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Re: Husband Cheating? by sistawoman: 8:05pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~: yes yes yes yes If you let him to believe u to be a doormat he will keep treating you as such. No woman has to tolerate an unfaithful man. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 8:07pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Cristalz: How many men would shag a pregnant woman, never mind wimps?? U think it's that easy?? Most men are scared penetration would batter the baby into bits so they shy away!!! Besides, some women are also untidy when they are preggers. . . .It's common to see em spitting in a huge container every 3 mins. . . . How is that a sexual attraction?? ![]() ![]() I also think this man has always been with his shag partner. . . .The wife just finding out now does not mean she is new in the picture. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 8:08pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
sistawoman: Sistawoman. . . . . .Nigerians are Africans. Jumping from one husband to another is a social stigma here. Most women are treated as outcasts because of such nonsense. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by KarmaMod(f): 8:08pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
That dumb excuse of "oh if this marriage doesnt work, the next one wouldnt" is so tired. and what about those who get divorced, get married again and last for years and years Are their super people? A woman forgave her husband the first time and he did it again and the only excuse you people have is "oh dont leave cos God will make it happen again in another relationship" cos apparently that's the evil malicious god that some of you worship. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by sistawoman: 8:11pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~: How will i cook and clean and cater to a man that is a serial cheater? How can I be a good wife for a man i dispise. This is not the old days where women have to put up with this shit. I would rather be alone or a social outcast my entire life then lay next to a man i know is cheating on me. If you cant love me enough to give me first and only place then to hell with you and the rest of socity that would say shit about me. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by sistawoman: 8:12pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Oh yea!!! if it is going to be an open marriage, because that is what it is if the wife knows the husband cheats and still accepts him, then it has to be all the way open; dont say shit when you come home and Hannibal is in my bed with me. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 8:16pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
sistawoman: Point noted. . . . It's easy to hide behind a system and type like superwoman but i have always been a fan of realism. Marriage has always been a tough venture. . . . .U cannot continue to jump from bed to bed because your husband cheated. What makes u different from him if u do that?? Secondly, women who divorce their husbands and marry the next and claim they are happy in the next might be pretending. Everyone knows i divorced once, even if the next husband is worse than the previous, i would keep a happy face and pretend all is well. How many women would divorce twice if the 2 husbands they married are serial cheats?? They get to a point where they conclude MEN are goats and settle down with the husband(whether he is a serial cheat or a serial self-servicer). |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Cristalz(f): 8:19pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~:What are they scared of? If your doctor tells you its safe to go ahead and boink then its safe. Is his willy going to break the walls of her womb and bang the baby on the head? ![]() Wifey here may not be among the untidy ones. I know a woman that was pregnant and was still up and doing. . .cooking,playing,dancing,cheerful and lively even with her tummy arriving at a scene 2 minutes before the rest of her body. And she was still so tidy. I was constantly amazed. She didn't do the spitting thing. But a wife being untidy is not really a viable excuse. How many men are that tidy anyway? He should simply warn her to clean herself up before running out to cheat. As for hubby's sex partner not being a new factor. . .I doubt it. She saw a text where he was asking for her address,remember? |
Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:24pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
That's why you take your time and figure out the type of person you are REALLY marrying, And I wouldn't rush into the second marriage as quick as the first, hopefully this young lady will do the same. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by igwe11(m): 8:25pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Easier said than done, the only solution here is to call both families up and talk things over, unless their marriage is of the type called ''Abuja marriage''. simple!!!! |
Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:28pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
What is there to talk about? Dude admitted he cheated. There is no need for him to try to save face now. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 8:28pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Cristalz: I wouldn't want to cause a miscarriage by bonking a heavily pregnant woman regardless of what the doc tells me.
We don't have the details but lets assume she is tidy(for argument's sake), something musta triggered the man to cheat. Men are not dogs. . . .
The transition might have been a shock to the husband. . . . . From hour-glass to a roundish, fattish massive flesh.
It might be her new addy. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Cristalz(f): 8:29pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Ms. Lurker:If a man is determined not to let a girl see his bad side before marriage,I doubt that she would see it. As for rushing into the second marriage, she didn't say she rushed into the first one,did she? Leaving won't solve anything now. Shez pregnant remember. @igwe Lol ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by sistawoman: 8:30pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~: Chalk it up to my culture, my independance or my stubborness but I would divorce the second one too. I have been married before, or have you forgotten, and this is my second marriage. I would divorce his ass in a fucking heart beat. and I would not look back twice. I love him to death but I will not, WILL NOT, be embarrassed. He knew this going into our marriage that if there is an instance where I have egg on my face I will not be a happy customer. I told my hubby before marriage, you cheat i am gone, call my bluff if you want to. It would be utterly shameful, for me, to have my husband cheat on me. This is not that other women feel this way just me. I feel like to cheat on me is a slap in the face. I am a great woman that deserves first and only place and if you, my husband, cant see the value in me then Bleep you. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than be a fool. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 8:33pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
sistawoman: Give it up for Sistawoman. . . . . . Hello, Africans are not programmed this way. Your family would disown you if u get married to more than 2 husbands. ![]() It won't be regarded as your stubborness or independence shit, they would say you are a flaming "LovePeddler". I think the world would be a much better place if women realise it's a man's world. . . . It ain't fair but when has LIFE ever been fair?? |
Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:35pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Amen, sista! You are not a good partner or mate for me (nor I, you, obviously) if you cheat. I won't disrespect you, the same should be applied to me. The only contact he would need to have is only in regards to our child. He and I are through. I rather be happy and single with my child than miserable and insecure with a cheating husband. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:36pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Your family should know who you are. I mean, as much as they stay up in your life, wouldn't they know that their daughter is not a LovePeddler and should be happily married. Not just married for the sake of putting "Mrs" in front of her name. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Cristalz(f): 8:37pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~:Nobody said a heavily preganant woman. . .but before she gets heavy sex is still possible and safe. ~Sauron~:I doubt the poster will agree with you on that ![]() ~Sauron~:Haba. Hasn't he ever seen a pregnant woman before? ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by sistawoman: 8:38pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~: Then i guess i would be a flaming LovePeddler. I would not stay married to him, no matter what. What does that say to my husband if before marriage i warn a brotha but then after he does it i stay? What message does that send to him? He might as well start beating the shit out me. My father would kick my ass if i stayed with a cheating man. I could not even hold my head up in public if my husband was stepping out on me. But I would gladly hold my head up as a single woman. And who says I even get married again. I can just live my life out alone. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 8:41pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Cristalz: People are different. . . . .many men get antsy about pregnant women. . . .
The poster has a father and brothers. Surely, she won't call em dogs.
It's a different thing to see a pregnant woman on a bus. . . .It's anutha thang to see one naked few inches away from u with the belly pulsating. ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by igwe11(m): 8:41pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Cristalz: Abuja marriage is simple living together of man and woman out of accommodation problem either for the man or the woman, i.e out of circumstance. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 8:44pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
sistawoman: Very well then. . . . . I am afriad u cannot help this poster with your way of reasoning. She is from Nigeria. . . . .The society frowns at women jumping from marriage to another. Her own family would tell her to be patient and stick to the scripts. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by igwe11(m): 8:51pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Ms. Lurker:Yeah he sincerely admitted, that reminds me of shaggy's song. It wasn't me. this proves it right that you girls like it when we tell lies. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 8:55pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
igwe 1: Wrong! I would thank you for telling me the truth as I quickly packed my belongings. I'm sorry next to cheating on your wife when she is sick, cheating on her when she is with child ranks just as low. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Cristalz(f): 8:58pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
~Sauron~:Then they shouldn't get 'em pregnant ![]() ~Sauron~:Depends. . .she just might have a very general view about it ~Sauron~:It's supposed to be fascinating, not repulsive. Come on. @igwe LOL ![]() Does that happen? Wow. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by syren: 9:06pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
igwe 1: Who told you that ![]() Girls/women like it when you do the right thing. Guys lie to make them believe they are doing those things. ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by igwe11(m): 9:08pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Ms. Lurker:Wait sista, i hope you re not taking this on me. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But for the meantime i think, there is always room for forgiveness else all of us won't be here to tell these stories. my own suggestion is she should talk things over with her husband seriously and the man has to promise in the present of their people that he isn't going to do it again. period!!!!! where is she running? for the man to accept to marry her for the first time, there was love in existence. whatever happens to it should be dealt with by both parties. |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 9:09pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Cristalz: Was she raped?? ![]()
I don't think so.
I have not seen one before, pardon me. ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
sistawoman: Five Stars!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Husband Cheating? by MsLurker(f): 9:15pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
igwe 1: No, not at all. ![]() I see nothing wrong with forgiving him. Just because you forgive a person doesn't mean that you still have to tolerate them in your space. Besides, if this was a woman cheating would y ou guys be so forgiving? |
Re: Husband Cheating? by igwe11(m): 9:22pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Ms. Lurker:Not at all!! I can't take it since she is answering my surname. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Husband Cheating? by Sauron1: 9:22pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
stillwater: I expect you to say that. . . . . Stillwater would explain to her kids and say, children. . . . .This is your 5th daddy. What a legacy to leave for ur kids!!! ![]() ![]() |
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