Fela said , CAT DEY SLEEP,RAT GO WAKE AM.WETIN E DEY FIND,NA PALAVER,

person wey dey expect reply after saying byebye,no be PALAVER e dey find,
I guess u still dey miss the HONEY and SUGAR wey the guy dey give u regularly, PALAVER WOMAN

Poster, just encourage yourself by saying  these words , there is no permanent friend only permanent interest, to yourself at least 3 times a day for the next  7 days and your heartache will disappear .

@Poster search heart well, did you really mean goodbye or you did it because you were broken hearted?

Sherry lo,

I did it because being friends with him and pretending like we didn't feel anything for each other was very difficult and painful.

topup:

Anyways, we are again on speaking terms, though there are still some questions to ask.

Bad idea. He's keeping you around. Will try to win you back when he's done having his share of fun with the hens.

I'm not saying don't have him around or don't be friends with him, but be cautious and watch out for mind games.

i think your ex is still in love with you so find out why he doesn't want to reply because if he really wanted to let go all he had to do was say goodbye

goodbye is a 7 digit word it isn't hard to type and send via text, mail or a simple phone call just to say the word

he has forgotten u nd decided to move on so i advice u do the same , becos i know replying the mail wont change anything except u are still interested

Xavier,

Those were my exact thoughts, but I guess I'll never know. I'm moving on with my life. I just hope I don't run into him,

Topup,

my friends keep telling me the same thing; thus, he'll eventually respond when he has cooled down, but I'm not waiting for the response anymore.

The poster has issues

Cabali,

Talk anoda thing o

I think that you are still in love with your ex. He knows this and that is why he's not responded. He wants you to get over him and move on.

He's nice enough sha, not to pretend. And not use you in times of your weakness. Appreciate it.

topup:

Man, I think I might need some H2O2 counselling!!

H2O2 might be exactly what you need!

@OP
that he'll wot? somehow that doesnt sound right, like topup sed dont expect him to reply

@topup
it not 'expect the worst', its dont expect anything. they're differnt o!

crazy

Maybe you should just leave him and let him be, Might be that he doesn't have time u know,

I don't think you need any reply since you have already say goodbye, take heart

Get over it, he's either through with you or he's bitter about it either way its over, the feeling is mutual! Abi u want him back? When u say goodbye, dont ever turn back or hang around for reply

You don't need a reply to farewell email to assure you that it's finally over.

U want him back i know! Move on girl and av a life. Stop hanging around to see if he will come back. He has moved on probably with another girl or two! men are not built like us and u are better than this!

Sorry sister, the truth is bitter!

I've moved on from this, but I thank you all for your responses.

You're most Welcome, Suga. But note this: next time,
do not send any farewell e-mail/ sms or whatever, there isn't
need for that really! When you're fed up, just say bye and move
on with your life. Period![color=#990000][/color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]

@POSTER. . . I think you want something more. . like you want to continue the relationship. .

PS : my opinion was due to your 1st post.

Allboyz

In the beginning I did want to continue the relationship, but you can't want someone that doesn't want you. That's just life, and I'm taking it for what it is. It's not easy breaking up with someone, and it's unfortunate that your realize all the mistakes you both made soon after you break up. I've come to terms with the faults I made during the relationship, and I don't intend on repeating them in my next relationship. If it's meant to be, then it will be. My life must go on regardless. Take care.

Ex star

I'm not sure what made me send him a farewell email. I was very emotional at the time, and I reached out for my laptop and typed away. I don't intend on sending a farewell email again. You're right, there is no need for it. Simply move on. Later.

you dey mad after you don rock and now you won na him you come day say farewell your pa won die
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