Smile, Smile, Smile

To encourage laughter and happiness into your relationship, simple things like watching funny movie or going to comedy night or conscious effort to laugh at each other's jokes can pay real dividends. The more you laugh through more endorphins your brain will produce and the happier you will feel. And because of cause and effect, the more your partner will laugh too...

How To Know If A Man Wants You As A wife.


1. He does not make sexual intercourse a must
2. He is concerned about your family welfare and interested in knowing them.
3. He is open and does not hide anything from you.
4. He shows interest in your education, career or progress
5. He is a bit jealous when he sees you with male friends
6. He is prudent about spending money on you. He just doesn't want to spoil you.
7. He Makes an attempt just to help you adjust on your bad habits eg. Talking on top of your voice, sudden outburst of anger etc
8. He ask questions to know more about you.
9. He takes pleasure in introducing you to his friends and family
10. He regulate your visit to his house while courting.
11. He misses you and doesn't hide this fact when you are not around.
12. He checks and make attempt to help you adjust on things he doesn't feel comfortable about you e.g when you are getting too fat as a result of carelessness on your part.

HOW TO KNOW IF A MAN DOES NOT WANT YOU AS A WIFE is the exact opposite of 'HOW TO KNOW IF A MAN WANTS YOU AS A WIFE' above.

CAN I MAKE MY HUSBAND LOVE ME AGAIN?

Yes you can. your husband can love you again despite the flaws in your marriage. All you need to do is take the tips below and it will help you increase, renew and rebuild love back into your marriage..

1. Walk with his shoes. Have a rethink, check and find out what is happening in your marriage..

2. Understand what your own problems are - check yourself ( what's your behavior like?)

3. Talk to him and put away your pride ; tell him your challenges and ask him to help you out.

4. Communicate - speak with him;ask him questions as the why he has changed.

5. Get a professional help. See a professional guidance counselor.. Contact us today on 08170399634 we can help you revive your relationship.

Men and women came different planet. Men are Mars and women are Venus that's the fact of marital life.
There are differences in their wants, desires etc. women focus on emotions, feelings and are relationship oriented and loved to be listened to. Men love doing and making things happen. Men are not that romantic as women want them to be. Men are result oriented. Failure to understand this differences is the genesis of lack of understanding between men and women which poses problems on marriage. To have a successful marriage or renew it read below some tips to help you.

1. Acquire Knowledge
2. Prepare adequately before marriage
3. Be domesticated
3. learn good habits
4. Take your time and don't rush in to marriage or allow yourself to be pushed around by friends, family etc.
5. Practice good characters
6. Be prayerful
7. Improve your listening skills
8. Be humble
9. Do away with Ego it's destroys marriage.
10. Be friendly, funny, and lively to be with..

~ Doc Adeshina

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How To Improve Your Marriage

Your marriage can get better. Here are three things you can begin doing today to put romance into your marriage.

1. Give more appreciation to your partner .. Every human needs to hear words such as I appreciate the way you work hard to care for our kids and thanks for helping my mother. If we receive no appreciate, we feel hurt.

2. Do kind actions : The second way you can improve your marriage is Do kind things. Share gifts, spend quality time together, look for good qualities and mention them often

3. Complain less... A good way to improve your marriage is : starting to complain less. Yes, the next time you are tempted to complain, stop and ask yourself. Do I really need to complain about this? Instead of complaining, is there a better way? Many things are just too small to complain about. "

To improve your marriage say more positive comments, and fewer negative ones. Be more thankful and complain less..

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True love is not conditional ; that is it does not promise "As long as you are perfect, I will love you". True love is not affected by a partner behavior, it endures regardless of positive or negative treatment. Thus adjustment to an opposite is not automatic, it is an act. Everyone has ideas about "how love feels or how loves make you act" but to define or explain it is not easy. However, love for one leads to marriage and continuing in love makes marriage successful.

1. The couple has a basic friendship with one another.
2. The couple enjoys being in the others presence and will feel a vacuum when the other is away from home.
3. The couple trust each other's judgment in crucial life decisions and does not questions or take for granted each other sincerity and fidelity in marriage
4. The couple clearly defines and redefines their mutual responsibilities well as in the support of and supply of the home.
5. The couple communicate freely and openly with each other on any aspect of marriage.
6. The couple has gained some measure of freedom from the domination of the significant outsiders such as the in laws, the neighbours, and the friends of both parties.
7. The couple is determined to make marriage last despite all threat against the union from within or outside the marriage.

For marriage to succeed couple must establish real and genuine true love among each other. Love is the engine that drives marriage.

~ Doc Adeshina

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How to get a guy to propose naturally without being obvious in your ways

1 Act as the perfect girlfriend .
Let him see in you all the ideal qualities he's looking for in a future wife.

2 Enjoy the company of your married friends.
Hang out with your happily married friends, especially on occasions when he can feel the importance of celebrating with a family of his own. Let your friends help him appreciate marital life and realize there's nothing to fear about it.

3 Introduce him to your family .
Bring him to family affairs and introduce him to your relatives and friends. Make your family like him. The same is true when it's your turn to meet his family. Both of you must feel welcome and comfortable happy in the company of each other's families.

4 Talk about your future plans .
Tell him what your visions are to let him see that he is part of your long term plans. Talk about where you want to build your dream house, the kids you're going to raise as a family, or where you want to spend your retirement days with him. Although this may not make him propose to you on the spot, he will realize you're seeing the future as a couple.

5 Make him dependent on you.
Attend to his needs and look after his welfare. Make him realize he can't do things without your help. It will further make him realize he's a better man because of you. Regardless of how manly he is, he looks to you for stability and support. He'll be at a loss if he lets you get away.

6 Let him feel insecure at times .
Make him feel secure in your love. However, men often take it for granted, knowing their woman has an undying love for them. Let him know there are other guys who are interested in you and would be happy to occupy his enviable position. This will effectively put into perspective for him that other guys stand a chance to take away his prized possession since the two of you have a non-committal relationship.

7 Live a life beyond him.
Don't allow your life to revolve around him to the extent of isolating yourself from the rest of the world. Have your own life separate from what you have with him. It's a great way to imply that you can exist even without him and still be happy. Men find it satisfying to know that women are dependent on them for happiness, and thus, they take control in running the relationship and steering it to the direction they want.

How To Make A Woman Happy
1. Be her friend 2. Be her companion 3. Be her lover 4. Be a brother 5. Be a father 6. You must be able to "fix it" 7. You must be a good listener 8. You must be empathetic 9. You must be caring 10. You must be truthful 11. You must be ambitious 12. You must be reliable 13. You must not stress her 14. You must give her attention 15. You must give her time 16. You must give her a lot of space 17. You must never forget her birthday, Valentine's Day and other arrangements.
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How To Find Your Right Partner

#1: Get Clear On What You Bring To The Table
Write down your strengths, talents, passions and interests to unearth the essence of who you are and what you bring to a relationship. Draw parallels between past partners and try to assess what went wrong and what went right. From this new awareness, you may need to vow to do things differently the next time.

#2: Imagine Your Life With The Right Partner
Throw out the rulebook. Forget about following your feelings (they usually get you into trouble). Sit down and write out what your life or your business would be like with the right partner in it. Imagine every aspect of the relationship and what it would bring. Know that being rescued is out of the question and that rescuing someone else will never work. This has to be a win-win deal.

#3: Define The Qualities You Are Looking For
An “is/is not list” creates a filter for your search. Here’s an example of one I would use to find a business partner. Create your own to help you powerfully set your intention (and your boundaries).

4#: Figure Out What’s Stopping You
Lots of things can stand in the way of your success. Fear and lack of self-esteem are the big ones. Once you get clear on what’s keeping you from attracting the right partner, do what’s necessary to instill confidence and courage.

#5: Spread The Word & Make A Plan
The fastest way to find the right partner is to tell everyone you know what you are looking for and how you plan to complement each other. Then, do research to find the places and events where you could meet your partner – look for workshops, classes, trade association events, online groups, etc. Take out your calendar and fill it up!

When it comes to finding the right partner, you can’t get into someone’s life unless you get out of your routine.

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Understanding 5 Attraction Process Of Courtship Signals Women Display.

Courtship follows a predictable five steps that we all go through when we meet an attractive person

1. Eye Contact : she looks and spots a man she fancies she wait till he notice her. He keeps watching her to see if she does it again.

2. Smiling : she delivers one or more fleeting smiles. This is a quick half - smile that is intended to give a man green light to make an approach.

3. Preening : she plays with her hair for up to six seconds suggesting she is grooming herself for her man.

4. Talk : A man who understood the game will approach and attempt to make small talk, an ice breaker deal.

5. Touch : she looks for an opportunity to intitiate a light touch on his arm. Either accidental or otherwise. A hand touch indicate a higher level of intimacy and to let him know that the fur and touch was not accidental.

These first five stages of courtship may seem minor of even incidental but they are critical to starting any new relationship. If women want to be approached by me, they need to give clear, unambiguous messages, and men simply need to read them and respond..

Some wishes A Woman Won't Tell A Man

Effort is the most precious thing that a woman wishes to feel. Whenever you exert effort in your relationship, you are showing her she’s worth it.

#1 She has fear of not losing her man to another woman
#2 She expects him to be sincere at all times
#3 She expects him to understand her body language
#4 She agrees with 'guy time' because she wants her husband's friends to like her
#5 She wants him to spend more time alone with her than any other person
#6 She always wants him to be honest
#7 She wants to be surprised more often.

To improve your relationship do more kind actions and complainless

~ Doc Adeshina

DON'T GET INTO MARRIAGE FOR WRONG THE REASON

Here are few reasons you shouldn't jump into marriage (For Male & Female)

#1. For sex
#2. Just because you think you are of age what matters here is how developed you are for marriage
#3. Because you feel you are getting old
#4. Because you feel lonely
#5. Because you need someone to support you financially
#6. Because you mistakenly got pregnant
#7. Because you don't want to lose a Partner
#8. Because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see.
#9. Because all your friends are getting married

INSTEAD GET INTO MARRIAGE ;
1. Because you are in love.
2. Because he /she is your "best friend". Your best friend won't leave you they stay to always find a way to make you smile and bring out the best in you.

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12 Ways To Treat A Her Like A Lady

#1. You need to build up her trust.
#2. Develop chivalry and learn to take care of her and not advantage of her.
#3. Treat her with respect.
#4. Listen. Listen. Listen and pay attention to her
#5. Tell her she is beautiful.
#6.Appreciate her and everything she does.
#7. Take care of your own responsibilities.
#8. Tell her how you feel sometimes.
#9. Be intimate with her.
#10 Support her!
#11. You have to treat her like you’re still trying to get her.
#12. Let her spend time with you and your friends.

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How To Be A Perfect Couple

Great relationships require effort and care to endure and evolve so that both partners continue to feel fulfilled. Even the happiest, healthiest relationships take hard work and commitment, but the reward of enduring love is definitely worth it!

#1. Earn her trust and keep it
#2. Discus your dreams often
#3. Confide in each other
#4. Practice patience and forgiveness
#5. Enjoy some time apart from each other
#6. Work on the relationship continually
#7. Always make time for each other
#8. Have fun and laugh together
#9. Respect each other
#10. Be willing to compromise
#11. Be affectionate
#12. Encourage each other

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How to increase sexual performance in MEN:

#1. Avoid stress. Stress weakens the body and prevents it from
#2. Stop eating sugar or sugary products it causes erectile dysfunction
#3. Get over fear and anxiety. It affects sexual performance.
#4. Limit alcohol intake especially beer it adds sugar to your body which weakens sexual organs.
#5. Eat plenty of banana it helps to improve sexual performance.
#6. Practice pre-intimacy with spouse (20 mins) pre-intimacy or romance rushes blood to sexual organ and enhances good election which makes you last longer.
#7. Penetrate and push slowly to prevent quick ejaculation.
#8. Talk your bath before sex it helps with proper flow of blood and normal body temperature.
#9. Communicate during sex, teach your partner or ask for help. make it fun and not serious business
#10. Relax at least 30 mins before sex. It helps your body stay clam and function well.

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Every successful relationship requires trust, good communication and passion

If your last relationship or two has left you a bit of an emotional wreck, it's better to repair the damage before you start looking for a new lover and partner. Otherwise you won't be able to show them real you, and won't be able to focus on them if you are still preoccupied with yourself.

~ Doc Adeshina on RULES OF RELATIONSHIP

15 Rules For Finding True Love By Doc Adeshina

#1. Be yourself
#2. Get over past issues before you searching for a new lover
#3. Learn to be happy with yourself, then you will be happy with your partner
#4. Choose someone who makes you laugh
#5. Don't keep making same mistakes
#6. You can't change people, everyone can be irritating from time to time in a relationship including you
#7. Relationship isn't about sex, the danger is that you mistake lust for love
#8. Get to know someone through all the seasons before making any major decisions
#9. Don't stay with someone who doesn't care
#10. If you can't trust your partner you haven't gotten a relationship
#11. Don't play games
#12. Check you both have same shared goals
#13. Be together because you want to not because you need to
#14. Be honest in your relationship
#15. If you have trust issues work on it before looking for a new lover

This rules will help you get grips with love and how to use it..

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14th Ways To Spot A Jealous Guy In A Relationship By Doc Adeshina
These are some behaviors that send you questioning his love for you #1. He won't talk to you or ignore you #2. He suddenly stop texting #3. He acts all tough when he really isn't a tough guy #4. He is always checking your phone and not given moment of peace #5. He starts spying on you on social media #6. He just leave you sometimes #7. He wants to end the relationship for no reason at all #8. When you ask him what's wrong he says " nothing #9. When you mention a particular guy his face changes and goes blank #10. He follows you around #11. He hate spaces #12. His world revolves around you #13. He wants to know all your password and all your secrets #14. He gets friends and family involved in your situation. The opposite is how to spot a jealous lady

Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you're in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad.

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