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Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 5:13pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj:Dearest Ominirajj u knew all of the above and still went ahead to marry him? Hmm. .how do we fit in now? Anyways Jst talk to him though, how important it is for u to follow ur passion. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Reference(m): 5:19pm On May 28, 2017 |
sekundosekundo: Oh, prayer has its part, grace, faith, etc, but you have to work things to work. Like I said, it is not a matter of pretence but of agreement. If you pretend to want something but agree on another you are still obliged. No man can read another man's mind. Marraige is not sentiments. It is agreement. The Bible says, 'can two work together except they agree'. People change but what they agreed to remains. For most courtship is a fun period. Real courtship is no fun I tell you. This is where most people start to get 'disappointed' about the person they propose to marry and expectations are reset but others gloss over it and prefer to know the whole package when it is too late. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by onlinepay: 5:21pm On May 28, 2017 |
... ominirajj: |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Jeze: 5:35pm On May 28, 2017 |
My dear, listen to your husband. If truly you married the man your desired and loved. You should be able to trust him as he leads and you follow faithfully. That's is if you want to still remains his wife or be the husband and lead the family, let him follow. Who is the head in the family? If i may ask. Maybe, you think are. Respect your husband o. My advice to ladies and he would honour you the wife. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by raphy(m): 5:36pm On May 28, 2017 |
This na serious case o.. Some people here said the right thing.if you. Know ya husband is stoping ya dreams you need to think if you married him very well .so.e men are very jelouse .you should have known him very well during dating times ..I pray he will change and become a good husband.takecare sister n continue to sing 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by ehimon: 5:37pm On May 28, 2017 |
Be patient madam,be submissive. Again try to inquire from him why he is saying no to all your suggestions |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Abfinest007(m): 5:40pm On May 28, 2017 |
go call Antonio Joshua mak him beat am |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by cj1900: 5:46pm On May 28, 2017 |
Dear Poster, You have acted very unwisely and you are about to set yourself on fire. If you need advice on family problems, find a wife and mother who is more mature than you are, or go to your pastor is you have a good one. This forum is the worst place on earth to seek for such advice and you will find all sorts of answers but I assure you that you will end up with more harm than good. Meanwhile, I wont let my wife to work in a hotel. I wont let my wife go for night vigils. The chances are high that I may also not want my wife to become a hair dresser cos that's where all the gossips in the world builds its home. Our wives, you ppl should pls help us. It is not always rosy, understanding is the key. Find the kind of job that will give him peace of mind and you too will be happy.. Stop looking for hotel and night jobs, it is not very suitable for responsible married women 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by efficiencie(m): 6:04pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: Well congratulations!!! You are now really married and the reality of marriage has trumped the fantasies of a fancy pre-wedding photo shoot and glamorous wedding...as for your challenge, you have two options; the first is to seek a divorce and join the fast growing club of divorcees or seek the one person who alone has the ability to change the hearts of mankind, GOD! If your choice is the later, then stay out of trouble, accept his opinion for now (for peace sake), pray to GOD concerning your obstinate husband asking GOD to deal with any agent or factor making your husband an obstacle to the fulfillment of your purpose on earth, develop your mental and spiritual prowess while you wait on GOD...and again I say "stay out of direct confrontation with your husband" and let GOD himself do the confronting... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:17pm On May 28, 2017 |
sekundosekundo:God bless you...I respect ur comment so much and d most mature so far.....IF don't understand y people keep basing successful marriage on long courtship....it doesn't dat way....d simple ingredient is what u have alighted... sincerity....nothing more 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:26pm On May 28, 2017 |
cj1900:u are blessed...very good response 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Anusiemgood(m): 6:32pm On May 28, 2017 |
femolacqua:what do you mean pastor |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Klington: 6:34pm On May 28, 2017 |
That guy doesn't have any iota of trust in you. Sort that out. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:35pm On May 28, 2017 |
@OP, just to clarify the violent and bullying part. Has your hubby hit you or threatened to physically hit you (this is evil) Or is he just Verbally insultive (which is also bad).please d husband is not insecured....who will allow a married woman to work in a hotel.? who goes to night vigil with rampant case of pastor molesting deir female followers.? what about ritualist dat can carry out their havoc on her way home.? what about rapists(Area boys or Agberos) hiding around at night.? Look I always tell people to use their brain oool.. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:41pm On May 28, 2017 |
Oyindidi: please d husband is not insecured....who will allow a married woman to work in a hotel.? who goes to night vigil with rampant case of pastor molesting deir female followers.? what about ritualist dat can carry out their havoc on her way home.? what about rapists(Area boys or Agberos) hiding around at night.? Look I always tell people to use their brain oool.. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Oyindidi(f): 6:42pm On May 28, 2017 |
Fourwinds:Then he should be paying her monthly |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:42pm On May 28, 2017 |
Pidgin2: please d husband is not insecured....who will allow a married woman to work in a hotel.? who goes to night vigil with rampant case of pastor molesting deir female followers.? what about ritualist dat can carry out their havoc on her way home.? what about rapists(Area boys or Agberos) hiding around at night.? Look I always tell people to use their brain oool.. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 6:45pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: I first of all went through your past posts to have an inclination as to who you are.Am sorry but your husband has a good point for being a "pain" in your neck...you are not a composed women even by your choice of words Am not insulting you ,am simply stating my observation based on your past words.I also have a feeling that you do insult him or throw harsh rude comments at him 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:48pm On May 28, 2017 |
Oyindidi:d truth of d matter is dat there is/are work this woman can still do dat will not cause commotion...she should look inward or let her tell d husband to suggest.....look I'm a keen observer...I know women in my area dat once it is 5pm dey must close their shops to go home... 1... it serves such women of being raped or killed by ritualist.. 2..they meet up with domestic work at home .,I.e cooking etc... 3....d children are not completing cut of from d mother/parent before bed time. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Lucasinho(m): 6:52pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: And HolY Bible said ''Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands...'' He paid ur Bride price...He owns U...no matter what.. For better, for Worst... |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:54pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: please d husband is not insecured....who will allow a married woman to work in a hotel.? who goes to night vigil with rampant case of pastor molesting deir female followers.? what about ritualist dat can carry out their havoc on her way home.? what about rapists(Area boys or Agberos) hiding around at night.? Look I always tell people to use their brain oool.. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:55pm On May 28, 2017 |
babythug: please d husband is not insecured....who will allow a married woman to work in a hotel.? who goes to night vigil with rampant case of pastor molesting deir female followers.? what about ritualist dat can carry out their havoc on her way home.? what about rapists(Area boys or Agberos) hiding around at night.? Look I always tell people to use their brain oool.. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 6:59pm On May 28, 2017 |
jauntty:another beautiful comment...I like ur analysis |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 7:01pm On May 28, 2017 |
PaperLace: please d husband is not insecured....who will allow a married woman to work in a hotel.? who goes to night vigil with rampant case of pastor molesting deir female followers.? what about ritualist dat can carry out their havoc on her way home.? what about rapists(Area boys or Agberos) hiding around at night.? Look I always tell people to use their brain oool.. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by kizzoh(m): 7:05pm On May 28, 2017 |
sekundosekundo:You did not see her pant until after the wedding abi? But when u checked after the wedding, you found out she has been showcasing her pants to other people before you. Who ur story esp? |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 7:06pm On May 28, 2017 |
Fourwinds:Use your own head first. The husband is insecure, simple! If it were a woman stopping her husband from doing this and that _would we be having this discussion? Don't bother answering... |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 7:06pm On May 28, 2017 |
mastermaestro:God bless u my guy....a lot of women don't know dat marriage comes with restriction...y will u want ur husband home early and not late at nite...will u call dat possessiveness or insecurity.? people just come online and jump to conclusion dat she/he insecure....better know when to use dat word 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 7:08pm On May 28, 2017 |
PaperLace: ..a lot of men and women don't know dat marriage comes with restriction...y will u want ur husband home early and not late at nite...will u call dat possessiveness or insecurity.? people just come online and jump to conclusion dat she/he insecure....better know when to use dat word...d ring on ur finger after marriage., what does it mean? it is a chain dat u belong to one individual only from dat day on....namely sexually., emotionally., spiritually... u think u have d freedom to do whatever u like.? bros it is better u don't marry if u don't want such restrictions |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Nobody: 7:16pm On May 28, 2017 |
Fourwinds:You're beginning to sound off. I'm jumping to conclusion because I called the man insecure, people that accused her of being wayward didn't jump to conclusion. If my husband wants to go for a night vigil, my only concern would be his safety. If my concern moves from safety to he could be sleeping with another woman, that's insecurity and lack of trust. If I stop my husband from acquiring a skill _wrong. If I stop my husband from going to gym _wrong. If I keep kicking against every single idea my husband brings without giving him any valuable advise, I have issues! I'm sure if this were a man,she should be happy...after all he is going to feed her lazy bum with the money. Now, don't quote me again. You have been going about agreeing with people that said what you want to hear. This is my own opinion, deal with it. |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by bencarson007(m): 7:18pm On May 28, 2017 |
ominirajj: Bedrock of any marriage should be trust and understanding and those two are the definition of love. You can't claim to love someone and not trust them. Your husband is insecure... I hate to suscribe to the point that he is over protective. He is selfish and insecure and if you say you have never been wayward, I believe you. I once dated a lady that always asks me why I am not jealous about it when she takes male calls in my presence, and do other stuff... I just told her that I trust her and she knows the right thing to do...so no need me forcing her to do anything she does not want. Believe me, she respects me a lot till this day. It is called maturity. Your husband is Insecure Selfish And immature. Imagine trying to learn a trade and he stops you, got a job, he stops you... Very soon he will stop you from eating, making your hair, eating certain foods cos he sees negatives in them. Madam, your husband don fail the first and only rule of marriage success which is Happy wife = Happy life. Better call ur family and pastor to talk some sense into him b4 u guys head for the wall of disaster... 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by Fourwinds: 7:20pm On May 28, 2017 |
PaperLace:ur opinion kwa.!!! please look for dat man dat u will list all these for. before u get married to him ok....eat ur cake and still have it...goid bye |
Re: My Husband Has Become A Pain In My Neck by todaynewsreview: 7:22pm On May 28, 2017 |
cj1900: If ONLY she will listen to you. She's set to ruin her happiness already. A fly that is set to die will not listen to advise. I only pray she will see reason with this advice. |
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