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Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by sammyj: 2:22pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Because the Church girls pretends while the Club girls are not pretenders and this days men want ladies for who they her!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by franchasng: 2:22pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Lol |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Evansfixedodds: 2:23pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by t12tosin: 2:23pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
If you ask me... Na Wu I go ask ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by cortypt: 2:23pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Because they're usually good looking. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by neighbourhud: 2:24pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
They don't pretend... kawai 3 Likes
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Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by youngvikthor(m): 2:25pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Can't marry a girl that will obey pastor more than me oo ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Michelle55: 2:25pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Here to learn 2 Likes
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Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Men are very wise now,those bad girls are far more better than the so called decent girls They are somehow prettier because they wear flashy things and as you know men loves flashy things They are far more sexier than the so call decent girls They are full of confidence They take risks.Most decent ladies wont even enter your car,they believe most rich guys are into money ritual They are far better in bed The devil you know is better than the angel you know dont know.You wont want to beg your wife before she succk your dick The list is endless 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
realmedia: They have better communication and relationships skill. |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by DimIsaac10(m): 2:26pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Its a big lie.... If you are sincerely serving God, he can't forsake you.. Its just your opinion. 12 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by wj26584(m): 2:26pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
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Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by joxxy01(m): 2:27pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
its a big fat lie, don't let the devil use you to promote evil. 12 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
whats the difference between club girls and church girls these days? 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by jakandeola(m): 2:29pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
any girl not good in bed is not worth to married |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by mazizitonene(m): 2:29pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Falsehood...... hasty generalisation 11 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by chloride6: 2:30pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Someone already explained, been a good girl is not all you need to get married. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by emmanuelpopson(m): 2:30pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
abeyaktech: abi nah.. they are smart to pick good men out of the wayward ones but there attitude can't sustain marriage.. they can't stay under authority because they wanna be free..the clubbing spree still gonna be there way... you are damn right... holoshow are always holoshow.. they gonna play home and away anytime any day.. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by AnI77: 2:31pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
....well OP, the reason is because the husbands of such ladies are 'Forcados Terminals' themselves. All the holy-holy attitudes do not work in the 'other room' ! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by felixomor: 2:31pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Another lie for gullible ones. Which statistic shows such claim that club girls get better husbands? 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Damsyjay(m): 2:31pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Weblady:Oya Olosho spotted 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by mikkyjay(m): 2:32pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
I think mainly because life isn't fair, And also like some people already said, They have better experience with men and can target the right men to manipulate and pressure /trick into marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by happney65: 2:32pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
I dont know about that..All I know is that most of these so called church girls have irritating behaviors..Seeing them from Afar you go think they are the Holiest of the Holiest..Get closer to them and you will see they are so irritating and a bunch of Nags.. I have meet like 3 of them that I will never ever marry even in my next life..Who wants to end up with a Woman that would kill you with unnecessary stress and Wahala.. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Xano(m): 2:35pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
lilmax: Nothing else to add. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Ibnltd33: 2:37pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
Those gurls you refer to as club girls and sleep about are more sincere /prepared for marriage than the so called church girls, they know how to treat their men, and they understand what it takes to have a husband and a roof over their head,but our church girls wanna leave everything to god and their pastors forgetting that pastors has needs too. once marry church gurl, your romantic life is dead sex is gonna be thrown out through the window everything become spiritual. lolzzzz ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
realmedia:Kenneth ifeanyi's assertion is invalid, stereotype, null, generalistic and vague. His stereotypical thinking has made him to ask this question were in the reality it is a different ball game. Though many club ladies may have a good marriage when viewed from the outside but not a stable home. It is greener from the outside than inside because he who wears the shoes knows how it pains. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Modarun(m): 2:38pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
In the begining itsseems they get married quicker and get the best guys. But few years down the line they become unsatisfied. Most runs girls get married faster, but also leads in the percentage of those who easiily leave their marriage. This explains why there is a rise in number of divorce in the society. “A widely reported new study claims that people -- especially women -- who have multiple sexual parters before tying the knot, report unhappier marriages down the line. The study comes to us from The National Marriage Project, based off research from two University of Denver professors, Galena K. Rhoades and Scott M. Stanley, who looked at relationship data collected from 2007 to 2008 of 1,000 unmarried Americans ages 18 to 34. During the following five years, 418 of the participants got married. Rhoades and Stanley took a closer look at those marriages to see if factors, including participants' sexual past, played a role in current marital quality. Couples' relationship quality was measured using a four-item version of the Dyadic Adjustment Scale , focusing on relationship happiness, thoughts about separation, frequency of confiding in one another, and a general item about how well things are going (the full scale, however, contains 32 items ). According to researchers, the 23 percent of participants who only had sex with their spouse prior to getting hitched reported higher quality marriages versus those who had other past sexual partners as well. They claim this finding is especially true for women, writing in the report, "We further found that the more sexual partners a woman had had before marriage, the less happy she reported her marriage to be." On top of that, researchers say that participants who lived with an S.O. -- who did not become their future spouse -- also reported unhappier marriages (graph below). Credit: National Marriage Project So why would more sexual or relationship experience be associated with worse outcomes later on? Rhoades and Stanley hypothesize in the report that "more experience may increase one’s awareness of alternative partners." In other words, people who have a number of prior relationships may become dissatisfied more easily. But isn't that another way to say they might be more aware of a bad relationship? Isn't that a good thing? Indeed, while the data presented in The Marriage Project's 418-person study is legitimate, experts say that the conclusions drawn from it -- especially those which cast judgement on one's sexual history and incite sentiments of slut-shaming -- may not be entirely accurate. Researchers in this field, who were not involved with this particular study, told The Huffington Post that these findings should be taken with a grain of salt. "There are a wide variety of reasons that may lead people to have multiple partners before marriage and, independent of how many partners they have, also be less satisfied in marriage," Dr. Jim McNulty , a social psychology professor from Florida State University who has published a plethora of research on the topic, wrote in an email. "For example, people who tend to avoid commitment in general may have more sexual partners and be less happy when they settle down. It’s not the fact that they have more sexual partners that leads them to be less happy, it’s the fact that they don’t really like commitment. I would be very surprised if having multiple sexual partners before marriage, independent of any other factor, has a direct causal influence." In other words, correlation should never be confused with causation. "We cannot make any conclusions about cause-and-effect," says Justin Lehmiller , PhD, sex educator and researcher at Purdue University, adding, "Could it be that multiple premarital partners impacts marital happiness? Maybe. But it could also be that people who have more partners have different personalities or different attitudes toward marriage or relationships." Beyond that, Lehmiller says there may be flaws in the way data was analyzed -- the way in which good marriages were separated from bad marriages was "rather odd" he says. "Even the authors admit that they were 'arbitrary' in their report. They defined 'higher quality marriages' as those in which individuals scored in the top 40 percent ... Why the top 40 percent?"” 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Slickest(m): 2:41pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
They are socially sound 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by semyman: 2:41pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
It's because the ushers, choir masters and pastors sleep with the church girls more than you can imagine. Yet they will be waiting for an innocent brother full of anointing and high in spiritual matters for marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Girls Who Club & Sleep Around End In Better Marriages Than Church Girls? by Dinho20(m): 2:42pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
SOME STUPID THINGS GIRLS DO IN THE NAME OF LOVE: 1.) LIVING IN THE SAME ROOM WITH A MAN WHO HAS NOT PAID YOUR PRIDE-PRICE; THIS IS FOOLISHNESS OF YOU. 2.) WEARING THE ENGAGEMENT RING OF A MAN WHO DOESN'T EVEN KNOW YOUR PARENTS OR HOUSE. 3.) GIVING YOUR VIRGINITY TO A MAN WHO HAS NOT PAID YOUR BRIDE-PRICE. YOU HAVE LOST YOUR DIGNITY IN LIFE. 4.) DISOBEYING YOUR PARENTS FOR THE SAKE OF A MAN YOU ARE DATING. YOU ARE OUT OF YOUR MIND. 5.) GIVING SEX TO A MAN SIMPLY BECAUSE HE PROMISED TO MARRY YOU. YOU HAVE LOST THE GLORY IN YOU MY DEAR. 6.) USING YOUR BOYFRIEND'S PICTURE AS YOUR PROFILE PICTURE ON FACEBOOK, THUS CHASING AWAY SERIOUS AND POTENTIAL SUITORS. HEY, YOU HAVE MISSED IT ALL. 7.) SENDING YOUR NUDE PICTURES TO YOUR BOYFRIEND. THAT IS SHAME ON YOU AND YOUR FOOLISH ATTITUDE. 8.) COOKING FOOD AND WASHING CLOTHES FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND, WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HELPED YOUR PARENTS IN KITCHEN NOR WASH CLOTH FOR THEM. THIS IS UTTER STUPIDITY. BE WISE!!! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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