From a family of 4 Children, as the head Child, 2 boys and one Girl .There was frequent demand for money from my Junior ones who are yet to find their bearing.

Today Bros Anything for me, tommorow Bros am broke etc. I decided to come up with an Idea to sample their opinion on what to do about our Dads One plot which has four rooms. Each person collects the room rent. As The house Maintenance is only done by me, others just come collect money and leave.

I organised a meeting asking what should be done about the House. One Male Suggested shop should be builts and be Rented out, the other male suggested a Developer should be called upon. The girl suggested that the whole land should be sold, same land her father is Buried.

After further delibrations the other two males agreed half plot should be Sold then part of the money realised be used to develop the remaining half plot on which there father is Buried while the remaining money is shared equally among the four Children.

The Girl Finnaly stands on her Decision that the whole plot of land be sold and money should be shared and her father's grave be removed.
What sort of response should one give to such a Child?

She should mellow down.....she is tryna be faster than her shadow

Seems she is from Judas Iscariot's lineage

Her father's grave removed? How does she proposed to do that? Does she have another place to relocate the bones?... What kind of PDP share the money is this?

That Kain girl be winch
Boss I'd advice you sell half plot and share the money but also advice your siblings to get a job not depend on the property your parents left behind cos if not they'd still come back to discuss how to sell the rest in a jiffy

Na reason we no like to dey call women for men meeting ....

Get a developer, reach an agreement with him and enjoy una life. All those mini flats developers build, landlord do have share in them. They might give you one flat or two, and you will still collect money for the long lease join.

finaleeec:
From a family of 4 Children ,As the head Child ,2 boys and one Girl .There was frequent demand for money from my Junior ones who are yet to find there bearing.Today Bros Anything for me , tommorow Bros am broke etc ,I decided to come up with an Idea to sample there opinion on what to do about our Dads One plot which has four rooms ,Each person collect the room rent .As The house Maintenance is only done by me ,others just come collect money and leave .I organise a meeting asking what should be done about the House .One Male Suggested shop should be builts and be Rented out ,the other male suggest a Developer should be called upon ,The girl suggested that the whole land should be sold ,same land her father is Buried .After further delibrations the other two males agreed half plot should be Sold then part of the money realised be used to develop the remaining half plot on which there father is Buried while the remaining money is shared equally among the four Children .The Girl Finnaly stands on her Decision that the whole plot of land be sold and money should be shared and her father's grave be removed .What sort of response should one give to such a Child ?

Olx sell it

Zero chills

adigun98:
That Kain girl be winch
Boss I'd advice you sell half plot and share the money but also advice your siblings to get a job not depend on the property your parents left behind cos if not they'd still come back to discuss how to sell the rest in a jiffy

. Thanks so much .

Richy4:
Her father's grave removed? How does she proposed to do that? Does she have another place to relocate the bones?... What kind of PDP share the money is this?

Absolutely she does not even Mentioned about the relocation of the Bones not cares about whatever that happens to the Grave .

finaleeec:
Absolutely she does not even Mentioned about the relocation of the Bones not cares about whatever that happens to the Grave .

She knows that she will be getting married..maybe she doesn't want a situation where after she must have gotten married and u guys starts telling her that she has no share in the inheritance..that she is married..

But please don't let them disrespect the dead and his resting place desecrated because u guys wants money

finaleeec:
From a family of 4 Children ,As the head Child ,2 boys and one Girl .There was frequent demand for money from my Junior ones who are yet to find there bearing.Today Bros Anything for me , tommorow Bros am broke etc ,I decided to come up with an Idea to sample there opinion on what to do about our Dads One plot which has four rooms ,Each person collect the room rent .As The house Maintenance is only done by me ,others just come collect money and leave .I organise a meeting asking what should be done about the House .One Male Suggested shop should be builts and be Rented out ,the other male suggest a Developer should be called upon ,The girl suggested that the whole land should be sold ,same land her father is Buried .After further delibrations the other two males agreed half plot should be Sold then part of the money realised be used to develop the remaining half plot on which there father is Buried while the remaining money is shared equally among the four Children .The Girl Finnaly stands on her Decision that the whole plot of land be sold and money should be shared and her father's grave be removed .What sort of response should one give to such a Child ?

. @op ,Are you sure that your so called Sister is truly your father's Daughter? I mean are you quite sure your father is the real father of this your Sister ? ...No true Son or Daughter of a man would say Such ,It's only a Bastard Child that would say Such .You better make your findings very well .From my own Suggestion ,You must be very very careful about such Juniour Sister ,Anyone with such Intension could be desperate and not minding whatever happens ,By the way if I may ask does she has access to the Property Documents ? Is she Married ? If she ever has Access to the Property Document this one would just Negotiate sharp sharp for the sale and send Hire Assassin's against you guys .It's inside life ,Things Terrible are Happenings .I am quite sure she is not alone on this ,She must be discussing her Evil intension with some other People .I wonder what such of Daughter this one be ooo ,I can't imagine Proposing selling the portion of Property where my Father is Buried .Never. Be Careful.

Damn, a DNA test is needed to be sure the girl is truly the dead man's daughter.
She ain't got no chill at all.

This is one of disadvantages of not burying the dead at cemetery.

One no fit sell land in peace and take money drink beer and chop nkwobi just because dead body dey for the land. Ike gwuru.

J111333:
Damn, a DNA test is needed to be sure the girl is truly the dead man's daughter.
She ain't got no chill at all.

This is one of disadvantages of not burying the dead at cemetery.

One no fit sell land in peace and take money drink beer and chop nkwobi just because dead body dey for the land. Ike gwuru.

. You are indeed right about the DNA .Even the Dead buried at the Cemetery , there are some Instances whereby new dead bodies are Placed on the old ones because there are no More Spaces at the Cemetery ,In another Instances ,Cemetery Keepers even dig the Dead and sell body parts .Men na waooo ,D living is not save ,the Dead too no save . But wait I no just understand u sir ,U mean one cannot find money to drink beer and chop nkwobi without selling land inherited ,I tire ,Oga ,Make person go work now .

Nigeria is a country where north care for cow and south care fore dead bone. More than Living

tobechi74:
Nigeria is a country where northerncare for cow and south ty care fore dead bone. More than Living

Meaning even those that care for there Parent during living once the parent die ,We should stop caring , Selling a land where they are buried does not mean anything according to you .

I have seen many properties with buried bodies in it. They usually move it to a cemetery. But the thing with selling it is that by next year all the money would have gone and they will come back to beg you for money. Do not sell

ednut1:
I have seen many properties with buried bodies in it. They usually move it to a cemetery. But the thing with selling it is that by next year all the money would have gone and they will come back to beg you for money. Do not sell

. Thanks so much for your input .The thing is that Half out of the one plot is intended to be sold while the remaining half where Late father is Buried will be Left .It's two wives the Deceased had ,First wife had 3 boys,Second wife had one Girl .Both wives left the deceased before His Death .The 3 Boys agreed half should be Sold , Remaining Half with there father's Grave be left while the only Girl from the second wife insisted that The whole Plot should be sold which includes the late man's Grave .The boys are mad and contemplating if truly the Girl is true Daughter of there father ,They insisted only a Bastard Child would Offer for sale the Grave of His Dad.They are even Suggesting a DNA Should be Carried out ,but the Possibility of that I don't know since there Father is already in the Grave about 15 years ago .

definitely not,I won't.

op dont mind ur sister, sell half plot and use the money to develop the other half plot whr ur dad is been buried.

that ur sis too like money

finaleeec:
. Thanks so much for your input .The thing is that Half out of the one plot is intended to be sold while the remaining half where Late father is Buried will be Left .It's two wives the Deceased had ,First wife had 3 boys,Second wife had one Girl .Both wives left the deceased before His Death .The 3 Boys agreed half should be Sold , Remaining Half with there father's Grave be left while the only Girl from the second wife insisted that The whole Plot should be sold which includes the late man's Grave .The boys are mad and contemplating if truly the Girl is true Daughter of there father ,They insisted only a Bastard Child would Offer for sale the Grave of His Dad.They are even Suggesting a DNA Should be Carried out ,but the Possibility of that I don't know since there Father is already in the Grave about 15 years ago .

There is nothin like siblings of same mother in cases like this...sha dont mind the girl,its her mother that is giving her such advice

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Sell part of the land where there is no grave and use the money to develop the other part where the grave is situated. It's not proper to sell a land where your parent is buried and from the way you sound, your situation is not so bad.

Who don die don die. If the money would better my lot why not?

Hmm

Na money matter na, I go jejely move them to another paradise on earth

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It doesn't mean she hated her father. You shouldn't be bringing unnecessary family gist to the TL

finaleeec:
From a family of 4 Children, as the head Child, 2 boys and one Girl .There was frequent demand for money from my Junior ones who are yet to find their bearing.

Today Bros Anything for me, tommorow Bros am broke etc. I decided to come up with an Idea to sample their opinion on what to do about our Dads One plot which has four rooms. Each person collects the room rent. As The house Maintenance is only done by me, others just come collect money and leave.

I organised a meeting asking what should be done about the House. One Male Suggested shop should be builts and be Rented out, the other male suggested a Developer should be called upon. The girl suggested that the whole land should be sold, same land her father is Buried.

After further delibrations the other two males agreed half plot should be Sold then part of the money realised be used to develop the remaining half plot on which there father is Buried while the remaining money is shared equally among the four Children.

The Girl Finnaly stands on her Decision that the whole plot of land be sold and money should be shared and her father's grave be removed.
What sort of response should one give to such a Child?

Nigerians need to learn to be progressive, if selling out anything will better your life do it...

Only thing is wait till is decayed of your relocate it smwere else

Waiting u talk

You told us all about your siblings opinion but you want us to be the ones to advise you abi, so that if our opinion offends the gods and ancestors na we go take our head carry your gbege okwa ya?