carr96:

hey b, calm dah fck dwn. I didn't mean it in dat way! Geez! I'm only saying since you've made up ur mind, coming to nairaland aint needed! Cos since uv made up ur mind I guess no ones opinion is needed! U wanna marry a white dude, fine! Why do u care what nairalanders think?? Dats wot I'm insinuating

mike404: Well I wouldn't be surprise if you don't like anything about 9ja men cuz your profile pic clearly stated that you are an azzhole... Good luck

mike404: Well I wouldn't be surprise if you don't like anything about 9ja men cuz your profile pic clearly stated that you are an azzhole... Good luck

Subomi-luv:
My dear did you read my posts. it has nothing to do abt cheating or gud men vs bad men.
Like for example. Lets just say we both come from work very late. I love cooking but why cant you perhaps help set the table or help wash afterwards. Or perhaps in weekend. When we have chores that we divided like for example this sat while i am cleaning bathrooms etc, he can put clothes in laundry.why should the men sit his lazy Bottom down and watch tv while i do everything, not even a help. If am a housewife than i can do everything alone. But if am also a working woman and contributing to the bills and yet have to do everything myself. Thats not on. Unfortunately alot of blk men will not do it, wont be happy to do it. Its not african etc. This is why i say that a white man will be more suited to me since they are used to this kind of thing.

Subomi-luv:
I struck a nerve now u calling me a B and to calm the f down. It's girls like you with the holier than thou attitude and better than everyone else. You came to mock me and my post and when i told you the plain simple truth usually a normal person would have left or not bothered. Margartet Thatcher this is the way

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I'm sorry, get ur mind outta dah gutter What do u think I mean by "B" + hw did I mock u? Mind u I don't have a holier than thou attitude! I'm homo anyways I'm sorry if u think "B" means sumfin offensive

NLG_woodey: Good one.

But just a piece of advise---If you have any problem with your whiteman and he says, "Over my dead body". he literally means it.

[b]Be ready for stare downs from sisters. Be ready for stares from people. Most importantly, grow a thick skin
for his people who you may only know how they really feel about you by eavesdropping into their conversations.

One more thing, fantasies can be biaaaatch! Things don't work out the way we usually want them.
If oyibo tickle your fancy, who are we to judge.

You don't need our attention/nod to make the leap of fate/faith unless you are an attention wh_ _ _

.[/b]

carr96:

I'm sorry, get ur mind outta dah gutter What do u think I mean by "B" + hw did I mock u? Mind u I don't have a holier than thou attitude! I'm homo anyways I'm sorry if u think "B" means sumfin offensive

Becacia_Barbie:
so because she doesnt wana marry a Nigerian man, she is now an azzhole?
Smh in pity.

anonimi:

Not necessarily.
This type of topic is LIKELY to generate plenty of traffic to Nairaland, which at the end of the day is a BUSINESS out to make PROFIT.
Moreover, this topic shows the on-going changing values in our society. Those who slam and discourage the OP are wasting their time. She doesn't come across as a weak person and most certainly will respond ADEQUATELY to the intolerant black people who show up on HER thread.

Subomi-luv:
Apology Accepted

50calibre:

God! I'm shocked, Not even one black chick said no. il spread this video.

Subomi-luv:
I have come to a realisation that it would be best to marry a white man. Ever since i was younger i always felt this attraction to white men, there is just something so sexy and a lil taboo abt white men that i just cannot get out of my system. But its not only physically but mentally too.

Subomi-luv:
White men do not have the same complexes and villager mentality as some of the blk men do. They really know how to make a women feel special and carry their weight around such as helping the lady with chores lovingly, just the way they are also on top of the corporate ladder.

Subomi-luv:
The Alpha males. They strive to be the best and they uplift you and empower you instead of insulting and accussing you of feminism. I was watching a youtube video of britpopprinces with her white husband and the way this guy is damn no blk man would do the same as he does.

Subomi-luv:
Even white men do not have any mishaps abt blk women wearing weaves or being darker or lighter. They see you for yourself. I guess in the past i was shy to admit it. Scared what would ppl say or think. Scared of the stares etc. So i have missed out on some good white guys in the past because of this plus i thought that all just want blk women for one thing. But things are changing, ppl are different.

Subomi-luv:
Dnt judge a person based on hearsay and stereotypes. So women this is now 21st century. Do what you need to do. Date who you want whether white, asian, black, nigerian or non-nigerian. You have only one life to live and be with someone who will make you happy and fit your personality. I love white men and i cannot lie.

Black Kenichi: i have broken down everything i have said and i have explained it further in my posts so dnt want to keep repeating myself.

[b][/b]TRuth is African men and alot of black men have this closed view that women are this way and men are that way. If we both are working hard and contributing to paying the bills. After work and am cooking why dnt you set up the table or perhaps help wash the dishes or help out in some way instead of you sitting your ass down and watching tv. This is seen as unafrican etc and maybe once in a while then the guy will help you out after you probably asked him. Honestly i dnt have time for that poo. That's not kinda person i am and with wht men, since you are a blk men you do not know how they are. A white men did not grow up in that african gender role metality where only women do this and this is what a women should do. It would not be a problem for him to even come and do all that and more even cooking himself sometimes. I believe in partnership, heck i can wash a car and fix a tire and i dnt think its only a man's job to do that. I can even wash both our cars when time is due. This is why i said that i would be more compatible with a white man and am talking from experience and also i wont lie, i find them attractive too. I have not said i do not find blk men good or unattractive. But because of the way i am and sorry to say alot of blk men are. It just going to be a lot of quarreling and i dnt want to be a nagging wife.





I swear black women are the most easily fooled!


Yet again black women are the most easily fooled by the propaganda of hollywood and other white media outlets. Go to


They are only the alpha males because they've been on top for so long but things are changing. East asian men (Chinese) will be the top soon enough then we'll start to see the vocal minority of foolish black women give their praises, love and affection for east asian men.
Also alpha males can spawn children. White Europeans are going through a hefty depopulation situation. White men are quite sterile! So much for white men being "alphas"!


Nothing but bollocks! White men/Black female couples are still pretty low.


Yet you've judged black men by those stereotypes. Hypocrite much!!!

Subomi-luv:
See what i mean. If i was a guy who said same thing you won't see all these insults from these men. I dunno why some men always have to be upset when blk women also have preferences

Subomi-luv:
My dear i clearly stated some blk men. And alot of what i said are not stereotypes because alot of men themselves said they do not want women like that or cannot do certain things.

Will a man marry someone who believes that both parties must contribute to the chores. Like watching dishes, doing laundry heck i rem a thread abt washing a wifes panty and many of you men when like hell no and saying its unmanly and unafrican. So now that i want a white men because they have no such qualms about it than i am being a hypocrite. No you are rather the hypocrite.

why must everything be abt the media, i dnt blv in all the media ish but real life and experiences. So that is what am doing for myself

Black Kenichi:
I swear black women are the most easily fooled!


Yet again black women are the most easily fooled by the propaganda of hollywood and other white media outlets. Go to


They are only the alpha males because they've been on top for so long but things are changing. East asian men (Chinese) will be the top soon enough then we'll start to see the vocal minority of foolish black women give their praises, love and affection for east asian men.
Also alpha males can spawn children. White Europeans are going through a hefty depopulation situation. White men are quite sterile! So much for white men being "alphas"!


Nothing but bollocks! White men/Black female couples are still pretty low.


Yet you've judged black men by those stereotypes. Hypocrite much!!!

Subomi-luv:
This is true but if you really love someone it does not matter what ppl think. ppl will always have something to say good and bad and as long as i am living my life happy and in peace, i do nt give a damn

Subomi-luv:
I have come to a realisation that it would be best to marry a white man. Ever since i was younger i always felt this attraction to white men, there is just something so sexy and a lil taboo abt white men that i just cannot get out of my system. But its not only physically but mentally too.

White men do not have the same complexes and villager mentality as some of the blk men do. They really know how to make a women feel special and carry their weight around such as helping the lady with chores lovingly, just the way they are also on top of the corporate ladder.

The Alpha males. They strive to be the best and they uplift you and empower you instead of insulting and accussing you of feminism. I was watching a youtube video of britpopprinces with her white husband and the way this guy is damn no blk man would do the same as he does.

Even white men do not have any mishaps abt blk women wearing weaves or being darker or lighter. They see you for yourself. I guess in the past i was shy to admit it. Scared what would ppl say or think. Scared of the stares etc. So i have missed out on some good white guys in the past because of this plus i thought that all just want blk women for one thing. But things are changing, ppl are different.

Dnt judge a person based on hearsay and stereotypes. So women this is now 21st century. Do what you need to do. Date who you want whether white, asian, black, nigerian or non-nigerian. You have only one life to live and be with someone who will make you happy and fit your personality. I love white men and i cannot lie.

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mike404:
Free the geh jawe, e be like say she dey hide something

Atheist:-D:




She wants someone high up the career ladder and feels a white dude is a SAFER option.

Black Kenichi:

A lot of white men want a doting wife as well, yet why hasn't anybody picked up on that? The idea white men are more romantic, more doting, more tender to their women is BS at it's highest. Date whoever you want to date, but don't spread the BS. Too many black women are easily fooled!

Atheist:-D:




She wants someone high up the career ladder and feels a white dude is a SAFER option.

Orikinla:

One white man murdered his black Nigerian wife and stored her corpse in his refrigerator.
Many black girls have been wasted by white men in Italy and even on Bonny Island in Rivers State, black girls have been ra-ped by white expatriates and left battered.
If you think white men are angels, then you are a misinformed slowpoke. I know them better than you. Most white men hate black girls and black women. They simply want to fork them as their gays fork anuses. Go and see how they laugh at black girls and women on their racist website ">http://www.oyibosonline.com/cgi-bin/newsscript.pl

Orikinla:
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One white man murdered his black Nigerian wife and stored her corpse in his refrigerator.
Many black girls have been wasted by white men in Italy and even on Bonny Island in Rivers State, black girls have been ra-ped by white expatriates and left battered.
If you think white men are angels, then you are a misinformed slowpoke. I know them better than you. Most white men hate black girls and black women. They simply want to fork them as their gays fork anuses. Go and see how they laugh at black girls and women on their racist website ">http://www.oyibosonline.com/cgi-bin/newsscript.pl[/size]

Subomi-luv:
See what i mean. If i was a guy who said same thing you won't see all these insults from these men. I dunno why some men always have to be upset when blk women also have preferences

Subomi-luv:
i am high up in the carrer ladder and i want someone on the same level or higher. AM an educated woman not just some stupid lazy bum so i definately do not want a banana man

Texas.Cowgirl:


Black men have done worse.

it boils down to the individual.

Marry who you want to marry. Your choice,your prerogative.

Don't understand why these boys are angry.