridiculous, she grew angry, and I love this girl...and she is not picking my calls for two days now.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do?

Am I in love? Or has STUPIDITY taken over ME?

You've said it all bro. STUPIDITY has taken over you.

Foxie has actually said all I intend saying.
I think she's still a girl cos even if u dnt want a sexual relationship yet there are more matured ways of doing dat rather than bringing all ur girlfriends along. My advise is that u shud be calm, talk to her about it, let her tell u the reason then u both shud come to an agreement. My own sha.

Yello1:
maybe she is not old enough 2 be in a relationship and maybe u are very young too,i mean maybe u guys are teens!if so infact she should even come wit her parent oo cos d rate wey dos teens dey get belle nw na wahala

I'm 22 so old enough.Teens date too you know and it's all the more reason the Op should take care with the Lady

Diamonddris:
My name is Diamond, and I just had a new girl friend after breaking up with a very loving girl(my X.).




But the problem I have with this my new girl is that every time she comes visiting,she comes with two to three of her friends and this is so annoying.

Minus spending a lot of money to entertain the four of them,I dnt get any intimacy with my girl because of the presence of her friends..although the girl is very pretty..

When I asked her why she brings her friends to my house in all her visits, she told me that she wants them to see how handsome I am..when I told her that her reasons are ridiculous, she grew angry, and I love this girl...and she is not picking my calls for two days now.

Please Nairalanders, what should I do?

Am I in love? Or has STUPIDITY taken over ME?

Smart move- Run a stealth Iron-man sharp man parole on one of her friends, (a beautiful one though.) Invite her to your house and tell her to come alone- you'll be surprised by what you see. Do all these in a fortnight.

Ur stupidity knows no bound..