@ayodele123 -- you know next to nothing about the Catholic Church,how can you be comparing catholics with JW?, you are almost the same as the man in question, Catholics are even better than most of you so called 'holier than thou' pentecostals, am not a catholic but I grew up through their schools and doctrines and I know that you are just an empty drum making the loudest noise.
I was tempted to check your site but this one flaw has put doubt to whatever argument you have in your site.

Pls send me a copy as well:
jedidah.one@gmail.com

Pls help me check this vin out:
JM3LW28G3Y0108074.
Cuba.

Thank you very much for your kind words!

Alphy, I will see what i can get out of the situation as you suggested, thanks

Dear Nairalanders,

I was just informed by the Chairman of the group that I work for that they are closing the group,so I am relieved of my appointment!!!

I am a software developer with specialty in .Net C#, please if anyone has any available job opening please just drop the line here please!!!!!!!!!

I do not believe that story!!

Well , maybe if it is in the north where I have not been to before, maybe, but I doubt that!!!

I have been to a lot of classy and less classy hotels in Lagos and Abuja and never have I noticed this story you just told!!

Even in the East, as long as you are not disturbing any guest with your 'wares' nobody will harass you!!

Never change your church because you want to marry a woman, Never!!!

That father-in-law is the most unwise father-in-law I've heard!!

What if you change for the wedding and later after the said wedding go back to your church? What will he do?

As if Catholics will not go to heaven,,only pentecostals that will go to heaven!!!

The girl is supposed to marry into your family and she has to accept you with all your rosary or you will end giving up alot more than just your supplications to Virgin Mary!!

The night is darkest when it is close to dawn!!!

I feel deep inside of me that our 'dawn' as a nation is just by the corner!!

For those who think that Nigeria will not rise again, hahahahahaha, I tell you, Nigeria will not only rise but it will shine brighter than you ever imagined, and it is going to happen in our life time, yes, our lifetime, you and I!!!!

And for those running to the North and West[Europe & US] for a better life, I have something to tell you, the future is not in the North nor West, the future is in the South and East, the earlier you start thinking about how to come home the better and easier for you!!!!

Our strength is in our diversity!!!!!!!

I believe in the greatness of Nigeria!!!

I believe in Nigeria!!!!!!

Good People, Great Nation!!!!

Have you ever heard of honour killings?

If not please go and find out!

Muslims DONT joke with somebody trying to convert a muslim to christianity!

They will kill you and kill their sister too without blinking!!

The earlier you leave that girl the safer and healthier for you!!!

Love has nothing to do with feelings, 1 Cor. 13!!!!!

If it is true that Buhari is challenging this election then my respect for him just nosedived.
I used to think that he has the interest of Nigeria at heart but with what I am hearing from the north, I think that God has mercifully delivered us from the hands of these "men".

I was even telling the people I know to vote for him, and I succeeded in convincing some people but with this type of response, men, I think I was wrong.

Why cant he call his supporters to order?

Why cant he tell them that violence is not the way to solve problems?

How did he even imagine that he can get any vote from the South East/South where he practically did not campaign?

Before the election I was telling my mum to vote for Buhari and she was asking me who is Buhari,if he is contesting?And they are saying that the votes in the SE was rigged, how wrong I was with this man!!!

Well, well, well, the most complicated part of this whole story is that you said that you love him.
When a woman is in love, hmmmmm, it takes God to make her see a fault in her object of love.

The first and very important advice I will give you is to leave the man; but I know you will not;
A man that beats you even before marriage will poison you in marriage, it gets more complicated in marriage.
If he can raise his hands on you now,sister be ready for really serious battering in marriage.

So that take me to the second advice, you said that you argue a lot, meaning that you are a very stubborn lady. You have become so used to this man that you take him for granted. You know he is hot tempered and yet you go ahead and raise your voice on him.If you MUST be with this man you MUST settle it in your heart to ALWAYS accept to loose in EVERY argument even when you know he is being foolish.Tell him what you want to tell and NEVER exchange words with him if he does not agree with your view. That means you will be playing the fool in the marriage.

You said he loves you, well,I suggest you suspend/separate from him for now.Stay away from him for atleast two months to re-evaluate what you actually feel for him.You will not die in two months without him. If he truly loves you,he will be coming to check you and then you will have the opportunity to re-negotiate the relationship.

And PLEASE for your love's sake,stop arguing with him.
And remember to tell God about your worries and fears about him.Love and prayers is very effective.He is getting bored of you and you are helping him to find the reasons dump you.Separate from him and give yourself some value girl.
What you have invested is nothing compared to what you will suffer if you dont deal with these issues before marrying that man.

You must love him so much to have posted it here.
Love is sacrifice.According to 1 corithians 13,love is not a feeling. Resist the urge to go back to him now,you can talk to him but wait for two months.Your head will be clearer then and try to talk to other guys who can add value to you,especially those guys that has been after you for sometime now,they will tell you sweet things that will boost your ego.

Good luck.
Remember to vote tommorrow

I think that we should learn one thing from this interview, 'DON'T WASH YOUR DIRTY GARMENT IN THE PUBLIC'

Did anyone notice how she did not say anything particularly negative about Nigeria?

Even though we all know that we have a ton of bad to display, my respect for her just grew by 75%, she spoke like a diplomat!!

Lets learn to protect and promote our image positively to the outside world irrespective of what the leaders are doing!

Never allow or permit a foreigner to tell you anything negative about Nigeria without defending her immediately and tell

the person the bad things you know about their own country immediately,if you do that I guarantee you that the person

will never say anything negative again about Nigeria to you!!!

We are truly great people,dont allow anybody to make feel bad about being Nigerian!

Very very soon being Nigerian will make other nations envious, believe it or not!!!

Good People, Great Nation!!!

Never knew you people can be this civil in your responses, thanks alot for the advice.

"To spend your life with someone, their whole being should be appealing to you."

"But the main question is, will you stay with her if you find someone you're physical attracted to tomorrow?"

@Rokiatu ------ Thank you very much, you just summarized my fears in those two sentences.

@iice ------ It is more of her face than her body; I better say here that she is not an ugly person, she is a normal/plain looking lady.

Her character is 80% or more of what I desire in a woman,we tend to have a whole lot in common and she says that I am what she has been praying for in a man.We have discussed virtually everything but I have ALWAYS reminded her that I am not so sure how it will end.

My problem is that she is not as attractive/beautiful as I have always imagined my wife to be and I have struggled to see her as though she is more beautiful than she truly is. I am more concerned about finding her attractive 6 months 6 years 15 years down the line; I am the type that will want to and have purposed to remain faithful to my wife but I do not want to struggle to find my wife attractive. We are less than three months into this but I am deeply emotionally involved with her though we have not seen ourselves physically; communication has been so far through the internet and phone.

I have put communication between us on hold for now; wanted to sort myself out first before I do her more emotional harm. She does not want to understand, she is very hurt by it but I think it is better for both of us.I feel as bad as she does but you can't be in a relationship to please the other person. I have told her directly and indirectly to control her feelings towards me but it is like just talking to the deaf.

Please how do you think I should manage this situation and not get anybody hurt; me inclusive.