For those of you who had actul advice thanks very much!
But for others heres some more information, No we do not work at Burger King we actully work at Wells Fargo. I' am still a student and he graduated college a few years ago, so as far as Burger King goes no way. Not that there is anything wrong with burger king. A job is a job so i wouldn't be bashing anyline of legitimate work. For the myspapce thing a lot of people believe it or not have myspace, my eye doctore does so it's no big deal it's a way to connect with people and my guy just turned 26 so it's not like hes 50 and has myspace. And yes he has never asked me on a "date" but he has called me to "hang out" a few times after work. Just the other night he wanted to go out, but i declined because I still don't know if I have it in me to take the relationship there. Like many of u said office relationships get sticky. So I'm still very doubtfull of his intentions twords me. We both are still young and don't have the right answers.

Haa I know what u mean arguing can be fun, or at least the making up part is
But it most def. lets u know that she is a strong person if she can argue her views and many times it can be sexy to know u have a girl who is willing to fight for what she wants!!
I have a friend who is very passive when it comes to her bf. I think she is that way because she is scared that there will be no making up after a huge fight. So she avoids having fights with him, because she is scared it will give him an excuse to walk away from the relationship. But I guess in ur case the opposite is true ur willing to walk away because there is no fighting going on.

How much does age difference really matter?
My rule was always If he was born in the 80's and our age difference is a single diget, which it is but I still wonder is he too old??

i feel that as humans we only love ourselfs and things that are apart of us our children but we like everything else.

WOW, my boyfriend better not ever forget especially since me and his mom have the same birthday, to forget the birthday of 2 important women in his life would just most def. put him in the dog house for a really really really long time, GUY DON'T EVER FORGET UR GIRLS BIRTHDAY!!!

As a girl i don't need a guy to go all out to tell me he loves me, it's not about the nice place or candles its about the timing being right and him actully meaning it. The moment a guy tells you he loves you makes u forget about where ur at. Its a special momet for me it shouldn't be in a crowded resturnat it should be intment a moment just between the two of us.

Do you feel he loves you back??
If so that may be the reason u still love him. But there is never a right answer to such a question. The ethical answer would be get over him he's married. But I know that's easier said then done, we don't chose who we love it just happens and we can't do anything about it. Your best bet would be to distance yourself from him, and let your feelings die down after all he is married and taking things to the next level with him could only end up hurting you more then making you happy. It's complicated but whatever you chose to do good luck.

No he's only 26 and no he's 100% single
And I'm 20!!

So recently we got a new manager at my job. He's and attractive guy who is younger then most the other bosses at work. Ever since he started I had a little crush on him that only one of my other friends at work knew about. Needless to say it was no big deal. We would talk at work and maybe flirt a little but it still was not at the point of crossing any major lines, I feel that I did a very good job of hiding my feelings for him. Then recently he sent me a message over myspece, we kind of talked for a while. After that we started chatting more and more over AIM. I never made it known to him that I like him so i was wondering is there a chance he likes me? He's the one always IMing me and making an effort to talk to me. We have talked about everything from our past all the way to what we want out of the future. This has only increased my attraction twords him. But it is policy that we can not date.  So do you think he may have smililar feeling for me?
And if we wanted to could we make a relationship work even though it is against policy to date eachother?

I think it is important to know the person you are with, so in that case you would have to know their past becasue it's an important part of who they are. And who they may eventully become.