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Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Memejem: 7:21pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Which religious responsibility? It even states in the Bible that it is good for man to remain to himself. Only because of sexuality that marriage was given to man. If you want to get married no wahala. But stop claiming that it was forced upon you by God Omotayor123: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by amicable09(f): 7:22pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
menxer:menxer, you made a good point but not all ladies had this problem of subconscious programming. I believe some men have to work on themselves first before proposing marriage to any lady. Their poor hygiene can be a turn off! I don't understand why young men won't get necessary grooming products and look good before approaching a lady. With or without any programming, she most definitely will say no. No lady fantasize about marrying a man who isn't clean. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Teespice(f): 7:25pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Chukzyfcb: sorry ooo. will this opinion of yours be different if it came from a female? all I want is a yes or no answer no long story. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
sukkot:I've observed you ain't really interested by women. Meanwhile a lot of them were and still are trying to get at you, but you just showed no interest ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Excellentmind: 7:32pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Op, your ranting won't change the fact that marriage in Nigeria and beyond makes those involve responsible. There is no amount of success you will attain in the society without contributing to reproduction and impacting of moral principles for the sustainability of the society that will make the society judge you successful. So, if you are not married, you had better do it now before it's late. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Chukzyfcb(m): 7:33pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Teespice:Ofcourse it'll be different, even if it was from a male it could be different too.....THIS IS MY OWN OPINION AND NO ONE ELSE |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Teespice(f): 7:34pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Chukzyfcb: I hear you. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Godsonkemz(m): 7:36pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
A woman can never be successful without that fulfilment marriage gives knowing pretty well that someone cares for her and she's someone's special (not baby papa) It brings out that happiness in her and a sense of emotional calmness being cared for because no matter her wealth, she needs a man. Likewise men though we men have so many alternatives. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by sukkot: 7:38pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
LoJ:lol first off, long distance relationships dont work so there really is no need to pursue any online relationship. now if i am fully back in nigeria ? it may be a different issue, but right now, i try to be as realistic as possible and reality is that any woman who is in a long-distance relationship is also getting caned by some local dude lol. no woman is out there waiting for one guy. they will sleep around. its an instant gratification world we live in. thats reality and i am a realist. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Originalsly: 7:41pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Hmmm...what makes a woman successful? ....are we thinking in terms of material riches?....in terms of academic success?... or in terms of living comfortably while enjoying their purpose on earth ....starting a new family? I have never ever met a woman who #1...does not want to ever give birth and #2...does not want to be married. But then there are many that marry just to get the status....if marrying a monkey was legal they would jump to it and still be looking down on the single ladies as if they were ehmmm....word rhyming with who. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by AVRecruit: 7:43pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
amicable09: You need to realize that the world is operating upside down now. EVERY GIRL has a window of marriage opportunity; a time where she has many suitors... Modern feminism has taught women to ignore this window or use it for boyfriends.... So she is not supposed to marry herself but rather is a victim of modern feminist culture. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by doskie(m): 7:44pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
mynd1:its not my dear. in asia there is something they call hired husbands. people pay men to escort them to social functions where they will be seen as their suitors. we are aware that our yahoo boys often scam british and American girls with marriage proposals and many go abroad and get green cards through fake marriages. it is a human need that we cannot just wake away one morning because 50cent and davido did it like that. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Atlantian: 7:45pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
sukkot:Your comparison is flawed, even by common-sense standard. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
sukkot:There was a typing mistake. I meant, the reason why they are so much after you. There is even one of them who wanted to commit suicide because you didn't care much about her ![]() But anyway, I appreciate that. It's good to have self discipline. As for the women, I guess no. They are some women who are faithful. Of course they are rare, like anything valuable, but there are. But I digress. Top of the evening to you sire! |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Creamish(f): 7:46pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
anwo247: ...a member of the stereotypical society we speak of.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Tobium1(m): 7:47pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Dis is Africa, dis is nigeria, hence as a lady/woman/girl/ho your success is not complete if u don't have a legitimate man to make u a Mrs. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Originalsly: 7:48pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
sukkot:Hmmm....I just want to disagree with you.....I'll be right back when I can think up a good defense on behalf of the ladies. In the mean time...don't hold yur breath. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Omotayor123(f): 7:49pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
skytreader:Both ![]() |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by femliany(m): 7:49pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
When you go to the mountains to pray there you will know that few people pray for money,visa etc but majority pray for marriage breakthrough overthere so my OP,money does not guarantee marriage@ll not even the happy one |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Savigne(f): 7:49pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
skytreader:If more people thought this way,the world will be a happier place. One of my favourite quote goes thus; Minding one's business is a full-time job and everyone should stay employed. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Omotayor123(f): 7:51pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
neoapocalypse:I don't know about the Bible... Saying from Islamic point of view! |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by AVRecruit: 7:52pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
amicable09: your comment shows your superficiality and why you are still probably single. If he is poorly groomed, groom him that is why you are the wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by sukkot: 7:52pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
LoJ:yup I can lmao. it is what it is. but you know like I said - my location at this present dispensation of time is remote so i am just not going to raise anyones hopes for nothing. but you know its nothing wrong with internet fantasies we all have em. the dating world is virtual. welcome to the 21st century brother and top of the evening to you too Sire ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Savigne(f): 7:52pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
skytreader:If more people thought this way,the world will be a happier place. One of my favourite quote goes thus; Minding one's business is a full-time job and everyone should stay employed... |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by joseph1832(m): 7:55pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Creamish:I believe the individual is just airing his view. Not everybody is gifted with a free mind. |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by blessedfavoured: 7:59pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
cruzita: this!!! i've noticed the ones that taunt single ladies are actually the ones with the worst marriage. that explains the bitterness. I don't know if it's because they're jealous you're living your life, or because you're not suffering like them. especially the ones that rushed to marry because everybody is marrying, despite knowing the guy is the wrong one. I've noticed that the ones that are truly enjoying their marriage have no time to be asking "where your man at". 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Tobium1: Therefore if the woman doesn't find any man she likes, she should end up feeling not successful just for that sole reason. I bow for una. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Laygos(m): 8:02pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Omotayor123: like wtf!!! where did yu get this reasoning from ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by sukkot: 8:03pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Originalsly:yeah just make it quick cuz i aint getting any younger. ![]() |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Creamish(f): 8:03pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
joseph1832: Ah well... |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
abbey621: As much as a married woman with kids can be unhappy, as much can a 40-year-old unmarried woman without kids be happy. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Use Marriage As A Means To Insult Single Successful Women? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Feb 23, 2016 |
Men really have much to suffer in this world. First, they have to accept responsibility for their own failings and at the same time answer for why women struggle in their own lives. It's always a man's fault and women are supposedly the better half, as well as the disadvantaged specie of the both sexes. What a terrible attitude from the African woman feminist wannabe. 1 Like |
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