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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by emperortony: 7:50am On Apr 11, 2018 |
Are you sure its her and not the money you really love ![]() 3 Likes
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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by emperortony: 7:50am On Apr 11, 2018 |
QAre you sure its her and not the money you really love ;
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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 7:50am On Apr 11, 2018 |
yeyerolling: what do you mean by bluff? |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 7:51am On Apr 11, 2018 |
emperortony: I love her. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by fancy4eve(f): 7:58am On Apr 11, 2018 |
Let's get sumtin straight here, wat an elder see siting down, even if u climb d tallest tree, u will not. my dear I go wit ur mum, we women pretend a lot, a desperado will do all it takes 2 get wat she want, after d marriage u will see her true character. Assuming d reverse is d case, u been rich nd she is not, my dear she will b humble 2 u for d rest of her lyf. Hv seen so many cases dat later end up in divorce all bcus d man does not hv a say in his house nd been use as rag. Pls tink twice b4 going into sumtin u will regret leta. 14 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 8:17am On Apr 11, 2018 |
prechbills1:go ahead with the marriage without her 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 8:19am On Apr 11, 2018 |
fancy4eve:this is a fallacy. Part of the reason africa is backward. Elders are not always right. My cousin was advised by family not to marry an igbo man cos of their culture. She listen bt as she no see hisband after 2 years she went back. Today the guy is a big business man whose family are well to do also and dont have time for anybody. 16 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by joe17: 8:28am On Apr 11, 2018 |
yeyerolling:Op sounds as tho his mind is made up, why then does he seek for advice. Hope this is not another attention seeking thread, but what do I know? 5 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Enoma222(m): 9:21am On Apr 11, 2018 |
prechbills1: .guy follow ur heart your mum we later accept her .....as times goes on guy dont miss dis chance ooh... 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by castro316: 11:07am On Apr 11, 2018 |
prechbills1: My man lissten to The best advice. Marry the love of your life and keep your marriage of social media. In marriage there is no age barrier as far as you both have good plans for each other. Its better marrying more mature women because they have more to offer than dependent small girls. You have got to a new beginning of your life don't spoil it with the advice of your mum. No marriage doesn't come with hardships or individual differences. So ride on bro 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by castro316: 11:16am On Apr 11, 2018 |
fancy4eve: Young woman. Leave The man alone and let him enjoy his life. Is there any marriage that doesn't come with their shortcomings? Let them solve it themselves. He said that he has bbeen with her for more than 3 yrs so he has seen enough to conclude he will stay with her. Why spoil another woman's joy because of what you feel. This is a life decision here and this is what you can give as advice? Even you relationship you are in (that's if you are in one) is it perfect? Don't you guys quarrel once a while? Abegi 7 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by fancy4eve(f): 11:17am On Apr 11, 2018 |
yeyerolling:we re not talkn about culture, we re talking about ethics of lyf. Age is not d problem, assuming he is wealthy nd d lady is older dan him, it will not b an issue, but here d reverse is d case, better don't talk him into it cus his own case is different. 4 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by fancy4eve(f): 11:21am On Apr 11, 2018 |
quote author=castro316 post=66615235] Young woman. Leave The man alone and let him enjoy his life. Is there any marriage that doesn't come with their shortcomings? Let them solve it themselves. He said that he has bbeen with her for more than 3 yrs so he has seen enough to conclude he will stay with her. Why spoil another woman's joy because of what you feel. This is a life decision here and this is what you can give as advice? Even you relationship you are in (that's if you are in one) is it perfect? Don't you guys quarrel once a while? Abegi [/quote]well am not pouring sand into his garri, just saying d fact. He should man up nd stop lookn 4 were 2 dump his lazy Ass. Well I hate lazy guys nd I believe laziness is involve 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by fancy4eve(f): 11:21am On Apr 11, 2018 |
castro316:well am not pouring sand into his garri, just saying d fact. He should man up nd stop lookn 4 were 2 dump his lazy Ass. Well I hate lazy guys nd I believe laziness is involve 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by castro316: 11:24am On Apr 11, 2018 |
prechbills1: Pls call me 08092431893 |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by castro316: 11:30am On Apr 11, 2018 |
fancy4eve: But there are serious matured women out there looking for a guy to say yes but guys are using Them to play football. They cry everyday because their biological clock is ticking and no reasonable man is coming their way. Not all families must a man be a bread winner. As far as they agree with each other that's fine. Rich girls after hustle and career pursuit find themselves between the devil and the dark blue sea, praying in churches for mr. Right let them sort themselves out marriage is not about good good. Its about the good the bad and the ugly 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by antidisestablis: 12:39pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Enoma222(m): 12:45pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
fancy4eve:_bad_belle_you dat is calling some one lazy watin u don achieve at your age .... you are just be jealous for notin ....if the girl decide to spend money on the guy notin is wrong all nah love 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Enoma222(m): 12:50pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
[quote author=antidisestablis post=66617436][/quote]my advice to you is dat ...she must respect you ...as a man. let her know abt it ...also watch out for her character if she get angry easily ..... |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by lwanga1993: 1:16pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
OP.. please don't listen to this castro216.... If you are my brother and have this mentality.. i will tear you better slap to know wether na juju the woman use charm you. your mentality is typical that if a woman... you are just calling yourself a man because you have a dick.. (mind you, am 24 as well)...my dear age is not the barrier here.. the main problem is her paying for the wedding and you see nothing wrong in it..WOW.. ..you even said you moved in with her(interesting)....and from the look of things ,you will gladly change your surname to hers if she asks... incase you care to listen.. its better you borrow money from your parents to sponsor your wedding than your fiance sponsoring your wedding......... and please respect yourself and go find your own apartment..... STOP claiming man cos you have a dick. take full control of things happening in your life. 26 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Enoma222(m): 1:18pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
lwanga1993:_wrong_Advice 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Apina(m): 1:31pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
prechbills1:Your mum is most likely among the very conservative lots, I believe she would come good if you get to dispel her fears. Don't listen to all those bullshit intuitive crap, if that was the case she wouldn't have been in support of the relationship from the start, she likes ur fiancee but doesn't seem comfortable with her son marrying an older lady. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Zinny25(f): 3:02pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
If you answer this question then I give you an advice. Which country are you from ![]() |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by FromZeroToHero(m): 3:42pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
prechbills1:you are the head and supposed to cater for all the marriage expenses. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Mcy56(f): 5:04pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
@OP, you already made your mind up to marry the lady, you just wanted support and validation. I will say go ahead with it. The age difference should not be a barrier. When you knew what you wanted to do in the first place, you shouldn't have mentioned anything like age difference to your parents. It's your life and your happiness is paramount in the marriage. For those saying otherwise, what if he quits the relationship now and couldn't get any dream lady of his choice again? This could be so because the present one already set a standard which he would see as the minimum requirements for future one. Mr. Man, you know yourself better than any other person. Only be doubly sure that the love you have for her isnt connected with her affluence. My 50cent opinion. 7 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by lawman88(m): 5:22pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
yeyerolling:Shut up. You be gold and oil digger. Better go to school and finish your university education. I'm sorry for you because you will regret it soon |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
lawman88:what is this one saying. Are u the op?? 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by ilevic(m): 6:04pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
What your mum sees while she is sitting, u can't see it even if u climb a palm tree... Yoruba proverb |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Supreme01: 8:10pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
Pls my broda be very careful. If the person that shld settle ur dispot in ur home is not in agrmnt...bcareful. Age is nt d pblm but d decissn But ask her (your mother)if she care about your joy then let her gives u r suport. But pls be sure u r not under any pressure.You said she is goin to takecare of 80% an u 20% it a sign of pressure. If this is your 1st time dating a gal of this class i'll advice becarefull. She is fully ready . *But if u r 100% sure of yourself go ahead with her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by stacyadams: 8:27pm On Apr 11, 2018 |
fancy4eve:my love..these days the elders with their eyeglass no dey see anytin again mbok 4 Likes |
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