gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.

Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?

lanreHeda:
.....LOL, you people should chill for inferno001 na.....I'm sure he was just giving his opinion though I think its very wrong and not feasible in the long run

rhymesu28:
My people, I greet...

How should I go about this matter please?

Wickedtruths:


You are a very weak man and people must be riding roughshod on you. Not everyone is destined to suffer that. He has absolutely nothing to apologise for. Is it wrong not to waste money? Let her do her worst. Apologise for not wasting money on mere celebration? Your advice is a foolish one.

No wonder you were complaining about men being an endangered specie. You are very weak with poor judgment.

rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

Sirvingeo:
Guy you married an inconsiderate creature . She is even suppose to advise you not to hold any birthday party to avoid any expenses because of the condition of this period. I'm really tired of this creature called women . If you watch closely you will find out she wanted to use the birthday party to show off.

rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

whytepawn1:
Some of these issues stem from the fact that some men are not completely truthful to their wives when it comes to their income. In this situation I think the wife believes the husband is very capable and is just bringing up unnecessary excuses.. if finances were discussed as a family, he wouldn't need to explain to her the situation on ground.

Temhellen:

U better don’t be tired of women cos u will end up settling down with one

Inferno001:
My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

...modify...
For everyone quoting and insulting me calling me a weak man because I asked OP to be subtle and make peace, I'll ignore you!!!

Mystery9:

You mean he should apologize for doing the right thing . Are you kidding me!

Inferno001:
....

No sir..what I meant to say that no one seems to understand is that as long as he didn't go beyond his budget, that's perfect...now all he has to do is first of build peace by offering an apology that will calm her down then when she's calm you can correct the attitude she exhibited and tell her you don't appreciate it but if he avoids her or ignores her, his house won't be conducive for him...some women understand the subtle methods...not everything needs to be handled with aggression bro..hope you understand me sir...its just how I would have handled the situation if it were me in his shoes...works with my wife always...when I'm aggressive towards her, matters become worse so I use the subtle means before passing my message

gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.

Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?

gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP. you are not been nice at all

Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?

GreatResearcher1:
Fvck your wife. women are brainless. same her would complain if there's no money to eat. I am sure the lazy bastard of a wife is jobless. what has she brought to your table aside her dirty smelling vagina? bro dump her quick.

gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.

Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?

gamapoy539:
She has a crush on one of your neighbours who might have been eating her work behind your back and probably the real father of the child. and she is mad at you cos you didn't appreciate him enough for a job well done. Use your brain; if your neighbours are all women, her reaction wouldn't be the same.
Better run a DNA test on that child ASAP.

Modified: To the angry and inconsequential homo sapiens quoting me, have you all eaten today?

larryking540:


So you think arranged marriage is some how the best in Nigeria system?

rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

Inferno001:
....

No sir..what I meant to say that no one seems to understand is that as long as he didn't go beyond his budget, that's perfect...now all he has to do is first of build peace by offering an apology that will calm her down then when she's calm you can correct the attitude she exhibited and tell her you don't appreciate it but if he avoids her or ignores her, his house won't be conducive for him...some women understand the subtle methods...not everything needs to be handled with aggression bro..hope you understand me sir...its just how I would have handled the situation if it were me in his shoes...works with my wife always...when I'm aggressive towards her, matters become worse so I use the subtle means before passing my message

BamBella:


Bro!

Can you please just stop replying already? . Because it seems the more you do, the dumber you sound.

Build peace by offering an apology for doing the right thing? Mehnn, it appears to me that you're a bonehead.

If this is how you manage your home, then I'm sorry to say you must be a dingbat.

Stop justifying the trash you wrote up there already.