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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by YelloweWest: 8:27pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
alexialin:I'm telling u! Hungry bastards! They have no shame. No sense of pride as young men. Back in the day it was every man's goal to be successful. But know we have young men just looking for every possible means to milk a hard working girl dry. Just imagine the comments. The op gave her bf 500k with the promise that he will payback. Since then he stopped taking her calls and is acting up. Isn't it obvious that the guy is a scam? 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Sterope(f): 8:27pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
True. It could be the manner of apporach but before we starr blaming money lenders, the duty to communicate should be on the one who borrower not the money lender. I hope they settle the issue amicably.. thesuave10: 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by omoelerin1: 8:27pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
eeewise:you spoilt your good advice with the statement, ' involve a soldier friend' |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by tosyne2much(m): 8:27pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
WORLDPEACE:This relationship is already dead bro. Trust me! 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Aunty lawyer....pity our brothers please...these words are too heavy, they'll crash the site... 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 8:28pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
EMMAUGOH: Hey bro,nobody is forcing you to share.That's why I don't advice any man to train a lady in school,marry her first then she can school from your home,to avoid stories that touch like we read all the time. First,this was a loan with business interest.This is strictly business, no sentiments. I don't believe in that getting married this yr and next yr Shiite.I bet she gave him the money based on the fact she planned getting married to him in the first place. This issue is easy believe me.The guy is complicating this issue with his lack of maturity, that's if he is honest.I see absolutely no need to ignore her calls .That's an error!Again,how come they are not seeing each other for weeks?What kind of relationship is that to start with? If he has got nothing up his sleeves,he should make himself readily available like a man/lover should. What's the big deal in owing anyway? 5 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by haywhyy(m): 8:28pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ninethmare: I like this... GOD bless you and expand your knowledge 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by YelloweWest: 8:28pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Whatever |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 8:29pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: Read my previous comments. Dude is fûcking wrong for not explaining at least to an extent Even tho his reasons will me understandable . Now that he has failed to do right thing, the lady has made an even bigger error by threatening to end the relationship. Now what is even crazier are the reasons fûcking phone calls? Like it doesn't it get more weird. So swerve |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
thesuave10:Please, shut up!. You've been quoting people upandan with your biased opinion. They had an agreement he'd remit her account weekly, when she failed to get what they agreed upon she called his line, he didn't pick. She sent messages, he didn't reply. If you loan someone money and gets treated this way, what would be the first thing that'll occur to you?. What kind of communication are you referring to when the debtor is avoiding any communication with her?. Use your brain. 5 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: Okay o. So you can't greet again...No wahala... |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by NoToPile: 8:30pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Silly people everywhere as usual they must blame the woman. When I say nairalanders have comprehension issues it seems I exaggerate . It seems people didn't read where she said things have returned back to normal in the company after the engineers worked on the problem. No explanations , not picking calls is a bad signal and shows signs of irresponsibility, I wouldn't advice anyone to marry such a person Madam OP your 500k has dissapeared , count your losses, try to get the little you can get back . Some people are saying ordinary 500k as if they can lend it out 10k that they lend someone they will be screaming to the heavens. Nonsense. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
You need to be patient with him, he will pay you back your money, just give him time to stabilize, after all he is your fiance. Immee 1 Like |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pedrilo: 8:31pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
YelloweWest:sorry, u sound like a liability woman! ur sis, ur husband, everybody spending on u, who u help? 5 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 8:31pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
nkwuocha: Guy read my previous comments. End a relationship because he is not picking calls? But they're texting o and he said he'll pay her back just that he didn't give a specific date. Nigga swerve |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by YelloweWest: 8:31pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Abeg you guys should man up! I know it's not easy but nothing good is ever easy in life. What makes a man is his ability to provide for his dependants. This will never change. That's how God made it. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
kimbraa: Help us tell them o, what they see is Nigerian girls are greedy, very sooon these guys will be crossing the border over to Cotonou to take up wives.. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by iceybux(m): 8:31pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
chynie: but when a guys gives its ohk abi... do u knw hw many foolish girl a guy has invested on and yet they go on with some other niqqa and the guy never complain abt yhe money.. now just few weeks and ahe already sayin she could quit the relationship bcus of money... its obvious she was hlpin bcus marriage was involved and not geunie love.. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Blackhawk01: 8:32pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Yeah, you did which is quite unusual. Why? Because your man is the guilty one here I don't care about the mumu relationship between them, dude disregarded that relationship the moment he failed to keep to his words and kept his mouth shut about it. This could have been avoided if he kept updating her about the whole issue, you know that right? 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by humilitypays(m): 8:32pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
sambisa5:eh yaah, good analysis + advice. I now feel for the op if she is in this shoe as u explained above, unfair world 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Which one is i should shut up. Did i stratify myself before you ma'am? Yet another stereotype.. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Elcasper(m): 8:32pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
LifeofAirforce:yahoozee!!! yahoozee!!! Maga don pay |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Stefaniebo(f): 8:34pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Ladyfuckpussy:if you cannot help by giving any advice, then stop hate speech, this lady brought her matter here because she needs help |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by elantraceey(f): 8:34pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
I wonder the kind of relationship people go into these days. Do you love him at all? have you even ever loved him? If you didn't know the job he does I'll understand, if you didn't know where his company is located I'll understand, if he was jobless and lazy I would have reasoned with you but come on! You know this man, you've been to his company, you know the issues he's facing and rather than being a support to him at this you chose to add to his problems, I was him I won't even reply your text at all and break the relationship immediately after I'm able to pay you because there's no trust at all. How sure are you that he's finally stable now? Do you know if he incurred losses when he was out of production? You yourself admitted it was a big issue and you helped out (I think) mainly because your money is already involved not even because of him so you can't even say he planned that. You were supposed to understand that the circumstances when the agreement was reached changed hence I think that the reason why he couldn't meet up with what you both agreed on. I'll only advice you to get your mind off money, money is not all there is, send him a text message and apologize for your lack of trust and support then give him a call and if he's a good guy he'll apologize to you too for explaining things better , when you both reconcile, give him some time, weeks, months, whatever but don't put pressure on him, you'll get your man and your money that way, you don't need to lose any. 3 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig:Some have the temerity to call the girl "Callous". I swear!, Some people don't deserve help. 5 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
Immee: Some guys are very crafty oh,lead u up to d stage of marriage just to scam u.How come its after u gave him the money that he suddenly stopped pucking your calls?U took a huge risk by lending him such huge amount of money. I suggest you start looking for a way to collect the money back oh. Make up a pathetic story,tell him someone in your family is not feeling fine. Fake tears if possible. Let's see how he will respond. My humble suggestion. I hate it when guys try to scam ladies 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
thesuave10: My experience ke! I reject such experience! Have never borrowed any bf money, be it ex or recent. I rather dash than borrow.. I cant shout abeg And i cant start pursuing someone upandan But my female friends were the ones borrowing such huge amounts to their bfs when they were dating. One of. My female friends back then when she was single fainted in my office with tears after narrating how her bf back then stopped answering her calls after transferring 500k to him. Mehn she was a nervous wreck and to worsen the whole issue, the mother of the guy was then saying she cannot accept her as daughter inlaw cos she dreamt, she wont be a good wife to her son.. Na now, after collecting 500k the mum now knows she cant marry her son and her useless son stopped picking her calls. I just weak as she was crying and collapsed in my arms I had to quickly call my security guard and colleague to help carry her into my car and rushed her to the hospital. Mehn! It was terrible heartwrenching thing to see on my friend. I can never place myself in That's situation. Never! Anyways to cut story short .shes married now to one of his friend. And they are doing well. 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Blackhawk01: 8:37pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
supersystemsnig: Superpack Iyamm running away from you nii, before you'll borrow my money and run away first. How have yoh been? |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by lekonso: 8:37pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
All of you blaming this lady, you are all wicked. A guy borrows money from his girl, does he not owe her a duty to be transparent and let her know if he is still having problems with his machines and why he could not pay the dividends he promised? Why did he stop picking her calls? those are the things making the lady to suspect him. However i will advise the lady to dialogue with him. Lady, dialogue with your guy, try to find out what his problem is and why he has not been able to pay the dividends and why he has not been picking your calls. Sometimes it is not good to assume. It is better to find out what the problem is and be certain, instead of assuming. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Brugo(m): 8:37pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
The guy made a big mistake. He should never have borrowed from his girlfriend. Nigerian girls don't need to see their men in difficult situations because these babes of nowadays.... Guys, try not to let your babes see you vulnerable. |
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Daeylar(f): 8:37pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
rosalieene: Don't mind them, look at how hard some fools are trying to make it seem like the lady alone is at fault or both are at fault but of course with more blame going to the lady, Mtchhhhheeeeeeeewwwwww. NONSENSE. Very few are saying the truth that the guy is at fault,(thank God for those guys) but let it be a lady that did what the guy did now, you will see how they will come out in full force to condemn it, rubbish. 2 Likes |
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