@ Topup, You're a Darling ! I'm so much in love with your responses
to this thread! Are you a love Doctor or A Chancellor?

@ Michelin, you don't need to harsh about this, if you don't have any
useful info that wld help the Post you can just move over to another
thread, Period!

@ Suga, I feel you baby, really i do. Don't worry just know this; the water
that you wld drink wld never pass you by!!! Ciao.

michelin:

you dey mad after you don rock and now you won na him you come day say farewell your pa won die
l

Are u sure u are all right?

Abeg, help me ask am!!!

thought you said you and him already broke, so what's the point in trying to draw him into the e-mailing shin-dig? just try and forget him okay. now talking about him not replying to your e-mail, i don't think that's a big deal. take my advice and move on alright. much love from okalax.

@Okalax
Is that u for real or some musician, abi na chris brown? if its u then u r coooool! Just appreciating God's work bro!

I'm guessing the OP wants this thread to die already so she can move on.

This thread got me thinking if there is need for a reply to a farewell message, ?
Its a farewell message for crying out load, perhaps if u wanted something more, u could have gone to him in persons n experience those stuffs we see in movies, am sure a good bye hug will stop u frm ranting

Topup

Are you still friends with your ex? U mentioned him on page 4,

farewells dont have response. just move on

mumu poster

@idupaul

Mumu for love

if he's an ex, why you expecting him to reply your message?

minimynimo:

Its a good thing I didn't see this thread from start. My initial response wouldn't have been good.

After reading Topup's bit, i had to step back a bit to consider, put my self in some slippers and shoes, look into me own experience.

I'll tell you this, the guy likes you a lot [you obviously like him], but for some reason he wants to get over you. He's working hard at it. Believe me, if he was over you, he'd have replied. I can tell you this too, he knows or perceives, or believes, or worst still, assumes 'something' that he does not want to talk about. He wants out!!! [Internal combustion].

Anyway keep an open mind and move with God's will for your life. With God there's always a 'more', There's 'more' to living dear.

well said

prior to reading yours, i was wondering if no one got it

people here are funny, you seem to forget relationship isnt black and white, a whole lot of grey resides there

she(poster)likes guy still wants him, her email was a last attempt to get him back i.e highlighting the good parts

she wanted a reply,he dint reply her not out of disrespect,but because,his pride(i believe has being smashed) he is still into her

have no doubts, if he wasn't the easiest thing albeit the most sarcastic would be a short reply 'thanks'


@poster

i think its time to move on

really i think so,but if you still want your man(lol)

wait for a while say a few months , then a call . . . .work your ploy from that

What are u doing here ari

its a farewell mail, why expect a reply?

@Ariblaze

Thank you for your response. I don't intend on contacting him again. I've said my peace. If any contact will be initiated it will have to be on his part, if it's too late, then so be it, but for now I'm moving on. My folks say "Running after a man is like running after a cheetah, you'll never win" I believe they are right. Anyway, like you said, relationships aren't black and white, but if we can't work out the small stuff now, then we definitely can't work out the difficulties of marriage. So maybe it's a blessing in disguise, only time will tell. Thanks again.

I had a similar experience that still luks in my heart but av moved on though it wasnt easy .we simply have to do the neccessary for us to move on and i believe God won' t give us what we can't manage.
Manage your emotions dear and GOODLUCK 

@Sheilchi
What happened in your situation?

I had a similar experience.It is sometimes difficult to move on especially when you are in love with your Ex.Maybe you had this feeling that you would have gone an extra mile to prevent the break-up.I still desire to be with my Ex though not an intense one.9 months have passed, still i remember her.You can only move on when you advice yourself.You need to tell yourself that it is over.Maybe God allowed the break-up because He has a better thing for you. You can never tell.Just pray and ask God for direction. He will help you. I loved my Ex to a fault. Just move on. Make new friends. Change your environment for the meantime. look for an outdoor event that interests you most. Attend church programs and nourish your soul. Don't call or text him again. Give him space. Avoid his friends for now. Please don't jump into another relationship because you will hurt someone. It happened to me. I felt that someone can fill that vacuum she created but i ended up hurting innocent people.I pray that God will help you to move on.

@Emcaluv

You were right when you said, "Maybe you had this feeling that you would have gone an extra mile to prevent the break-up",

I sure did, that's what hurts the most. Now that I have space from him, I can think clearly. And when my mind revisits certain parts of the relationship, I regret my approach(es) that ultimately led to the break up. Moreover, I apologized for the part I played in the breakup in the farewell email. That's why I was surprised he didn't even respond to my email, because I accepted my faults and wished him well. I didn't blame him for any wrong doing (although he obviously did play a part as well). I figured that if we can't be together, at least we can part amicably. Nonetheless, as far as the issues we had, it wasn't anything that could not be worked on, but he obviously felt differently. That's life though, you live and you learn. Anyway, as far as moving on/dating, it's hard to resist the temptation when men try to ask me out. I don't want to hurt anyone because I'm not ready to get back in the dating scene, so I think I will chill for now.

@suga

time would heal or redefine your relationship

for the moment concentrate on other aspect of your life

go shopping

@ariblaze

Shopping is a great hobby of mine,

@Sugar4luv

He was so  good but i treated him badly cos of wat he did earlier.now that i have realised my mistake, he doesnt care anymore cos of what i did to him.i find it difficult to move into another relationship cos i keep comparing him with others,it has not been easy but am still so much ALIFE.you can do it too dear

sheilchi:

@Sugar4luv

He was so  good but i treated him badly cos of wat he did earlier.now that i have realised my mistake, he doesnt care anymore cos of what i did to him.i find it difficult to move into another relationship cos i keep comparing him with others,it has not been easy but am still so much ALIFE.you can do it too dear

Yea, time will heal all wounds.

Please don't tell me you really believe that 'stuff', Sugar4ya.

Time does NOT heal all wounds. Time leaves scars. Scars are sensitive, constant reminders and fragile spots: a little scratch and we have an open wound.

Wounds are healed by proper treatment.

minimynimo:

Please don't tell me you really believe that 'stuff', Sugar4ya.

Time does NOT heal all wounds. Time leaves scars. Scars are sensitive, constant reminders and fragile spots: a little scratch and we have an open wound.

Wounds are healed by proper treatment.

Scars are only as sensitive as you want them to be

Well, my assumption is that anything could have kept the Ex from responding.

Secondly like someone said, just move on. For you to be expecting some kind of reply from the Ex after the bombshell is selfish.
Have you considered whether your Ex is fighting some kinds of feelings/guilt or what have you too.

Just move on and forget it all together - you don't necessarily need any reply from your Ex - you said it already.

He is just not dat into u. dont waste d pretty, ignore him n move on,