Dapcity007:


That's how you spread Femcentrism in Nigeria
These way of thinking has led to divorce and destructive of family units in western societies that are progressive
Many fatherless children of single mothers

How can you turn your wifely duties and responsibilities to an hubby , it shows you are not humble , these way of thinking makes men to sleep and date their maid's

Read again with comprehension and then show me where I stated that the husband takes over wifely duties and responsibilities?

Dapcity007:


Then why you his wife
What home training did you now receive

That is why I said if the money is there then don't waste your energy.
Get someone to do it for you.

Wittyduchess:
Humans both old and young eat. Infact nutrition is a very serious business as it can determine your life span as a human. Yet people Africans put the responsibility on just a woman alone as if hunger is a respecter of gender .


All this "na man" mentality is the reason why most men have no basic survival skills. They can't even take care of themselves alone.

Don't change the subject
Men Alone can survive but with wife come responsiblity for provisioning of the family
Don't give a woman's responsiblity to a man under the disguise of survival mechanism when he's going to be the breadwinner
You logic is fallacious

veave:



You're trying to use your life's situation on me. I'm not the root of your aggression. If youre a slave to your boss kindly resign. Don't assume I'm suffering the same predicament as you are. Thank you.

I'm just saying most career women are slaves to their boss

Tuehhhhhhh

PreciousGurl:


That is why I said if the money is there then don't waste your energy.
Get someone to do it for you.

That's why men impregnate their maid or have side chicks(concubines)
I will never fault Nigerian men again since women can be thinking like these

Leshurr:
Yes.

But according to Kevin Samuels, it's not enough to just be a good cook; a woman of quality should also have her own recipe book with her own culinary inventions..

Are you single? I want to marry you with immediate alacrity. I want you to be my wife, effective immediately all due protocol will be observe later.

Mynd44:
No.
You can be good elsewhere, the idea that women must be good in the kitchen only propagate the wrong Idea that they belong there. It also creates a situation where the man is okay not making food because he believes it is the job of the woman. Making food is an art and some people just don't have it.

Although, I believe every human(male or female) should possess the basic skill to make their own food. The food might not be tasteful but they should be able to whip up something so theu shouldn't starve even if they can afford to buy. Atleast sabi cook noodles.

thank You Mr Mynd for Moving It To Front Page, i Will Tell Them To Feature Some Nairaland Comments In Their coming Videos.

Stay Blessed

Dapcity007:


That's why men impregnate their maid or have side chicks(concubines)
I will never fault Nigerian men again since women can be thinking like these

Nonsense, that is no valid excuse for infedility from the husband's side...
If you can afford a maid to do the cooking then go for it.
There are other responsibilities women shoulder in the average Nigerian home that if it were to be a man, they would have started crying all over the net.

veave:



You're trying to use your life's situation on me. I'm not the root of your aggression. If youre a slave to your boss kindly resign. Don't assume I'm suffering the same predicament as you are. Thank you.

You are competing with men and your fellow women in your workplace,worn out , stressed and used by your boss
An housewife is the boss of her household ,while her husband is the external provisioner

No. Simple.

Wunna:
98.07% of afonja women cook trash but they got husbands and are enjoying life
So it ain't compulsory
However, it's compulsory for a woman to be good in bed. So her man won't be snatched by a trash cook but a biitch in bed

This one is typing from the psychiatric ward of the Isolation Centre

PreciousGurl:


That is why I said if the money is there then don't waste your energy.
Get someone to do it for you.

Even if money is there why would you still decide to not cook for your husband, I don't get.... Isn't the availability of money even a sense of sweetening the cooking for ur husband

Is it compulsory for a man to be good in bed??

Answer that first.

PreciousGurl:


Nonsense, that is no valid excuse for infedility from the husband's side...
If you can afford a maid to do the cooking then go for it.
There are other responsibilities women shoulder in the average Nigerian home that if it were to be a man, they would have started crying all over the net.

The keys to a man's heart are sex,food and children
Your intelligence and provisioning skill is not attractive to a man
Know these facts and you will have a glorious marriage

Behavior
Brain
Beauty

That's all we need brain (smartness) not intelligence

Dapcity007:


Don't change the subject
Men Alone can survive but with wife come responsiblity for provisioning of the family
Don't give a woman's responsiblity to a man under the disguise of survival mechanism when he's going to be the breadwinner
You logic is fallacious

Shedding this mentality of yours is going to be hard work. I would have loved to try, but the problem with people like you is it's engraved in your very core.

Yessss
If anyone tells you otherwise, he or she is just trying to be 'woke' foolishly or are just plain lazy people.
Wise women know that the way to a man's heart is through food.
For generations, women have been cooking and most women are better cooks than a lot of men.
That is why women are the defacto cooks when it comes to any event.
Women love to showcase their cooing skills to the men they love.

veave:
No. Just make enough money and employ one. The most important thing is the availability of cooked food.

It’s not mandatory bt for some men it is not negotiable they want to eat ur cooking atleast sometimes. To be honest it’s a disadvantage for a gal bt not so bad sha

PreciousGurl:


Nonsense, that is no valid excuse for infedility from the husband's side...
If you can afford a maid to do the cooking then go for it.
There are other responsibilities women shoulder in the average Nigerian home that if it were to be a man, they would have started crying all over the net.

Wat other responsibilities do women shoulder in the average Nigeria home that will make her see cooking for her own husband a task and a punishment

Wittyduchess:
Shedding this mentality of yours is going to be hard work. I would have loved to try, but the problem with people like you is it's engraved in your very core.

At least we don't have a divorce culture and miserable single ladies culture

Wittyduchess:
Shedding this mentality of yours is going to be hard work. I would have loved to try, but the problem with people like you is it's engraved in your very core.

Our society is conservative
Your ideology is progressive
Egalitarianistic-Equalism can't work in marriage
That's why marriage has declined in western societies

Mynd44:
No.
You can be good elsewhere, the idea that women must be good in the kitchen only propagate the wrong Idea that they belong there. It also creates a situation where the man is okay not making food because he believes it is the job of the woman. Making food is an art and some people just don't have it.

Although, I believe every human(male or female) should possess the basic skill to make their own food. The food might not be tasteful but they should be able to whip up something so theu shouldn't starve even if they can afford to buy. Atleast sabi cook noodles.

Applause!!!

TemmyT002:
Yessss
If anyone tells you otherwise, he or she is just trying to be 'woke' foolishly or are just plain lazy people.
Wise women know that the way to a man's heart is through food.
For generations, women have been cooking and most women are better cooks than a lot of men.
That is why women are the defacto cooks when it comes to any event.
Women love to showcase their cooing skills to the men they love.

On point

They want to cover their laziness very unbelievable women

jaxxy:


It’s not mandatory bt for some men it is not negotiable they want to eat ur cooking atleast sometimes. To be honest it’s a disadvantage for a gal bt not so bad sha

It's worse in marriage
Very destructive
Look at the west and look at the rate of divorce there
Simply because men and women don't know their traditional role again

What I sha know is that ,if you like cook like cookery book,man wey go Waka leave you go leave you.


Back to the question:
It's ideal for a woman to know how to cook,same for men too. I wonder who ascribed Cooking only to the female gender.
It is compulsory for both men and women to know how to cook.

TemmyT002:
Yessss
If anyone tells you otherwise, he or she is just trying to be 'woke' foolishly or are just plain lazy people.
Wise women know that the way to a man's heart is through food.
For generations, women have been cooking and most women are better cooks than a lot of men.
That is why women are the defacto cooks when it comes to any event.
Women love to showcase their cooing skills to the men they love.

God bless you

DEMZEE:


At least we don't have a divorce culture and miserable single ladies culture

lol,Are you sure about that? You should know your environment more. I know data and statistics is not a thing for you Nigerians but you should know divorce rates have doubled and this has nothing to do with cooking ,just imagine if cooking was to be added to the troubles plaguing Nigerian marriages.

Dapcity007:


It's worse in marriage
Very destructive
Look at the west and look at the rate of divorce there
Simply because men and women don't know their traditional role again

Traditional roles shud not be abused also. It about having the right balance.

ukaface:
What I sha know is that ,if you like cook like cookery book,man wey go Waka leave you go leave you.


Back to the question:
It's ideal for a woman to know how to cook,same for men too. I wonder who ascribed Cooking only to the female gender.
It is compulsory for both men and women to know how to cook.

It is not negotiable for a woman
For God's sake it your wifely and motherly duty
Our mothers and grandmother's did it and never complained
Why is it that mordern women are now complaining
50-50 equality can't work in marriage

ukaface:
What I sha know is that ,if you like cook like cookery book,man wey go Waka leave you go leave you.


Back to the question:
It's ideal for a woman to know how to cook,same for men too. I wonder who ascribed Cooking only to the female gender.
It is compulsory for both men and women to know how to cook.

Cooking is a female gender thing

It has been in existence for generations

Why is cooking for ur own husband hard for u to do??

I'm very sure u are a career lady

Marriage is not 50/50

veave:
No. Just make enough money and employ one. The most important thing is the availability of cooked food.

Plain stupid. The essence of mankind is to be able to handover your potent skills to up coming generation. what will you handover ? Mrs employ house cook. Plz don't accuse your husband of having women friends Ooooh or if he chose to marry another woman who can satisfy his culinary interest.

Mynd44:
No.
You can be good elsewhere, the idea that women must be good in the kitchen only propagate the wrong Idea that they belong there. It also creates a situation where the man is okay not making food because he believes it is the job of the woman. Making food is an art and some people just don't have it.

Although, I believe every human(male or female) should possess the basic skill to make their own food. The food might not be tasteful but they should be able to whip up something so theu shouldn't starve even if they can afford to buy. Atleast sabi cook noodles.

Chief.
It's COMPULSORY for a woman to be a good cook.
Men should learn to cook too, but the task of cooking is primarily a woman's role.
If both are busy, the guy should be understanding enough to know when to assist or take over.
If she's sick, the guy cooks and take care of her, after recovery, she takes over.
If both are less busy, it is the DUTY of the woman to humbly take herself to the kitchen, while it's the husband's duty to provide for the family.
Shikena!

jaxxy:


Traditional roles shud not be abused also. It about having the right balance.

There is no excuse
Our mothers did it with love for their family
Mordern women are against these by insisting that their husbands behave like them which is an Egalitarian-equalisic way of thinking , it happens in progressive societies like Norway, Canada and people are no longer marrying again