still speculative.


you see why they say opinions are like assholes.

H2O2:

still speculative.


you see why they say opinions are like assholes.

still unequivocal

your arse opinion stinks too

I prefer to think I'm being objective by clearly stating the fact about your speculative opinion.

H2O2:

I prefer to think I'm being objective by clearly stating the fact about your speculative opinion.

Care to tell what fact your so-called objective opinion is based on

The fact is about your speculation.  I don't belive you should treat hypothetical opinions as if they are facts.

because the guy would never tell them the truth which would clearly hurt them

You are obtusely predicting the outcome before the event ever took place.

Busy_body:

What is the point of seeking closure in order to understand what went wrong in order to accept what happened, if like Sisi Jinx rightly said that finding out what led to the breakup will not reduce the pain, which if i might add might even intensify the pain.

Your "speculative" comment was in response to the post above, and the key word I used was might, an auxiliary verb whose function is to give further logic relating to the conditions in which a theory can be said to be true, about the main or full verb which follows it, comprende

H2O2:

You are obtusely predicting the outcome before the event ever took place.

H2O2:

The fact is about your speculation.  I don't believe you should treat hypothetical opinions as if they are facts.

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Busy_body:

When she said she requested closure, this was my response to her. There is so little you can take away or add to it, in order to tweak it to fit anyone seeking closure for their relationship.

lol. . . .

H202, na you biko.

Na so so woman u jus dey fite all over the place

Sho ara e

Doyin you still dey alive?

doyin13:

lol. . . .

H202, na you biko.

Na so so woman u jus dey fite all over the place

Sho ara e

No mind am jare Wonder what Morenike Alagolo sees in him

Busy_body:

No mind am jare Wonder what Morenike Alagolo sees in him

and the truth shall set me free.

busybein i second ur motion

davidylan:

Doyin you still dey alive?  

Mo fe alive pa ni. . . .

can't wait for my 21st buffdaay

Personally, after the initial I don't think this relationship is working, I'm just not in a right place right now. . . Blah, blah, blah on the day of the break up, I'm done. Will I cry? Will I be hurt, will I be heartbroken? Yes, Yes Yes. I won't however call him again and again demanding more explanation.

I mean if he explains. . . Is that my cue to try to change things he is at odds with in order to keep him? We are going down a slippery slope here. What about the next time and the next time and the next time? Do I keep jumping through hoops to give him what he wants?


Secondly, if you get an explanation. . . and you don't get together, then you spend time with had I knowns, what if I had done this or what if we had gone here or there? Maybe it was at that juncture that night on that day the whole thing started.

Is that closure? For me. . . It isn't.

My closure is getting over the fact that the guy didn't want me and finding the strength move on. . . literally shutting the door on that relationship. This does not mean we won't one day be friends but it would be extremely naive of me to think it's going to be immediately.

Like I said in my opinion, there is something extremely masochistic about hearing the reasons and something very sadistic about saying them.

There is a reason, the phrase "IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S ME' was invented. I say use it and take comfort in it.


OFF Topic
Anyone seen the Episode of Seinfeld where George's girlfriend demanded the truth for their break up. . . He told her and she ended up having herself committed? Hilarious!

Please note my peppered with Is and MEs

H2O2:

The fact is about your speculation.  I don't believe you should treat hypothetical opinions as if they are facts.You are obtusely predicting the outcome before the event ever took place.

Who are you blowing all these grammar for, I will call Ebony_silk for you now When myself and J-girl offered Alagolo to you on a plate and even left the thread for you to seduce her, you turned to mush and a quivering wreck Okobo oshi

irony:

busy[b]bein[/b] i second ur motion

busybody u mean?

doyin13:

Mo fe alive pa ni. . . .

can't wait for my [b]3[/b]1st buffdaay

its about time

Give me hi-5 o jare Sisi Jinx

Sisi Jinx:

Anyone seen the Episode of Seinfeld where George's girlfriend demanded the truth for their break up. . . He told her and she ended up having herself committed? Hilarious!

Sisi, you need to come down to NY so we can play Seinfeld Scene It  

Busy_body:

Who are you blowing all these grammar for, I will call Ebony_silk for you now When myself and J-girl offered Alagolo to you on a plate and even left the thread for you to seduce her, you turned to mush and a quivering wreck Okobo oshi

Woman, will you stop using me as the bait here?

*Toyinrayo:

Woman, will you stop using me as the bait here?

u really don't have to reply busy_body,her location is al d answer u need


LOCATION: . . . five minutes from yaba left . .

*Toyinrayo:

Woman, will you stop using me as the bait here?

Sue me erm, erm, sowwy ma, but i did not call your name ma, the only names i mentioned were Morenike and Ebony_silk ma 

busybein:

u really don't have to reply busy_body,her location is al d answer u need


LOCATION: . . . five minutes from yaba left . .

You don't have to tell people na, thought we agreed to keep it a secret

Busy_body:

Sue me

Dnt worry, my lawyer (H202) will send you a letter

@ iice



@ Karma
Oh Karma. . . You don't wanna try me ooh. I'm a Seinfeld Trivialogist. . . Hehehehe

Sisikill, it's about time you fight Busy_body. Tell her to stop giving your man away

roses are red
voilets are blue
i delted my posts
wetin concern u

netotse:

umm let me tell a story(its all i can doi don't hv enough 'experience' to talk about closure)it might be long i warn y'all

somewhere bak i mentioned the gel i marked for 2yrs(i prefer that to toastedits not as conclol)
anyway sha we got together the 1st time then i needed space and told her but i made the mistake of saying and i quote 'i dnt how long it could be one week, one month, one yeai cnt say'(i kno it was watching too much american film that caused thati think i jst liked the way it sounded). . .anyway sha to cut the long story short she cut me off as in emotionallyoh yeah this was a week before her birthday and it was a couple of days after i couriered her vals gift to her(she was in yobe i was in lagos)she didnt expect it and she was mad tripped about itanyway four months later we sha managed to get back on track as in level of closeness(can u imagine someone was trying to usurp my positioni'm smooth i must confess )anyway we sha talked things over and a month later we were officially going out i must admit i clda been the happiest man on earthi even improved on the sturvs she didnt like before the 1st split anyways sha d normal relationship sturvs happend and she one broke up with meone my friends called her and heaven know wot he sed and she apologised (about that friend we even quarelled because i didnt like her and her calling each other unnecessarily behind my bak) long story short we finally broke up and the reason that came out once we talked it over was that i stifled her as in i made her feel 'like some dumb blonde' (her exact words- well i admit i'm forcefull when it comes to gettng a point across) u can imagine how stunned i was because we used to both promise ourselves that we wont hold bak when it comes to communicating(musta sed it like 100times) it made me remember one thing we talked about as in how relationships turn sour and she was like its because they can't put the other person first(i disagreed then but i can't rem how it went sha) anyway wot led to the talking things over was me noticing that she became argumentative and wondering that this wasnt the gel i fell in love withthe whole breakup thing was sha messy as in now she wont call me but if i text she'll text bak, i once called and mentioned i was stressed as per school and she started mothering me like before but she never reveals anything about herself and wots bin going on with her so the way we relate is strained(its bin a bit over a year). . .now its xmas we're in the same town but i hvnt called her because i know its going to be awkwardand if i try to talk things over with her it wont end wellso i'm left wondering wot miracle is going to happen that will enable us to relate like normal friends whether its the closure that comes from within or the one that comes from outside. . .

thats wot my experience has been when it comes to closure. . .
hope its coherent enough for people to read tho

am going to delete this soon tho because the ex in question is on NL (no it wasnt a cyber toasting i introduced her to it o)

Erase what? berra start begging me, do ba le o!!

netotse:

umm let me tell a story(its all i can doi don't hv enough 'experience' to talk about closure)it might be long i warn y'all

somewhere bak i mentioned the gel i marked for 2yrs(i prefer that to toastedits not as conclol)
anyway sha we got together the 1st time then i needed space and told her but i made the mistake of saying and i quote 'i dnt how long it could be one week, one month, one yeai cnt say'(i kno it was watching too much american film that caused thati think i jst liked the way it sounded). . .anyway sha to cut the long story short she cut me off as in emotionallyoh yeah this was a week before her birthday and it was a couple of days after i couriered her vals gift to her(she was in yobe i was in lagos)she didnt expect it and she was mad tripped about itanyway four months later we sha managed to get back on track as in level of closeness(can u imagine someone was trying to usurp my positioni'm smooth i must confess )anyway we sha talked things over and a month later we were officially going out i must admit i clda been the happiest man on earthi even improved on the sturvs she didnt like before the 1st split anyways sha d normal relationship sturvs happend and she one broke up with meone my friends called her and heaven know wot he sed and she apologised (about that friend we even quarelled because i didnt like her and her calling each other unnecessarily behind my bak) long story short we finally broke up and the reason that came out once we talked it over was that i stifled her as in i made her feel 'like some dumb blonde' (her exact words- well i admit i'm forcefull when it comes to gettng a point across) u can imagine how stunned i was because we used to both promise ourselves that we wont hold bak when it comes to communicating(musta sed it like 100times) it made me remember one thing we talked about as in how relationships turn sour and she was like its because they can't put the other person first(i disagreed then but i can't rem how it went sha) anyway wot led to the talking things over was me noticing that she became argumentative and wondering that this wasnt the gel i fell in love withthe whole breakup thing was sha messy as in now she wont call me but if i text she'll text bak, i once called and mentioned i was stressed as per school and she started mothering me like before but she never reveals anything about herself and wots bin going on with her so the way we relate is strained(its bin a bit over a year). . .now its xmas we're in the same town but i hvnt called her because i know its going to be awkwardand if i try to talk things over with her it wont end wellso i'm left wondering wot miracle is going to happen that will enable us to relate like normal friends whether its the closure that comes from within or the one that comes from outside. . .

thats wot my experience has been when it comes to closure. . .
hope its coherent enough for people to read tho

am going to delete this soon tho because the ex in question is on NL (no it wasnt a cyber toasting i introduced her to it o)

now she will really see this

busybein:

busybody u mean?

its about time

look at you. . .don't hate cause i am young jo

Come back. We are not done here.

Your "speculative" comment was in response to the post above, and the key word I used was might, an auxiliary verb whose function is to give further logic relating to the conditions in which a theory can be said to be true, about the main or full verb which follows it, comprende

I posted two comments on speculation, one of them was in response to the post you correctly highlighted. Fine.

The keyword might still does not excuse the truth that it was speculative and contains an element of uncertainty.  No one is denying the hula-hula about auxiliary or illogical verbs being used.

H2O2:

Come back. We are not done here.

Morenike, duty calleth <sup>I jealous you small sha, wished i had a man with such spunk too, who would command me like this too, i love men who are firm and knows what they want and calls it as it is




Aunty Toyinrayo, mo nki yi ni o, se e o ri otutu sha, e make sure pe e keep warm dada o</sup>