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Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Arnold1(m): 8:06pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Let me pose this question, if a Nigerian lady were to get pregnant by a Nigerian guy in the US., What are the chances that the lady would have to keep hunting him down for child support ? How many Nigerian women do you know of that has to plead for her baby’s father to acknowledge and be there for his child ? I am not trying to put anyone down, but I can state here emphatically that it is a taboo not to take care of your child from the village (actually town) I come from. A Nigerian lady would nine times out of ten choose a Nigerian man before she chooses an AA man due to the cultural similarities they have in common - which Almondjoy has very well articulated. |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 8:07pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Sweet T: yes, i'll rather marry an akata than to tie myself up with a bushman like you, who thinks the only way to romance a girl is to mess around with her friends |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by SweetT1: 8:08pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
what are you talking about?? Have you been drinking palm wine? what friends are you talking about? |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by almondjoy(f): 8:09pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Arnold1: Nothing to add, nothing to subtract! CULTURAL COMPARTIBLITY. . . PERIOD! |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Busta(f): 8:12pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
morenike09: Iwo? story Angeltoyin = Deviltoyin gentletoyin = Angrytoyin |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by SweetT1: 8:13pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
@Busta Don't be fooled, more like Devil Toyin, Abami Eda Toyin ! |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 8:14pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Sweet T:am talking abt you. . .if am drinking palm wine, you're sniffing Igbo (weed) Busta:emi? where did you get this? busta, you're my adopted brother's wife, you think of me as such? wait, till i report you to him |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Sweet T: you nko? ashewo Bitter T |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by SweetT1: 8:16pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
I dey go sleep. It seems like Toyin is on that stuff again. Palmwine laced with snuff ! |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by SweetT1: 8:17pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
@morenike Why are you calling me these names. Na jeje i sit on my own. I don't get involve with you guys drama. I'll come back when the palm wine wears off. |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by almondjoy(f): 8:18pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
D-reloaded: Nothing to hide when you are telling what you believe to be true from your own personal observations. Hero or Dru. . . the facts are the facts. . . nothing personal at all! Just ma observation. People like Ms Lurker can never see that because she is a "Black American" female. . . of course I can ony expect her to put up the best defense under the circumstances. I am not partial. . . .I have studied ma environment for years and I know what the heck is going on! What on earth will you gain from fooling around with a "Black American" guy before you settle down? You will only be risking your life if you do not end up in jail first. The kind of lifestyle most get into will only send bad news to your village in "Africa" to quote my sistaas and brodaas from over here. Okay, even if you give one of them a chance, due to the fragmented family set up most come from. . .you will definitely invite trouble from one of their distant relatives in form of a burglar or basement pharmarcist. . . unless you are dealing with the Barrack Obama kind. . . .and I do not need to tell you that only the Michelles Obama of this world can command the respect and attention of those. YOU CAN ONLY ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE! |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Sweet T: eh en? omo dada, go to sleep and let the igbo wear off, shotigbo. . .before you come back here |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by TheSly: 8:20pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
*runs far away from thread* Couldn't comprehend whats goin on no more. . . Ile koko n tagbe. . . . . . . . .offffff i go. . . . . . . |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by MsLurker(f): 8:29pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
almondjoy: I'm not trying to defend anything. Why should I? You don't seem like the type to listen, so I can't waste my typing on it. What will be, will be, my dear. The Black American women that have together know what's up and it's cool. And there are a lot of Michelle Obama's in this world, we just aren't all dating a Presidential nominee. Cheers! |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by 4Him(m): 8:38pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Ms. Lurker: Michelle isnt particularly fine but again that's a topic for another day. There's nothing wrong with a girl marrying an AA guy, i suppose it has more to do with a desire to stay within the relative comfort of the known. Besides marriage in the Nigerian sense has a lot to do with familes . . . i dont know many conservative Nigerian families that would be disposed to letting their daughter go marry someone from goodness knows where. |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Busta(f): 8:47pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
morenike09: which adopted brother? . . . He has been officially divorced. Didn't watch the last episode of Jerry Springer? |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Dreloaded(f): 8:49pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
[quote author=almondjoy link=topic=36761.msg2057488#msg2057488 date=1205522337 What on earth will you gain from fooling around with a "Black American" guy before you settle down? [quote][/quote] That's my point AJ, African men have no problem playing around with these women til they find the Nigerian female they decide to marry and one wonders what stops African women from doing the same until she finds the African/Nigerian dude she feels cpmfortable enough for marriage My reason is that they dont wanna waste time and would rather date those they are sure of marrying instead of playing around like our men do but Im sure they are many other reasons and i guess i wanna hear them all lol. |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 8:49pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Busta:LOL. . .i dnt watch Jerry Springer anymore o. . .but the last time i watched Maury, you promise to take him back. . .what did he do now? making my sis-in-law angry |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Busta(f): 8:53pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Maury Show, the show was cancelled oh . . . after the lie detector test confirm all my suspicions with him and Lady T, D-reloaded, Mukina, michelline89 and the rest of them. nahh, his case is a closed one. |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Busta:omo, dnt mind the director o. . .they were trying to frame him up. . . see this ppl who can scatter scatter a beautiful home (in case you guys seperate, can i get the Lexus in your garage?) dnt mind them o |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Busta(f): 9:03pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
morenike09:see how much u like ur brotha? which director framed him up? lexus ko, bentley ni . . . sho ara re oh enways, i have moved on. Life is too short to morose over some cheat of a guy. Give my msg to him |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Busta: ahhhh. . .so just because i love my brother i can't have the Lexus? eya, it was nice having you as a sis-in-law. . .but good thing my brother is going after Alicia Keys now, but seriously, do i get the Lexus? |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Busta(f): 9:24pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
@morenike Alicia Keys ko . . . Amy Whinehouse ni omo forget that lexus oh, i am keeping it, plus the house and every kobo ur brother has. Mo sori fun gbogbo yin lokon kon damn . . .stilll got it |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 9:28pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
haba, busta, and here i thought my yoruba was rusty. . .man, you give "rusty" another meaning. abeg, dnt mess up my language jo. . . |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Busta(f): 9:32pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
morenike09: lol insult me oh LEXUS na lon gba yen oh . . .koda, wa gba lambogini pelu e |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 9:37pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Busta:did you know how long it took me to understand that? ok ok ok , you told me that i can have the Lexus, ese ma. . . you're too generous. . |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Busta(f): 9:39pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
lol . . that bad huh? yeah come and get it. I actually went and purchased 10 bulldogs and 10 german shepards cos of u pple. They will entertain u when u get here. |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Busta:rotflmao . . .now i understand why my brother left you oh. . .you're one dangerous pikin. . .and here and there, i read ppl wanting to meet Busta and that Busta is gentle . . . woe to them, their minds have been poisoned |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by almondjoy(f): 9:49pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Ms. Lurker: You are dreaming! More like a lot of Madeas around dating a whole lot of "Fred G. Sanfords" around America! What a combination! Everlastin' damnation! If we had a lot of Michelle Obamas in America. . . .the unemployment rate would definitely go way down and the welfare system would not be over-burdened by you know who. The good thing is that we are all "black". Whatever affects one affects all. . . to the outside world. . . .no difference! D-reloaded: That is the beauty of the typical diasporian "Nigerian" man! Anywhere his deeeeeeeeeek can be pampered. . . .you will find him there even if it means swimming in the gutter! As long as they can find someone who will have it for breakfast, lunch and dinner plus bed time snack. . . . they have struck gold. . . that is all they think with. Simple! Not many Nigerian girls and women have time for that! Just were not conditioned that way to care for those things. I don't! So why would I want to hook up with an "Black American" male just because they have perfected the art of bedmatics, like that is all ma life is worth? Well, things are changing as more Nigerians are having children who are more "Black American" than the "Black Americans themselves". There are more Africans now in America who have never been to Africa. So things will soon even out in about 100years., so you cannot even tell the difference! Nigerian guys have never seen that kind of thing in "Africa" as a whole as a result of a sexually inhibited cultural background they were raised in. When they come over. . . .oh dear. . . .all hell breaks lose for the supply of cheap, fantastic vaginas and tongues rule here. Any Nigerian man would get his money's worth over with extra coupons to come back to the "amusement park" here while in Nigeria they pay for substandard service with a lot of responsilities and liabilites. Leave those ones in Nigeria. . . they are just trying to catch up. But a typical Nigerian lady or woman. . . . not interested in all that rubbish! Even if they indulge once in a while. . . . . they do not make it a religion like our dear male and female counterparts . . . ."Black Americans". |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 11:55pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
Lmao stillwater, they are known for only liking black women as their mistresses Oluchi Onweagba is married to an Italian fashion designer Luca Orlandi . Maybe other black girls certainly not a Nigerian, Igbo to be precise |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 11:57pm On Mar 14, 2008 |
stillwater:so you want to follow her trend? |
Re: Girls Can You Marry An African American Guy! by Nobody: 12:04am On Mar 15, 2008 |
I don't follow people's "trend". I set up my own and other people follow. |
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