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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Gudiza(m): 12:24pm On May 04, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Let me put it this way. RAPE is a delicate subject and shouldn't be treated with levity BUT there are circumstances that complicate your position. First, he is your boyfriend. Two, you're a live-in lover and romantically involved (all the kissing) Three, he was probably providing and supporting your living expenses. Four, he never deceived you into thinking he was a EUNUCH, or would NEVER ask for sex Five, you voluntarily went into lockdown with a man ur not married too. (rape cases have gone up worldwide) So to me, this is just a lesson for you, sex was only a natural progression in all of these. Each time you get him to a heightened state of arousal and then stop!! It takes a lot of control to do just that. For how long will YOU continue toying with someones sexual tension in that manner before it finds expression? and for what? At some point it no longer becomes a question of controlling himself but he needs to be convinced WHY HE SHOULD KEEP ALL PENT up ENERGY (which you're actively responsible for) and not relief himself. So T4, because you're an introvert or virgin or low sex drive plus the fact that he gagged you might score you sympathy points BUT you are responsible by cause and effect. Be guided! 1 Like |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Hathor5(f): 12:28pm On May 04, 2020 |
@soulbroken761 If this your story is true (because these days people are bored and create several accounts) then let me tell you that rape is never the victim's fault. NEVER!!!! Only the rapist should be held accountable and I hope you will find the strength, support and most of all love of someone who will help you to go to the police and report the rapist but you should go to a nearby hospital first to get checked and to collect evidence. Please don't listen to anyone here who tries to put the blame on you. Nothing justifies rape.Nothing. Whether you visit someone at home, make out with them or even roam the streets naked, nobody has the right to cross the boundaries you set. Know that many people on this forum do not have enough compassion and wisdom in their hearts and minds to talk to someone in your situation. Please ignore them. Take heart dear. 2 Likes |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 12:29pm On May 04, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:This comment is very funny Emotional ke for nairaland stories. I will boldly say that 90% stories u read here are fake. People only comment bc they resemble real life situations when written well 1 Like |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by cococandy(f): 12:30pm On May 04, 2020 |
Braintrain: Wanting a boyfriend means one has to agree to being raped right? 3 Likes |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Mizwisdom(f): 12:31pm On May 04, 2020 |
sassysure: Wow I never knew this, thanks for the info. You can imagine how I kept responding to her/his post, thinking it was true 1 Like |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by oyatz(m): 12:33pm On May 04, 2020 |
The lady never mentioned that she was beaten. Bros, it is NOT easy to use clothes to tie round the mouth of a woman on a bed, then tie her TWO hands at the back ,remove her clothes , separate her legs and start inserting your penis in her virgin pussy. *This kind of procedures need some level of cooperation from the woman. -* eyinjuege: 1 Like |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 12:41pm On May 04, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:I don't blame you at all Was reading your comments and loling seriously until u got the jist. I was like you before. See the format. They will open thread that will instigate fight between men and women. A case where the man is at fault and the women will feast on the menfolk. Next, u will see a story where the woman is the she devil and the men here will have their pound of flesh It has made lots of posters nairaland enemies for ever So they are always on the outlook for topics that will degenerate the other gender. This is how family section operates since I started coming here U can see that it's already male and female war . 2 Likes |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Mizwisdom(f): 12:44pm On May 04, 2020 |
sassysure: O wow thanks I feel silly now spending so much time and energy responding . ..... |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by dayleke: 12:47pm On May 04, 2020 |
Mizwisdom: Maybe she is traumatized? A lot of people react in different ways to stuffs. But still....... She's supposed to do something o. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by jojothegreat(m): 12:51pm On May 04, 2020 |
RnB (rape Nd beg) Report him to the authorities ASAP |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 12:55pm On May 04, 2020 |
Nigerians and conclusion towards things, this story is real from the person that said it, she is expressing what her bf did to her, if each of ur sisters experience this u will say it is a lie, my candid advice take the pills, report this case to a trusted activist, or authorities handling rape related crimes. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by crackkhaus: 12:55pm On May 04, 2020 |
soulbroken761:Yeah, and he also used oil for lubrication.. You forgot to include that detail in this update. See, stop watching HARDCORE porn! It's starting to influence your imagination... 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by heniford2: 1:06pm On May 04, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:that's how your dad raped your mum and the give birth to you without him paying her bridal price bastard i rape a girl i was planning to marry may Rapist never leave you may you be Raped by Rapist |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by fuwaski(m): 1:08pm On May 04, 2020 |
I want to drop the bitter TRUTH. 1. This story seems to be a fictional story with only 2 characters involved 2. A feminist will detest a woman who is an opposition 3. The first guy or lady that sexx u for the first time may be the best or not. 4. Out of 100, 20/100 guys dont like dating virgins cus dey contribute almost nothing to ur life. 79/100, will love and care for u simply bcus they love something tight but will pretend and play to ur tune of music. Na 1 be d mumu we dey shout WE GO DO AM WEN WE MARRY. 5. You should know that the guy saved u from all those ritualist that may need virgins for sacrifices. Wow! Congratulations, u are not eligible for it anymore. My dear if this ur story is real, i will confidently tell u that there is no perfect relationship. The devil u know is beta oo. If u go back there, the sexx matter won't end o. (That's him for u) the best u can do for him so that U won't be a liability is for u to help him fix himself(a broke guy may be a chronic gambler). If bele enter! Oh gosh! It wil be una pandemic cus if dem force am marry u, hehehe... The current slaps Will be hotter than the past. To crown it all, NO FOLLOW MAN WEY DEY BEAT CUS IT IS CALLED ABUSE! I rest my case. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 1:15pm On May 04, 2020 |
ladyGKilaBCrueD: Not all men are pigs, I had the same situation as her. The difference is that my guy did not rape me but her guy did. It is this particular man that is a pig not all men. There are good men that are not pigs. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by heniford2: 1:18pm On May 04, 2020 |
AnonymousRebec:how did it happen please |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by oyatz(m): 1:30pm On May 04, 2020 |
Blood stained tissue paper ONLY proves that there are some drops of blood on the paper. It doesn't proves a case of rape. Drops of your blood can come from any part of your body (e.g accidental knife cut on your finger while cutting kpomo) not necessarily from a broken hymen and even if it's from a broken hymen ,it doesn't tells anyone if it's due to consensual sex or rape. #In summary, it's NOT a credible evidence ma. soulbroken761: |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 1:32pm On May 04, 2020 |
Tales by moonlight... I don’t know what some of you stand to gain by posting fake stories on this site. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 1:34pm On May 04, 2020 |
shawnfamous:✌️ More than 80% of the stories posted on this section and romance section are fake. No be Coronavirus cause am The earlier y’all realize that,the better. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Sixfeetbelle: 1:35pm On May 04, 2020 |
luminouz: Bia, move one side if you're here to just read and pass. 'Too much I don't care' has left so many people broken. Good support can always go a long way in helping them. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by eyinjuege: 1:36pm On May 04, 2020 |
soulbroken761: Stop complaining on NL and go speak to the police immediately. Also inform your parents immediately, as they will provide some support NL will never give you. Thirdly, someone dropped a website and perhaps a phone number you can call for rape cases. Call it immediately and make your report, before this case goes cold Alwasy remember, there are rape apologists everywhere and rapists everywhere. The statistic of young girls and females who have been raped is a very high one, so our society is filled with rapists everywhere. Anyone who thinks otherwise is deceiving themself. Rape is a culture in Nigeria that we don't want to address, and there is a secrecy about it with everyone claiming not to have raped a woman before, when we know they do it daily and even in young girls. Imagine an i.mbecile up there saying you should be thankful the rapist didnt take his urge out on a child, and instead chose you. God sparing our lives, we will get a sane society one day. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Sixfeetbelle: 1:39pm On May 04, 2020 |
DateMynd44: He's not saying any stupid truth. Why would you advise someone to go back to their oppressor? What kind of twisted logic are you using? |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Mizwisdom(f): 1:39pm On May 04, 2020 |
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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 1:39pm On May 04, 2020 |
crackkhaus: I haf died Who annoy you?
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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Sixfeetbelle: 1:44pm On May 04, 2020 |
Gudiza: Stop parading rape as a good thing. A man who cannot control himself is a ticking time bomb. Listing all those things up there as prerequisite for his action is weak and clearly shows the kind of person you are. I'm not the Op by the way. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by bukatyne(f): 1:45pm On May 04, 2020 |
Ramudeter eku ojo 3 o! |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Dupalmer: 1:50pm On May 04, 2020 |
Hisduchess:Who the hell are you to admonish me. Why won't I give my sister the same advice is she's so stupid to cohbit with a man she's not married to. Why don't you advice her to kill him to show empathy. Amoeba. |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by crackkhaus: 1:52pm On May 04, 2020 |
sassysure: The OP is definitely a female, but one with a super active imagination. Probably someone who longs to be devoured by force after drowning in hardcore porn videos. It's a well-written piece though, but no matter how hard I tried to believe it was a true story, I kept seeing someone who is secretly into BDSM exploring her sexual fetish through writing. 3 Likes |
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by luminouz(m): 1:55pm On May 04, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Lol...I don hear you mama |
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