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Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:14am On Sep 29, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Dear is more like a word anyway. Read what was written about the 21st century in the write up. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by JustBeingFrank(m): 9:20am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:20am On Sep 29, 2020 |
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Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:21am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO: U are difficult to dialogue with.... 4 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:24am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Deicide: *You talk about men you ask what are they bringing to the table? Since I was born but now I am getting old I have never seen a 9ja girl agree to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't bring anything to the table* In the DJ Khalid's voice "Another one". |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:29am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz: ![]() Nice comment at least. Thanks for your input. True,prostitution is on the high increase which I strongly believe is fueled by a lot of things. All the same,I got a lot of facts from your write up. Thank you ![]() |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:32am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Crownstar01: mmmm ![]() ![]() |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:38am On Sep 29, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: *U started thread a thread yet u are telling someone not to talk unless u say so....does that sound normal to you?? * I own up to the fact that this was a mistake. Apologies *That’s the thing with you women....You hear the truth about your behavior... u start calling it hate and attack against your women gender.....* Still emotional. Cut it out |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:39am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Tabasco23: Who is Bright O?? Now that's what I'm saying,sex is more like food to some men now. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Atolu01: 9:43am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Ofc, they are confused. Irritants. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 9:45am On Sep 29, 2020 |
seniorgozman: For example?? Apart from the sex you both enjoy too,a lady can equally give you money in a relationship, support(this can be emotionally or likewise) and many more. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by JOACHINpedro: 9:49am On Sep 29, 2020 |
oyatz:I think they went too extreme 2 Likes |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Liposure: 9:50am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Powerfly:not as baffling as a lady looking for a virgin husband 1 Like |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:00am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO:big brother |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:04am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Tabasco23:Oh lol I don't watch that. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Liposure: 10:05am On Sep 29, 2020 |
fati2001:ladies too encourage premarital sex. Lets call a spade a spade |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:06am On Sep 29, 2020 |
StacyO:that's makes sense |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:10am On Sep 29, 2020 |
oyatz: That might serve them right actually. This era?? It will be very tough to stamp out fornication. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by fati2001(m): 10:10am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Liposure:you can clearly see that on my comment I didn't side any gender... and also I specify by using "some people " so Y saying ladies encourage sex.. if they encourage it then you discourage it. anyone wer no agree he/she walker go... simple! 1 Like |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Liposure: 10:18am On Sep 29, 2020 |
fati2001:i get you but your statement was kind of ambiguous |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by fati2001(m): 10:19am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Liposure:leave it like that. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by cooooooks(m): 10:25am On Sep 29, 2020 |
1. Not all people are the same. We are 200 MILLION people in this country. It is impossible for every one of us to think alike or want the same things. 2. Personally, virginity has no bearing on any dating decision. Zero. 3. Sex in a committed relationship is important. Anyone who acts as though wanting to have sex with me is a favour to me, I run away from! 4. Be real,be yourself, love people for who they are not what they are. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by cooooooks(m): 10:28am On Sep 29, 2020 |
You know the Hisbah is not applied equitably right? Mostly poor people suffer from it. Alhajis that are sleeping with runs girls upandan are not arrested. People having sex with underage girls, if arrested, are made to marry the girl, possibly ruining her life further. StacyO: |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by cooooooks(m): 10:29am On Sep 29, 2020 |
This generalization is funny. Many guys have girlfriends and wives who disturb them everyday to 'perform'. Them no dey tire. StacyO: |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:33am On Sep 29, 2020 |
cooooooks: You guys should just know that anything I'm typing here,I'm putting word "some". Regardless it not being visible enough. My bad. You know once a girl eats the forbidden fruit,it will be hard to stop. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by cooooooks(m): 10:34am On Sep 29, 2020 |
The whole sex virginity thing can make some women have fear of sex or even disgust of sex. Go and read about the problem of vaginismus in Christian communities. Some women are told their entire lives that sex is bad. When they finally get married (usually in their 30s+), these women have such a dear of sex that their bodies refuse to allow penetration. This problem is causing some ministries to change from sex is bad teaching to sex is wonderful...under God. This is also another reason churches try to marry their kids early (leading to high divorce rates). StacyO: |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by cooooooks(m): 10:37am On Sep 29, 2020 |
This is not most Nigerians. Do not allow social media to deceive you. Misslilbootay: |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by cooooooks(m): 10:38am On Sep 29, 2020 |
No, we should not "just know". Edit and put the 'some'. Communication 101. StacyO: |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by JOACHINpedro: 10:39am On Sep 29, 2020 |
fati2001:And a female friend said she can't marry a virgin guy, guess what 'She confirmed to be a virgin'. My point is that people have different preference, as for me I don't mind marrying a non-Virgin but if I end up with a virgin, I would go extra mile for her. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:42am On Sep 29, 2020 |
cooooooks: Sex is important. Now you wrote virginity is zero to you. ![]() How about the whole sex in the committed relationship which let's assume later crashes. She meets uncle B when ready to get married and he tells her virginity or nothing else. What do you think will be her fate? What I'm trying to put up now is that,isn't there a way that premarital sex can be eradicated?? So that those who are holding steadfast to their dignity won't be pressurized. Our forefathers weren't even like this ![]() Why in the writeup,civilization plays a major role here. |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 29, 2020 |
cooooooks:Done 1 Like |
Re: Sex In A Relationship, Ladies DON'T Be DECEIVED. by cooooooks(m): 10:46am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Our forefathers got married at 16. Both grandmother's born in the 20s and 40s got married at 18 and they were relatively old. I don't know where all these men that are saying virginity or nothing else are. I don't know them and I know a lot of people. Who is Aunty A mingling with that she met Uncle B that has such an inexplicable 'want'? EDIT: Why are you assuming that a committed relationship will crash. Wouldn't such an assumption and mindset cause the relationship to crash? StacyO: |
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