joinnow:
Cococandy
How are you people coping over there?

Over half a million cases and close to 19 thousand deaths. I think people are taking it more and more seriously now. I don’t have any friend or family affected as of yet and I pray it remains that way.

Besides being bored and itching to socialize, I’d say we are doing well. Can’t say the same for those who have lost someone.

Thanks for asking

cococandy:
One minute someone paid for my RN degree. The next minute I’m not really an RN. I’m just calling myself that to belong.

Or is it my dependent housewife status (which is not a bad thing BTW) but I’m also working menial jobs.I can’t keep up.

That one will stalk himself into a premature heart attack.

I rarely come across NL ladies who are bitter on such personal level towards another person even if it’s towards the guys. They focus on the topic and hash it out. only a handful of ladies display such behavior.

I know their MO. They say so many things at the same time and sometimes you are forced to reply because it is beginning to sound like they know you more than you know yourself.

This whole anger stems from one place- YOU ARE NOT MISERABLE AS THEY WISH YOU ARE.

Forget any other nonsense they type. Got nothing to do with it. No, I have NEVER seen a vindictive lady on here. They might have issues with your opinion, but they hardly ever have the energy to make bringing you down some special high.

That (f) quoting you is a tranny.

cococandy:


Over half a million cases and close to 19 thousand deaths. I think people are taking it more and more seriously now. I don’t have any friend or family affected as of yet and I pray it remains that way.

Besides being bored and itching to socialize, I’d say we are doing well. Can’t say the same for those who have lost someone.

Thanks for asking

It is well. May God continue to protect you guys. I think Nigerians took it more seriously than their oyinbo counterparts hence the reason we have fewer cases both home and abroad. Were they going about coughing into one another's mouths or what? The number of fallen victims there is alarming. A renowned city like NY, a great nation like USA. It is well.

Figures.

Although there was one lady here who said she was going to troll me. She specifically said “today I’m going to troll coco” me I was like “who come be this one again” but I know she’s really a lady person.

She called me fool. I didn’t reply.
She quoted me again and called me idiot. I ignored her. After the third time she got tired and went away.

I was like “aww, that’s it? you should go ask the boys how it’s done”

If you don’t have it in you to be a psycho, you can’t force it. She has since moved on to other things I presume.

pocohantas:


I know their MO. They say so many things at the same time and sometimes you are forced to reply because it is beginning to sound like they know you more than you know yourself.

This whole anger stems from one place- YOU ARE NOT MISERABLE AS THEY WISH YOU ARE.

Forget any other nonsense they type. Got nothing to do with it. No, I have NEVER seen a vindictive lady on here. They might have issues with your opinion, but they hardly ever have the energy to make bringing you down some special high.

That (f) quoting you is a tranny.

Arsenate:

Poco is really not as smart as she or her fans think she is. She writes some stuffs and I'll be like "bleeehhhhh" Along come the simps and her fans to inflate her ego by telling her, Poco, you are so savage and I'll be like dafuq

Maybe she is not as smart as the "definition" wuld av implied buh @times she spew things most average nigeria gurls won't know ... thats one of the things no one shuld take away frm her.
well its a free world, whoever wants to asslick shuld get to it, buh wat i do av an issue with is the "mods" here, they're worst than the asslickers. there preferencial treatment is legendary, of all the insults that fly on NL i got banned for callin a gurl "mumu" , my comments are deleted n placed on watchlist like i giv a fvck ... maybe the mods also got the 5k shared, poverty in tha land.

sisisioge:


It is well. May God continue to protect you guys. I think Nigerians took it more seriously than their oyinbo counterparts hence the reason we have fewer cases both home and abroad. Were they going about coughing into one another's mouths or what? The number of fallen victims there is alarming. A renowned city like NY, a great nation like USA. It is well.

Amen.

I can’t say what it is though (I’m thinking we have less testing in Nigeria than America) but I feel like the reaction of America and Nigeria to this virus thing has been similar. They could have both used some more seriousness in the beginning.

Great nation my butt
Not since Trump went into office . Maybe one day it will be great again.

cococandy:
Figures.

Although there was one lady here who said she was going to troll me. She specifically said “today I’m going to troll coco” me I was like “who come be this one again” but I know she’s really a lady person.

She called me fool. I didn’t reply.
She quoted me again and called me idiot. I ignored her. After the third time she got tired and went away.

I was like “aww, that’s it? you should go ask the boys how it’s done”

If you don’t have it in you to be a psycho, you can’t force it. She has since moved on to other things I presume.

She will tire na. Babes no get that kind energy.

As for the ones on your matter, keep reporting them. I love to see them hide behind multiple alternates. If you want to be psycho or a troll, get ready to open multiple accounts.

Remain Coco, keep posting your fake fine pictures...till they quench!!!

cococandy:


Amen.

I can’t say what it is though (I’m thinking we have less testing in Nigeria than America) but I feel like the reaction of America and Nigeria to this virus thing has been similar. They could have both used some more seriousness in the beginning.

Great nation my butt
Not since Trump went into office . Maybe one day it will be great again.

Well, if we are reacting same way, we would be getting the same result (death toll being the consideration here even outside testing). But it well sha...may God and His host of angels be with us all. Too much sorrow on the land. Whew!

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...your definition of wastefulness might be someone else's resourcefulness o. I know a guy who thinks spending more than 500 naira on call credit per week is wasteful, the girl thinks 1000 naira is a fair deal. Now, if you throw it open to the polls, you would have people agreeing with both sides.

Anyways, since its you and your marriage, it is better you talk about this with her...if situation remains the same, then drop what you believe is fair while madam augment the rest. Sebi she's earning too...

By the way, this your kind of question usually come from the stables of one sided home financier

Baby

sisisioge:


Well, if we are reacting same way, we would be getting the same result (death toll being the consideration here even outside testing). But it well sha...may God and His host of angels be with us all. Too much sorrow on the land. Whew!

I’ve been fervently praying that the numbers remain low in Nigeria. Imagine the catastrophe we would have if we had similar cases like USA and combined with our poor health care infrastructure?

Like you may not even get to see some family members ever again by the time travel restrictions are lifted. This my worst fear at this time right now.

cococandy:


Over half a million cases and close to 19 thousand deaths. I think people are taking it more and more seriously now. I don’t have any friend or family affected as of yet and I pray it remains that way.

Besides being bored and itching to socialize, I’d say we are doing well. Can’t say the same for those who have lost someone.6yiu it in fiu7

Thanks for asking

Let all do our part and believe God will help us overcome this too

AFONAMARO:


Hello Her Royal Majesty, the Queen of England.
What exactly would you be buying monthly with ₦50,000?

You guys talk like we're not living in the same country

We are in this same country and NO, 50,000naira is not enough to run the house in this same country at this present time. It isn't sufficient but manageable.

davillian:

Getting women that manage things or adapt to economic changes or the income of their husband are going extinct....
We grew up in a way that when you see
Rice and chicken you chop
Rice and meat you chop
Rice and fish you chop
Rice and egg you manage
Rice with crayfish you manage
Rice without cray fish u chop like that.....

. Na so my man

cococandy:
One minute someone paid for my RN degree. The next minute I’m not really an RN. I’m just calling myself that to belong.

Or is it my dependent housewife status (which is not a bad thing BTW) but I’m also working menial jobs.I can’t keep up.

That one will stalk himself into a premature heart attack.

I rarely come across NL ladies who are bitter on such personal level towards another person even if it’s towards the guys. They focus on the topic and hash it out. only a handful of ladies display such behavior.

Lol, i hope you know sauce and Ochl are one and the same person.
They troll with one moniker and support with the other one.
Also the sauce is someone you know, not recently but since like forever.
I salute your courage.

pocohantas:
The fact that someone is not suffering or as ugly as you want, automatically translates to being FAKE.

If you had so much going on in your life, OFFLINE, you wouldn’t have so much time and zeal to keep up with the lives of others ONLINE.

What I find amusing is the fact that, it is mostly guys doing this. 99% of angry/vindictive NL trolls are males. Yet we keep hearing how females are their own enemies? Ain’t falling for that shît.

It's sheer jealousy, they wish they are the ones in your shoe but they know they can't get close, so they resort to bullying.
It is well .

Vyolet:

Lol, i hope you know sauce and Ochl are one and the same person.
They troll with one moniker and support with the other one.
Also the sauce is someone you know that is dead to me not recently but since like forever.
I salute your courage.

but has been furious with the years of ignoring.

joinnow:

Let all do our part and believe God will help us overcome this too

I agree let’s do our part

pocohantas:
[s]Why would any sensible person decide to troll me or anyone at that? You wanna lose your e-peace and moniker?[/s]

I wasn’t joking when I said I am Kwin

Stay your lane...

what is these one blabbing about .... word wey no dey dictionary, even the ones that av liver 2 call themselves queen aint nothing without a king. whu needs E-peace pvssy rent a house.
run along to the mods n report again because its stay@home not stay ur lane.

When you spend all your time trolling, you won’t know that Queen Elizabeth doesn’t have a King, but the Duke of Edinburgh.

You won’t know the difference between this and these or their and there.

Read more...read!!

Vyolet:

It's sheer jealousy, they wish they are the ones in your shoe but they know they can't get close, so they resort to bullying.
It is well .

Very well said. I am reading a book that gives good perspective to lots of actions.

if u give woman chance she will destroy her husband with bad lifestyle

Vyolet:

We are in this same country and NO, 50,000naira is not enough to run the house in this same country at this present time. It isn't sufficient but manageable.

I see!

Vyolet:

We are in this same country and NO, 50,000naira is not enough to run the house in this same country at this present time. It isn't sufficient but manageable.

Seriously??

Vyolet I hope you know 50k is more than some people's salaries yet they are able to cope the best way they can?

Ishilove:
Vyolet I hope you know 50k is more than some people's salaries yet they are able to cope the best way they can?

Exactly why i said manageable not sufficient.
Some do not even earn up to that yet they live but sincerely, they can only manage, like live in the lowest they could, now after living like this, they still end up having debts to repay.

Heiterkeit:



So because she is wasteful, it is now a sign that she comes from a rich background. I wonder what one would not hear on Naiaraland.

It doesnt necessary mean thats the cause for her wastefulness.I give it to her upbringing-the type of peers she kept and also the pressures she passed thru in life.
If i have one,i limit the funds i give her

make her to be accountable for the money given to her, and be strict about that, any money not accounted for, you deduct it from any subsequent money that, you will be given to her, educate her on the importance of been meticulous, let her know your worth, so that she will know that you're not a dangote.

freecocoahubby:
She's wasteful because she doesn't have to work for that money.
Tell your lazy wife to get a JOB and then she can spend her own money anyhow

Nigerian wives are as useless as can be.

Money = husband provides
Chores = househelps to do it.

Lazy, entitled, irresponsible things!

Seriously?

freecocoahubby:
She's wasteful because she doesn't have to work for that money.
Tell your lazy wife to get a JOB and then she can spend her own money anyhow

Nigerian wives are as useless as can be.

Money = husband provides
Chores = househelps to do it.

Lazy, entitled, irresponsible things!

And you were birthed by one of those useless Nigerian wives right?

At OP, I have two suggestions for you;

1. Be transparent to your wife, invest part of your monthly income. You can achieve this by either taking a loan or monthly contribution among your colleagues in which you'll be servicing monthly. Let her know what you are left with and plan together on it. If that method wouldn't work then use
2. Drop what is reasonable for house-keep for her and invest. I repeat, save and invest for the raining day

She should learn to live within her earning.

OchoL:



I'm a silent reader on this forum and noticed this myself.. she sure does have a lot of arselickers.

Hehe. Turns out you were right afterall. Her "arselickers" surely have arrived
AKA pocohantas, vyolet and co - won't be surprised if it's the same person running all these accounts. LOL.

samworthyever:
Guys pls i need your advice on how to go about this. My wife is very wasteful she spend money any how without giving proper account of what i asked her to buy. Although i do give her money for her personal use, she still end up using the money meant for feeding. She doesnt know how go manage things and its really causing quarrel between us. Pls matured advice is needed thanks.

Sorry bro. Financially reckless people cannot be taught prudence. Just stomach it. You can only mitigate your problem by buying the main foodstuff and paying the major bills yourself.