TWO REAL FACTS ABOUT WOMEN:
#FACT 1
~ A guy bought a girl a nice gift last year,
she
said
she couldn't
find the words to thank him. So he bought
her a
dictionary
this year.
She broke up with him.
~ They will argue with you for more than
20
minutes
and
they will be like "I'm not even going to
argue
with
you"...
Ahn ahn, what have you been doing since??
~ At 20 - 25yrs, they will be screening
guys
to
date
as if
it's MTN project fame, and by the time
they are
more
than
28yrs, they will start searching for guys
as
if it's
Gulder
Ultimate Search.
~ Every girl always pray for HARD
WORKING
man as
husband, but they don't respond to
greetings
from
Brick
layers, Barrow pushers, etc.....
~ Most of this ladies will be killing
themselves
trying
to
wear expensive weeve-ons, when they all
know
that
most
of us guys don't even know the difference
between a
Brazilian hair and Darling Yaki...!!!
#FACT 2:
Ladies…!
~ No man ever wants a 'crazy' wife! It is
only guys who want a 'crazy' girlfriend, so
don't be deceived.
~ A guy who wants you to party hard
every
weekend, expose your boobs, wear skimpy
clothes, loud make ups and get down with
11 bottles of beer while he is on 15 will
NEVER marry you!
~ A guy who wants sex everywhere with
you when he is not yet married to you will
see you as a LovePeddler when the time for
marriage eventually comes... Have you
ever wondered why most of these crazy
guys go for the 'timid' and 'local' looking
girls when it comes to marriage but dump
the sexy, sassy and gorgeous looking
ones ..... A man wants more than
beauty for marriage!
~ Those boobs you are flaunting
everywhere will eventually sag someday so
invest in yourself! A man really wants a
place he can call home, he wants a woman
who is modest and can take care of his
parents, one with whom the children can
confide in, the one he can take major
decisions with and tell all his fears. He
wants a wife, mother and sister all in
one...
I'm not saying that looking good is bad. In
fact looking good is good business, but you
have got to look beyond that and pay
more
attention to things that keep a home. If
you truly want to attract a decent man,
please be decent yourself and do not let
any man use you to pass time!

U are a man....the father spoke to u like a man from his own perspectives...reply him back as a man from ur own view of things...most times...some things happen for a purpose...focus on the new girl, since shE have gat the qualities u desire in a lady....and be happy bt dnt stp being friends with the father....frm time to time...u can always call him to find out how he is doing...that's maturity...soon ur x definitely will regret her actions and u will be greatful that everything happened the way it did...goodluck bro!

@cstandhope

Sorry but for me I think that the relationship has no future!

Bro its in em...just device a means to counter the nagging...keeping silence @ em @ the point of their nagging is a very sure anti-duct to that behaviour, it makes em look like a fool...u either turn on ur tele and watch a match or u pik up a news paper and read...believe me...she will never nag again after the xperience she will gain from ur action...#mysecret...goodluck!

I remember the trick I and my friends played back then In secondary school...those times their where school fees drive and we where yet to pay our new term fees, we often used our old term school fees receipt to deceive the bursar @ the gate....we might jst do a little editing by the d8 side bt every other thing is perfect and it really kept us going....lol...#sharp shooters!

All things being equall....I applaud iyabo and am very certain this is taking us some where...how can a man who. Can not control his family control a whole nation? How can a man who slept with his sons wife rule over us and yet we tolerated him and he still initiates the guts to feel as a lord over this nation? Even though jonathan wants to run for as many times as he wish...Obasanjo is never in any position to question his authority....I nlbelieve jonathan due to his nature has been playing calm and tolerating his altitudes just to lket peace rain...bt @ this point...we have over grown that stage of toleration...things must be said and done as they are that is if we really wish to break away from this cause that have held us for a very long time....God bless iyabo obasanjo....God bless Jonbathan...and God blee the federal republic of nigeria....amen!

This is one big problem with most nigerian men, when a lady let's em know how ey feel about em they tend to take advantage of their feelings....dear there's no need to keep on with him..he only wants to take advantage of u cos u have made ur feelings crystal clear to him...even if he agrees to d8 u now...for me I think it will still be an opportunity to get what he wants which is ur body... So dnt give in to that...be careful with his friendship...stay close to God...he's d only one that can provide u with a king in the nature of a man...all d best!

I don't think there was a time u. Ever loved him...u only misunderstood the heat of the moment to be love...and now u have seen em all the whole thing u felt have died...its called lust dear...and its only goina cause u to break the innocent guys h@...its a pity...I believe the guy has a wonderful future to achieve and mayb nature has it that with u he can't attain what God has set aside for him so do him. That favour and leav....I know it will be hard for him bt he do surely learn to accept reality...all d best!

Popowaa: And if i may ask,who certified this trash?Christmas shopping has began and u want me to reject money if he gives me any?What dress do u expect me to wear for xmas?How do i stock my fridge?Abeg i will accept it with all my heart

he be ur papa?

clemz85: now this is the real " love is blind",

@Op, no is not, it is call SOUL TIE. this what one gets when tied to a wrong partner

my 1naira opinion

lol, finally love is blind oo!

Could this be love??

fellis:

That's not true. If you know that you can't keep from lying please say so instead of blaming your lying habit on women.

@ fellis dear, its not as if am trying to encourage laying or deceit but let's be realistic here...most ladies enjoy lies than the truth...most guys fear rejection from ladies and ey see that as a means to satisfy their wants since its the the most cheapest way to touch their h@! Its tested and proved...bt being truthful abt who u really are remains the best means!

fellis:

That's not true. If you know that you can't keep from lying please say so instead of blaming your lying habit on women.

@ fellis dear, its not as if am trying to encourage laying or deceit but let's be realistic here...most ladies enjoy lies than the truth...most guys fear rejection from ladies and ey see that as a means to satisfy their wants since its the the most cheapest way to touch their h@! Its tested and proved...bt being truthful abt who u really are remains the best means!

For me...I think its normal to miss an x depending on the xtent u both went but u jst have to keep it neutral and open...if u must be friends to her...u have to also be friends to the husband and family as a whole...also deleting her number and trying very hard not to answer to her calls doesn't depict maturity...u can answer her calls and still and still handle every other issue that might come out of it maturedly....she might have a dirty mindset but u as a man and knowing what u want can still make her understand reality better and become best of friends with u with nothing attatched....wish u all d best!

GentleMimi: I'm sooooo guilty! I did it sometime last week.The guy seemed too gentle and i was reluctant to snob him......all the numbers i called were correct except the last digit.

and what did you benefit from that?? Its even more reasonable when you tell him that u dnt give out ur number...mayb u are married...but if u are not then I wonder how u intend to get married through this kinda childish acts...grow up!

lastpage:

WRONG ADVICE!
Never put ANYTHING that portrays you in bad light .... in WRITTEN FORM!
It will come back and bite your yansh, in the very nearest future.

if you must confess at all, do it verbally and face-to-face (dont even allow anyone to record your phone call!)

No talk say l nor warn you o!

Lastpage!

Just imagine if Jonathan has done some stewpid things when he was thirty years (like h carry expo to pass his degree and written it down to one of his babes.... APC or wetin dem call demselves don see ammunition to fire the guy be that o!

oga. U won't relate heart affairs to political affairs here...what I jst stated there is not a hypothesis...bt its a proven fact that has worked for many peeps in relationships which am very much. Aware of....once she's done with reading the later...she will have some time to think and if u really read in between the lines of my statement u will agree with me that I never asked him not to still meet her.....but this I think is d best means cos before they will meet and talk more on the issue the gal must have calmed down and taken a decision..all he will then have to do is to plead more for her forgiveness...is more like a act and if he can portray it very well then its surely going to work...

And Jesus said, if u have no sin...be the first to throw a stone to this woman..I believe u all are conversant with that story in the bible...we are all humans and in one stage or the other in our lives...we have all made mistakes. OP...the most important thing is that u have acknowledged ur mistakes and u have really turned against em...majority of men here all lie to get attention from ladies..and we all know very well that these ladies are also the cause of this lies...but that's not the issue here! This is my advice to u: get a pen and a paper...write a heart touching letter to her..stating all this facts here...tell her every truth against all the lies u told her in the past...then @ the end...let her know that u are not telling her this truths for her to stay back with you cos u know u have really wronged her....tell her that if she wants to move on with her life...that though it won't be easy with u bt that u will understand...still let her know that u love her and that u will be happy if she can accept u as the true u so u both can fix and make up all the loop holes since u said she's ya fiancee! I believe that if she really loves you...she will forgive u...love is all abt sacrifice and forgiveness! Wish ya all d best!

I want to ask just one question, am happy for Lola and am not in any means against peters decision...its his choice bt my question is...would she still have married Peter had it been that peter was not what he is today??

shizzle11: natural beauty has no rival, modest make up is also acceptable, but heavy make-up like when you see a girl, and the heavy lipstick will be enough enough to paint my self contain apartment, NOOOOOOO!!!!!

you on point bro...same with me buh I still adore the natural girls...for me, making up seems like telling God that u aint ok with his handi work on u...buh since its a culture here, @ least ey can always make it moderate...buh the things I c these days ehhh...my brother I tire oo!

Dear as a lady u will attract different species of men...u don't have to blame ur self for any reason...since u are certain that u dress okay...just keep on doing the right things and I belive @ the right time the right man will come...and again, I think I disagree with ur relationship...I think he gat other mission he hope to achieve..but it won't make u to get nasty @ men....rather use wisdom and smiles to really make em understand ur true person...and that will convert the reasonable once and even make em to respect you...they are jst being men..all the best to you!

temi4fash: weda beautiful, makeup or ugly all fades with time na character b d koko.....

wats d essence of avin a beautiful gf and aving sleepless night..

abeggi joor

lol...fact bro...bt first impression matters a lot..before u choose to hang out with sm1, her appearance must have encouraged you to approach her before other things can take suit..this my own opinion though..

Ladies are In trouble...lol, good work op!

Youngreinhard: New Year resolutions ko....... Nee year revolution ni
I dont have any new year resolutions....
I only do what i have to do

invariably u are telling us that u are impressed with everything you do and also u are very certain that God is happy with your life style as well abi??

mcdreeezy: To be honest op, av forgotten if i even had a new year resolution at d beginnin of dis year. They're not easy to keep to you know

ceriously bro....I even wrote down most of my resolutions and to be honest, I don't even know where I kept that diary @ this moment...It takes a huge grace from God to really keep to this resolutions!

How do you rate your self on your resolution decisions?? Do u really keep to them?? I think mine has been on the average cos I couldn't really keep to all my resolution decisions, how about you??

Bro I quite agree with the first person to comment....bt let me still add more to her own opinion...from everything u wrote down here...its quite clear that u really love the girl...and I personally define love as sacrifice...there are things u should bear in mind...there's no perfect person out there...u should be lucky that she's even portraying out her weakness @ least u know how to handle it...most ladies can really pretend and they only get to show case their true nature when u marry em...this is what I think u should do: as u stated in ur write up, put it down as a letter....let her know how u feel...tell her the truth, open up everything to her as u jst stated it here for us...but do not forget to commend the things u cherish about her..before u state these other ugly sides of her...I believe she will take some time to have a sober reflection that will cause her to change...@ the end of everything still follow ur h@ cos it what matters the most....all the best!

teeejhay: um, I think I like girls with makeups on, cause I'm a huge fan of make ups and I love applying them too

ok..its not as if am totally against it oo! But my own choice is natural..ey freak me a lot and I adore em...but if u make up and still keep it mild...its still ok but some ladies make up and end up creating a different image of their true self.....and that's bad...I have seen several of em and most times it looks bad when xpecially the ppl ey tend to please majority of em even though they might conceal it, love natural gals the more bt for the moment...ey will applaud u and have fun bt in their minds, ey know the truth...that's true men for u..

teeejhay: Jeez

what's ur opinion teeejhay? And where do u stand?

Gifted scholar: No u guys re getting it twisted, I believe relatnship shuld be some kind of relief union, I mean u lean on eachoda wit ur burdenw nd show love, I mean wat is love all abt??...its a sacrificial attitude, oneness..caring, kindness u express to another person, its a deep compassion which u show towards d person u hav dat feeling for, did I tell u guys I assit him??...I discovered he has a kind of sick reactn d early days of our relatnship nd I immediately help him treat dat!!..I gav him a medicatn dat worked...I care for him!..I try to assist him d little way I cn! U jst dnt get it...u cn giv witout lovin bt u cnt love witout giving!!...I believe dis in lyf "wat re we leavin for if nt to make lyf less difficult for others??"....I giv, I express my love! I tell him countless tymz...bt even I tell him today am sick nd dyin he ll say go to d hospital nd wen I say I dnt hav money, he ll remain mute, u dnt understand....hw cn u be in a relatnship wit some1 for close to a year nd ur gal/guy hasn't assisted u in any challenge of ur lyf ...relatnship shuld b in form of togetherness..I lean on u, u lean on me dis way d burden is lighter for both of us to bear...I hardly receives d love frm him! No criticsm pls...advice is all I ask...I hope u understand me dat am nt d demanding type...I jst need a shoulder to lean on wen storms rage!!...u understand?...@ james nd co!!

in as much as he is not ur father nor ur husband...for the fact that he prophesies love to u, he is supposed to help you...most african men only say I love to impress bt in the actual sense..they have refused to assimilate the actual meaning of what they say...but on a second thought, is the guy working?? U know, one thing is to have d money and another thing is to bring out the money...bt all the same..@ least he feeds him self...so he shld be able to assist no matter how little....my advice is that u follow ur h@...if u think u are no more happy with his altitude...jst quit and focus on ur problms! Goodluck..

Mr Mac-10:
No bitch is natural get dat in our thick skull

I have seen many natural girls...bt its jst that majority of em are artificial

Oghos1: Op, wth??!
Is that even a question?

u are entitled to what u understood from the topic oo!