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Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 5:56pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
As written by ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, In as much as this post may be gender based, I'll love to indicate that it is equally PUN free. Over the years,technology and western civilization changed our lives and we all tagged it the 21st century (smiles). This 21st century didn't only bring us closer to change but,it equally is robbing the good morals left in some of us. After this whole write up,the main BIG question comes up. Majority of guys I've come across always complain that their women cheat or have a high body count. This leaves me wondering how many body counts the guys in question might have. You go about complaining that Nigerian girls are all for the sex,hoes,sluts(I mean, all sorts of demeaning names). But,come to think of it,who actually created this hoes you always scream about?? Being a virgin in Nigeria is not an easy task,as a matter of fact, "it is a full time job". I hear you guys take pride in comparing foreign girls with your Niger chicks. Do you know that an average foreign babe(your babe) sleeps around as much as she wants,until she's ready to get married?? But,I don't see you guys debating about this ![]() Instead,all you do is paint your own pride black. Just to prove what exactly?? Then comes the sex vs money war; You claim Nigeria girls have nothing aside sex to offer,what asides money do you have to offer?? (I mean money ![]() Sex as research says and I believe is something both partners enjoy in a relationship. Your girlfriend can never offer you her body for money. As a matter of fact, the only person I know that will offer you her body for money is a prostitute. And don't get me wrong,they render services which you have to pay for. The worst part of this whole issue now is that; You claim you don't want a virgin for wife. You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife. You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle. You still claim you don't need a full time house wife. You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something). This only brought about the conclusion that NIGERIAN MEN ARE CONFUSED. To the ladies; Stop giving out your body to people that don't appreciate it,if you want to fvck around,do it cause you want to. Stop giving someone sex due to what they say or offer you. Channel that few minutes energy into something resourceful and useful. Forget that you've deflowered, it was your choice anyway but,stop making it look like you're selling your body out for money. You as a lady and you're a virgin,please hold on to it cause,it's rare to find one this days. Forget all the confused rants on the internet,men are dying to find your kind. Don't let one confused human being confuse you. To the men; Come off it. You complain that the girls have entitlement mentality, they can't bring new things to the table. What exactly have you brought to the table?? For you to even know that all Nigerian girls are hoes only makes you a male whóre (You're practically cheap). You are the ones creating this hoes you cry of. A lady being your partner can never offer you sex!! You don't pay a lady money for sex unless she is a prostitute!! NB: The word "some" was used in this writeup though it wasn't indicated (no generalizations). I'm not supporting any gender ![]() NB: All that is needed is an ANSWER to the question,don't come here and start singing your normal lullaby. Now the BIG question as regards the topic; #whatexactlydonigerianmenwant¿ cc lalasticlala,Dominique 20 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by fati2001(m): 6:10pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
ey" are all claiming saints.. I meant hypocritical saints. don't mind them... they are confused souls, no direction..... .... 3 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by KidDarkness(m): 6:17pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Why are you calling the mods?
Sex in a relationship is NOT compulsory. Chastity should be embraced. 7 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by JOACHINpedro: 6:29pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Pls o, I would love to marry a virgin. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by talktrue1234: 6:59pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
But can't we stop all this premarital sex? It's obvious this thing is destroying our society 14 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 6:59pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Women will never learn... till kingdom come they will continue this body count argument.... How will u make choice of spreading ur legs for several men and start complaining when a man says he doesn’t want a lady with Several body counts and a couple of abortion on her CV....it’s his choice..... Correct me cos I may be wrong, there’s actually nothing nice or cool about sleeping with several people and a couple of abortions to match. So why do you women expect men to embrace it like its a something to be happy we found?? Here’s the fact... becos I’ve driven several 5th hand vehicles doesn’t mean I don’t deserve a new car.....in fact, the fact that I’ve used cars many other people have used and dumped will make me desire a new one the more.. If you don’t want men to complain about ur high body count.... then close ur legs.... but if u must spread it.... then deal with the consequences.... stop whining...... 66 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
talktrue1234: We don’t want to stop... and we don’t want to face the consequences... 2 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 7:06pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Nigerian men are not confused, neither are the women too. You writeup is nonsense, you have no point and you made no sense. Depression is real, please go and look for help. StacyO: 21 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by JOACHINpedro: 7:57pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
talktrue1234:Nice question but I don't think it'll ever gonna be feasible. 1 Like |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by tobechi74: 8:02pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
What else can a girl offer in relationship 4 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Liposure: 8:36pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
Meanwhile women are the gatekeepers of sex. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by CosmicPhoenix: 8:56pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
what kind of badly written article is this?society will always view men and women differently when it comes to certain things,a man with multiple sex partners will be seen as a Spartacus,a sharp guy,a real nigga but a lady with multiple sex partners will be seen as a hoe,the confused op even said nigerian men dont want virgins as wives. 6 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Kalatium(m): 9:16pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix:Women are not logical, they try to use Logic but end up using emotions, hence the confusing statements. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Kalatium(m): 9:19pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
At first you were making sense but you ended up with conflicting statements. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by CosmicPhoenix: 9:29pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
i dont know what her agenda was but she failed miserably.she said women who sleep around for money are prostitutes but also said girlfriends render services which the boyfriends have to pay for ![]() Kalatium: 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 11:44pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
PUNAengineOIL: Void. 1 Like |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 11:50pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix: *As a matter of fact, the only person I know that will offer you her body for money is a prostitute. And don't get me wrong,they render services which you have to pay for* I hope you get now. Even regardless typo errors,try to comprehend before commenting. 3 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Iretii0511(m): 11:58pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
The problem with this writeup as is the case with lots of romance topic is generalization of people's opinion. Mr A may wants a full housewife for example while Mr B wants a working class. They are two different people with two distinct opinion. This is why it's funny when I hear people say Naija girls are confused or Naija guys are confused. People with these line of thought should learn that as human, we have our distinct perspectives. Don't muddle up peoples opinion and then conclude that a group of persons are confused. 16 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 12:10am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Iretii0511: ![]() I hope you read the NB's?? |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Iretii0511(m): 12:18am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO: Maybe you didn't understand my submission. You can't have a straight answer to your question because people have diverse perspectives. What I want as a man differs from what my brother want. That is not confusion. It just happens we want different things and non of us is wrong. You won't deny that among your peers, each of you have different view of who prince charming is. It the same for everybody. 4 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 12:31am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Iretii0511: You didn't get the discussion I presume. Putting this up there,I just want to get one explanation. I see wailing all over the thread already ![]() It's just an honest and direct question. You men are using your own confusion to confuse the ladies *The worst part of this whole issue now is that; You claim you don't want a virgin for wife. You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife. You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle. You still claim you don't need a full time house wife. You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something)* Drafted from the writeup. How would you go about this, assuming you were to be a lady?? |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Iretii0511(m): 12:42am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO: The reason I said you probably didn't get my submission. if A wants a virgin, B may not want a virgin It doesn't make any of the opinion invalid. We should learn to treat each other as unique entity. That way, there won't be any confusion to start with. Ann, do you get me now? My point is, your conclusion stems from muddling up different people's opinion and dragging all of the persons involved in a single umbrella. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 12:47am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Iretii0511: I asked something up there. If I can at least get an honest answer. Shown below; Drafted from the writeup; How would you go about this, assuming you were to be a lady?? |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Iretii0511(m): 12:51am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO:
We should learn to treat each other as unique entity. That way, there won't be any confusion to start with. Ann, do you get me now? 3 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 1:16am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Iretii0511: I got where you were driving at the whole time. But,how can you treat each other as a unique entity when the damage have already been done Then,I'm trying to note from you,how you would position your decision as a lady. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by CosmicPhoenix: 1:29am On Sep 29, 2020 |
tell us the services they render that deserve payment StacyO: 5 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Iretii0511(m): 1:30am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO: To answer your question, there is no damage anywhere dear. It's only in your head. I will do my best to treat each person's opinion as uniquely theirs and not try to allow the opinion of their kinds confuse me. You stayed up late today though. 1 Like |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 1:36am On Sep 29, 2020 |
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Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 1:51am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Iretii0511: You meet Mr A ready to settle down and he doesn't accept two of the qualities above. You quit and then comes Mr B. Now he accepts the qualities Mr A rejected but,rejected the qualities Mr A accepted. As a lady,where will you position your opinion? |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 1:55am On Sep 29, 2020 |
[quote author=1StopRudeness post=94410660]Women will never learn... till kingdom come they will continue this body count argument.... How will u make choice of spreading ur legs for several men and start complaining when a man says he doesn’t want a lady with Several body counts and a couple of abortion on her CV....it’s his choice..... Correct me cos I may be wrong, there’s actually nothing nice or cool about sleeping with several people and a couple of abortions to match. So why do you women expect men to embrace it like its a something to be happy we found?? Here’s the fact... becos I’ve driven several 5th hand vehicles doesn’t mean I don’t deserve a new car.....in fact, the fact that I’ve used cars many other people have used and dumped will make me desire a new one the more.. *If you don’t want men to complain about ur high body count.... then close ur legs.... but if u must spread it.... then deal with the consequences.... stop whining* Talk of rape ![]() If you don’t want men to complain about ur high body count.... then close ur legs.... but if u must spread it.... then deal with the consequences.... stop whining |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Iretii0511(m): 1:55am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO: Now that's where the place for sacrifices come to play. You can't have it all. There is no way we won't have to sacrifice a thing or two for the person we intend to share a relationship with. So we look beyond some of our wants for the greater good. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 1:57am On Sep 29, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Talk of rape. ![]() @last write up |
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