OpeLovely:

My own mom didn't do it so why should i?

edoyad:

In my village the wife cooks while the husband washes clothes. My wife changes dresses like 4 times a day and i have to wash, starch and iron them with a coal iron. That woman will kill me.

edoyad:

In my village the wife cooks while the husband washes clothes. My wife changes dresses like 4 times a day and i have to wash, starch and iron them with a coal iron. That woman will kill me.

michelin89:

Haba how can you compare rubbing body to rubbing hands?

How far na?

Even for me this topic nor be issue. I mean we have washing machines.

!amebo no1:

Is it compulsory for a wife to make love to her husband? if it is compulsory, then It is compulsory to wash your husbands clothes, but BF? i mean what the hell?

I never washed his clothes when i was dating him

No, amebo! That one different o o ! Na mutuality and amicability o o o! Je, je the man catch im monkey

VALIDATOR:

@pharoh,
thanks for your wisdom here.

@lovehatemoi,
pls grow up and stop getting worked up over nothing.

Sprumbaba:

In my house, I don't know how to operate the washing machine. I don't also know where our blender and pots are. I always see my clothes washed and ironed (Also when we were boy friend & girl friend).I have never heard any complaint. I even went to school to be able to operate our complicated microwave.

From my survey, girls that come from broken homes or with family crisis are very mean. Most of them have not seen love exists between their parent for 24 hours. They see their fathers as the Evil One and they are extending the same notion towards all men. We have seen some of their posts on this thread.

Really, I am talking from experience. The joy I see between my father and mother after 42 years of marriage is joyful to watch and that is the foundation i have also laid for myself.


Guys, look before you leap. As a boy friend and girl friend, test them with house chores and see if they will resist (In the future, she will slap frying pan on your head). Pls, don't marry a woman with Nairaland(OPRAH) Women Emancipation mentality.


Let me point this out, there is nothing I cannot do for my wife (She deserves it). I help her a lot and this comes as a natural thing to me.

ThoniaSlim:

Seriously do you know why they hit people at the back of their heads? because that's where the stupidity is stored!


I've got to say some women have got a long way to go!

A lot of women take this feminism crap too far! and before some of you go yidi yada. . .I'm also a feminist. . .

But let us address the true meaning of feminism. . .Some of you screaming "I'm a feminist" do you truly understand the true meaning of feminism?

Or do you just spew sturvs from your mouths without having a clear understanding of what your saying. ,

Feminism is not all about screaming Oh I'm equal to the dude and all that crap. . .women like Hillary Clinton are what I call true feminists. . .because they understand what its true meaning is. . .

feminism is not about fighting to be a man's equal or throwing your duties away as a woman. . .But its rather all about embracing your gift as a woman. . . exploring your hidden potentials,going beyond your limits and being the best you can be to yourself, family and the society at large. . .

Back to the issue at hand. . .Yes Its may not be compulsory to you but its something I'll happily do cus that's a sensible thing to do!

Now I'm not making excuses for men. . .but I like to look at it from different point of views. . .sometimes we women are the cause of our own problems with men!

Men and women are also like switches. . .you click the right switch and they treat you right. . .ONly and I quote only the foolish men and men who do not fear God would treat you otherwise. . .

You do a real man right. . .watch and see if he'll ever take you for granted! 

lovemoi2:

if i have a loving and caring husband who appreciates me

i will wash his cloth and even cook for him and whatever ever makes him happy
by the way i hate cooking, i hardly cook even once a month.
but i love washing so that i can do

for those that thought i was being mean in my first replies
i used to wash and cook for a man i care about, but he ended up dumping me
ok i dint even grow up in naija/africa, but i have always loved the whole african tradition, looks and all that
even curled my hair to make it look afro
and wanted the whole be a good wife and treat yah man as a king, but after what i went through with that guy, its hard to just do it all over again

Sprumbaba:

In my house, I don't know how to operate the washing machine. I don't also know where our blender and pots are. I always see my clothes washed and ironed (Also when we were boy friend & girl friend).I have never heard any complaint. I even went to school to be able to operate our complicated microwave.

From my survey, girls that come from broken homes or with family crisis are very mean. Most of them have not seen love exists between their parent for 24 hours. They see their fathers as the Evil One and they are extending the same notion towards all men. We have seen some of their posts on this thread.

Really, I am talking from experience. The joy I see between my father and mother after 42 years of marriage is joyful to watch and that is the foundation i have also laid for myself.


Guys, look before you leap. As a boy friend and girl friend, test them with house chores and see if they will resist (In the future, she will slap frying pan on your head). Pls, don't marry a woman with Nairaland(OPRAH) Women Emancipation mentality.


Let me point this out, there is nothing I cannot do for my wife (She deserves it). I help her a lot and this comes as a natural thing to me.

ThoniaSlim:

Seriously do you know why they hit people at the back of their heads? because that's where the stupidity is stored!


I've got to say some women have got a long way to go!

A lot of women take this feminism crap too far! and before some of you go yidi yada. . .I'm also a feminist. . .

But let us address the true meaning of feminism. . .Some of you screaming "I'm a feminist" do you truly understand the true meaning of feminism?

Or do you just spew sturvs from your mouths without having a clear understanding of what your saying. ,

Feminism is not all about screaming Oh I'm equal to the dude and all that crap. . .women like Hillary Clinton are what I call true feminists. . .because they understand what its true meaning is. . .

feminism is not about fighting to be a man's equal or throwing your duties away as a woman. . .But its rather all about embracing your gift as a woman. . . exploring your hidden potentials,going beyond your limits and being the best you can be to yourself, family and the society at large. . .

Back to the issue at hand. . .Yes Its may not be compulsory to you but its something I'll happily do cus that's a sensible thing to do!

Now I'm not making excuses for men. . .but I like to look at it from different point of views. . .sometimes we women are the cause of our own problems with men!

Men and women are also like switches. . .you click the right switch and they treat you right. . .ONly and I quote only the foolish men and men who do not fear God would treat you otherwise. . .

You do a real man right. . .watch and see if he'll ever take you for granted!