I agree ignore him and if he insists just hummiliate him. men like than do not deserve any respect

You are after other girls and the worst u do it in front of her, R U real? Your answer on this question is the same answer on your question. Wake up mate you r playing with her intelligent and she is playing with yours.

no kissing? a bit too much i think for after six months relationship. speak with her and try to find out what holds her back

home cooked food the most of the days and eating out once or twice a week

religion is not impotant to me but i wouldn't change it for anyone. the issue is which religion kids will have if hubby and wife have different religions.

better forget about him and move on

I don't think is only black girls but for succesful women in general is more difficult to find a suitable partner as there are not as many succesful men available. And don't get me wrong it doesn't mean that partners should be on the same educational level or socio-economic status if there is love but somehow it makes people less compatable if their lifestyles, dreams, ambition etc are different. Plus many men do not want to be with women who are more succesful than them. It might be a little be more difficult for black girls that they only consider a parter from the same race but from what i can see more black succesful women are getting married to people of other races. I think it happens because their circle of friends have more men from other races.

m not nigerian but i found it hard to believe this

u can never be sure but I don't think he is cheating with any of them (hope not), it would have been a bit strange specially for the one that he knows her boyfriend now as well and they seem to be in a good relationship for some time now. And to be fair the one is quite good-looking the other ones are not something special (i saw photos of them on fb) and i know that my guy is into good looking girls. The strange bit is that they know about me (m sure about this as he spoke on them on the phone in front of me and mentioned that he is on my place or sth like this and he has me listed as' in a relationship with' on fb) and i wonder don't they found it strange that they haven't met me? By the these girls are friends with each other and know my bf for around 10 years.

yes, but what can be the reason?  it doesn't make sense to me why i will feel jealous if there is nothing to be jealous of


[quote][/quote]I think you should not look for what you have not lost.

If your guy says it is not yet time for you to meet them, i guess he knows what he is saying and
why he is saying so. It's not as if you have any cause to suspect him with any one of them.

In my books, it means a lot for a guy to have introduced you to his folks (except he introduced
you as his friend ) and also encourage you to spend time with his mum.

Do not complicate issues! My 2 kobo.

if you spend your time in fb looking for other girls m not suprised that your sex life wth your girl is not good. try to spice things up with your girlfriend, be more romantic and you'll both enjoy it and stop looking around, it just creates problems

Mr Cork, yes to all but why r u asking ?

I'm in a long-term relationship (5 years) and everything goes well but there is an issue in our relationship. My bf has some female friends, about 3-4 that I have never met. I only spoke on the phone wth one of them years back when he stopped over to her house for a night (she lives in another city with her boyfriend) and he introduced me over the phone without asking him. In general he is very private when it comes even to his male friends, I've met some of them all these years when it just happened not a case that I want to introduce you to my friends. On the oher hand he introduced me to all his family members and he always encouraged me to spend some time with his mum when she is around (I was trying to keep my distance).I'm alrgiht with him having female friends as I am not the insecure type and I have some male friends too but not very close (he met all of them who are mostly my friends' boyfriends or husbands). It has started to worry me as he doesn't want to introduce me to them and he is accusing me of being jealous and that I don't trust him because I nag aout this. He says that he knows that I will feel jealous if I meet them and he doesn't want to cause a problem in the relationship and he will end up loosing his friends. He swore at his mum's life that nothing is going on with any of them and that nothing happened in the past. They are just girls that he knows for years and he even knows their family, he doesn't seem them often, propably once in many months but he is on regular contact via phone or email. From what I know the two of them are not the 'good' type of girls, they have been around the block and he admitted that they are flirty girls, they always have some issues with boyfriends and have kids with the wrong men without being married and end up raise them on their own. I just can't understand why he doesn't introduce me to them.