Ujujoan:

I can't believe people are asking her to 'get a job' . . . as if that will stop the man from being an insensitive prick!

As if it's in anyway her fault that her husband is an a55!

@ Poster

My advice . . . Yes, get a job, and the dump his sorry a55!

Ujujoan:

I can't believe people are asking her to 'get a job' . . .  as if that will stop the man from being an insensitive prick!  

As if it's in anyway her fault that her husband is an a55!

@ Poster

My advice . . .  Yes, get a job, and the dump his sorry a55!    

r231:

its not that easy darling

except if she wants to go back to sq one

jay bee:

Uju probably thinks it's dat easy to pick up any hard working man on the streets of london

r231:

its not that easy darling

except if she wants to go back to sq one

jay bee:

Uju probably thinks it's dat easy to pick up any hard working man on the streets of london

cantell:

Miss do good,
Getting a job can minimize the nagging to an extent.
A jobless woman is like a parasite. Always sucking the life out of the host.

Ujujoan:

She is in sq one. She's not married . . . she's just living with a man!

I think it's time for her to cut her losses.

Ujujoan:

Oh pls JB, I can be hard working enough for myself and my familt so that will NOT be an excuse for a man to treat me that way!

Ujujoan:

She is in sq one. She's not married . . . she's just living with a man!
I think it's time for her to cut her losses.


Oh pls JB, I can be hard working enough for myself and my familt so that will NOT be an excuse for a man to treat me that way!

jay bee:

Her husband not her fiance  

Yes you can be hence the reason why most people here are going on about her working once she is able to.
The husband action is not excusable though but the advice is on best way to go about making her relationship work.
Breakup shouldn't always be next order of event, IMO it should always be the last  

Ujujoan:

I know he's her husband . . . on papaer. But he's certainly not one in practice.

Do you think I would have accepted your proposal if I knew you'd treat me this way?
IMO, I think the man is just a twerp. Why would she want to keep being with him?

Fast forward 10 years from now when she's all brushed up and earning a good and steady income, will she still want to be with a man like him?

Then maybe she should think of all the 10 years she'd waste . . . being with him!

I say she cut her losses now. It's definitely better than killing him in his sleep.

r231:

i think you need to read it again

even the title says MY HUSBAND

secondly, people that have been here donkey yrs still looking for a jobs expecially this current combo govt crap

let alone somebody dat flew in last nite

r231:

oh yea they nomally write that on their forehead

jay bee:

Ujuuuuuuuuu
hmmmmmmmmmm

Ujujoan:

Hi darling . . .

So when are we getting married? You have to promise not to do behave anyhow when I come to join you in obodo oyinbo oh.

I must be allowed at least 2 years to learn how to speak like an oyinbo and sample all the food and flex the town tight . . . before I even consider working.

dayokanu:

Uju aint we supposed to get married next month?

lily, 145:

I live in London, sincerely relocating from nigeria to this place has not been easy for me,
Because my husband comes from work and puts all the frustration he has at work on me.
He nags for everything.
Its scary for me to go out with him because for every sentence i make in public, he is so concerned with my pronounciations that I cant boldly talk when he is there.
For him everyday comes with a new sickening attitude. He comes back from work nowadays complaining that bringing me to the UK is the biggest mistake he made in life.
Please people, what do you think I can do, atleast there are no kids involved right now.
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Poster, when did you relocate to the UK? were you gainfully employed in Nigeria?
How long have you both being married?
Do you have any family or friends (of your own, not joint friends with your husband) here?
For you to be married to your husband shows that at least you understand him to some extent, find ways to soothe his frustration.
Because life in the UK can get very frustrating at times especially if someone is working more than one job to make ends meet.[/b][/b]

Ujujoan:

I know it's not easy . . .  but who says she can't make it on her own

In any case, it's better to be drinking garri and have peace of mind, than sit at the best dinner table and suffer indigestion.

Ujujoan:

Even without seeing it on your forehead, I agreed to be your second wife didn't I?

r231:

again its not like she has a lot of choice except if she wants to go bck home

jay bee:

Very soon oh ma darling. Me i no get stress at work oh so na so so smily face i go dey bring come house.
U gats to dey shine ma congo wella though. U know nau. lool

Seun:

That's a choice.

r231:

again its not like she has a lot of choice except if she wants to go bck home

jay bee:


I don't share

Seun:

That's a choice.

Ujujoan:

Thank you Admin mi!

Going back home is NOT the end of the world darling . . . . . Her stay is already making her contemplate murder.

I think going home should be the least of her worried!  

Ujujoan:

Abeg oh . . . I no want make Almondjoy scatter my face!

r231:

thats if she wants that choice which i doubt

why go when you can just stick with it for couple of yrs and get what you want then screw him later

dayokanu:

Me and Almondjoy are just phock buddies