and d guys who dont want 2 marry a virgin, u make ppl who is a virgin feel bad, about being a virgin, being a virgin should be considered a good thing

There's no difference - once was, will be no more; Isn't, once was

for a girl to keep her virginity intact is not an easy thing to do, so it should be well appreciated. as for me i will adore the virgin so long as i have the love for her, i will go for her.

It's all the same thang

u people should stop dreaming
u better marry some one u luv irrespective of her status
is luv not suppose to be blind
after she is no more a virgin after u have done it to her several times u become disoriented and start looking for a way out

grow up

no

kaecy5:

u people should stop dreaming
u better marry some one u love irrespective of her status
is love not suppose to be blind
after she is no more a virgin after u have done it to her several times u become disoriented and start looking for a way out

grow up

just because love is blind would u marry a blind girl, or a very ugly girl, thatz right no, moreover, this is the person u gonna be stuck with all ur life, so choose wisely

with all sincererity, marrying a decent spouse is a dream for all but one has to be very careful in makin choice.

consider what happened if two virgin with alot fantancies concerning sex get married. if they cannot meet up up with their much expected fantasy, what happens?

marriage is more than just having sex, sex must be put in the proper perspective of couples satisfactions.

Also what happens if one sexually experience spouse marries unexperienced one? we should have a heart to heart talk before giving our views on this issue.

COMMENT:
i would marry either a virgin or a non-virgin with limited molestation as long as he possess my high-rated qualities.

@woleprof

u are indeed a prof u have said it all

thanks brother

@wole u talking coz u a guy huh?

Imagine a girl marrying a virgin? lmao _{that will suck like shit}

Radiant,

You seem to be concentrating on the performance of your man on his first night alone. If at all he will suck (which I greatly doubt), it will only be on the first night. Will you refuse to marry a guy who isn't going to satisfy you only on your first night, even though he has all the qualities you want in a man?

Think about it.

Goody, is it a problem if I refuse to marry a virgin? It's my preference and please. . . . . .

If i happen to find a virgin, which i know is difficult, i'll prefer her to someone who's not a virgin.

Virgin or no virgin is not the issue here.Alot of ppl have married virgins , and today there marriages are wrecks.Some others have married non-virgins nad the testimony is no better than the first. A VIRGIN AT HEART, WILL KEEP U ETERNALLY TRUE, NOT JUST TO YOURSELF ALONE, BUT TO YOUR SPOUSE.U WILL NOT HAVE TO ALWAYS SAY, "I WISH I DIDN'T PAY".

So, stop trying to get prince charming or princess sweety, instead, work on making yourself either of the two. And on your wedding day, you would not just say i do, but "wow, its all good".

ME,

CHARLES

TO ALL THE GOOD FRIENDS WHO WANT TO MAKE A GOOD LIFE!!!

Radiant:

@wole u talking because u a guy huh?

Imagine a girl marrying a virgin? lmao _{that will suck like shit}

read my post properly you wil actually get what im saying. What matter most is Your understinding and approach towards the issue.

As long as the one who had sex doesnt have an STD and knew how to please me i would prefer the woman that wasnt a virgin. Sex is very important how do u know the virgins stamina? I dont like having to sit through un pleasurable sex either that would cause alot of problems. ii dont want to have to spend 15 minutes trying to get it in you know.

all girls were once virgins, all the good girls in bed where ones virgins. been good in bed has nothing to do with not been a virgin, or much experience., it coms natural in people, is like dancing, a good dancr is a good dancer from birth.
i ve dis-virgined two women in my life, and the two of them are the greatest in bed i ve ever had, look there is nothing like chasis,

Does any1 really care?

virgins or nonvirgins
the bottomline is the ability to learn and satisfy urselve on bed.

I will marry any man that makes me happy as long as he has no sexual problem if he can get his stuff errect then i can make him want it.I really dont think because one marries a virgin his marriage will be happy most town crawllers were once virgins who got disvirgined your wife or husband may start playing around after getting dis-virgined . I think this virginity issue is just about taste and phsycology African men want to make sure they have wives no man has slept with even when theyve done it with a thousand women not about future happiness.

Sage, nice one and very funny too

@Topic

A trillion times YES!!!

Virgins are not good in any sense. Having sex with a virgin is not a memorable experience. They do not know what they are doing or what they should do to please you.

Better marry somebody with a bit of experience in bed other than a novice that just lies motionless in shock from the experience of being penetrated for the first time!

That is why pre-marital sex is important. Would you buy a car without test driving it?

My first time I was awesome o. Not all virgins are bad the first time. Tho' they get better after a while

Reverend:

Virgins are not good in any sense. Having sex with a virgin is not a memorable experience. They do not know what they are doing or what they should do to please you.

Better marry somebody with a bit of experience in bed other than a novice that just lies motionless in shock from the experience of being penetrated for the first time!

That is why pre-marital sex is important. Would you buy a car without test driving it?

  @Reverend
I've glanced through some of your earlier posts so this one doesn't surprise me in the least.
So how early (at what age) d'u counsel the young girls in your punky mary magdalene church to get disvirgined?4yrs?maybe 5? That way they gonn be real experienced on their weddin nights.

@Reverend

I hope this is not the kind of doctrine u give to the congregation.

Are there virgins in your church? Please answer me.

Bolarge:

 @Reverend
I've glanced through some of your earlier posts so this one doesn't surprise me in the least.
So how early (at what age) d'u counsel the young girls in your punky mary magdalene church to get disvirgined?4yrs?maybe 5? That way they gonn be real experienced on their weddin nights.

@Bolarge

Maybe 4 and 5 year olds are the norm where you are, but I think what you are doing is definitely illegal!


Here we only allow members of our church who are at least 18 years of age! They are legally adults and are old enough to decide if they are ready for full sexual relations or not!


@Woleprof

That is exactly what we preach.

Take time and practice with your partner. The increased familiarity and his increased knowledge of you will help you decide if you are sexually compatible before you decide on marriage.

We should not treat sex outside of marriage as sinful. Is is not!

Embrace sexual pleasure and take the time to make it a meaningful part of your lives?

Virginity is only a temporary state that at the time of your choosing will disappear in a couple of seconds never to return!

We as a society place to much emphasis on it, instead of concentrating on trying to build a meaningfull working sexual relationship before we commit to marriage!

Radiant:

My first time I was awesome o.

Is that you or him/her talking?