Is it compulsory to be a slave under the pretext of wife?

Is it compulsory for a man to be faithful to his wife?

Is it compulsory for a man to be a bread winner as most women earn more?

Is it compulsory to do it anally all in the name of pleasing a man?

I could go on and on.

@post,
Actually it is compulsory.It simply is part of her duties as a wife.D husband could be such dat is nice n all n would wanna help at times,but it isn't a compulsion for him to.It is like asking if it is compulsory for a man to bring home money for upkeep of d house.It is his duty as a husand n thus is compulsory.

Hell no for the boyfreind! It is nothing wrongw/washing ur man's clothe in the washer machine, but that does mean if the wife does not do it, the man should get mad. In this day of age both the man and woman work, so guys should try to help in the house especially their own laundry once in awhile.

most females here are saying, they shudn't wash their husbands clothes, if they are career women and there is a washing machine,no probs if they are house wives and the husband doesn't have the money to buy a washing machine or pay 4 a washer man, then there is no choice other than to wash his clothes if the man has a 9-5 job.guys try and b sensitive o jare

No, its not compulsory. in my opinion, I think the guy should wash his clothes himself or better still get a washerman to do the washing from him. At least he was washing the clothes somehow before he married.why should things change because he is now married, he definably didn't marry a slave

ronell:

No, its not compulsory. in my opinion, I think the guy should wash his clothes himself or better still get a washerman to do the washing from him. At least he was washing the clothes somehow before he married.why should things change because he is now married, he definably didn't marry a slave

Goodluck finding a husband. . . . . .proly when you turn 40. . .ur mentality go change

^ Shut up joo.

Every time y'all use the same lines, "wait till you're 40" bla bla marriage, etc.

lol. . .You too?

C'mon! Ok. . .its not compulsory. . . But whats bad in washing ya husbands clothes. . , .Truth is guyz wont even look ya side when they know you are lazy and you'd rather avoid this chores that mothers, grand mothers and great great great grand mothers have done without complaint. . . What sensible reason would u have for not doing a simple chore like washing clothes! . . .What about ya kids clothes? you'd tell ur husband to wash that too?

^ I never said I won't wash.

I just don't like how many Nairaland dudes are always quick to say stuff like, "you'll remain single at 40", etc when a female is perceived as deviating from the supposed norm. Not everybody even wants to get married and not everyone will. But y'all make it seem like marriage is the ultimate. For some people, it's not.

Like I said in my first post, it's whatever works for the couple. There's no right or wrong as everybody is not the same. So, no need telling someone they won't find a husband, etc. There'll always be a guy who will tolerate such women who hold those views you're castigating.

Guyz like that are very very rare, . .Believe me!. . .No one wants to marry a lazy chick!. . .It'll prolly take her years to find a guy like that. . .hence the 40yr old before you marry comment!. . .

It goes both ways too. . .Looking at some Female comments on NL is sickening too!. . .Some of them just say whateva they like without even thinking. . .buncha immature kids in a grown body!. . . (excluding you offcourse )

chiogo:

^ I never said I won't wash.

I just don't like how many Nairaland dudes are always quick to say stuff like, "you'll remain single at 40", etc when a female is perceived as deviating from the supposed norm. Not everybody even wants to get married and not everyone will. But y'all make it seem like marriage is the ultimate. For some people, it's not.

Like I said in my first post, it's whatever works for the couple. There's no right or wrong as everybody is not the same. So, no need telling someone they won't find a husband, etc. There'll always be a guy who will tolerate such women who hold those views you're castigating.

ramblings of a future lazy wife. TUFIAAAAAAAAAKWA!!!

lalaboi:

Guyz like that are very very rare, . .Believe me!. . .No one wants to marry a lazy chick!. . .It'll prolly take her years to find a guy like that. . .hence the 40yr old before you marry comment!. . .

It goes both ways too. . .Looking at some Female comments on NL is sickening too!. . .Some of them just say whateva they like without even thinking. . .buncha immature kids in a grown body!. . . (excluding you offcourse )

They are no longer interested in being wives. They want to be your colleague in marriage!

You live in San Leandro

No, just thinking you're in close proximity.

Er, no. You are his wife. Not his maid. Or his washing machine.

If you want to wash his clothes, you should go ahead and do so. But that's an added bonus that he should be thankful for (and demonstrate said thanks by reciprocating with a similar favor) and not part of the job description of Wife.

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farochron:

Dats wat i hav bin sayn.[b]a woman can go more dan an extra myl if d man in question is apreciativ of her eforts nd trits her right.[/b]

Does the Woman Appreciate the Man's effort of providing bread, shelter, Cloths and other necessities for the Family?

ronell:

No, its not compulsory. in my opinion, I think the guy should wash his clothes himself or better still get a washerman to do the washing from him. At least he was washing the clothes somehow before he married.why should things change because he is now married, he definably didn't marry a slave

Some Ladies on NL and the world over are satanic, They just misled other unwise ladies,  Some ladies that say they can't wash there Husband cloth here on NL will Can even go as far as washing their mother inlaw's cloth, They just post those disguising comments to misled other ladies and the unwise ladies will have problems with their loving Husbands for nothing sake,

It depends on what you want, personnally I can do it without any pb but saying this is compulsory I don't really think, this is about what you feel

One would want to  ask these Proud ladies Certain question

Why don't ladies pay their bride price
Why don't ladies marry themselves
Why dont ladies Pay for the part of the appartment they occupy
why don't the pay Half of the Family's Bills
Why don't they impreginate themselves
Why dont't they do the Electrical, Mechanical and maintenance jobs in the House
Why don't they be the ones who marries the Man
Why are they not men

Every Body has his or her role in Life and in A marriage, Even, the Bible said that the woman is a help meet to the Man, A Helper, She is there or was created to help the man and nothing else,

Finally why don't the ladies ask GOD the reason why He called women A help meet of a helper, God should have a better Explanation for That,

Lets not decieve ourselves, If u want to have a happy home or marriage, do what is right and forget about these ladies that are home breaker,
All the ladies in the house should know this, By not doing what u should in ur home could kill the love, peace, care and commitment in ur marriage, u know ur home and ur man better than anyone else, so forget about these satanic laddies and do what will bring u joy in ur home, If it good in ur home u will enjoy it alone and if its bad u will suffer it alone, as u make ur bed so shall u lie on it, choose this day how u want to make ur bed. A word is enough for the wise, I rest my case.

Nayah:

It depends on what you want, personnally I can do it without any pb but saying this is compulsory I don't really think, this is about what you feel

Marriage is between 2 persons becoming one, its a personal thing, U should be the one to choose how u want to run ur home and not someones opinion,

it is not a must. personally, i don't like seeing people washing my clothes. i do it myself but if she insists on washing it/them, its no problem.

Onosy:

Marriage is between 2 persons becoming one, its a personal thing, U should be the one to choose how u want to run ur home and not someones opinion,

Onosy you should re read what I've written, when I say "personnally" it means I do not integrate every single lady to share my opinion, I said I could do it but it doesn't mean another lady could, so there's nothing to do with how can I run my home dear

Onosy:



Some Ladies on NL and the world over are satanic, They just misled other unwise ladies,  Some ladies that say they can't wash there Husband cloth here on NL will Can even go as far as washing their mother inlaw's cloth, They just post those disguising comments to misled other ladies and the unwise ladies will have problems with their loving Husbands for nothing sake,

bro, why are you wating your time their type will wash their husband mistress's clothes. i can wash my wife clothes too. and i will do it. let the women display 'worded' feminism here. muu che che che che che.

Is this even an argument?? If u don't wash it who will wash it whether ur a housewife or career woman everything about ur husband and the housekeeping is ur responsibility, if the kids start coming and the load gets get too much u can get a dry cleaner or washing machine for the hard to wash ones.. And as for a boyfriend its not compulsory but personally I can't see dirty clothes and not wash them sha

If you don't wash it- one sharp calabar girl can do it for your hubby!

its nt a big deal washing my husband cloths

europe76:
could someone help give me a link to a caterpillar parts dealer in Lagos,

wrong thread.