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Romance / I Want An Asian Wife! by well13(m): 2:25pm On Dec 19, 2017
I’ve been single for 3 years, and almost 35 years old. I guess it’s time for me to settle down.
But where do I find my girlfriend? I heard that Asian women are lovable and genuine.
I have a friend who has an Asian wife, and they’re living an ideal life right now.

So, I want an Asian wife as well!
I used my facebook account to search for some Asian women.
I sent messages to them but unfortunately, nobody replied.

I came across A Foreign Affair where profiles of Asian women are listed.
I also came to know that they do tours in Asia. These women are looking for future husbands.

I’m really curious with these women. Are they even real? Their profiles are really authentic to me!
I just can’t take my eyes off these beautiful faces. What attracts me most are the women coming from the Philippines,

I heard they are very hospitable.I guess this is my luck.
I still want to inquiry to you guys! Have you ever used a dating service like this one?
Do you think I should take part? Thanks in advance!
Romance / International Dating Changed My Mind by well13(m): 10:43am On Dec 14, 2017
Before, I really don’t like the idea of “foreign marriage”. I felt like it’s a waste of money, very time consuming, and a headache.

I had a relationship with a woman from Europe. We broke up a month after we met. I trusted her so much, but she took me for granted.

I had a trauma after that. Right then, I promised myself not to date a foreign woman again.

But that thinking changed when I involved myself with A Foreign Affair. I know this matchmaking site involves dating with foreign women, but I still took the risk.

After attending the agency’s tour in Asia, I met an incredible woman named Marilyn. We’ve been dating for six months already and I can say that it was the best six months of my life.

I travel to the Philippines every other month just to see her. If I’m at the States, I always do skype with her.

I realized that not all women from off-shore countries are that bad. Well, in other areas maybe. I am grateful I met Marilyn. With those months of dating,

I saw not just a beautiful woman but a loving, caring, and selfless woman as well.

I’m confident enough that she loves me.

After a careful thinking, I decided to propose to her next month.

What do you think would be the best way to propose? Do you think it’s time to settle down already?

Do you guys think I should marry her? I hope to hear from y’all.

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Romance / Meeting A Woman In Dominican Republic by well13(m): 1:49pm On Dec 13, 2017
I’ve been a member of A Foreign Affair for over a full year now. I’ve been corresponding with few girls. I haven’t joined any singles tour yet either.

The girl that really caught my interest is from the Dominican Republic, her name is Keila.

I’m older than her by 10 years and she’s an amazing girl.

I’ve only had an interest in exchanging letters with her. I’ve decided that it won’t hurt to finally meet in person.

I’ve decided to talk to her about it and she’s really happy. I’ve booked my ticket for the Christmas so we can spend it together because.

I think it would be very romantic.

But there are things I’d like to know…

I’ll be meeting her parents and siblings since she is really close with them. I’m just curious if there is anything that I should do or bring for them?

What is a customary thing to do in instances like this when it comes to Dominicans?

I’m coming as a prospective husband for their daughter in their understanding and that’s fine with me since that’s the ultimate plan.

I would really want it to go smoothly so, getting some answers to my questions are highly appreciated.
Romance / A Flood Of Beautiful Profiles by well13(m): 11:26am On Dec 12, 2017
My friend, who is now happily married to a Ukrainian woman encouraged me to look at A Foreign Affair. At first, I was confused.

Like, why would he do so? I forgot about it. We met again, he asked if I had looked at the site. I said “not yet.”

He encouraged me again. So I decided to do it.

To my surprise, I saw a flood of beautiful profiles! Some from Ukraine, Colombia, Philippines, and even China! I was really mesmerized! Why did I procrastinate?!?

This is what I need to be married!

I continue on browsing through those profiles, until I decided to date women coming from Asia. I heard they are sexy and kind!

After careful scanning, I realized that they also organize Singles Tour! I knew that my friend found his wife from this matchmaking site.

I want to grab this opportunity! I want to take this chance! What do you think guys? Well, my friend is a living testimony already about this service.

BUT I still want to know your side. A great thanks ahead of your support!
Romance / Finding Love As I Explore Cebu, Philippines by well13(m): 10:45am On Dec 11, 2017
I’m a travel enthusiast. I love exploring new places and write all about it. I love meeting new people, experiencing new culture and traditions. I started imagining how great it would be to travel the world with someone-- a friend, best friend… a lover. I’ve decided to do my own research on the chance of romance when traveling. I continued to search further, sites like A Foreign Affair, Foreign Ladies and LoveMe showed up a lot.

At first I thought it was about having a romantic tour with your partner and they offer packages in different countries you can choose from... but apparently it is more on “traveling to meet hundreds of women in the duration of the event.”

Hey! It’s traveling + a chance of finding love! So, the curious me searched more about singles tour and have seen some testimonials. I’ve contacted AFA to inquire more about the nature of their tour. I’m leaning to the fact that this might be the answer.

I decided to book a package to their next earliest tour which is on Jan. 25, 2018 to Cebu, Philippines. This is perfect because I’ve never been there. I’m very excited because I’ve seen the profiles of women from Cebu and they all have an exotic beauty. Not to mention, their rich hispanic history and amazing tropical beaches.

I want to make the most out of this trip so, I’m here to ask about other places I should visit when I’m in the country and the things I should know about the women of Cebu that are probably not written anywhere. Help me explore the country while I try my luck in finding love!
Romance / Proposing To My Chinese Girlfriend by well13(m): 1:35pm On Dec 07, 2017
I need help! I want to propose to my Chinese girlfriend and her family is quite strict. I learned that there’s a certain tradition when it comes to marriage in Chinese culture… I’m quite overwhelmed but I really want everything to go smoothly.

I met Chen through A Foreign Affair’s singles tour in Shenzhen, China. We’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year, of course it involved a ton of visits. She visited me and met my parents. I’m glad everyone in my family likes her. When I met her parents it was really awkward. Because her parents can’t really speak English, I like to believe they like me even a little at least.

I’ve been talking with my friends about proposing and one said there’s a certain way in China. I got curious and started searching. There were things like dowries, which got me bewildered. I know that my girlfriend’s parents are to an extent, strict… but I don’t know if they are still traditional or still follows such practice.

If I asked Chen that would destroy the idea of a surprise proposal… but is it better if I just propose to her and then ask her how I should ask her parents for her hand in marriage? I honestly don’t know what’s the right route to go for. I need some good advice!
Romance / I’m Getting Older! I Need A Wife! by well13(m): 1:02pm On Dec 06, 2017
Hey! My name is Albert. I’m turning 53 next month and I’m still single! I should feel blessed that I’m still well, but this won’t do good to me not until I marry.

I know it’s hard to find someone at this age. I’ve been dating for months but unfortunately, I always end up failing. I almost gave up but when I saw an ad about matchmaking online, I felt hopeful in a wink of an eye. I know it sounds funny but that’s what I truly felt! This ad talks about being matched with foreign women, especially with the Asian women. I often heard Asians are so loving! So this matchmaking agency is A Foreign Affair. This is so new to me. I guess this is worth a try!

What I want to have is a woman who can love me back. A woman whom I can call my own. A woman who will be a great wife and a responsible mother to our future children. I hope I’ll meet an Asian woman who is not interested with living in the States only but a woman who could help me feel I am a man of worth and lovable as well.

What do you think guys? Should I continue with this dating style? I hope y’all could respond to me ASAP! Have a great one!
Romance / Traveling To The Philippines To Meet My Girlfriend For The First Time by well13(m): 2:56pm On Nov 30, 2017
I’ve been dating a Filipina girl named Analyn for 4 months. We met through A Foreign Affair’s site and corresponded there. We are still in the stage of getting to know each other. I think 4 months is long enough to decide to meet in person.

When I told her that I want to finally meet, she didn’t seem to be excited. She’s open to talking about it and helping me find a good place to stay for my stay. At one point, she even said that it’s alright to postpone my travel. I honestly believe that it’s her way of being considerate… but a part of me feels like she’s stressing about meeting . Maybe, the fact that I’m coming to meet her is a trouble.

I’d like to hear your thoughts regarding this matter… I really like her and I really see her as someone whom I can definitely settle down with if things work well. But do you guys think I’m rushing it?
Romance / My Dad's Fiance Is Foreign And Younger Than Me by well13(m): 3:13pm On Nov 24, 2017
I’ve known my dad has been dating someone from Colombia but I never expected for things to progress. He went and joined a singles tour to Cartagena by A Foreign Affair and met Liliana. As far as I’m aware of... they have been corresponding and calling each other. Aside from her name I don’t know anything.

I’m happy that my dad has found someone he wants to settle down with… I don’t know how to react or what to say when I found out that Liliana is only 26. I’m 4 years older than her while my dad’s 32 years older. I won’t judge nor jump into conclusions… but is it normal that I feel very conflicted about the age gap? I can’t help but be concerned about her….

I really need advice… I don’t want to question their relationship. I don’t want to offend nor hurt my dad’s feelings. But how should I approach this? Can anyone here give me more input on the women from AFA? I want to support my dad’s decision wholeheartedly but I think she may be a mail order bride or scammer. I need help!
Romance / I Am A Single Father To A 10 Year Old - Joining A Singles Tour by well13(m): 10:30am On Nov 21, 2017
I am a single father to a 10 year old daughter. Her mother and I never got married and she left me after giving birth to our child. I own a business so raising my daughter isn’t a problem financially, and my mom babysits when I’m working.

I have been yearning to be with someone who could be a mother to my child and a loving partner. My daughter is already at the age where she’s asking about her mom and I don’t want her to experience growing without one. I also worry about how the society can be. I want her to grow and experience what most normal kids with a mom and dad do.

One day, I happen to come across A Foreign Affair and decided to check it out. It might not be the most conventional way, but I registered and decided to join a singles tour to Cebu, Philippines for Jan. 25th, 2018. My decision to join might be rushed and on a whim but I talked it out with my mom and she happily agreed that it’s a good idea. My daughter will be staying with my parents while I’m on the trip and everything is going smoothly.

I know I won’t regret doing something I know would benefit my daughter and me in the long run, but I would still like to hear from someone here who has an experience with this kind of tour. And for those who have been to Cebu, I would like to know if there are things I need to know or be wary of? Thanks.
Romance / I Know I’ve Made The Right Decision by well13(m): 10:23am On Nov 15, 2017
Being divorced for 5 long years is disheartening. I have 3 kids left with no absolute care and attention. My wife left us without a convincing reason. I always been a good father and husband. This separation doesn’t help my kids, most especially that it affected my confidence.

While surfing the internet, I came across, A Foreign Affair. This matchmaking has a lot of beautiful foreign women looking for ideal partners. I was curious so I decided to sign up. I scanned through information given by the site. I got curious to one profile, her name is Lucy. Her profile amazed me and is promising.

After browsing through her pictures, I realized I want her to be my wife. Yes, I am attracted to her already. Knowing that the agency will be having a Tour this coming January, I immediately contacted the agency and booked for my spot.

I believe I can find true love with this tour. I know I’ve made the right decision.

Though I’m confident enough that I’ll find a woman to date, my family would think this is a risky move. What do you think? Should I continue with this? Your input and advice would be appreciated.
Romance / I Want To Join A Singles Tour... I Need Some Advice! by well13(m): 10:04am On Nov 14, 2017
Does anyone here use international dating sites like A Foreign Affair and Victoria Date? I’m in my 30’s and always been keen to date someone foreign. I’m still young but I want to date someone who has marriage in mind. Most girls in my city would step back at the thought of marriage and my ideal woman has always been someone who’d put their family first.

I want to have a family before I hit 40. I have a good job that provides a stable income and plan to open my own business. I’m more than capable to have a family at my current state. I want to date someone whom I have a high possibility of marriage with.

So, I’ve decided to try A Foreign Affair. Browsing through the ladies’ profiles, I can’t help but wonder if this site is legit. The women are all too gorgeous I’m thinking of joining one of the tours to Shenzhen, China. Maybe it’s best to meet the ladies in person first? What do you think? If any of you have tried joining their tour, I would really appreciate it if you could share your experiences.
Romance / I Need Advice On Who Should Pay... by well13(m): 4:35pm On Nov 09, 2017
Hey all! I’m in a pinch and need advice. I joined a singles tour to Shenzhen, China held by A Foreign Affair. I met hundreds of beautiful women and it gave me the chance to find one beautiful girl that sparked my romantic side.

She’s fair in speaking English and spending time with her was really easy. In the duration of the trip we had the chance to go out and talk a lot. I’ve extended my stay for a few more days after the tour and got to spend more time with her. We continued to keep in touch and know more about each other through correspondence and got to talk about her coming to Seattle.

I’m not sure if I should offer to pay for her trip or if she will be paying for it. I really don’t know how to bring the topic up… I am willing to pay for it or a portion of the ticket if she’d need help but I don’t want to offend her somehow. Should I just wait for her to bring up the topic or should I? And, how do I bring it up to her? Help!!!
Romance / Is It A Good Idea To Join Singles Tour by well13(m): 12:04pm On Nov 08, 2017
Hey all! I need help… I’ve recently registered in a site called A Foreign Affair and has started corresponding with a Colombian woman from Cartagena. Things have been going well. We’ve started getting to know each other. She’s a sweet girl and I feel like I can trust her. But, I still worry.

How can you tell if a woman is genuine?

I haven’t really opened myself up to her and don’t know if I should. I want to know more about her and let her know more about me too… this is a legit site and I trust that the girls are screened properly. But it’s my first time using such services and I have my uncertainties.

I’ve asked a friend for advice and told me “why not join a singles tour to Cartagena?” I’ve inquired and did some research on tours and I think it would be best for me to meet her there in person. I’ve sent her a letter letting her know about my plans about the tour and meeting her there.

It would be really helpful if someone who has been in one can give me some input? Even an opinion would be a good help. Is it really a good idea to join a singles tour?

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