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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Dapcity007:Conservative ? Lol ,if you say so, I can assure you that word won't stand for long, the center will have to give way with the coming of this "woke " generation. Also even as of now, I think describing Nigeria as conservative is a bit misleading,just saying. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by onyenatruchi: 5:58pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
veave:ibu onye ara |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Cooking itself is Feminine in nature |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 6:00pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Wittyduchess: That's a lie people are getting married every fucking weekends Divorce do happen but it's not a culture here and we Shame the perpetrators 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Wittyduchess: Woke I don't think so , we have Islam to keep Christian youths in check in case we misbehave I understand your point |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
DEMZEE:"Shame perpetrators" . Wow! You are so funny, let me guess ,you put ash on their foreheads and drag them through the market square for ending their marriage ![]() ![]() ![]() You know what, I hear you. Have a nice day. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Wittyduchess: Our culture doesn't tolerate or celebrate single mothers and divorcees 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shortyyy(f): 6:05pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
veave: Nne you're busting my head with your replies ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Dapcity007:Islam ,the 18th century model of living ,oh I forgot about that. And by "keeping christian youths in check" I am guessing you mean jihad currently hovering around the south? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by rasxx(m): 6:06pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
I don't need a good cook, anyone can be hired for that, I need companionship, a friend. If she spends all the time cooking how do we bond? Knowing also that you need to hustle ,Plus children wahala. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 6:07pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Wittyduchess: We don't teach our young females that single motherhood is strength and getting divorced or having a tag of divorces on their memo is empowerment 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by veave(f): 6:07pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Shortyyy: My love, I can't kill myself, some Nigerians think its only when you suffer till you die that is when you're truly living. Abiarom uwa afufu biko. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Olayetan(m): 6:08pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
I don't know how some Africans reason, is food a necessity in one's life? If yes then why is cooking food not important? Imagine if everyone start seeing cooking as something not important then who would do it for even money and personal consumption. You want to ride your own car and have your own shelter cux you believe they are important things but cooking skills isn't important and you want to foolishly employ a cook that can easily get you poisoned and abscond away. Cooking skill very important to female cux it's part of their duty as it's part of male duty to provide everything for the entire household 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 6:09pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
rasxx: Why do you want ur wife to hustle like a man in the first place?? |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by simplesearch: 6:10pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
One of the things that qualifies a woman to be called a wife and not just a woman is in her ability to cook properly well and take care of her household. Even if your arrogance and pride won't make you submit to your husband as a woman, at least you should submit to your stomach and children. If as a woman you have to be visiting Park N shop every now and then to buy soup, that will be a shame to you on the long run! Once a woman can't cook properly it simply means she had an incomplete parenting while growing up, and no matter how you try to cover it up one day you'll run out of excuse. Read the profile of Kamala Harris and you will see that one of the things she's proud of, is in her ability to cook very well and fill her chicken, that's every woman's hope, joy, aspiration, fulfillment and pride. To be able to fill her chicken and fill it well! Cooking is not a man's duty, a sensible woman won't even want a man choking her kitchen space, she wants to have all her freedom and do all her experiment in there. That's why some kitchen are better equipped and more comfortable than the living room. Not saying the man can't help out as situation may warrant, that's common sense. But the kitchen belong to the woman! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Wittyduchess: No Nigeria is an ethnico- religious society, if any progressive law is to be passed we will scrutinize it with our cultural and religious bias , then we amend or reject them Divorce Abortion Femcentric biased family court legal system False rape culture Affirmative action Quota policies Identity politics (Nigeria is tribalistic tho but ok) Will all be prevented in Nigeria |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 6:10pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
veave: M very sure u are not married and u are way into ur 30s 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by PreciousGurl(f): 6:10pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
DEMZEE: What? Maybe you are confusing the topic of the thread. I didn't say a woman should not cook for her husband. I am just implying that it is not a must that a woman must be a good cook. Emphasis on good cook. But then I think everyone should strive to know how to make their own meals to their taste. My best soup may taste somehow to another party. Taste differs. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by simplesearch: 6:11pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
rasxx: You're not speaking from experience. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by slimman007: 6:12pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
veave: For you to have agreed to get married you MUST know how to prepared good meal for your husband.I see no reason why I married you and you can't cook good food and expect peace in that home..Madam is better you pack out and allow another woman who is ready to be called a wife takes your place..I come in PEACE 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Ghostmode2two(m): 6:12pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
I am also sure that a woman should not be good in sex too so that her marriage will be perfect. Not a good cook and not good in sex. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Shortyyy(f): 6:12pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Assuming I marry and with this busy schedule of mine, you'll expect me to sit down every day and be cooking for you. If I hire a chef for that and you don't want, you'll be cooking your food yourself. And if that's a major criterion for the marriage, then boy bye. |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by jaxxy(m): 6:13pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Dapcity007: Civilization changes a lot and the world has changed abit. Wives have taken up more manly roles and therefore need support or Sm balance. There is nothing wrong with that. A man can’t just sit down and be demanding this and that. We are not in the 15th century. Be realistic or atleast marry who fits ur mentality for peace of mind sake. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
veave: Don't be a caricature copy of a man You don't understand masculinity and never will because you don't have a dick You can mimic masculinity but never become a real one 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 6:14pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
PreciousGurl: U didn't answer my question tho Good is relative But a woman must know how to cook especially if she wants to be wife-able |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by leomarz007: 6:15pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
pdpchangeapc: you've said it all. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by poweredcom(m): 6:15pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Any woman dat can't cook is a very stupid and wasted woman 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
jaxxy: I'm not a realist But a pragmatist The decline of roman empire was accelerated due did to promotion of femcentric Egalitarianistic-Equalistic social progressive ideologies same thing is happening in western today Very realistic but destructive 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by DEMZEE(m): 6:17pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
jaxxy: Look at progressive nations with equalism culture and see how they have useless the marriage institution. I don't believe men and women are fundamentally equal 1 Like |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
poweredcom: Nice |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Mynd44:You're on point. Cooking is a basic skill everyone should have. I hope you know they will call you "simp"? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Be A Good Cook? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jan 26, 2021 |
Deserea:Yen yen yen.... 2 Likes |
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