Going back to an ex? Well it depends. I try to break up without malice or any form of animosity. If at any point our paths cross, we can say hi! This is not going back to one's vomit right? We might have help to render to each other in the future. Just saying.

THIS SEX THINH IS OVERHYPE ABEG

QueenSuccubus:



Some of us will go back with their exes especially when the dick is sooo good

Some bcoz they've known each other for a long time ...They value the old memories...

Some bcoz they can't live without a BF.. U know, peer pressure..

And some of us will juz say OOOOH HELL NAAAH! Ex is a past tense .. We don't lick back what we spat out.. this is the case of no turning back..

In school I had 3 friends who claim that they won't get back with their bf just like u.
But they did. I don't trust women who claim to be strong just like u

madone:
Broke up and went silent on my ex for a year now but she view my whatsspp status everyday I add or change.. Guys what do ya all think if this her act...i have move on though..

as in I don't seem to understand what you guys mean by someone always viewing your status...you guys are funny sha

confusion.

they are so confused.

Inconsistencies causes emotional suicide ,that s how one babe we were rolling together will ‘disappear’ in the journey of s distant communication all efforts to reach her will hit brick wall,
one out of many instances-we are meet by valentine day,resides in south south while me,in lagos ,we had planned our meeting by her coming over,（as a return match ）all of a sudden ,she came up wt ‘i av an,important bday to attend n cant come again ,so i wondered ,if twas cos of tfare,she said no,axd this ,she replied ,no
ok,to play along,i axd her to gv d phone to d celebrant for me to speak wt when she gets there ,dear brethren in nairaland ministry ,as usual ,she went in communicardo since february 14th,no flash ,no text no nothing ,n merely surface by may wt,‘u didnt bother to ask me what happened ,u are always quick to conclude,you are this ,u are that ’ meanwhile she had changed her nos,would reveal so that day,since then
thereafter ,subtle efforts from her to get bk to me has bn,n will b treated officially ,n i guess she is feeling just that ,i wish her goodluck （not jonathan ）in her future relationship ventures

meanwhile learn how to drive-08109974859,bariga ,anthony ,ajegunle ,ijora ,costain ,oyingbo ilupeju gbagada etc

wickyyolo:


In school I had 3 friends who claim that they won't get back with their bf just like u.
But they did. I don't trust women who claim to be strong just like u

Don't get me wrong but when it comes to my relationship, i am very patient. I listen to my man ALWAYS.

But here's the thing, when i think the relationship is not growing & i can see no future, i will talk to my man. Im a sharp shooter.
I will lay down all the positive & negative cards , now if the situation is more on negative then he must know what's up.Oh hell yeah, i will show him the way to the main door & once i closed the door then i am pretty sure there is no turning back.

QueenSuccubus:



Don't get me wrong but when it comes to my relationship, i am very patient. I listen to my man ALWAYS.

But here's the thing, when i think the relationship is not growing & i can see no future, i will talk to my man. Im a sharp shooter.
I will lay down all the positive & negative cards , now if the situation is more on negative then he must know what's up.Oh hell yeah, i will show him the way to the main door & once i closed the door then i am pretty sure there is no turning back.

I respect a woman who admits she is vulnerable
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But, I wish u all the best my Sister. Same old story.

Perhaps the chemistry, bleeping or how she like the version of the guy irrespective of his features or their emotion but she couldn't find the limited version else where... But most times its with someone they are comfortable to do anything as well as fart i.e knows her so well. And once they can't find it else where.. She get resentful and start thinking she could re ignite the old flame with the devil she can live with or manage for her cravings or needs she prioritize as as a real deal in her term of her own version of love or relationship goal.
If u know, u know lol. No long thing

Lalas247:

Not anymore .. then I did lol I can talk eh and go on and on about things ....

Despicable. I can't stand nagging women.

wickyyolo:


In school I had 3 friends who claim that they won't get back with their bf just like u.
But they did. I don't trust women who claim to be strong just like u

Oga u dont have WhatsApp abi? "Status" mean u can share pics, videos, or u can type a short message & this will disappear after 24hrs..

nigeria005:
joy stick

Oh very intelligent of you. Did you discover this alone or someone helped you? Shining teeth in idioccy

so theres this girl I'm asking out who asked if I'll still be in touch if she marries someone else. and I said if its not me then that's the end of our friendship. the thing shock am.

Some more

To catch fun

placeofallure:
Going back to an ex? Well it depends. I try to break up without malice or any form of animosity. If at any point our paths cross, we can say hi! This is not going back to one's vomit right? We might have help to render to each other in the future. Just saying.

It is that help that will create problems in your family because after it comes the hide and seek stuffs and before you know it, you will be blaming the devil that was not part of your help.

you talk sense my brother...most of this small pikin wey full NL never experience anything about women..I av dated 3 ladies in the past though we parted away amicably but believe me anytime we cross part they made it known to me that they wanna come back based on say the chemistry, connection, matured understanding part and Fun we shared but they are not getting it in the new relationship..so for me it's not about sex.






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karniff:
Perhaps the chemistry, bleeping or how she like the version of the guy irrespective of his features or their emotion but she couldn't find the limited version else where... But most times its with someone they are comfortable to do anything as well as fart i.e knows her so well. And once they can't find it else where.. She get resentful and start thinking she could re ignite the old flame with the devil she can live with or manage for her cravings or needs she prioritize as as a real deal in her term of her own version of love or relationship goal.
If u know, u know lol. No long thing

Lalas247:

exactly

if I break up seff or say I need some time apart or time to think ...
its a wrap ... too many bearded guys out there waiting to be harvested

are you sure?

My ex still check on me and my gf still talk with her ex.


No. Biggie

This table you are shaking ....

Okafor s law

The only. Reason is because while dating someone's ex , we still allow them to be friends with their ex, going to visit them in the name of ex... When dating a girl/guy, cut off every relationship he/she gat to do with his/her ex to avoid reunion among them.... Let forget abt dick, na ur dick u go use feed family.?..

The way we reason though....everything must be about dick and sex...wat if the ex treats her better, there are other reasons y ppl break up in d first place. Not dick dick sex sex...or are u ppl begrudging her decisions bikonu

Lalas247:

exactly

if I break up seff or say I need some time apart or time to think ...
its a wrap ... too many bearded guys out there waiting to be harvested

seems u like beaded guys alot. we can click some glasses then so that u can admire my beards for a long time. maybe I could sweat ontop u someday���

exes are usually younger, unprepared and virile guys who have used all their youthful strength to Bleep d hell out of these girls. when they meet a more prepared man who also has passed his youth and has slowed down on energy dissipation, the useless "ashawo dogs" called girls tend to have nostalgia for their seemingly hard exes who are mostly NFAs as such breaking up their homes or after being caught will be begging emotions and seeking forgiveness that is not available again. pls women should know that if they are not ready to marry, they should not just dare it. the advise i have for girls who love to Bleep without end is to stay unmarried and Bleep as much as they can Bleep till they either contract HIV Or are used for yahoo++. I am tired of this continuous trend of cheating women. as i write this now, 4 married women are on my case, is it not a shame that 2 exes plus 2 women i tot were responsible on facebook are giving me green light to Bleep them? 3 have said it already and one is still coming like a fowl in her heat period. I cant Bleep a married woman, neva..and i have made it clear to them. nonsense... when we have free girls beleful for naija naim normal man go de Bleep pple wife because na ex...nonsense i say. e sweet u well well naim u no marry me..ekwensu women..evil generation!

Olalan:
Most times its cause of the sexual relation as the current guy might not be performing as the ex did

malificent:
Personally I don't. Cause I'm a very patient person when it comes to relationships, I'll give you enough grace to do me over time and time again before I make it known to you that I've had enough.

When I'm done with a relationship my mindset is that the guy lost me and not the other way around. Affluence, mind blowing sex, even fine face will not make me go back to an ex, Its almost like going back to eat my vomit.

it means you had at least three exes, then something is definitely wrong some where

They keep going back because of the good memories,good smashings aint easily forgotten.

Retirement benefits...

madone:
Broke up and went silent on my ex for a year now but she view my whatsspp status everyday I add or change.. Guys what do ya all think if this her act...i have move on though..

How do you know she's viewing your whatsapp status if you've not been viewing hers?

Well. 1 money. 2. Sexual experience.3. New guys are not taking them serious anymore. 4 buhari economy is not favorable to their current boyfriend so they might decide that tge grass is greener in the old places.

I don't know why most people think sex is the only thing that can make one go back to an ex. Your present guy might give you all the sex and that's the only thing he knows her to do. If he doesn't know how to keep a good sex free conversation, doesn't kniwbhow to behave when you guys are in public, is very dirty, bullies you about, makes you feel like you are just a sex doll, doesn't even show concern when you are sick but would want to to sleep by his side when he's sick, doesn't even make efforts to know you beyond sex, he or she will end up pushing you back to your ex. When you weigh his or her bad side and finds out that your ex wasn't this horriblbe you will chose your ex. When you have two evils before you, you will naturally go for the lesser evil. Not only girls go back to their exs, guys invite their exs back too when they have failled to see what they are looking for in other women. Especially when people have dated for a long time. I don't know why people here on nairaland make sex looks like the most precious thing one could offer or get for an oppossite sex.

Please this is my advice, Never make the mistake of going back to an Ex
..immediately u do that u will start living in bondage, who can remember the Nigerian movie