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Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by delpee(f): 8:57am On Jun 24, 2021 |
I'm just wondering if you're truly ready for marriage. You have everything you want and can pray about what you think is amiss but still pussy footing... My dear sister, I know people who made mistakes like this many years ago and are still living in regret. You've had enough advice as I can see. It's up to you to decide. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Sophy22(f): 8:57am On Jun 24, 2021 |
manuel4real:Exactly |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by aanuoluwami14(f): 8:58am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Xano: Yes, maybe she is a deeper life sister, she should go for her choice |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by ShootThemAll(m): 8:58am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: So if you are a Catholic you are a sinner or not close to God? And everyone in Roman Catholic Church are sinners from your analysis. Stop tagging catholic church to that, just say your boyfriend is not a strong Christian which we also have in Pentecostal churches. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by delpee(f): 8:59am On Jun 24, 2021 |
naturefellow: Talking as PA to God Almighty abi? You have forgotten that we're in no position to judge according to God in the Holy Bible. I'm not a member of the Catholic Church by the way. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by authority2006(m): 9:00am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Eduboy1990: What made her born again, child of God? And what made others "normal Christians or church goers"? See confusion! |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Daroldigits: 9:02am On Jun 24, 2021 |
I will support this idea for you my sister....a broken relations is better than broken marriage. Never settle down with a man or woman who has no relationship with God genuinely and sincerely because there will be no security. So pray to God and am 1000% sure, he will reveal to you your husband...I mean your bone aanuoluwami14: 2 Likes |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by 66spirit(m): 9:03am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Usually i dont like commenting everytime but hey this your frenzy strike a cord in me and in my mum's word i will say ' leave someone son alone. Allow him get a real wife and stay far away from him'. You see how far religious dogma can destroy a home just about to start? You will never make a good wife if you do not stop being a hypocrite.. Has he not bleep you madam angel? Stop wasting his time. Just run away. One day your type of husband will appear in the sky and come for you.. Who do u dis kin tin hanty? This heaven una de seek go get factions o. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by joliecouer: 9:05am On Jun 24, 2021 |
multiple4u:Women are funny. Only God understand them |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Bahamas95(m): 9:05am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Religion has done more harm than good. OP is not ready for marriage yet, it's like your papa house never tire you.......Awon Pentecostal Christian.
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Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Tinax(f): 9:06am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Na the guy I just de pity....all these religious women are difficult to deal with .., abeg free the poor guy 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Sanctecosma(m): 9:06am On Jun 24, 2021 |
For you mind now, because you don gum body with pentecostalism, u don enter promised land. My friend, marriage nor be by force o. You better cancel the intro then enter your 'promised land pentecostal church and find one angel soul sent from above, get married to him and leave the catholic 'demon' alone. But no talk say we no warn you. EBOT ORON! |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by DJBIGGY(m): 9:06am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: Liar. You have seen someone else and looking for cheap excuse to bail out |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by ifyjobs: 9:08am On Jun 24, 2021 |
I don't understand you, since when did one being a catholic mean one is not saved? I am a catholic, born again Christian and member of the catholic charismatic renewal of nigeria so what is your point exactly. You claim in your words " you got saved" yet you didn't know that you were supposed to pray to God for direction while choosing a life partner. you are clearly deceiving yourself by pausing (according to you) in matters that concern him. you are the problem not him, go and work on yourself and your "supposed born aganism". mugnmuffin: 2 Likes |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by samopex: 9:10am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse: Well said. The word of God remains the basis for the conduct of everyone who truly profess to be a child of God. Most of the things we were taught are not actually in line with the word of God. 3 Likes |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by dahoney1(m): 9:12am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Who brainwashed you? I'm 100% sure that there is a Pentecostal guy that brainwashed you. I'm just speechless. 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by o2naira(m): 9:12am On Jun 24, 2021 |
You are not ready for marriage yet you go tey for house that your parent will have no choice than to throw away your Ghana must go bags out of the house,you attend Pentecostal church and you are still selecting a kind of spiritual husband that marches your spiritual self dont worry by your pastor to hears your you see how he milk you financially in the name of getting you a spiritual husband,woman of jerusalem you are looking for a man that you want to control. 2 Likes |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by o2naira(m): 9:14am On Jun 24, 2021 |
You are not ready for marriage yet you go tey for house that your parent will have no choice than to throw away your Ghana must go bags out of the house,you attend Pentecostal church and you are still selecting a kind of spiritual husband that marches your spiritual self dont worry by the time your pastor hears your matter you see how he milk you financially in the name of getting you a spiritual husband,woman of jerusalem you are looking for a man that you want to control. 2 Likes |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Raachy: 9:15am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Abeg go nd marry a Pentecostal man/pastor. ........leave that man to find a wife, it's obvious u will give him enough headache in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by K9blunt(f): 9:15am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Bola146: She was worshipping the devil in Catholic Church before she found christ in a pentecostal church.... Very funny lady 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by drdanny(m): 9:16am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: You're simply a CHURCHIST. Not a Christian. If you truly love him, your life will be enough ministration for him. Not loving a man because of your religious inclination and belief is fundamentalism. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Qualer: 9:17am On Jun 24, 2021 |
rosalieene: you fine come get plenty sense!! I have a garden and a bottle of wine for you!! |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by hybridblood07(m): 9:17am On Jun 24, 2021 |
May Wisdom never depart from you bro. Biglittlelois: |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by johnlegend01: 9:18am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Your post update here contradicts the earlier post. He ticks all the boxes according to you and now he cheats? I put it to you that you are not straightforward and desperately lying. I'm inclined to think in the line of these, one might be correct: 1. You really don't need anybody's advise here, you just want to validate your naive and myopic reasoning. 2. You have a fake story put up there 3. You have seen a Pastor you think you want to marry If your story is true, go and think like an adult on your own and pray, then decide. "Watch and Pray".......according to our Bible. Peace be on to your spirit. mugnmuffin: |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Qualer: 9:18am On Jun 24, 2021 |
K9blunt: Don't mind the girl o, she is not yet serious with life! so you still dey here? How are you doing though!? |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by ibechris(m): 9:19am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Brain washed with bleach. U were saved how? The same catholic church that brought christianity to Africa is what u just denigrated. It is very clear that,multiplication of pentecostal churches have since brought corruption and animosity in christendom. They are so misinformed that anything less than theirs ,is short of God's blessing. Without catholic,apostolic and Anglican churches,they wouldn't be pentecostal churches today. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by nlreserve: 9:21am On Jun 24, 2021 |
If Na me be that guy and I notice what she is nurturing, I will be the one to quickly quit the relationship. This kind woman is the type the pastor will use more than the husband will use her. Brainwashed souls of daddy G,O and mummy G.O |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Kendollar696(m): 9:21am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Madam, it is not how it start. It is how it ends. Have God told you, he is not the one?? All these things you're saying, are not red flags. It is your state of mind towards religion. If you love your husband to be, then you've an obligation to pray for him, until God changes his heart. Or else, allow him to marry who love him better to safe him. The Christhood you were call into is not bring division into his body. Let the love you've for him, consume you to pray for him. What's this one about kids... Madam pray to God and stop seeing things that ain't suppose to be. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by CorperKola: 9:22am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Teeboy15:The young man should be wary of her even because i see prblems down he line. This 1 wkuld have more respect and submission to her pastor than her huband.pastors can take advantage |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by cleanclean(m): 9:23am On Jun 24, 2021 |
She is a born-again Christian, dating for 3 years, and sure they have been having sex during this period. SMH Use Matthew 7 vs 5 to judge yourself because you are confused and may not even qualify as a Christian before God. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by superCleanworks(m): 9:25am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: You are a confused and hypocritical time waster. Please run away from that guy quick with your rubbish. You know he is not the one for you but you allowed it go this far. Tomorrow you will start to wonder who cursed you and which nemesis you are eating. Time wasting demon like you. Better stop going to Church. You don't know God and you have no love in that your stone heart. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by ifyjobs: 9:25am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Please say what you know. who told you that there things you never get to learn in catholic...I am a catholic and have learned so much in recent times..try and join societies in the church to get deeper understandings of many things. Thank you. alexvic12: 1 Like |
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