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Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by loswhite(m): 3:09pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a houseof course it is your hard earn money that's why you have to move to your own house and be the boss 7 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 3:10pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: ignorant is not excuse to been dumb Your views are backward Your age might be other big issue for you You don't get it 9 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by alex1612: 3:10pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
1. Call her to discussion: 2. Allow her to be free in whatever her intention 3. Find out why she embark on such a trip 4. Don't fight her and promise not to use any revelation you got from against her 5. Allow her to vomit her mind and follow the discussion with your mind open 6. Allow her to decide on what she want to do if she want you or the Reverend Father 7. If you realized she want Reverend Father, pls allow her to go her way if that is what she want because if you resist her when she is not in love with you again. the next thing is planning to kill you. So allow her to go. 8. But if she realized her mistake and you really want to help her. Forgive her and you need to relocate with her, change her sim card just break any way you know she can get in contact with Reverend Father. Show her more love. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by koolJ1(f): 3:10pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Am I the only one who thinks that op's wife just might be the priest's daughter ![]() ![]() |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by thehunted(m): 3:11pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
guy,i ll go straight to the point. secretly plan your life without her and be careful. Her friends are influencing her. Becareful and be ready for what she s got to do next. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by lipstick1(f): 3:12pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Life is too short. I know you are disappointed but please let it go. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by alfajohn: 3:12pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Yoruba_Jesus: Be thankful the guy on the other end is a priest. At least you are sure he didnt do IT with your wifey.You are very naive, the so called fathers specialize on married women cause she can not flaunt it nor can she come back to say she is pregnant. I am not speculating this is from the horses mouth. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by igwe4life(m): 3:20pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
@Funky this thread is talking about a husband and his wife and the need of transparency in a marriage, both parties need to be open about capital projects embarked upon by either party. Besides are you saying the man also earned his money and can spend whichever way he pleases? funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a house 1 Like |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Mintayo(m): 3:21pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: why do i need my man's permission before i build a housesmh... 2 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 3:24pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Coldfeet: She has begged for ur forgiveness! What more do you want?? Don't let some disgruntled Nldrs sow devilish seeds in your marriage o! Some are asking u if those kids are yours? Now if that thought has never crossed your mind am sure now it is right? Pls let it goo!! Who knows maybe they wanted it to be a surprise to you. And about the whole ish about your wife acting up since she now earns more than you, are you sure you are not being paranoid? how old are you? like seriously..no offense, but i think you still have a very long way to go.... 1 Like |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by king100(m): 3:24pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
@Funkybaby I have read your comments in response to other Nairalanders. It seems you are not getting it at all.You keep abuse everybody.We are on this forum to enlighten ourselves about the life issues.You are so strong headed that you posting abuses on all people replies to your illogical and immature comments.Things do not work like that..Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.Change now or else! 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Mintayo(m): 3:25pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
gbanikiti: there's nothing wrong in a woman building houses and acquiring properties. Maybe the posters wife felt he would not approve it. To me,I don't need anyone's permission to build houses. Its my personal decision.there is nothing wrong in a woman building a house without telling her hubby? Her own husband? Her flesh? Someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?smh..no wonder the rate of divorce is getting higher,no wonder we have so many single mothers and fathers...smh. 1 Like |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by king100(m): 3:35pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
lipstick 1: Life is too short. I know you are disappointed but please let it go.Do you think there will be trust in the marriage again? |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by tallceejay(m): 3:36pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Lilimax: God will intervene in this matter cos it's complex She's sorry because she got caught and so is d priest! 2 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Pattey(m): 3:43pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
funkybaby: If you read the OPs comments carefully, he says the properties owned at the moment are in both their names, I.e Mr and Mrs bla bla bla The ish now is, why will the man build up assets in both their names while the woman decides to go solo? If you still don't see any problem with that, then you have no business being in matrimony; holy or unholy. 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by benimeogu(f): 3:43pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
I . 2 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Okijajuju1(m): 3:43pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
2ndChance: I have seen similar threads on this topic before but never imagined it could happen in my marriage. Stories that touch... ![]() Nna a woman bought land, got the papers, got an architect, got approval, started building, finished and you did not know.. You are a bad husband.. #PERIOD |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by InvertedHammer: 3:46pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
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Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Roseey0(f): 3:47pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Oga. Jst go to seminary nw and becm a priest. Your wife's family is under a 'priest curse'. Forgv and forget, her problem is fibble mindedness. You have to help her become a woman with a mind of her own. Break that family curse,if nt,the nxt parish priest may join the band. Lol. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 3:47pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
2ndChance: I have seen similar threads on this topic before but never imagined it could happen in my marriage. Fada don collect ya iyawo o Pele Maybe na im get the pikins sef Your own don finish be that There is a man she consults for her projects and his name is Rev father Evaristus not you Nna you have been kicked to the curb way beck Take heart |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 3:48pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Okija_juju:Please don't say he is a bad husband for his wife keeping secret Life is a Bi*** People do lot of things |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by clapham(m): 3:51pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
@ Funky baby ,i wish you well Have been reading different comments on this trend for years but this topic strigger me to register today,well back to the main topic, Man you have tried your best,my advice is to be more gentle and let things happen before final decision. These issue of women having secret properties is common among south western nigerian women and am speaking from experience,i know my background,i could remember things i saw before coming to my current location,even some women still do it in europe,the man pays the bill and the women is secretly building a mansion in nigeria one question building or owning a property on your name, who takes charge after the last breathe? Vanity upon vanity 1 Like |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Bola10(m): 3:51pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Guy be to thankful to god bcs he really loves u bcs u av bin dead by nw by d priest, in-laws and her friends. 1 Like |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Nobody: 3:52pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Okija_juju:really? Please why do you say or feel he is a bad husband? |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by gbanikiti(m): 3:54pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Mintayo:there's a difference between telling her husband and seeking for permission from him. I still find it hard to believe she didn't tell him. As I said earlier,the story isn't complete without the other side of the story. Now that the house is complete,what do you want the woman to do since she has apologized? Destroy the house or sell it to please the husband? ![]() |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by DukeNija(m): 3:55pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Everybody please leave funkybabe alone ![]() ![]() Shes probably a Unilag babe. Naso them dey run mouth. She never jam man wey go use slap give her liposuction ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() When women see good men they tend to grow wings, forming my money. ![]() ![]() Funkybabe, gbanikiti and co will definitely meet the better men ![]() ![]() Nobody is saying personal investment in marriage is wrong. But an investment with an ulterior motive is not even moral. I doubt any sane man will not understand the dangers of keeping the Wife without her personal investment, given the crazy patriarch system in Africa. Even from the way the op handled this precarious situation, we can all see he's a good man. So i think if she had explained the need for such investment to her husband, he would at one point see her desperation and even if reluctantly, he would finally give in, an support her. One child said i can give him a HINT ![]() ![]() These babes no go kee me o ![]() Na quiz?? Small Girls. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Okijajuju1(m): 3:58pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
mz mariah: really? Please why do you say or feel he is a bad husband? Building a house is not a small matter o! Maybe if he said she bought the house, then I would understand. But building a house is such a big matter that if he had paid attention to his wife, he would have caught her slippin atleast once. Plus.. Didnt it ever bother him to check her finances? I know many women will attack me here, but she is his wife and he has the right to know how she is spending her money. He does not necessarily need to control her spending, but he needs to know. Anyways, I feel he didnt pay enough attention that why he missed such a big matter happening right under his nose. 3 Likes |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by derosario11(m): 3:59pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Plz wana knw ur parish at 2nd choice...I don't believe ur story...hw can u b living wit a woman...n she builds a house...wat type of house is dat?n u don't knw...does d house takes a day to build? Or did she bought an already built house...u don't knw ur problem...no cal d priest cuz ur wife mayb d one going to meet him wit d aid of her bad friends...of course dia good n bad priests ..it depends on ur encounter wit some of dem...all can't b d same in all aspects even doctors n all human infact... |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by ballabriggs: 4:00pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Oboy, na the scope wey you no wan use buy beer for your friends be this? Your wife build house you dey vex, no be you get house? Na me wan live inside the house? O boy abeg go buy beer come make we help you celebrate. Ballabriggs no wan know wetin happen. House done set, it is time to celebrate. Go buy beer come make we follow una jolly abeg. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by Silverb(f): 4:01pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
Ujujoan:u just said it all, most men these days can be really greedy, dey register all their property in their names alone forgetting abt their wives coz dey feel women are just after wealth. Things are changing, a lot of women are wiser nw, I dnt see any reason y his wife would go behind his back to build a house if he actually included d wife's name in his property, yeah d wife is wrong for doing it secretly but there's always 2sides to a story. |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by GoodFaith: 4:02pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
gbanikiti: there's a difference between telling her husband and seeking for permission from him. I still find it hard to believe she didn't tell him. As I said earlier,the story isn't complete without the other side of the story.I just told a story of a woman that build first house without telling her husband Her Husband found out people came to beg him She started other second house, Husband found out Sold their house and kept the check |
Re: Priest Aids Wife To Build Without Husband's Knowledge by sage2(m): 4:02pm On Oct 29, 2013 |
What if she tells you that she was actually planning to surprise you with the house? Too bad you weren't patient enough to see what her end game is. Now she could up with a billion and one reasons why she didn't tell you. |
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