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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 8:06pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Freeman59:I am really suprised that people liked that comment.. This shows how Nigerians are so ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Ishilove: 8:06pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Sanchez01:All suppositions. It's her money and she reserves the right to do what she pleases with it. She says he has made the money back so why doesn't he want to return it?? 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by TundeHashim(m): 8:06pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Tapout:By Nigerian law, that's illegal. Criminal responsibility is the basis of criminal liability and as such, he's mother can NOT be criminally liable for an act she's not criminally responsible for. On relationship advice, many have said so much and she's free to choose from any BUT on a strictly legal note, I'll advice she get a debt recovery attorney to help her with her suit. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
focus on ur marriage first |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 8:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
rosalieene: Will you calm down. Both of them are wrong as hell. The guy might have his reasons. Failing to communicate it is wrong. The lady too is also wrong because "he is not picking my calls after I gave him 500k to pay back" is one of the most stupid reasons I've ever heard. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
NowisGod109: Yes o...Lol... you're right.... guys that haven't seen 20k, that's why they have so much hate on the matter 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Ishilove: 8:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
nkwuocha:You have spoken my mind. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Op, mistake number one: dont ever, i mean ever borrow your boyfriend or fiance or husband money. Dash out money u can afford to loose, without feeling bad. Borrowing money kills relationships and marriage. Your fiance will never give u the money back. Just kiss the 500k goodbye. But i wonder your kind of person sha No man in nigeria will boast he has ever borrowed his gf such money. They are always claiming broke. Always claiming am i your father? Girls are gold diggers but theh are so quick to play the emotional card, come up with abuisness plan to make you empty your savings on them. Well this is learning process for u on your next relationship. Dont ever borrow money instead dash. Next time, you wil always claim broke, like most men do these days. And give out just the right amout u can remove eye from. What a pity. Youve been played. 7 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by otunba88(m): 8:07pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
TheRealestGuy: You ave spoken wisely. Most ladies outside now re demons. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by amazingspiderma: 8:08pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
From a business point of view he asked for 1m and you provided 500k, thanks. In a business, entrepreneurs usually require a given amount to break even.It is from this that they can maximize profits and pay debt or other outstanding cost. Remember you gave him only 500kband didn't provide the balance. Are you sure he did not source for fund elsewhere since you didn't provide him the balance. You agreed to terms which you didn't meet up with him and now you want you money back. Something tells me you will get your money, but I hope that will not be the last time, you will here from him. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Sterope(f): 8:08pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
If you were more than the phone, you would have returned it at the agreed date and time. You wouldn't have borrowed the phone to begin with. If you also had any shred of humility, you wouldn't have taken offence over a property that is not yours. If you had integrity, you would have kept to your word. A girl does not need to be above 30 to NOT be a prodigal child. It is her property. She can shout from morning to night over it. It is none of your business. Please return her phone to her. EMMAUGOH: 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by NowisGod109(f): 8:08pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:By their words we shall know them broke asses 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by humilitypays(m): 8:08pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Nigerian women will never fail! Lol Ordinary 500k and the whole Nigeria must be aware she helped her boyfriend! Meagre 500k Nigerian guys spend in taking their girlfriends out a day, Naija men has suffered sha ![]() ![]() Millions of Nigerian guys pay their girlfriends/fiancées school fees, house rents, etc running into millions and nobody gets to hear about it! For your info, consider the relationship gone cos the guy if he is an enlightened young man, must have read this thread and he has canceled u from his heart, and yes, u deserve it because u feel as a typical Nigerian lady u are, lending your lover 500k is way too much and makes u a rich lady lol Black ladies are really stingy, wicked and so mean sha, lesson young men must learn 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 8:08pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ishilove: She's insinuating that he has made the money back. She's not sure for a fact 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 8:09pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: Pass jamb ke? How that one take concern my Meat selling business? ![]() ![]() You "educated" Nigerians sef. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Sterope(f): 8:09pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Why don't you read the op's post again? It doesn't seem like you have the ability to understand what you read. TheRealestGuy: 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Josephamstrong1(m): 8:10pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Why bring this here?
Women self.
Mitschww. 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Ishilove: 8:10pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Oluwaseyi00:Don't mind him. That's why I asked the question because it is obvious his intentions are impure ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Linux007(m): 8:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
YelloweWest:And some broke girls suddenly have an opinion. Come back and advise us when u have a responsible entrepreneur boyfriend u can 500k to run a business. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Sterope(f): 8:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
I am not going to judge because I feel there may even more to what she has written however whether or not he has made the money back, he should have communicated that to her. thesuave10: 5 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 8:11pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
alexialin: Take note she gave him part of the money, what if he sourced the remaining from somewhere else and has to pay them back first plus his workers. What if business is not moving. Just swerve. Immee read this |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by OTEGA1: 8:12pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
I guess she's an Ibo girl looking for every opportunity to collect. She only invested cos of returns not cos of helping d business stand.. It's weird a guy with a recycling plant will run away with ur 500k.. Are u saying his biz not up to 500k.. Dear forget about the money let it be a seed u sowed into up s company u are more interested in d money dan ur relationship... I pray u get wisdom |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by centoke30(m): 8:12pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Immee:when was the last time you guys talked about yourselves and business? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
NowisGod109: Seriously it's pretty obvious, way too glaring... the country needs help, if majority of men are stuck beneath average,who shall deliver us...if a man doesn't have money, at least he should have worth, tall words and pretend he has, it's annoying to see how cheap some words are///no class atall, people can't be coy and pretend... ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by okerekeikpo: 8:12pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Did you tell us b4 giving him? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by tosyne2much(m): 8:13pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Shey you know when you're basing your judgment upon hearing one side of a story, you shouldn't view things from a narrow and limited worldview? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Blackhawk01: 8:13pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Somewhat selfish and she lent him her own money? Do you guys read threads upsidedown or what? Dude brought up the idea of an interest not the babe, stop trying to pin this on her. Put the gender aside, let's make Op MrX, how would you have him deal with this. If I lend you 100naira with you promising to give it back at a particular time, failure to do so without you giving me reasons will put a strain on our relationship. Don't give promises, you can't keep. This is total dishonesty, nonchalant attitude, ungratefulness, two faced ediotism(pardon me) on his part. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Ishilove: 8:13pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
thesuave10:How do we know that she's not sure? She is the one interacting with him and knows the business. Besides it doesn't explain why he has stopped picking her calls. Look, she's human. What would you do if you were in her shoes? 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 8:14pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Sterope: Agreed.. But he may have his reasons which I'm as much as it is inappropriate they stand a chance to be very understandable .the issue is that how she wants to handle it is fûcking absurd |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Chukwumajr(m): 8:14pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
I think you don't love him, u just like his personality, he was very sinsere with u as regards d intention for d money, which he encounter issues in d first place n u help with d experts that fix it, that's highly commendable, remember u are suppose to help him with a million naira n u end up giving half of that forgetting that, that will affect d investment because he most have done proper calculations on d amount require to hit d ground rolling , he's avoiding your calls because u are asking him to pay u back as quickly as possible, without asking to no how business is going, n with that your putting him under pressure, n he least expect that from a woman that claim to love him, even bank give time for payment n even even made imquirimg to no how there investment is going , n remember u borrow money to a man u said u love n ask for interest during payment, that's very strange, well u don't love him after all, n he knows that now by d pressure your making him go tru withiou letting him to start making profit, he will pay u, I believe he's looking for somewhere to borrow to pay u to free himself from u. 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much: abeg bros... you get hatred for women, look at how you went straight for her...she asked for advice and not judgement. 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Damilaresimon25: Exactly my thoughts 1 Like |
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