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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Sty1esLawyer: 5:16pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Mynd44:Exactly! You can be good elsewhere like in the bedroom, at shopping, at wearing the latest wares and adorning in the latest makeup!! You'll come back home at night and see the kids complaining that they can't eat mummy's food after mummy has forced them countless times and at the end of the day, there's mass wastage! Face it, a woman who can't cook well will only constitute wastage of resources in the home. Lol. Oga said making food is an art. One would think making eba, rice or noodles is. Forget all these talk, making various sumptious delicacies out of your personal recipe is an art. I don't know when art became the ability to be able to draw the work of others or when artists became one through drawing what others have drew. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
jumper524:you dey make sense one kind.. abeg open new thread for this and mention me there |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 5:16pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
veave: M sure such man will bang the hell out of the hired cook Why won't you know how to cook and u want to wife-able?? Which money are U making sef U will rather slave under ur boss which fortunately most are males than cook for ur husband ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 5:21pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Cousin9999: We are not saying which gender should be good at cooking okayyy The woman must know how to cook especially if she wants to wifeable |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Elsueno: 5:23pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
olasaad:it's a compulsory, at least if you can't cook for ur husband, do so for ur kids |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by bukatyne(f): 5:23pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Good cooking is one of the hallmarks of good housekeeping. 12 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by RoRoo: 5:24pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
No. You can be good elsewhere, the idea that women must be good in the kitchen only propagate the wrong Idea that they belong there. It also creates a situation where the man is okay not making food because he believes it is the job of the woman. Making food is an art and some people just don't have it. Although, I believe every human(male or female) should possess the basic skill to make their own food. The food might not be tasteful but they should be able to whip up something so theu shouldn't starve even if they can afford to buy. Atleast sabi cook noodles. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Sty1esLawyer: No mind that guy.. na to ban him sabi. Nothing else. A woman should be able to cook at least good food. She nor need be chef of the year. Imagine subscribing to noodles as a grown man... maybe eggs nor go dey sef cos the woman might not know what to do with the eggs talk more of meat or fish. I can'r be working hard and my kids be eating trash. In fact na from dating e dey start. Any girl that can't cook her native dishes (even if i don't know the names).. sorry oo take ur fine face and big yansh elsewhere! 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shokoloko(f): 5:24pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Not entirely correct. A woman's top priority in marriage is keeping her kids well taken care of, building a legacy for her kids and then the good husband comes. Most of the time they are tired and stressed so they are happy to deliver AVERAGE sex, food and submission. From a woman, there is no heavenly feeling you get when you cook for your husband. if cooking is a hobby, whether you cook for your husband or mother or kids you will get the heavenly feeling. If it is a chore for you, no matter who you cook for, you will never have a heavenly feeling. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Both males and females should know how to cook. Just like they should know how to clean up their environment. But it isn't compulsory for a female to be a good cook. She should just know how to cook healthy foods for herself and her kids if she decides to have one. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by veave(f): 5:26pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
slimman007: Lool. You're the only one I'm going to reply on this issue. 1. I'm married. 2. I can cook very well. 3. The only thing stopping me from getting a cook is because i can't afford it yet. 4. Marriage is not a do or die affair so if a man chooses not to eat because his 'wife's wasn't the person that prepared the meal hence wanting a divorce, he can as well go his way. 5. Life is too short to put yourself under endless stress when there's an alternative. Thank you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
bukatyne:Na once u dey know who grow for better home.. E nor dey hide... God bless u. Una nor plenty again 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shokoloko(f): 5:27pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
membranus: What if she and her spouse own the home? How does she get sent out? |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by LutanFyah: 5:28pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Mynd44:Is it compulsory for a man to know how to make money and provide for his family? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by lucky4west: 5:28pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
yes...a woman should be a good cook...there is a limit to what others can do for you...even if u want house help u must and should cook once in a while...even me as a guy i'm a good cook not to talk of a lady...especially we Africans we enjoy family life/time a lot and nothing like home made meals...for me when i get to admire my woman most and gist/review the days activities is when she is cooking in the kitchen...some times i come grabbing from behind....hugging ummm ummmh...so u see without the kitchen that aspect of our romance will not be there 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by bunnae(f): 5:29pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Nope, never. But it could be a plus if she could. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Liposure: 5:30pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
She must know how to cook oh. I don't joke with my stomach |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 5:30pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Shokoloko: This is from a woman who is career driven. A woman who prioritizes career over family. So u won't understand what I typed. Women who prioritize family over career don't have any issue giving their husbands regular quality sex, quality meals and quality submission I don't like career ladies at all because they will rather slave for their boss,who are mostly male than play their needed roles in the household. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by theFilmtric: 5:31pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Wunna:lie must you be tribalistic in everything? www.nairaland.com/attachments/12961679_12822921screenshot20201211151521jpegd954aebb8edfb61ed8eb3efce978b922_jpeg_jpegde2dff8bc554f6f12a49ea5e05e1d306 theFilmtricsay 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Tajbol4splend(m): 5:31pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 5:34pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
veave: Ordinary to cook for ur husband is wahala but to slave under ur boss which fortunately most are males is EMPOWERMENT SMH!!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shokoloko(f): 5:35pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Your daughter might decide to be the next Dangote: you know what that means, it means she might be a career woman. So lets learn to like everyone 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 5:35pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Shokoloko: Not in Nigeria tho |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by PreciousGurl(f): 5:36pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
No it's not compulsory... You can hire a cook if you have the money... 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Shokoloko: That's how you spread Femcentrism in Nigeria These way of thinking has led to divorce and destructive of family units in western societies that are progressive Many fatherless children of single mothers How can you turn your wifely duties and responsibilities to an hubby , it shows you are not humble , these way of thinking makes men to sleep and date their maid's 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by subcbouy: 5:37pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
It isn't compulsory but mandatory for woman to know how to cook, else, husband will be eating outside and come for only...if you know. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by veave(f): 5:37pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
DEMZEE: You're trying to use your life's situation on me. I'm not the root of your aggression. If youre a slave to your boss kindly resign. Don't assume I'm suffering the same predicament as you are. Thank you. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by angelfallz(m): 5:37pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
yes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Humans both old and young eat. Infact nutrition is a very serious business as it can determine your life span as a human. Yet Africans put the responsibility on just a woman alone as if hunger is a respecter of gender ![]() All this "na man" mentality is the reason why most men have no basic survival skills. They can't even take care of themselves alone.You are human first before male for crying out loud, it's your duty to take good care of yourself and your stomach before anyone else does it for you. In conclusion; both men and women should know how to take care of their stomachs. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
PreciousGurl: Then why you his wife What home training did you now receive |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by abbey621(m): 5:38pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
In life one must choose his or her battles wisely! You don't have to be a good cook but a decent one, it has less to do with the food and more to do with your upbringing. A mother's role is very essential, if your mom never taught you how to cook, how do you plan on teaching your kids? If she never bothered teaching you how to cook, one wonders what else she forgot to teach you? Now we have exceptions such as those filthy rich, those men who just don't care and the ones wey dey wash pant, for these type of men, a woman that knows how to cook is not needed. So in this life, I repeat choose your battle/partner wisely! 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 5:39pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Shokoloko: God forbid I reject it b the next dangote at Wat cost, end up marrying late if at all she gets married or she will b a single mother because all she will be attracting is beta males and simps, or she might even get married old and end up childless Women are not built for big business and politics ma'am 1 Like |
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