I can't remember when last I made a comment on this forum. if you are gonna argue at least think. Matilda claims she changed the title and metadata to the '23th' blah blah and your only rebuttal is she should change it to the 24th ?
This topic was bloody made October 2018. if you dont accept Matilda edited it, then the only other conclusion is Matilda is blessed with the power of visions and foresight and made a perfect prophecy. please don't be blinded when arguing, it just makes you less logical than normal.

cococandy:
Shut up
I could dissect this your nonsense post in a second and show you how flawed your thinking is. But I’d rather pass.
For your mind you done make sense

Make a valid rebuttal or get lost.

safarigirl:
how do you know they all made jest of it when it is just random screenshots that were taken? Did you go to the Instagram handle and read the over 1k comments there to come to this conclusion or are you basing your conclusion on about ten comments?

All these internet judges sha

Ah no wonder you tackled me.
Comment count is slightly more than 1300 with 95% being sarcastic remarks from females.

safarigirl:
you need to find a sense of humour

Just write epistle for nothing. If this was an exam, you would haved failed woefully

Lmao ... Sense of humor ... failed because you the examiner ba.

I'm aware its sarcasm, there can only be 2 reasons for it, either all the people making these jokes are depraved or they are trying to send a message.
Their message is basically to mock the attempts of men they claim shame rape victims by using this dude as a scapegoat by using the criticisms men usually throw out back.

I've already explained why this is silly because these are different situations.

And I hope for both our sakes you won't reply back with some silly retort about humor and 'just for fun' .

Sigh ... Comparing a guy getting raped at a gay party with a girl getting raped at some other rando party is quite silly eh.

1. How common is it to find a gay party.

2. He wasn't aware he was attending a gay party vs girls that are fully aware that they are heading out to a rave with fully hammered (drunk or high) high libido beasts who are hoping to offload that night.

3. The odds of a guy getting raped are far far and I repeat far slimmer than the odds of a girl getting raped.

4. On the offside that a guy is going to get raped, unless sedatives or some type of drugs are involved, it will be a very difficult and hectic feat to rape the average guy.
The average girl tho is as easy as ABC to an evil rapist and can only rely on luck or a hero appearing, which is why girls are warned that if they must go to zones were expecting rape to happen isn't a far off dream they should never go there alone. Or even at all -.-.

Also considering my number 4, dude in this story was nearly raped.

5. The dressing sexy remark is even more stupid. He didn't know he was going to attend a gay party, how does a guy dress sexy yet indecent exactly ... Especially in this country. Then comparing it to girls who specifically dress in the most revealing things they can find ranging from showing breasts, wearing tight skirts or gowns without pants or tongs for maximum thickness, or whatever silly antic just to make heads turn for her own ego trips.

Note I'm not justifying female rape, but going to a place were there is a very decent chance someone will be a victim of a crime (in this case rape quite common), doing things that'll actually attract the aggressor to you is stupid.
If I walk around at night in a place like bariga,holding wads of cash and bling from head to toe and I end up getting jumped. Morally speaking I should be free to roam however I like, but being realistic I was very stupid for creating a target at my back by myself and I'm sure you all will agree with this and if this was a topic on nairaland I'm sure 90% of comments would bash me.
Or let's say you are blessed enough to buy a Porsche and you park your damn car in a place that is known and that you know is popular for car thievery ... If it gets stolen people will laugh at your stupidity . Yet when its rape things change entirely.

Meh back to observing I go

All of you in support of this should realize that this would reflect on their cgpa. The problem isn't the fact that they can't write the exam but the fact that they will still be graded based on an exam they weren't allowed to write. Some people will get automatic 0.00 GPAs.

OgahBohz:




trust me , wen it comes to beauty shz d list amongst my ex's ...
why I cherish her is dt sh poses some wifey attributes..
not just d good luks and all,
plus what mks u think sh doesn't like to be with me? she apparently spend her everyday with bfor she went home for semester break (which sh refused to until sh gt no choice) also we are romantically involved aside sex, there somtinz I can't just say here,


seriously bro, when it comes to being a. player.. u don't wanna know me...

I just find smtn diffrnt abt her, smtn beyond bfs and gfs...

my major problem is , why does she keep reminding me of her bf?...

Wife material ... A girl with a bf you smooching wife material

Mynet11:


kindly check either official jamb website or u check myschool.com.ng for confirmation...I don't spread unconfirmed information

Checking this for my lil sis ... All I can find regarding the 28th of may is the deadline for extended registration, does this also include change of course/institution.

When I later say its worse when a woman cheats I'll be receiving equality backlashes , its funny because the mofo was also a cheat but imagine if he wasn't . All a cheating husband can do is slightly damage his wife's feelings , the reverse is way more severe .(STDs are a mutual something from any cheating party)

If he doesn't return the money there is nothing she can do . Who does she want to report to , MMM is more or less illegal in this country . Doubt the guy would have a change of heart , she has pretty much done her worst and refunding the money won't fix his image anyway. Next time she'll be more careful with such a large sum , A teenager would be flogged silly for this kinda thing

ariesbull:


Ogayou quoted Forbes


We do not do that pre nup here...get it


Why complicate this issue ......we are in Nigeria not Alabama

if you are going to butt into an argument at least read the said argument

erico2k2:

Ofcos i read all of it, why wont I,MOPOL nor dey here nah , however to the force bit, that wont stand in court if it was done in the presence of her lawyers and his lawyers(witness), just saying, that might be where he erred.

Of course lawyers were present for the prenup signing and what not . As for the vocal agreement For all its worth she could have manufactured the promise , its not like the so called promise couldn't have been written in the prenup but no she claims it was said in the past ,and even if it was true , in what world does an oral statement trump a frikin contract and the judge says okay then ... Prenup void ... How na and BTW the woman also cheated on the hubby which was cause for the divorce and now she owns half of his life .

erico2k2:

Plz re read the article again,
I think it gave grounds for which this can be thrown out ie fraudulent ground etc?
So If everything was done correctly then you are as good as gold.

Lord ... Anything the judge 'feels' is fraudulent is fraudulent ... Did you fully read the article , she 'claimed' he forced her to sign the prenup and promised her verbally that when they start having children he would dispose it . This is the so called fraudulent ground ... The prenup was done completely by the book and even had a pay of 25000 dollars for every year they remained married . I'll say it again google is your best friend

ariesbull:


It can't, its a contract and we don't do prenuptial here unless you want complicate simple issues

Stop arguing and just google ... http://www.forbes.com/sites/jefflanders/2013/04/02/five-reasons-your-prenup-might-be-invalid/#11e766662e3d ... http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/headlines/2013/04/n-y-prenup-battle-winner-destroyed-family-with-affair-cousin-says/

erico2k2:

NO IT CANNOT,there was a reason for it.
Prove me wrong plz with citation.
There is a case in the US where someone is not paying child support cos it was in the prenup.

Writing in caps doesn't make you correct , it is general knowledge prenups can be overturned just google it and stop saying things you Dont know.

erico2k2:

cos they chose to, They might not be bothered about getting married, to them lot marriage do not mean a thing.Check teh laws in teh US and the UK, once you have kids and have lived together for xyz numbers of years you have same right as couples who are married
Also you can chose to sign a prenup where both parties value what they have and sign an agreement to go away with such if they do go apart, so as you can see its not a big seal.

prenuptial agreement (redirected from Prenup)
Also found in: Dictionary, Financial, Wikipedia.
prenuptial agreement (antenuptial agreement)
n. a written contract between two people who are about to marry, setting out the terms of possession of assets, treatment of future earnings, control of the property of each, and potential division if the marriage is later dissolved. These agreements are fairly common if either or both parties have substantial assets, children from a prior marriage, potential inheritances, high incomes, or have been "taken" by a prior spouse. (See: antenuptial agreement)

http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Prenup

I hope you realize prenups can and have been overturned on numerous occasions .At the end of the day it isnt "legally binding" but up to the judge whether to adhere to it or throw it under the bus. So you are not totally safe . All the lower earning party needs to do is to claim the pre nup was signed under duress or forcibly and the judge overturns it immediately. Nigeria isn't like this yet but you better hope the judge is incorruptible if you are a billionaire

They basically do nothing computer related till 400 level ... They do c++ , not enough for you to feel like you can code. If you choose to do computer engineering there prepare yourself for a lot of eeg courses and no CPE courses(till year 4)

Babe is giving you ultimatums and you are explaining yourself to her ,your situation is just sad. She is now ignoring you to add to it . Even though you were not wrong in the slightest you stupidly tried to initiate talks first and even throwing away your supposed evil male ego she still ignored you , and you want to marry her , and you think you will live long and happy. better don't listen to 90% of the people above , they are either feminazis or male pants . Cooking is majorly the duty of the female,the male can help if he wants to but not to the point she doesn't feel its her duty. buying of foodstuffs is even moreso .You better wake up , there is nothing hard about buying ponmo and grinding pepper ,if she went out she could probably do all this at the same spot. If she was living alone she would do all these things plus more . Her problem isn't doing the acts themselves but doing the acts for you(funny enough she is gonna eat too so she can't do this for you at all) . She is just exerting power over you , she obviously can't tell you to do everything alone since that's too blatant and its your money so she does the next best thing ... completely disregards what you said you were going to do (pound yam) whilst choosing. your options for you to make it seem like you have a choice she then later acknowledges that you wouldn't want to grind pepper and tells you buying ponmo would be better ... in essence she just took the long winded indirect way of telling you ... No you will not pound the yam , you will go and buy ponmo , its either that or we are not eating anything. imagine responding positively to this. like okay then you go and buy it, who is wearing the pants. When someone attempts to bully or brow beat you into doing something do you start explaining yourself or how what the person is doing is not good , general answer is no unless the person has power over you like a soldier lol.

Stupidity everywhere I go , this trend is getting scary . You people are angry that the man told his wife to take herself and the children to the highest point of their house (the roof) whilst he goes to save his old helpless mother in order to avert her horrid fate of drowning ,suffocation or maybe being smashed to bits by being carried by the water and you guys are angry ... Why ?! the wife was safe the flood was still building up in her vicinity , this is very evident considering she could still pack her things and even money (unless they use polymer notes All the money should be useless) this means the flood wasn't very high , let's even assume the flood was high she only needed to get to the roof , she had ample time to do this abi she can't climb a ladder (not all houses even need a ladder some roofs can be accessed via staircase ) now let's assume this also doesn't work And the flood was so high even the roof couldn't save them , how will her hubbys presence change anything ,is he superman they will all still die . whether the hubby was around or not the safest action was to get on the roof and if this action couldn't save them nothing would . so now that its obvious she is safe are you telling me the dude should have let his mother perish via a terrible means all because she needs him to serve as mental support ?! gender equality my ass . The stupid woman now left him again imagine this sacrificing your mother because you wanted to serve as mental support to a woman who is capable of leaving you and taking all your money on a whim .

Animals everywhere , all of you people justifying this are just animals that deserve to be kept in cages and tamed . You idiots are pissed that she let at most ten men see her naked saying she is throwing away her pride and her father's pride since she isn't a virgin but for some dumb reason all nod to the fact that she was stripped and flogged in the midst of men who shockingly are also seeing her unclothedness whilst one is having an erection , if this wasn't bad enough it was uploaded on YouTube And has been downloaded multiple times , now this secondary school girl is to go back to school trying to pass her exams whilst being the item of scorn ridicule be it her seniors her juniors her teachers heck Even the food sellers And the new inside joke , her neighborhood will be the same , church Lool unless her obviously poor parents have enough money to send her to somewhere far away (another state) she will always be a joke , her friends will all avoid her ,people who dislike her will escalate the hell out of it , animals like you will constantly glare and she will then have to return to her stupid fathers house who will for some reason still expect her to behave like a cultured girl and show him utmost respect and be diligent with her work whilst passing exams and becoming a good person ...how ... being embarrassed in even a remotely public place is enough to dent ones esteem ,90% of the guys supporting this can't even stop a girl they like because they are afraid of being embarrassed in public as if a girl snubbing you will end your life but you expect this small girl to be able to bounce back from this , she is too small to be able to do that she sure as hell can't rely on her parents so her only option will be to wither and die or just Bleep everyone and everything and embrace the shame and become completely wayward ....all because some perverted father decided to flex muscle ... i can't even rant anymore

DollyParton1:

Don't insult me please. I have tried to be civil with you all along. I really tried.

That the fact that she doesn't have to depend on you financially and intellectually scares you. That you want a slave you can control and not a wife.

How the hell is pure shaming language civil

bukatyne:


The average female should have these traits than the average male?

Sir, are you a Christian?

What does this have to do with religion , the average female is more emotional hence she has a higher propensity to feel compassion and sympathy compared to the average male , the average female would shiver at the though of killing a chicken or ram and would squirm at the sight of excessive blood , there are males like this too but much fewer , the average female will give birth and will become primary nurturer of a child this alone would make her softer and more kind hearted than the average man , sure there are evil witches but 80-90% of all crimes are still committed by men,and this still doesn't men can't ha e these traits too .

bukatyne:


I don't understand why people think characteristics such as care, compassion, empathy, humility, kindheartedness, tolerance etc. are 'feminine' virtues. I am equally amazed when I read/hear such from professed Christians....

What ever happened to fruits of the Holy Spirit all Christians should emulate?

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Feminine virtues are not restricted to females , but are mainly dominated by females. the average female should have these traits to a higher degree than the average man . This doesn't mean that the man doesn't have said traits .

DollyParton1:


And I am telling you those are not the feminine features. Those are the humanity features.
You don't know what feminine features are. You need to understand what that is first of all .




Lol... say for yourself please. That you don't find a woman in a range rover attractive.

That the fact that she doesn't have to depend on you financially and intellectually scares you. That you want a slave you can control and not a wife.

A woman driving a range rover she bought with her money (not an aristo or runs girl) means she is hard working. A lady with purpose. With a career. Successful. Probably smart. Intelligent. Trail blazer.

How can a range rover make a man more attractive and make a woman less attractive (or not attractive)?

Are you saying shame on her for daring to be successful on her own? Or shame on her for being a boss in her own right. Or shame on her for having a dream and pursuing a purpose. Or shame on her for being successful.

Hian!!! How can you say a successful and hardworking woman is not attractive. Chai!!! Women have suuferred.

For starters
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femininity

Now where or when did I say I am not attracted to a girl that drives a range or all the other drivel , this is why people don't take feminism seriously and op feminism could be a good reason since maids are not feminists. I mean imagine being married to this feminist who spews shit like this and calls it intellectually engaging . I specifically said guys don't care if she owns a range or not if they find her attractive then they find her attractive , the range doesn't change this . At most they will be scared to approach but. that doesn't change the fact they are still attracted . Likewise if an ugly woman drives a range no guy is going to be attracted to her , none at all. if. an ugly man drives a range he picks up babes that could put the average fine boy to shame even if this said man is twice the fine boys age , godforbid the owner of the range is equally a fineboy . and its not even a matter of gold digging every girl would rather be with a rich guy than a broke guy be it sluts or church girls the reverse isn't the case . Now where did I say women shouldn't be independent ? be independent for yourself but don't expect it to earn you any points , its either a guy is attracted to your feminine side or he isn't ... no MSc , PhD or oil job is going to change that.(gold digging however is a totally different story but even then there are far more females in it than there are men because the average man wouldn't want. to marry his meal ticket whereas the average female has no issue with it)

DollyParton1:


Now you are gradually doing a turn around. Twisting some of your words and mine words too.

I said being kindhearted, compassionate, empathetic, gentle, caring, etc is required if everyone. It shouldn't be term as a feminist trait. A man should have it, having those traits doesn't make him shy, indecisive or lazy. It just makes him a good person.

The fact that you are all caring, kindhearted, compassionate and all doesn't make you indecisive and shy. It's all about balancing it. Knowing what traits to exhibit at a particular time and situation and in the right proportion is the key word.
A smart woman is a smart woman. Being decisive and confident should equally be for both gender. We weren't born married. A woman should be confident and be able to make decisions on her own as a single lady first of all, before getting married.


Don't mix things up. Character is different from gender role.

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The fact that you are all caring, kindhearted, compassionate and all doesn't make you indecisive and shy. It's all about balancing it. Knowing what traits to exhibit at a particular time and situation and in the right proportion is the key word .... As ive been saying ratio . I never said a woman can't be Independent , nor did I say it is bad , I'm saying it isn't an attractive feature , the only feature attractive to a man are feminine features . Imagine a lady parking her range rover then walking out and now imagine this same lady walking without her car nearby , chances are if she is elegant or fine guys would all just point that out without mentioning the range , at most the range will discourage guys from even approaching , now imagine the reverse a guy with a range vs the same guy without it , the difference is clear ... does this mean a woman shouldn't buy a range , of course she can but she shouldn't expect it to make her attractive the same way it would make a male attractive .

Wow maybe because I wasn't bred in a religious family but it still seems funny to me the way people can defend the illogicalities of religion . We all agree there are thousands of religions and gods , we all seem to agree that 99% of these said religions are nothing more than myths. So it baffles me to see people completely sold on Christianity or Islam even Islam after making this deduction. Christianity seems to be the most popular so let's start there , I don't even want to go into whether there is a God or not since although I'm aware you can't prove there is , I also can't prove there isn't (even if there is he may be dead by now or even if still existent may not be Jehovah ) . Jesus Christ however seems to be quite a myth too , there are no archaeological findings of him he resurrected after 3 days abi no problem ,there are no accounts of Jesus anywhere apart from what was written by the apostles (they were messengers not disciples) even though there were various scrolls and scholars during this period , add to the fact the apostles had a lot of differences in all their accounts which were later edited to conform (some still there tho). Also adding this point is the fact that there is no appropriate image of Christ , either its a picture of the actor or it is the picture of the son of an ancient pope , people around his time like Seneca have accurate pictures and written proof of existence . if you now finally add that a lot of christian premises are actually common ground in other mythologies its quite hard to take Christianity serious , I don't even want to start with their mental gymnastics and prophecies that were misinterpreted.

DollyParton1:

This is nothing about ratio, but basically about what is required. I do not want a man who is not as equally as caring as I am. Or whose compassion, kindness, empathy, or gentleness is below mine. I basically do not want an àśśhole as a partner or friend.
Lol... very few men find intelligent ladies endearing? Well, the world must be filled with lots of dumb men then. (Thank God, that's not the case).
A very smart man who is not a chauvinist will prefer an equally smart woman. Come On!!! How does one have a "mindgasm" if your spouse/partner can not stimulate you intellectually. Or pick up the slacks once in a while
And you say a beautiful man is a sissy? Abeg go find and read, study and digest all the definitions of beautiful.

lol a mindgasm is a female thing (if its even real) .. Smart man will prefer a smart feminine woman not a smart woman ... He should have these traits at the same level as you or even more than you but not less really, many men who embody these traits get shat upon by being friendzoned and being called nice guys , it doesn't work . If he however is a strong masculine man who still has the traits its okay , but a man who is just compassionate caring and gentle or has these traits more than being confident decisive etc isn't going to get far . (Unless he has money)
you sound like all these new age modernist people, are you perhaps a feminist ? if you are we will probably never agree .its almost like you denying the existence of masculine traits and feminine traits ... I have never in my life hear a guy say he is attracted to a girl because she .makes him feel safe , neither have I seen a girl say she is attracted to a guy solely because he is indecisive or shy , unless he is very fine(very fine people get a lot if leeway) they'll at best say he is cute or adorable

DollyParton1:


Lol... seriously? You haven't heard beautiful being used to describe straight men?
I am telling you everything you mentioned in your earlier post are what is required of every human being in abundance. It is what you would teach your kids irrespective of their gender.
And all males and females must be smart and intelligent in the best way they can be.

. it can be abundant but it still adheres to ratio. No guy in this world or maybe very very few will be attracted to a woman based solely on her smarts or drive or determination it doesn't happen ever , if she has feminine traits and also incorporates these things however its a good plus . Beautiful men as I said its a feminine trait only sissies would refer to themselves as beautiful

DollyParton1:

All these you mentioned are required of every human being both male and female.
I don't know what your definition of beautiful is.... If it has to do with the physical appearance, then it should not be on that list.

I said feminine traits ... a man can't be beautiful unless he is gay .. and yes all humans have all traits imaginable but for a human to be feminine means the person has a higher amount of feminine traits compared to masculine traits , if the masculine traits are more than the feminine then the person is said to be masculine ... so its not just bout the traits but bout the ratio

DollyParton1:

Oh really?
What are the feminine traits o?

. As you said being beautiful and kind hearted , being sweet, caring , gentle , empathetic , compassionate and deference (being submissive) if the last one is too much of a problem then just being respectful would do , having other good attributes without having this is like getting all As in waec then failing maths and English . And. for some damn reason guys seems to have the above traits more than women nowadays .

DollyParton1:
So the most important thing in marrying a wife is her culinary skills.
So you see a smart, intelligent, kindhearted, hardworking and beautiful lady, and you are still looking for if she can cook or scrub the house.
Some men love food more than success. Go and marry your mother's maid na

Hardworking ... can't cook lol okay , Most of the things you listed are masculine traits , they are good but not attractive (unless the guy is looking for a business partner)