Sweetheart, i truly feel you cos i've been in the position before and its terrible. It was heartbreak of 8yrs relationship that pushed me to join Nairaland in 2006 and I cant forget the wonderful people of Nairaland that were with me through that time. take heart cos only time will heal a broken heart. You have to be strong and think of the positive side thou you wont see that now but you can only try.

Please try and surround yourself with friends and family and take good care of youself. You can cry cos that is healthy but dont sit around sulking cos he has moved on, the cow!

God will surely see you through

@Okalax
Is that u for real or some musician, abi na chris brown? if its u then u r coooool! Just appreciating God's work bro!

The beginning of the relationship of course!

spikedcylinder:

To all the people who were making noise over this,

My decision in 2006 is still the pretty much the same as what I would do now. I would NOT date a crippled man. If I were crippled too, I would NOT expect someone who wasn't attracted to me and my physical state to date me, no matter how much I like him.

Agreed that your reaction is normal but be honest with yourself over one thing, if u were crippled (God forbid!), u'll definitely want to date a perfectly normal looking guy or wont you?

Thanks Doctor Kathy, I understand

Darlyn, thats what you get for giving your number to a stranger! Though your reaction is normal, but will it be the same if he came to your house in a flashy car and happen to be the son of wealth parents or just a rich guy who is looking for a girl to spend his cash?

michelin:

you dey mad after you don rock and now you won na him you come day say farewell your pa won die
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Are u sure u are all right?

U want him back i know! Move on girl and av a life. Stop hanging around to see if he will come back. He has moved on probably with another girl or two! men are not built like us and u are better than this!

Sorry sister, the truth is bitter!

honeric01:

Not when she sees how thick, long and fat my palms are, She must be ready to join michael Jackson in plastic world of fashion club

uhmmmm! words of a wife beater! God bless you brother!!!

Doctor Kathy, thank you very much for all your advice, you truly are really God-sent. Please i will really appreciate if you can mail me on xxxxxx so that i can mail you. please, please, please!

Sure he/she has other positive sides. Maybe a good cook or good in bed!

How can you do that to an innocent child! Sleeping with your half brother, and now pregnant! God! what is this world turning into. Are there no guys in your area? or even school? And now the innocent child will be the result if your incest. Wish you luck in whatever decision you take

How can you do that to an innocent child! Sleeping with your half brother, and now pregnant! God! what is this world turning into. Are there no guys in your area? or even school? And now the innocent child will be the result if your incest

No! Never do that! Its very risky especially the things that happened before you married him. Except you have a crystal clean past. Also when u marry him, be wise about what you tell him cos it might be used against you later in future. You Husband will never tell you everything, you know!

I 100% agree with you

The wife should get an old friend to keep her company too. Give him a dose of his medicine

Why should i give him an excuse to beat me up, i can never do that. Moreover am not a physical nor agressive person.

Both were wonderful and i will want them as my parents in the next world (i.e. if there is) though i pray they live longer than they did in this world.

May their gentle and loving souls rest in perfect peace!