Shinatu:

Swaga and confidence are not the same
Swaga is shallow, confidence is deep

I hope you realise some girls like bad boys?

So I am covering both the conservative & responsible confidence for girls like chiogo and the bad boy & dangerous swagga for church girls like Ibkaye that want some excitement to spice up their solemn existence.

This works for me

1)Confidence (not arrogance please as we all know there is a thin line)
2)Good looks( brother man I must want to tear your clothes off when I look at you )
3)Height (I must look up to you NOT DOWN at you  )
4)Intelligent( I don't want a  Johhny Bravo)
5)Fashion( I must look at you and say damn that's my man !!!)
6)Wealth( A man must be able to provide)
7)Power

[size=16pt]Gals should not 4get GOODFEARING, dat is the only true quality, if a man has all these qualities witout being Godfearing he is just a handsome devil [/size]

Really? Last time i checked, Alot of Nigerian girls, especially those in Abuja

Wealth, Power and Influence.

If that wasn't the case then i must be gravely mistaken when i look around and see the Wealthy hanging around with girls which could pass off as their daughters. This trend is a common place in restaurants, clubs or places of social interest.

From my observations, a guy just needs to pull up in an expensive car, and he's in there. A great numbers of youth coppers (NYSC) always went for the managers or the top guys with money.

I know that alot of people are not well off in Nigeria, however, what happened to hard work, self-discipline, self-respect and mannerism?

confidence
wealth
intelligent
good looks
fashion
power
height

Women, arrange the order of importance of the following attributes to you when being attracted to a guy:

- Good Looks (Basically how fine the guy is in regards to face and physique (six packs etc))
- Power/Influence (This is how connected the guy is and how much respect he commands amongst his peers [due to his talent/values/demeanor]. Is he the one everyone wants to be like or look up to? Don't confuse with wealth, e.g. Alistair Campbell/Obama/Mandela/Ribadu are powerful, not tycoons. See further explanation here)
- Height  (How tall is the guy)
- Intelligence (His wit and educational prowess. How he deals with issues. Stimulating conversationalist, mentor and coach in relationships)
- Fashion/Dress sense (How well dressed he always is and his understanding of what is hot or in trend)
- Wealth/Affluence (How rich and successful he is in his career or business)
- Confidence/Swagga (The way he carries himself and approaches you, the air around him of himself but still very respectful)

NB: Assuming all the guys being assessed have (at a minimum) a great personality (they will treat you with respect), are not ugly (even if not fine), are at least 5ft 6inches tall or 1 inch taller than you (whichever is the higher height), degree educated, polished and well-spoken English, clean & neat in their dressing, and make at least £30K/$60K/N5m a year (not broke).

So in what order will you prioritise the individual importance of the 7 attributes above in what would make you attracted to a man?

So list like this, for example:

1) Power/influence
2) Height
3) Fashion/Dress sense
4) Wealth/affluence
5) Confidence/Swagga
6) Intelligence
7) Good Looks

1) Intelligence
2) Power/influence
3) Wealth/affluence    
4) Height
5) Fashion/Dress sense
6) Confidence/Swagga
7) Good looks!

@holythug what do you mean? must we lie?

I like confidence in a guy coupled by good looks as I have mentioned before. I want to look at my guy and want to tear his clothes off and he must have confidence and not someone who walks with his tail between his legs

tithe:

[size=16pt]Gals should not 4get GOODFEARING, dat is the only true quality, if a man has all these qualities witout being Godfearing he is just a handsome devil [/size]

Will you shut up!

Gullible, ignorant Zombie!

salamsm:

I know that alot of people are not well off in Nigeria, however, what happened to hard work, self-discipline, self-respect and mannerism?

You need a platform, environment and system that enables, encourages, entertains and allows such qualities.

Nigeria does not.

Amara2,by this post I can see why some 9ija broda's like S.a girls, we ain't scared to admit we want naira's, the only way a man is gonna work hard is if he's working for something,

Sagamite - u no like God-o?  

28Schweet:

Amara2,by this post I can see why some 9ija broda's like S.a girls,  we ain't scared to admit we want naira's,  the only way a man is gonna work hard is if he's working for something,

Sagamite - u no like God-o?  

What makes you think I don't like God?

I just don't like ignorant mooorons that shelve all their responsibilities, opinions and decisions to some higher being, and are even more ignorant by boasting about it in public with moooronic points.

Follow God/a religion if you wish but I hate Zombies!

I hate it when people preach their senseless, illogical and moooronic points to me.

@Sagamite well said

Ok let me give you examples

1. wealth/Affluence
2. Power/Influence
3. Intelligence
4. Confidence
5. Fashion/Dress Sense
6. Good looks
7. Height

1) good looks
2) height
3) intelligence
4) fashion/dress sense
5) confidence/swagga
6) wealth/affluence
7) power/influence

chi-baby:

1) good looks
2) height
3) intelligence
4) fashion/dress sense
5) confidence/swagga
6) wealth/affluence
7) power/influence

I didn't tell you to come here and list all my attributes please.

chamotex:

I didn't tell you to come here and list all my attributes please.

u wish luv!. . . ah bet u dnt even hve any 4rm da list!

chi-baby:

u wish luv!. . . ah bet u dnt even hve any 4rm da list!

6 out of 7 aint bad . . . . . .with time its gon be 7/7. Trust

chamotex:

6 out of 7 aint bad . . . . . .with time its gon be 7/7. Trust

sum1 must be lieing 2 u mate 

chi-baby:

sum1 must be lieing 2 u mate 

Dont hate . . . . . . . emulate!!!

chamotex:

Dont hate . . . . . . . emulate!!!

no vex me oo. . emulate ko, immitate ni. . .i cnt shout

Sagamite,

I think height is a cultural thing. In Nigeria people scorn at tall people calling them names but in the US ppl cant get enough of it.

Hardly a day passes without someone paying a compliment on how tall you are and the men wishing they were taller.

Girls here take it for granted that the guy should be tall

Like if you ask a guy to choose his preference in a girl

and you list,
1) Education
2)Intelligence
3) Homely
4) Independent/Working
5) Shape
6) Beauty

As important as men place beauty and shape I bet it wont be top in most guys choice of a wife which is comparable to your list.

Some things are desired but some cant just be compromised.

for me Intelligence, Homely, Working, Educated would all come ahead of beauty and shape(If you know how much I dig a girls looks)

1. Education
2. Intelligence, Integrity, Respectfulness, Selflessness and Modesty
3. Aspiration


Not one of those, can I compromise on.

I can compromise on height, looks and financial stance.

dayokanu:

Sagamite,

I think height is a cultural thing. In Nigeria people scorn at tall people calling them names but in the US ppl cant get enough of it.

Hardly a day passes without someone paying a compliment on how tall you are and the men wishing they were taller.

Girls here take it for granted that the guy should be tall

Yep, I guessed as much, that was why I was telling you that was ame-thinking. definitely not in UK or Naija.

dayokanu:

Like if you ask a guy to choose his preference in a girl

and you list,
1) Education
2)Intelligence
3) Homely
4) Independent/Working
5) Shape
6) Beauty

As important as men place beauty and shape I bet it wont be top in most guys choice of a wife which is comparable to your list.

Some things are desired but some cant just be compromised.

for me Intelligence, Homely, Working, Educated would all come ahead of beauty and shape(If you know how much I dig a girls looks)

Beauty and Shape comes above intelligence and way above working and education for me as long as the minimum is as good as the ones I set for men on this thread.

AqRiUs Age:

1. Education
2. Intelligence, Integrity, Respectfulness, Selflessness and Modesty
3. Aspiration


Not one of those, can I compromise on.

I can compromise on height, looks and financial stance.

You no fit read simple rules?

Beauty and Shape comes above intelligence and way above working and education for me as long as the minimum is as good as the ones I set for men on this thread.

You would prefer a beautiful woman who is of below average intelligence, High school graduate and works at Walmart as long as she is beautiful and shapely?.

Do you want this for a gf or one night stand cos I doubt if you would want this for a wife

dayokanu:



You would prefer a beautiful woman who is of below average intelligence, High school graduate and works at Walmart as long as she is beautiful and shapely?.

Do you want this for a gf or one night stand cos I doubt if you would want this for a wife

I said: "as long as the minimum is as good as the ones I set for men on this thread".

Sagamite:

Beauty and Shape comes above intelligence and way above working and education for me as long as the minimum is as good as the ones I set for men on this thread.

This sagamite is a peculiar person

Interprete these parameters you set for male to fit in the female xteristics so we can have a better idea of what you mean

TOPE2000!:

This sagamite is a peculiar person

Yes, I am. 

dayokanu:

Interprete these parameters you set for male to fit in the female xteristics so we can have a better idea of what you mean

I would rather have a girl with the face prototype God used in creating his angels, double D attack pointing to me like the nozzle of Somali pirate's sub-machine guns, bumper like if it was removed from a written-off V-Boot and attached to her backside and hips shooting from left to right and curved like the M25 motorway encircling London, with average intelligence (not that sharp but not an airhead, does not immense herself in stuupid tabloid/celebrity magazines), that has only a bachelors/HND/OND degree, and prefers to be a housewife.

THAN

A girl with average looks, with BSc from Oxford, Masters from Harvard and Phd from Cambridge, that works as a Director for a UN department, who is capable of solving the Isreal-Palestine debacle.

Sho get ti e nisin?

Sagamite:

Yes, I am.

I would rather have a girl with the face prototype God used in creating his angels, double D attack pointing to me like the nozzle of Somali pirate's sub-machine guns, bumper like if it was removed from a written-off V-Boot and attached to her backside and hips shooting from left to right and curved like the M25 motorway encircling London, with average intelligence (not that sharp but not silly, does not immense herself in stuupid tabloid/celebrity magazines), that has only a bachelors/HND/OND degree, and prefers to be a housewife.

THAN

A girl with average looks, with BSc from Oxford, Masters from Harvard and Phd from Cambridge, that works as a Director for a UN department, who is capable of solving the Isreal-Palestine debacle.

You couldnt handle the latter.
Housewife ko CEO ni