lilmax:
they deceive "good" men who do not know left and right

the bad guys deceive "good" women who do not know left and right

only a dumbass won't see through a hoe bullshit

moral lesson: be good and wise at the same time not foolish

tee59:
How many of these ladies do you see spending ten to thirty years in your better marriage? They may be lucky to get men to wed them but may not be able to stay married for long. Do you think, drinking of alcohol, smoking of weeds, performing all sexual styles on bed, living a reckless life can sustain and hold a marriage for long? Why are our celebrities still have failed marriages despite all they have? Change your orientation. You can as well follow suit and tell us your experience in marriage after two years.

Pojomojo:

“I’m not married yet please. When I get married, I’ll stick to only my partner”

If you can’t stay faithful in relationships, you will never be faithful in your marriage. It’s not rocket science
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If you can’t stay faithful in relationships, you will never be faithful in your marriage. It’s not rocket science
2 failed marriages and a sex tape she did not consent to being made public, the world was convinced Kanye West had lost his mind when he decided to marry Kim. They made jokes about him making a song about gold diggers and marrying one. The world was convinced that the union would not last after all to them Kim was just a gold digger and a reality star who is nothing without her nice body. Now it's 3 kids later, after Kanye's depression,

after Kanye's many failed business venture, after Kanye had declared bankruptcy and Kim is still around. Kim is still is still Kanye's pillar and Kanye has never been crazier about Kim. My bro, the world will always have something to say about your partner - they will call her a LovePeddler because she has done the same thing men do everyday, with many sexual partners.

They will call her a gold digger because she chooses to be compensated for her time. Some will even tell you about her one night stands, they will even know her favourite positions and will tell you about that. However, if you ask me, your woman is yours. She is a reflection of you. It is your duty to protect her honour. It is your duty to not to gossip about her with those people but fight for her to be respected and never stop loving her because of other people's opinions her.
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QUESTION OF THE DAY!

IF YOUR PARTNER SHOULD CONFESS SOME HORRIBLE THINGS THEY'VE DONE IN THE PAST, WOULD YOU STILL GO AHEAD WITH THE RELATIONSHIP?

Chepy:
Not true. You eventually end up with someone with in the same category as you..That’s how my friend who smokes married a girl who does same too. I’m waiting till they gave birth, let’s see what the children will turn out!

chloride6:
Someone already explained, been a good girl is not all you need to get married.

Dinho20:
LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND;
LOVE DOES NOT ENVY OR BOAST;
IT IS NOT ARROGANT OR RUDE.
IT DOES NOT REJOICE AT WRONGDOING,
BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH.
LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS.

koyyes:
They get married faster but the marriage never really lasts or ends up making them miserable. Ask them...they full nairaland.

Any good 'church' girl that ends up with a bad guy whether rich or poor is a big fool and will eat shiiit through out the marriage.

Let bad guys be with bad girls and kill each other. Not my biz wax.

Leave all the pretenders who call themselves good guys but chase after bad girls. Its their type that end up fathering another man's child unknowingly.

Good guys should go after good girls. Don't let your timid nature stop you. Abi no bi man una be?

victorian:
That's pure lie and fallacy .

My school mate who was a bad girl ,back then .

Come and see her now! She looks old , worn out , poor , dragging along 4children with an extra one carried at her back . She was the even the one who called my name , I didn't recognise her at first until I look at her face closer . And I was like wow! Bisola! Jeez! How are u doing ? She smiled weak at me and replied fine . I was like mehn I can see you are married . she smiled again and nod yes . I just shook my head and she was like am I married? I smiled and I mumbled yea.

She said u look good . I said thanks. Then I said am rushing off to somewhere, nice seeing u again. She replied same here .
Mehn i was like wow! As she walked on with her kids .

Na wa o. Bisola of those days .

May we not marry the wrong partners in this life , amen!!!

chiefqueen:
My own question is... why does it matter if she went to clubs or smoked weed or slept around?

mrsoludomeka:
I dont believe that.all i believe is whether your clubbing or your a church girl as far as there is grace your husband will locate you.

bukatyne:
There is a rule for every engagement.

If you know what to do in marriage with a willing partner, you will enjoy it whether 'good' or 'bad'

Ugosample:


I’m a dimensional thinker

Ugosample:


wrong choice of spouse and life conditions is responsible for her predicament

victorian:






Honestly ehn? No be small thing.
How life changes one to either down below or up there , really baffles me .
May God help us all, amen.

Ugosample:


true

but still

you would have inquired more and seen how you could be of help to her
her condition must be precarious

Debra911:

Ah babe no go try am o, d girl head fit dey strong pass ur own,u fit go do oloshoism now, kon end worse. Just b u,I've never heard of any good person with no reward for his/her good act, God is never blind, He surely knows what HE is doing.No matter aw u see it,if u owe nature ,it'll surely come for payment one day, take it or leave it. but Gods grace will always be above all.

victorian:











I know but she almost turned me into a lesbian back then, if not that I found it repulsive and still see lesbianism repulsive . She turned many girls back then into lesbians . I had to place her at a distance back then. While I watch how she frolicks with both guys and girls . I was the Orobo back then , while she was the slim and sexy one .
So seeing her out of the blues looking old and worn out , shook me to the bone marrows. I didn't really think much of hearing her story and why she was the way she looked .
God forgive me but what was on my mind , was I hope people are not noticing us talking , lemme quickly leave .See where fucvk fucvk carry her reach . God forgive me but that was exactly my thoughts.

Wherever she is , may God help her and restore her back in Jesus name amen .

midehi2:

Which kind oloshoism, am married, am only saying 70% of babes wey don waka tear eyes dey end up marrying the rich good men and they are living it great. fact#

Debra911:

Well that's ur theory & u believed it cos you've seen it work out. But on my side Two of my beautiful friends who lived such lifestyles married rich good men,but are barren now(just 4yrs)& thanks to God one of them gave birth last year June,but this baby has bin on oxygen & after an ECG, it was found out that d baby had mycocardiac infarction. But thank God d babe survived it all,it was a narrow escape, but the husband spent hell of money. while d other the other hasn't gotten a child, like I know places she visits without her husband's knowledge just to get d fruit of d womb. The husband s so caring but d mother inlaw s head ache, and as I'm talking to u now, despite how loving the husband was ,he still had the guts to impregnate another lady outside & bring into d house and was telling my friend that he already paid d girl that after one year , d girl would go and d baby become theirs. This arrangement was between d mother inlaw & d husband, my friend has no choice but to deal with it. Now see how complicated the whole thing is. But this my friends husband s so rich and many ppl see her has blessed but never knew wat she's going through. The story goes on&on. I can't convince u on ur already believed fact based on ur experience, this s wat I believe in &It has been working for me, I never lived such life ,I'm a med student and my fiance s so blessed. I wouldn't say my life s so good than my friends,just like u initially said,wisdom s needed but its good u allow ppl see d bitter truth about life, what goes around will surely come round, if not now but later years and after years, the truth will surely stem up. Its a pity good men fall into victim, but who are we to blame, since the guy already promised to love her both in good health & bad, he has to carry his cross and love her to d end, that's d marriage oath. That's my own philosophy of life and I don't regret any of dem

faithfull18:
Life is a mystery.

midehi2:

A sincere girl who did runs to survive especially in school with no one to help, her runs without evil deeds, clubbing without juju always come true......the ones destroying homes all in the name of sugar daddy, charm all over their body, causing their human fellow pains all in the name of runs falls in the category of what you just explained up there.....what is happening to them is "karma, I don't pity such peeps.

Debra911:

Well that's ur theory & u believed it cos you've seen it work out. But on my side Two of my beautiful friends who lived such lifestyles married rich good men,but are barren now(just 4yrs)& thanks to God one of them gave birth last year June,but this baby has bin on oxygen & after an ECG, it was found out that d baby had mycocardiac infarction. But thank God d babe survived it all,it was a narrow escape, but the husband spent hell of money. while d other the other hasn't gotten a child, like I know places she visits without her husband's knowledge just to get d fruit of d womb. The husband s so caring but d mother inlaw s head ache, and as I'm talking to u now, despite how loving the husband was ,he still had the guts to impregnate another lady outside & bring into d house and was telling my friend that he already paid d girl that after one year , d girl would go and d baby become theirs. This arrangement was between d mother inlaw & d husband, my friend has no choice but to deal with it. Now see how complicated the whole thing is. But this my friends husband s so rich and many ppl see her has blessed but never knew wat she's going through. The story goes on&on. I can't convince u on ur already believed fact based on ur experience, this s wat I believe in &It has been working for me, I never lived such life ,I'm a med student and my fiance s so blessed. I wouldn't say my life s so good than my friends,just like u initially said,wisdom s needed but its good u allow ppl see d bitter truth about life, what goes around will surely come round, if not now but later years and after years, the truth will surely stem up. Its a pity good men fall into victim, but who are we to blame, since the guy already promised to love her both in good health & bad, he has to carry his cross and love her to d end, that's d marriage oath. That's my own philosophy of life and I don't regret any of dem

AnI77:


Marriage is never a reward for good behavior. You need to understand that life itself is not fair. It is all about time and chance, and one's ability to effectively utilize both.

midehi2:

A sincere girl who did runs to survive especially in school with no one to help, her runs without evil deeds, clubbing without juju always come true......the ones destroying homes all in the name of sugar daddy, charm all over their body, causing their human fellow pains all in the name of runs falls in the category of what you just explained up there.....what is happening to them is "karma, I don't pity such peeps.

Debra911:

Hahaha... u r wicked o. you get point there sha

Ugosample:


There are so many good girks who got married and are barren too

My aunt married as a virgin decades upon decades ago

And did not have her 1st child until after 12/13 years to my cousin

Was it her fault?

NO


I think you all in Nigeria need to get something straight
life is NOT mathematics with certain answers

There are so many possible results.

One can be a runs girl and get killed

One can live a rough life and it ends well for them

One can live a good life and life shows that person pepper

One can also be good and be blessed beyond measure.



but in naija

It's one dimensional thinking


All good girks will end well (no matter what)

And all "bad" girls will end badly. (regardless)

it is mentality like this that has made so many girlsin nija be disillusioned and discontented because it was drummed in their head that they are ENTITLED to good menjust because they are good

life no be like that o

Debra911:

check my initial comment, I said head differs, Yoruba ppl will say "Ori yato si ori" and Gods grace will always b sufficient for everybody whether u do good/bad, only God knows our heart & d reason y we do d things we do. Its a free world, wat would we now say about the whites who lived hard and still ended well. Head differs brother, I no go say because Mr.A do this mk I join am, its all about choice, 2nd these two stories I gave r real life experience that happened to ppl I know. When they say "all smokers r liable to die young'' doesn't mean an ardent smoker won't b successful in life but remember d side effects of smoking goes a very long way...

Engrossed:


Me sef tire ooo... Guys score gals the way they want and no body seem to talk of the aftermaths! Like guys are excepted from the law of Kama.